Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community  

Go Back   Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community > The Academy > Tilted Sexuality


 
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
Old 01-19-2005, 12:41 AM   #1 (permalink)
Tilted
 
Long distance relationships...are they for you?

I never really wanted to get into a long distance relationship, but I like the girl and I'm staying in school so I didn't really have a choice. But I worry myself sometimes...at points I really miss her, and then others I think I'm just missing having any girl...and it makes me wonder how much I like her and how much I like having a girlfriend? Which is hard to pick apart sometimes, though I'm not sure it's entirely necessary.

Yeah, I'm rambling and it's 3:40 in the morning, I apologize. Anyone have stories about long distance things that worked or didn't? I'd be curious to hear them.

And while I'm on the subject...man, I wish I could get to the EZ! (I miss my girl and It's 3:40, so sue me )
johnsimon885 is offline  
Old 01-19-2005, 03:11 AM   #2 (permalink)
Human
 
SecretMethod70's Avatar
 
Administrator
Location: Chicago
Onodrim and I go to two different schools about 2 hours away. Whether by car or by train, it costs about $40+ to visit one another. However, we've been seeing each other for 5 years.

That said, we dated for about a year and 3/4 before I went to college and I go to school about an hour from our hometown. So, since she's a year younger than me, the first year wasn't terrible. It's only been the past 2 and 1/2 years or so that we've really not been able to see each other very much during the school year. We keep in touch pretty much every day, however, through IM and the phone.

The truth is, I'm pretty positive that part of the reason we can handle it is becase we had such an established relationship beforehand. The other part is the wonder of modern technology since we can now communicate for free through IM as opposed to always getting a large phone bill.

I'm not sure how long you've been seeing this girl, but in my opinion unless the relationship is established to the point where you could reasonably see it developing into "the one," I wouldn't let it prevent you from meeting other people at school and, perhaps, becoming interested in them. Don't just break up with this girl for the sake of breaking up with her, but don't let your relationship with her hold you back from pursuing other possibilities, especially if there's no particular reason that makes this current relationship special.
__________________
Le temps détruit tout

"Musicians are the carriers and communicators of spirit in the most immediate sense." - Kurt Elling
SecretMethod70 is offline  
Old 01-19-2005, 03:19 AM   #3 (permalink)
A boy and his dog
 
Schwan's Avatar
 
Location: EU!
I wouldn't be up for it. I guess I need to have close contact with a person like that. From experience with my friends I can tell you that most of the time long distance relationships work if you had something special going in the first place, before you got separated. I guess the point that I want to get across is that long distance relationships are hard work for all the sides involved and they're more likely to fail then "normal" ones are.
Schwan is offline  
Old 01-19-2005, 05:29 AM   #4 (permalink)
Upright
 
Location: New England
Long distance relationships haven't historically worked well for me, though I tried. The technology did help (IMs, webcam, etc.) in keeping in touch regularly, but something was lost from the relationship by not being able to see each other for huge gaps of time. Maybe if she'd been the "one", it might have been strong enough to survive that, but that wasn't the case. Having the person I'm involved in a relationship with nearby makes a huge difference to me.
__________________
"I really need to think of something cool to go in my signature." --Me.
WriterZero is offline  
Old 01-19-2005, 05:36 AM   #5 (permalink)
Is In Love
 
Averett's Avatar
 
Location: I'm workin' on it
Of the two real relationships I've had, both became long distance.

The first was with my college boyfriend. I graduated, he was still in school. I moved back home, he was in Virginia 12 hours away by car. Looking back, our relationship wasn't that stable to begin with. It was a first for me, so I was still figuring things out. Things ended up with him cheating on me a few times and all that fun stuff.

Now my current relationship is long distance as well, but just 6 hours by car We met here on TFP. Started out with an offer for a date when I was in Niagara Falls for a concert. We talked a bunch before that, and when we did meet up we got along really well. But I was really hesitant to start up a relationship. I didn't want to go through it again. But I realized that I was a different person than I was in college, and that my boyfriend is so vastly different than my ex. So we gave it a go. We talk through emails or IM nearly every day. Try to talk on the phone a few times a week. And we see each other once every 2-3 weeks so it's not too bad.

Right now he's traveling a lot though, so it's making things a bit more difficult. But I know in the end we'll get through it. Basically it comes down to how much you care about the other person. And how well you can communicate with them.

Long story short, sometimes it can work, and sometimes it cant. It really depends on the people involved. It's been 8 months (man, that long?) since that first meeting in Niagara Falls, and things are going great.

Talk to this girl and see what she thinks about it. Good luck
__________________
Absence is to love what wind is to fire. It extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.
Averett is offline  
Old 01-19-2005, 06:37 AM   #6 (permalink)
Getting it.
 
Charlatan's Avatar
 
Super Moderator
Location: Lion City
When we were in University my girlfriend (now wife) would move back to Toronto every summer (I stayed in Ottawa). As a result, we had at least 4 months out of every year where we would be apart.

It wasn't the greatest situation, but we obviously made it work. We've been married for going on 12 years now.
__________________
"My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars."
- Old Man Luedecke
Charlatan is offline  
Old 01-19-2005, 06:53 AM   #7 (permalink)
TFP Mad Scientist
 
doncalypso's Avatar
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
I've said it before and I'll say it again... Long-distance relationships aren't meant to be and can only work if it is for a very short time.

The longer you are away from someone you love the more you will start noticing other attractive people around you and get tempted. Furthermore, the odds are that even if you are being faithful and patiently awaiting their return they will give in to temptation and cheat on you. The only time a long-distance relationship would be worth it is if you've been with that special someone for at least four years, the relationship is very strong, and you're apart for only a few months at the most.
__________________
Doncalypso... the one and only Haitian Sensation
doncalypso is offline  
Old 01-19-2005, 09:15 AM   #8 (permalink)
Tilted
 
Maybe I'm naiive, but I don't think she would cheat one me...she did on her last boyfriend (I helped...oops?) and it was a pretty bumpy ride for a while. We have talked quite a bit about it, and before we were really dating I made it clear that I wasn't too eager to make huge commitments, which was fine with her (at least, so she told me.) I'm definetly not avoiding girls because I have a girlfriend, but there are enough things in my brain that go "hey, watch that" (when I'm awake, at least) that I'm pretty sure I wouldn't cheat. At least, if it became an issue, things would be up for discussion before it got that far.

And I have pretty much decided that breaking up for the sake of breaking up is not a good idea, and we've discussed that...not a fun discussion to have with a girl who is afraid you're about to dump her. But so far so good, I suppose? Though it does suck that we've been going out for like 8 months but I've only seen her in person for 3 of those. We were really good friends before and had/have plenty of interaction through more electronic means, but...yeah. It's a little bit unfortunate.

In a perfect world, I'd have a girlfriend at school. In an unperfect world, well...we'll see how it goes.

Thanks for all the posts everyone, they're a good read! Keep 'em coming
johnsimon885 is offline  
Old 01-19-2005, 09:25 AM   #9 (permalink)
Untitled
Guest
 
Homey_V and I started out our relationship long distance. We're from the same area originally but go to school about 2 hours apart. For all intents and purposes, it really shouldn't have worked out, starting from scratch like that. But well over a year later, we're still together and stronger than ever.

Like others have said, communication is one of the most important things. We talk multiple times a day, thru msn and the telephone. We use webcams so we can still see each other.

Another important thing is trust. There's absolutely no way that a long distance relationship can work well if you don't have absolute trust in your partner. If you're "pretty sure" you won't cheat, that's definitely not good enough, in my opinion.

Bottom line is, you have to really really want to make it work, and have to be willing to put the effort into it. Its not easy, not always fun, and it is a lot of work. But I happen to think Homey_V is worth that much effort and more, and thats why our long distance relationship works.

I hope that made sense. Its kinda rambly and Im too sleepy to edit it...
 
Old 01-19-2005, 09:35 AM   #10 (permalink)
Psycho
 
Homey_V's Avatar
 
Location: Canada
Quote:
Originally Posted by Untitled
Homey_V and I started out our relationship long distance. We're from the same area originally but go to school about 2 hours apart. For all intents and purposes, it really shouldn't have worked out, starting from scratch like that. But well over a year later, we're still together and stronger than ever.

Like others have said, communication is one of the most important things. We talk multiple times a day, thru msn and the telephone. We use webcams so we can still see each other.

Another important thing is trust. There's absolutely no way that a long distance relationship can work well if you don't have absolute trust in your partner. If you're "pretty sure" you won't cheat, that's definitely not good enough, in my opinion.

Bottom line is, you have to really really want to make it work, and have to be willing to put the effort into it. Its not easy, not always fun, and it is a lot of work. But I happen to think Homey_V is worth that much effort and more, and thats why our long distance relationship works.

I hope that made sense. Its kinda rambly and Im too sleepy to edit it...
What she said
__________________
You did what with a duck?
Homey_V is offline  
Old 01-19-2005, 09:36 AM   #11 (permalink)
Addict
 
sashime76's Avatar
 
Location: Hoosier State
My wife and I communicated via email for several months before I decided to head up north - Canada to pay her a visit. I was living in San Diego at the time. It wasn't until about 1 1/2 years later and three trips to Edmonton, then I decided she was the one for me. Either of us could have easily found someone else but we were just meant to be together.

It's been almost 8 years since the first email exchange and we have been happily married for close to 5 years now. If the chemistry is right, and you will know it, long distance can be the right vehicle to determine if the relationship can withstand the challenge. It certainly can work, just not for everyone.
sashime76 is offline  
Old 01-19-2005, 10:21 AM   #12 (permalink)
Getting Medieval on your ass
 
Coppertop's Avatar
 
Location: 13th century Europe
Did it about 10 years ago. Didn't work out too well. I think 3,000 miles might have had something to do with it, or maybe it was just me. Or her. Or all of the above. Either way, I wouldn't do it again.
Coppertop is offline  
Old 01-19-2005, 11:02 AM   #13 (permalink)
Still Free
 
Cimarron29414's Avatar
 
Location: comfortably perched at the top of the bell curve!
I had 3 long distance relationships in college. All of them were over 1 year long, and all of them were successful - meaning that the distance didn't cause the ultimate break-up.

I think they are sort of fun. All of the freedom of bachelorhood (go where you want when you want) and all of the benefits of a cool chick.

The cardinal rule is to ALWAYS be faithful. If you don't "want" to be faithful, then go ahead and call it quits.
Cimarron29414 is offline  
Old 01-19-2005, 12:07 PM   #14 (permalink)
Addict
 
Location: under a rock
I've never been in a long-distance relationship, but I would never want one. The reason is because IM and phone are really ineffective ways to satisfy my social needs--I like a really intense relationship with a lot of face-to-face and physical contact. When my SO is away I get all demanding and needy over the phone, and have to try hard not to be a real female dog because it's not his fault--it's just that nothing he does is enough, because I am not satisfied with just a voice in a machine.
__________________
There's no justice. There's just us.
Acetylene is offline  
Old 01-19-2005, 01:07 PM   #15 (permalink)
Tilted
 
I should have rephrased that, I was just being cautious about overstating what I know about the world. Unless I'm completely wrong about everything, she wouldn't cheat on me. Nor would I her, or at least I wouldn't want to from a completely rational point of view. I just have to trust I'm always rational! But I'm very reliable about making clear decisions, so it should work out fine. At least, it shouldn't end in misery because of cheating?
johnsimon885 is offline  
Old 01-19-2005, 02:09 PM   #16 (permalink)
TFP Mad Scientist
 
doncalypso's Avatar
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
Quote:
Originally Posted by johnsimon885
Maybe I'm naiive, but I don't think she would cheat on me...she did on her last boyfriend (I helped...oops?) and it was a pretty bumpy ride for a while. We have talked quite a bit about it, and before we were really dating I made it clear that I wasn't too eager to make huge commitments, which was fine with her (at least, so she told me.)...

I have to break it to you this way, son, but you are being naive... If she cheated on an ex-boyfriend to be with you the odds are very high she'll cheat on you too.
__________________
Doncalypso... the one and only Haitian Sensation
doncalypso is offline  
Old 01-19-2005, 10:24 PM   #17 (permalink)
Tilted
 
Well, to be fair, it was a different situation. They were going out for a really long time and it came to the point where she really wasn't really happy with the relationship and didn't see a way out of it because of all the external pressures and so forth. We communicate enough that it would be a comparatively simple matter to talk things over and do stuff the right way now, but I guess she didn't feel like she had that out before. And by cheating, I mean one kiss before she flipped out about it. I know the past can speak volumes about a person, but I also believe in learning lessons. It was her first serious relationship and she was figuring stuff out...anyway, I really don't think she would.

But there I go getting defensive, heh.
johnsimon885 is offline  
Old 01-20-2005, 04:41 PM   #18 (permalink)
Insane
 
i was involved in a long distance relationship for four years. we were together two years before it became long distance. ultimately ended in marriage--which ended in divorce after three years.

personally, i wouldn't intentionally get involved in a long distance situation. yes, they can work but it is a lot of stress. i relied very heavily on myself and my friends when i was apart to fill my social needs even though he came to visit often and we talked regularly. and it's just not the same to get a phone call after a rough day when what you really want is a hug.

i think all the distance between us for so long hurt our relationship in the end. it wasn't what ended it, but it did change the relationship significantly. because it was necessary to rely on friends for various needs (not sexual) while we were apart, it was very easy to continue doing that once we were together--especially when there were problems.
bad jane is offline  
Old 01-22-2005, 09:29 AM   #19 (permalink)
Addict
 
Location: Mansion by day/Secret Lair by night
I was in a 5 year relationship when I got transfered to Los Angeles (she was in Chicago), and even with that kind of committment behind us it was the end of the relationship. We lasted a year, and ironically, just as I was moving back to Chicago we split. (all that missed oppty out in Cali, sigh.) Ultimately it is just too easy to push aside the other person's needs on a telephone, and it becomes less of a priority.

Don't spend your school days driving back and forth all the time - you shoud be having fun now...
__________________
Oft expectation fails...
and most oft there Where most it promises
- Shakespeare, W.
chickentribs is offline  
Old 01-22-2005, 09:42 AM   #20 (permalink)
Semi-Atomic
 
Location: Home.
I don't like it at all, but my marriage has been a long distance relationship for the past year and a half. (only 43 more days, though!!!! )
It takes a whole lot of work and patience and understanding, but you can make it happen.
__________________
Someday, someone will best me.
But it won't be today, and it won't be you.
Jonsgirl is offline  
Old 01-23-2005, 07:09 AM   #21 (permalink)
Upright
 
Location: Quebec
It is possible. Its like in real life, if you look too hard for love, it wont happen.
Drewzy is offline  
Old 01-23-2005, 07:32 AM   #22 (permalink)
Upright
 
My wife and I were separated for long periods........

of time after we became exclusive. I was in the military at the time and was gone frequently, including a stretch of 18 months while I was overseas.

You have to have strong feelings and a firm commitment to one another to make it. We've been a success story in that we've been married for 10 years now.
Amontillado is offline  
Old 01-23-2005, 11:48 PM   #23 (permalink)
Crazy
 
Location: not here.
I've recently upgraded my two and a half year relationship from long distance to... no distance. We met in school, and I moved to another state after dating for only a month. For whatever reason, we kept it going, and will be getting married soon. While it worked out for me, I don't reccomend it at all. It was miserable as hell, and I'm so glad it's over.

Yeah, I second the commitment thing.

The benefits come from being forced to bond in different ways. Even though we're living together, i kind of miss the letters. They give insight like conversations can't.
nickynicole is offline  
Old 01-24-2005, 10:57 AM   #24 (permalink)
Insane
 
Location: In a Caddy Shack
They suck. I had a long/short/medium distance relationship for three years.

The first year she lived 3 hours away whilst I was at university. She then moved around 20 minutes away, which was excellent, but I had then completed univesity and moved 3 hours away. We saw each other 3 out of 4 weekends a month. Once she completed uni she moved in with me for 6 months. Then she got a job and moved out to a medium distance, an hour away. And now, we split up :'-(

Sometime long distance relationships work, sometimes they don't. If you like your own space it is good.
__________________
------------------------------------------------
Tip: Never do your shoe lace up in a revolving door
vector_1979 is offline  
Old 01-24-2005, 12:34 PM   #25 (permalink)
who ever said streaking was a bad thing?
 
streak_56's Avatar
 
Location: Calgary
well.... I've had two long distance relationships, they didn't work, and it was mutual to end it but I'm really good friends with both of them. Its all about your preference whether you need that close intimacy or if you can go without seeing her for a couple of months or so.... depending on how far away.
streak_56 is offline  
Old 01-24-2005, 01:05 PM   #26 (permalink)
Crazy
 
Location: Michigan
My wife & I had a long distance relationship for two years. We started dating 3 weeks before she went back to school which was 3 hours away. I was working at the time so the cost to drive to see her & hang out all weekend wasn't any big deal. It worked out great for us, after school we got married & have two kids. I would add that we both dated other people before we started going out, were both cheated on by the other boy & girlfriends & were both very adamant about no screwing around. It was easy to trust each other & after three weeks of dating her I knew it wasn't going to be an issue with her, so there wasn't any worry of screwing around.

That being said, I just re-read some of our old letters the other day and was blown away by how much fun we did have when we got to see each other. I remember driving to see her on Friday nights, it was like a kid in a candy store when I finally arrived. I'd usually rent a hotel room for the weekend, and we'd go out to eat and maybe a few bars, besides that we pretty much stayed in the room. With two kids, those types of weekends are hard to come by!

All in all I think it worked well for us. The last thing I'll add is that after our first date, I knew I was going to marry her, so the distance thing wasn't that big of an issue.
c172g is offline  
Old 01-25-2005, 06:40 PM   #27 (permalink)
Upright
 
Been there and tried that several times, all failures.

I think that you need to spend time together, and telephone or IM isn't the same as face-to-face.

Good Luck! Hope you'll have success where I didn't.
fryan5 is offline  
Old 01-27-2005, 07:47 PM   #28 (permalink)
Upright
 
I believe that they can't work unless there is a specific "get back together" date. Meaning that Susie and I will be on opposite sides of the global for a year. I think that can work. But an open ended one won't work. Whats the point of having a relationship if you can't cuddle when it's cold out?
SntrRck is offline  
Old 01-27-2005, 11:21 PM   #29 (permalink)
Crazy
 
Location: Seattle
I've been in a long distance relationship for 19 months now and so far things are going really well. We've had our ups and downs, but nothing drastically different from a relationship where you get to see your partner every day. Prior to us agreeing to do the long distance thing we barely knew each other, and in some ways I think that actually helped because there wasn't really anything that we were missing out on when we are apart, because being apart is all that we've known except for the few weeks of bliss we have when we do get to see each other.

Communicaton is key, and a tip that I try and keep in mind is to never end a conversation when there's something up in the air. If one of us has a problem about something its key to talk it over right when it appears and nip the problem in the bud. I've noticed that tendencies of jealousy and uncertainty seem to be more prevalant in long distance relationships, but if you talk everything out and set straight your feelings it helps out tremendously.

Long distance relationships are tough, and require a great deal of work and patience and understanding, but I think that the rewards you get out of one are far greater than a normal relationship. Just for the record, my girlfriend and I have been seeing each other since July 2003, and other than a week during that summer, a week over Thanksgiving 2003, and three weeks over Summer 2004, our relationship has been solely phone or internet based. It's tough but with hard work and determination I fully believe you can make it out with your heart intact
zensheep is offline  
Old 01-28-2005, 10:43 AM   #30 (permalink)
Addict
 
Val_1's Avatar
 
Location: In a State of Denial
My concept about long distance relationships is, the reason to keep a long distance relation ship going is because you are reasonably certain that one day it will not be a long distance relationship. Conditions will change and both partners will be able to be together. If that's not the goal, then I, personally, do not see the point in them. They can work, but what is eventually going to come out of it? That's what you need to know.
__________________

I feel sorry for people who don't drink. When they wake up in the morning, that's as good as they're going to feel all day.

-Frank Sinatra
Val_1 is offline  
Old 01-28-2005, 11:22 AM   #31 (permalink)
Banned from being Banned
 
Location: Donkey
As long as you get to see the person every few months, it's no prob.

Other than that... it's way too difficult to deal with.

I had a long distance relationship for 2 years, and for the longest time we didn't see each other, but... it did pay off when we did. Was it worth it? Yes, but goddamn is it a mind fuck...
__________________
I love lamp.
Stompy is offline  
Old 01-28-2005, 03:56 PM   #32 (permalink)
I'll be on the veranda, since you're on the cross.
 
monkeysugar's Avatar
 
Location: Rand McNally's friendliest small town in America. They must have strayed from the dodgy parts...
For every person who tells you they can work, there will be another to tell you they can't. It really just depends on a lot of things, as I'm sure you're well aware of. I've been in two long distance relationships. The first....didn't work out. Sure, I liked her, and she liked me, but I'm certain there wasn't really a whole lot of commitment on either end. Shit happens, life goes on.

The second, however, has been an entirely different story. Long story short, we spend time together almost every single day/night, and talk on the phone all the time. Her family lives in Japan, so for semester and summer vacations (about 3.5-4 months out of the year), she's literally on the other side of the world. I'm not going to try and say it's a lot of fun, but it works, and really makes you appreciate the little things like phone calls.

It is all up to you, basically. If things don't work you can always call them off, and if they do, it can make your relationship a lot stronger. Like I said, it's not always fun but it can be worth it. It also helps if your relationship isn't the only thing you've got going. Sitting around feeling sorry for yourself doesn't get anyone anywhere. Go out, have fun with friends, and do stuff you want to go do. For me, those 4 months out of the year are when I get my stockpile of "me time" and go out and do lots of guy stuff with my friends who are in similar situations.
__________________
I've got the love of my life and a job that I enjoy most of the time. Life is good.
monkeysugar is offline  
Old 01-29-2005, 04:11 PM   #33 (permalink)
Addict
 
Manuel Hong's Avatar
 
Location: Land of the puny, wimpy states
I'm trying one out now. When we're together, things are pretty great. We usually see each other @ weekend, but circumstances have kept us apart for a month this time and I have been going kinda cookoo. It started in October, we knew each other in a way before it started...he lives 2+ hours away. He missed my bday, which sucked. He'll finally be coming to visit tomorrow morning and I can't wait. I need to figure out where I want this relationship to go and see if he's on the same page. I think we need to talk about it this weekend, but not until we catch up on some scrumpin'!
Like me, I think you need to evaluate where you want this to go...if there's a fututre, if she feels the same way. Or just let go of the expectation and enjoy it for what it is in the moment. Rotsa ruck.
__________________
Believe nothing, even if I tell it to you, unless it meets with your own good common sense and experience. - Siddhartha Gautama (The Buddha)
Manuel Hong is offline  
Old 02-02-2005, 09:11 PM   #34 (permalink)
Insane
 
Location: California
My fiancee and I have been going (mostly) long distance for about 2 and a half years now. We're from the same hometown, but we didn't start dating until about 2 weeks before I went downstate for college while she went to college closer to home. It started off as non-exclusive, as in we were both free to date other people, but a few months later neither of us had found anybody we preferred and decided to become official bf/gf. Then this Christmas we got engaged, and should be married next January. So even without a previously established relationship, it is possible.

Of course, me coming back to visit every 3 weeks or so helped; I wouldn't recommend going much longer than that if you can avoid it.

Also, there have been a few long distance relationships some of my college buddies tried, and they all failed, and that's what I'd say most of them end up as. A lot of it depends on the kind of person that you're dating. Luckily, both myself and my fiancee are very loyal, patient people, which helps a LOT.

Good luck to you if you decide to try it!
__________________
It's not getting what you want, it's wanting what you've got.
mo42 is offline  
Old 02-03-2005, 05:39 PM   #35 (permalink)
Upright
 
Hey, I respect all of you guys and gals for any long distance relationships...they definitely are difficult to maintain.

For myself, I'm currently at school in New York City, and my girlfriend is back home finishing her last year of high school in San Francisco, so this is definitely difficult, but not impossible. Although I'm pretty young (18) and this is my first year of college, I had previously experienced a long distance relationship that was the opposite of this situation--where I was the younger one left behind in high school. Suffice to say, it was a good learning experience and left me with a better understanding of how to deal with LDRs, and what to expect from them.

It's been about a year and two months since we've been together, and everything is good and well.
skidknee is offline  
Old 02-03-2005, 09:34 PM   #36 (permalink)
Happy as a hippo
 
StormBerlin's Avatar
 
Location: Southern California
I would never do a long distance relationship. I just don't think I'm a strong enough person to stay faithful, so I wouldnt put someone I care about through that.
__________________
"if anal sex could get a girl pregnant i'd be tits deep in child support" Arcane
StormBerlin is offline  
Old 02-04-2005, 09:42 AM   #37 (permalink)
Filling the Void.
 
la petite moi's Avatar
 
Location: California
OMG, it looks like I haven't replied to this thread!

I've been in a long distance relationship for nearly two years now. He and I have our fights, but all in all, it's great. He lives in San Jose, about four hours away from me. He and I are now engaged and are prepared to get married in a couple years after college.
la petite moi is offline  
 

Tags
distance, long, relationshipsare

Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On



All times are GMT -8. The time now is 02:25 AM.

Tilted Forum Project

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.0 PL2
© 2002-2012 Tilted Forum Project

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 74 75 76 77 78 79 80 81 82 83 84 85 86 87 88 89 90 91 92 93 94 95 96 97 98 99 100 101 102 103 104 105 106 107 108 109 110 111 112 113 114 115 116 117 118 119 120 121 122 123 124 125 126 127 128 129 130 131 132 133 134 135 136 137 138 139 140 141 142 143 144 145 146 147 148 149 150 151 152 153 154 155 156 157 158 159 160 161 162 163 164 165 166 167 168 169 170 171 172 173 174 175 176 177 178 179 180 181 182 183 184 185 186 187 188 189 190 191 192 193 194 195 196 197 198 199 200 201 202 203 204 205 206 207 208 209 210 211 212 213 214 215 216 217 218 219 220 221 222 223 224 225 226 227 228 229 230 231 232 233 234 235 236 237 238 239 240 241 242 243 244 245 246 247 248 249 250 251 252 253 254 255 256 257 258 259 260 261 262 263 264 265 266 267 268 269 270 271 272 273 274 275 276 277 278 279 280 281 282 283 284 285 286 287 288 289 290 291 292 293 294 295 296 297 298 299 300 301 302 303 304 305 306 307 308 309 310 311 312 313 314 315 316 317 318 319 320 321 322 323 324 325 326 327 328 329 330 331 332 333 334 335 336 337 338 339 340 341 342 343 344 345 346 347 348 349 350 351 352 353 354 355 356 357 358 359 360