Survey: Can you remember the names of everyone you've had sex with?
 

Can you remember the names of everyone you've had sex with? For some people this might be a little tough, so I'll add the disclaimer that you only need to remember their first name, and oral sex does not count unless you also had regular heterosexual sex with them as well.

As for me, I can remember all but 2 or 3. But if I recall, they were one night stands so I might not even have known their names at the time...

We have homosexuals and bisexuals on this board as well. Do you want to redefine your criteria to include same sex encounters?

I think I did with my disclaimer, but I might not have been too clear so I'll rephrase it:

Unless your are bi-sexual or homosexual, strictly oral sex does not count (in other words, a blow job in the bathroom of a bar doesn't count unless you also had sex). If you are are bi-sexual or homosexual, you must have been on the giving and receiving ends for it to count (even it it was a one night stand).

I remember all of their first names at least. One girl, I didn't even know her last name.

Sweet! then yep, I can remember all execpt one.. most of the random college curiousity/experimental boys dont count then ;-)

did you think up these rules all by yourself? :hmm:

Yes I do :)

I know her name. Her last name is the same as mine. (As of two years ago)

Shoot no.. I actually had one girl get up and leave half way through because I couldn't remember her name. Funny thing is, I respect her more than many others.

Yes...except maybe one. He was lousy. Lasted about 30 seconds when I got on top. :rolleyes:

Nope I can a few but not all of them

Do you mean today?

I'd have to say no. There is at least one I never knew and a few I no longer remember... They did happen about 15 years ago or so, so I would say that isn't too bad.

I do remember the names of all the women I've had sex with except for the few times I went to hookers (I didn't bother asking for their names because all I wanted was to get laid).

Yes, unless we have to be positive that it was their real name. Just curious, has anyone else told someone a name other that your own?

First names yes, last names no

not even close

I remember all I have penetrated vaginally, orally however, is another story.

nope I dont....and its never bothered me those days were a long long time ago :lol: I remember the two that are important....1st hubby who gave me my daughter and soon to be 2nd hubby who gives me everything emotionally, physically, and mentally that a person needs.

I didn't learn the last names of a few... but thats alright, I don't really talk to them anymore anyway

I know all the first names.. well actually now that you mention it.. I don't remember some of them I can picture them but their names are elusive.

I knew their names at the time... but after the fact? You must be kidding...

Yeah I know them.

Yep. Not all that many to remember over here--I'm into quality over quantity. :thumbsup:

Yeah, there's this one I can't remember, I lasted about 30 seconds when she got on top...

:lol: I'm thinking it probably was not you. :)

yep. But when you pul oral out of the equation, my number drops dramatically, so it's not that difficult to remember.

Yes. Yes I can.

Yes, first and last names. I also know where everyone of them is today and still talk to each of them on occasion.

yep, I can name them all first and last, there is only one that I can not locate anymore and randomly i think of her from time to time.

I'm 42. No...I don't remember all of their names. I did know them while it was important for me to know them, though.

yes. first and last names except for one. Is that important somehow? :confused:

Just asking.

Part of me wishes I had made a list of everyone (including oral) but I guess I probably dont want to remember some of them...

Yes, I remember his name. If I forgot it, he'd probably divorce me! :p

Nope. Too many girls, too many years....

LMAO, yeah, I've only had sex with one person- nwlinkvxd.

I was feeling pretty smug about being able to recall first and last names but I realize there is one I don't think I ever knew the last name of.

Yes, I do.

I can't and that drives me crazy. Every now and then I'll remember a face that I hadn't thought of in a long time but definitely not a name.

Yeah, I know all one of them.

All but a few. I think. I mean...

Huskerdu.

Mendy, Donna, Cathy (RIP), Barbara, on her period girl, Orphan girl, cowgirl, disco girl, biker girl, Annette, Lisa, Virginia, Boots, underage girl, Sharon, Punk girl, Stephanie Blond, Stefani Black, Twinkie, EJ, Ellen, Mariska, Petra, and 4 or 5 others I can't remember.

Try as I may to forget, yes, I remember the names of all the people i've had sex with

Yeah, I remember all of their names.. even their last names.

No, thank goodness.

Yes I can remember all of them. I can't remember all that could have been ... but then I suppose that's why they are "could have been's". :D

Yes, I've had a VERY boring love life. I remember both their names and I'm married to one of them now.

I remember all the first names but two...last names are a whole 'nother ballgame.

Wow...I'm having to think waaaay too hard to remember some of these girls...that's not a good sign, is it? :p

no... not there were that many, but I am bad with names and a lot of it was a long time ago....

If I'm not forced to give last names, then yes.

There are one or two that I just can't dredge up from the depths.

Yes, i know all of them, and even talk daily to both :)
(One is my wife, other is a playfriend of ours)

yes i can, there's only been 2

I got 10 out of 32.


Is that bad?

Yes. I tend to get into long-term sexual relationships versus short term. Makes remembering things easy.

I do well up until the my 23rd birthday, then some of them become part of the hazy drunken fog that my sex life has become.:)

What happens if you never knew their name in the first place ;)

0/0 is still 0, right?

Yes, I can. Kind of neat to be able to do that, too. Makes it more meaningful the next time I hold a conversation with them...or have sex, either way.

Yes, I remember all of them, but then again, the number is quite small.

Not a chance. Over the last 28 years there have been a lot of them and only a few whose names I remember. There was ...ahh and ...umm and ...that other one, you know, the redhead! With the big tits!

Yes, yes I do.

I don't think so. Maybe if I sat down and tried to make a chronalogical list, but why make the effort? There's little chance I'll see any of them again. (although I did see an ex of mine from a distance at the airport the other day, didn't say hi.)

to the next level: i can remember the first middle and last names of every girl i've kissed


its not because i have a good memory
/loser

Yes I can. Here's the list:

That is all.

Yes, I can. There's only been one. :|

I definately can.

Not even 50%. That was all over 20 years ago. Names get fuzzier every year. Funny though, I remember the names of the ones that I SHOULD have nailed.

Absolutely not.

To remember all the names I would have had to known them all in the first place..


Who ever said alcohol is the key to a sharp wit was .. hey, look, cookies!

/evil spelt backwards is live, and we all want to do that, don't we?

Hheh... Nope. But I was a sailor ;-)

Yes, blowjobs and sex.
There's only been 3 anyway.

All the first names. Some of the last names have evaporated in the 10 years I've been married and only absolutely had to remember a single first name.

Every first name, but I'm just now realizing that I can't think of that one rebound girl's last name. She was in my life for a very short period of time, not that makes it any better. So, yeah I can ..... for the most part. I've almost always been dating them, so it'd be bad to forget. I'm not a one night stand guy, so that's kept the number managable.

Ah no... Although I can remember most of the encounters, the names of some of the more insignificant ones are long gone.

same here...Thank god I remember my girlfriend's name, she's the only one.

Yes, although its a small number.

Ineteresting exclusion criteria. I've never just had oral from a girl, once we get started it goes all the way. How common is that where two people just have oral sex?

ya, but 3 is pretty easy...

I've only just turned 20 a couple of months ago, and I can only remember the names of ex gf's, the current gf and 2 others. There's about 8 more who I can barely picture what they look like.

Ahh yes, the Love list: Lefty and Righty....

yes: Steve, Richard, Sandy, Ellen, Mark. that's it. I'm married now.


topical:
~~~~~~~~~
Deborah was a Catholic girl,
she held out to the bitter end.
Carla was a different type,
she's the one who put it in.
Mary was a black girl,
and I was afraid of a girl like that.
Susan painted pictures sitting down
like the Buddhists sat.

Reno was an aimless girl,
a geographic memory.
Cathy was a Jesus-freak,
she liked that kind of misery.
Vicky had this special way
of turning sex into a song.
Camella couldn't sing,
kept the beat and kept it strong.

Xylla was an archetype,
the voodoo queen the queen of rap.
Joan thought men were second best
to masturbating in the bath.
Sherri was a feminist,
she really had that gift of gab.
Kathleen's point of view was this:
take whatever you can grab.

Seattle was another girl
who left her mark upon the map.
Karen liked to tie me up,
and left me hanging by a strap.
Jeannie had this nightclub walk
that made grown men feel underage.
Mary Ellen who had a son
said "I must go," but finally stayed.

Gloria the last taboo
was shattered by her tongue one night.
Mimi brought the taboo back
and held it up before the light.
Marilyn who knew no shame,
was never ever satisfied.
Julie came and went so fast,
she didn't even say good-bye.

Well Rhonda had a house in Venice,
lived on brown rice and cocaine.
Patty had a house in Houston,
shot cough syrup in her veins.
Linda thought her life was empty,
filled it up with alcohol.
Katherine was much too pretty,
she didn't do that shit at all.

Uh-uh. Not Katherine.

Pauline thought that love was simple,
turn it on and turn it off.
Jean-Marie was complicated,
like some French film-maker's plot.
Gina was the perfect lady,
always kept her stockings straight.
Jackie was a rich punk-rocker,
silver spoon and a paper plate.

Sarah was a modern dancer,
lean pristine transparency.
Janet wrote bad poetry
in a crazy kind of urgency.
Tanya Turkish liked to fuck
while wearing leather biker boots.
Brenda's strange obsession
was for certain vegetables and fruits.

Roeena was an artist's daughter,
the deeper image shook her up.
Dee-dee's mother left her father,
took his money and his truck.
Debbie-Rae had no such problems,
perfect Norman Rockwell home.
Nina sixteen had a baby,
left her parents lived alone.
Bobbie joined a new-wave band,
and changed her name to Bobbie-sox.
Eloise who played guitar,
sang songs about whales and cops.
Terri didn't give a shit,
just a nihilist.
Ronnie was much more my style,
she wrote songs just like this.
Jezebel went forty days
drinking nothing but Perrier.
Dinah drove her Chevrolet
into the San Francisco bay.
Judy came from Ohio,
she's a Scientologist.
Pomerante here's a kiss,
I chose you to end this list.

Eighty-eight lines about forty-four women.


I love that song... the Nails.

i can remember.....considering it's only been 2 women....lol

Yes - except for the ones whose names I never knew.

yeah, I can remember them. And I hope they remember me ;)

First and last names, oral too :)

Nope, not a chance.

I was a late starter, but I made up for it in a couple of hectic years partying in Ireland. I guess I could remember around 15 to 20 names of somewhere around 50 people. Nothing to be proud of per se, but simply a statistical fact.

Now I'm married.

Mr Mephisto

no I can't.
drunken sex is not always a good idea....

I love that song as well. :)

Yes. I remember every last one of their names. John, Jacob, Jingle, Hymer and Schmidt. Hahahaha! Just kidding. Do I get extra points for knowing their last names, too?? Even my fling/one night stands I knew their first and last names...am I good or what??

Nope. Even not counting the ones I only knew an alias or a nickname, I still don't know the names of all my partners. I used to keep a list, and many of the entries had a description instead of a name, or a location, and one or two had the name of a band, lol, just so I could keep track.

LOL! I feel kinda embarrassed now that I've admitted I know all of their names...I even know how long I was with each one or spent time with...

Yes I do. Not all the last names though.

Do they count if I remember the fake names the prostitutes gave?

I remember the names of everyone I've ever had sex with, but then again its only two people so it isnt so hard,

There is no way I can remember all of their names. Probabaly about 85-90% though.

If I ever knew their real name, I remember it. If it was a stage name, frankly it was forgettable from the start.

You rock! One woman, really?

I remember both :P

Yes, but it took me a bit to remember ;)

everyone except my first one... I was dead drunk and didn't se her more than that night...

Yes - 4 fantastic women. I loved them all. Some of them, I still love. One of them I am in love with and married.

What's more important is that they all remember my fuckin' name.

(or at least the name I gave them: Todd Blankenship)