if she was willing, what would you try?
 

My girlfriend is awesome and totally open sexually and is willing to try anything. If your partner was completley willing what kind of crazy things would you do? What's your fantasy?

Maybe we'll try it and I'll report back! :p

threesome, mff would be nice

I'd love to try a mmf where I watched a friend have sex with my wife and then I'd join them.

double penetration on her. Gotta try it once I've seen it so many times in the movies. :rolleyes:

Anal! Never done it, but really want to

The only things I haven't tried yet are FFMM, FFM and having sex at my office :)

I'd draw the line at children and animals, and I'd have to think hard about bringing someone else in but I wouldn't rule it out. Apart from that I'd try anything once, and then decide if I like it or not.

take your credit card, go to a sex-shop, and buy every toy available...

It realllly doesn't work that great.

I'd be into that too. I don't know if involving a friend would work but definitely someone we could trust and feel at ease with. I wanted to do that with my last gf but she wasn't into it so I had to respect that. My current gf is also sexy as hell but she is also not into it.

There is no reason to fool around if you have a wonderful partner that is willing to participate in each other fantasies. Oh well, perhaps one day...

It would have to be anal first. Then possibly another person, then more... Talking her into anything is more painful than having teeth pulled without novacaine/gas.

THis is my answer exactly... Especially the part about talking her into things....sigh!!!

My wife is already into all the kinky things I like, like her dressing up in schoolgirl outfits, facials, making movies, taking pictures, screaming really loud for me...the only thing I'd like to try that she's iffy on is a 3way. MFF would be great but I'd do MMF too. Or sex with another couple, MMFF. She hasn't said she'd never do it, but then again she hasn't said yes either and I'm not holding my breath for it. Hopefully one day.

With my girlfriend, it would probably be a lot of anal play. Not necessarily penis is anus but more like tongue and fingers and toys. Lots of quickies every chance we got (i.e. restaraunts, dressing rooms, friends houses, bars).

If it was just some girl that I didn't have a lot of feelings for, then MMF or MFF or MMFF or MFFF......you get the idea.

I'd like to pretend that I'm a burly pirate, and she's a petite WWI nurse. I was wounded in a sea battle with a giant squid, and I mock her modern medical practices. She would flirt, but I would resist, at first. Finally we make mad passionate love on the salad bar at Sizzler.

Screw you for judging me.

wow that's mine verbatim, except replace pirate with cabin boy, wwi nurse with midwife, squid with sea urchin, and sizzler with red lobster.

Hey fhq, what's your parrot doing during all of this?

Oh, and burmuda, what about your monkey?

Heeeyyy... maybe the parrot and monkey get it on. That'd be awesome.

My parrot is quietly hovering over the salad bar giving color commentary.

Duh.

Outstanding!!! :lol:

Okay, if my wife was totally open to it (no pun intended), here's a thought that might make me look a little strange. I would love to get one of those double headed dildos, and we could both do anal with that while we manually masturbated each other. That is what I would like to try, and maybe only once, but I still think it sounds pretty fun. Any thoughts?

Pierre

If my wife was willing I would quit my job and go live on an island by myself for three months with nothing but my piano and a writing pad.

Oh dude, that's just twisted. :D

I told you I'd help with that :icare:

MMF, MMFF, but it would take more then just my SO to get these things in the works, because I can't see myself having any kind of sex with someone I don't know. I have a hard time keeping emotions out of sex, so yeah, it would have to be someone I knew and trusted and could believe when they say they've been checked out by a doc. ;)

Anal play on him, I don't really want to be the one doing it, but I think he's paranoid or something and he needs to relax, so if I could show him it's alright and not 'ghey' we'd have more of a playground to work with!

I fantasize about MFF, but fear it would be awkward and unfulfilling. I suppose I'd like to try anal at some point.

If she was open to it (which she's not) MFF - and then just some quickies in risque places, that kind of thing. Still, a guy's gotta have hope ;)

Exactly the opposite of typical guys.. we want MFF, she wants MMF. I can't win :)

I would most like to try a double penetration, more like a vaginal/oral thing than a vaginal/anal thing ...

Everthing. No, really. Everything.

My house has 10 rooms. We've done 5. The 5 easy ones. I guess my fantasy would involve the kitchen counter, with warm sunlight streaming thru the windows. And maybe waving at the neighbors as they walk by.

MFFwould be great. But my more realistic fantasies involve lots of Bondage tape.

Just out of curiosity, how many of you have spoken to your partners about these things? Perhaps my better half is just really open, but i've found discussing these types of things really elevates a relationship. A few months back we wrote each other letters describing the kinds of things that we would like to try and then we went through them and decided what we were both comfortable with. A few of the things some of you have mentioned are now routine in our sex lives, and i dont think either of us could be happier. It's sometimes hard to be direct with your sexuality, but if your partner cant at least accept what you're interested in (if they want to take part or not) then you probably shouldnt be with them.

I'd be happy with some outdoors sex. The one thing I'd like to try that I haven't and haven't been able to find anybody willing to do so. It doesn't have to be public just outside on a warm spring day.

Bermuda - that knocked my socks off. both you and fhqw...s!

Sex in a church would be great... well, not during service or anything. That, would be rude.

I want to try everything under the sun at least 5 times lol, besides having a dog hump me up the who haa(could hump the gf just not me), but mainly I'd want my gf to be gang banged and cummed in everyhole, then I could have her last.

See, the problem with my fantasy is that she would have to grow feathered wings for it to work.

Oh well, at least there's always contacts, fangs and other cosmetic alterments. . .

The preface to all of this is that she would be genuinely interested in doing everything and not feel like she's obligated.

A couple of these I've done with previous relationships but not my wife.

I'd like to try anal (on both of us, never have), outdoor sex (haven't *yet* with my wife), wet and messy fun in the kitchen and shower, MMF or MFF (either is fine with me, no hangups here, I don't think).

Hmmm, what else....

doing it in public, anal, toys, watch her play with her self. that would be it and how could i forget in a limo

That's OK. We'd be drunk and high and could work on it for a while.
:)

mmf or mff, or another couple--whatever. my only rules are no kids, no animals and everything is consensual. my partner is pretty open and has no probs with my short list of rules. but he's not into bringing in another person (male or female) so i'm sol on that one. *sigh* my last guy wasn't into it either, even though i had a VERY hot friend who was more than willing... what's up with that????

everything else mentioned we've already tried to one degree or another. not to say there isn't more to do! i'd like to take a few of my favorite activities up a notch or seven ;)

I had a few vague discussions about MFF with my girlfriend - but it would be highly dependent on her being in a willing mood that day and finding someone she's comfortable being naked around. And even then, she'd probably say no. So it's not a flat out "Oh my god, you pervert, no." or anything like that. But it's close enough for my purposes. :(

As for the "quickies in risque places" - she's definitely open for it - so that's not a big deal. :)

So stop by already!!!! :D

It worked perfectly for me.

It's only a question of right amount of lube really :)

Well the most important thing I've ever learned about sex is, your partner isn't going to magically read your mind and know what you want, you have to ask. So if I want my wife to dress up in a schoolgirl outfit and let me videotape me banging her and giving her a facial I say "Hey, you wanna..." :thumbsup:

Like I said she is up for most things I'm into, she's iffy on the 3some/group sex thing though. She knows its high on my list of fantasy, we've talked about it and she's basically said "maybe one day". Which is at least better than the "hell no" I've always gotten from exes, who knows maybe fate will shine on me one day :D

Um, I have to ask the same thing. My gawd!

Let me have a little chat with this person, maybe th ecommon sense gene needs to be activated, even though I'm not a doctor, but I play one on top of the tv - ;)

Peace,

Pierre

public places, espically work places...

If my SO was thin enough, and willing, I'd take her to an amateur night at the strip joint, and challenge her to compete. Before her show, I'd ask her if she fancied any of the other men. During her show, I'd the guy she fancied if he'd like to come home after and help me give her a hot time.

The next time, I'd ask her to try to pick up one of the other ladies I fancied.

But my favorite fantacy is having a party, and having my lover be the centerpiece on the table. Maybe serving drinks before dinner wearing a scanty maids outfit, then laying on the table among the dinner dishes, wearing bra and panties, garter and thigh high nylons. Then for desert, removing the bra and panties, and rolling around to talk to the guests more. After desert, seeing if she could masterbate herself to orgasm, before we all left the table. Then out to the living room again, having her undress one or more of the other women, to really get the juices flowing. Aww, but, I just don't know people who'd come to such a party, even if my wife would do it. Great fantacy though.

I think my fantasies would be:
to have sex in public places. Not, like, on the Washington Mall on or anything, but you know what I mean.
a threesome. Either MMF or FFM. I'm not picky.
having my husband wait until I was asleep, and then come in through the window and act like he was breaking in and raping me.
and going out to a bar somewhere and having him pick me (or me pick him up) like we were complete strangers.

That's all I can think of right now. Heh, I'll keep you posted if I find anymore.

I would do a mmff with midgets...I think that would be cool! But I know she would not be down with it and sadly I do not know any midgets.

like most here, a 3some.

mff with my gf

or mmf with some random girl

I'd like to fuck in the back of the car. I've never gotten pussy in the car.

Seriously, I haven't. She's not interested.

two chicks at the same time, man

Actually, Im serious!

sex in a public place, i.e. elevator, park

Anal of course, but my fantasy would be my lady in a school girl's outfit with no panties. Now thats hot

I've tried that with someone my X and I didnt know. It worked out pretty good. Granted me and the other guy where bi, so it was alot of fun ;-).

We also did the MMFF thing once with 2 close friends. That totally back fired because the X woke up my friend in the middle of the night (while I was passed out) and they went at it by themselves. I didnt find out about it till 2 years later. Needless to say I wasnt happy.

I think my fantasy life may be too rich. :lol:

I'd best like to take a page from The Golden Mule http://www.asstr.org/%7Eartie/tgm.html
a beautiful woman naked on a soft fur bedspread, nitrous oxide tickling her nose, while I alternated eating her out and stimulating her with a "butterfly" - all caught on tape

Miss Behavin's 45 words http://www.missbehavin.com/fortyfive.html
The idea of giving a woman an orgasm by reaching under her dress on a restaurant's roof-top balcony was exciting. My wife role-playing a damsel in distress coming to me for help would be pretty amazing too.

Wearing masks might be fun. There's a great story about a married man who is getting flirtatious e-mails that lead to im's and then a meeting at a company sponsored masked ball. He dances with this woman and has fantastic sex with her outside, never seeing her face, never knowing who she is. He goes home, feeling terribly guilty - only to see the woman's costume hanging in his wife's closet. She had been the mystery woman all along.

I miss getting to have loud sex while listening to my neighbors do the same. Beds banging against the same wall, you keep enough privacy to not be inolved in a 4-way relationship (too complex for me). At the same you inspire each other to do your best to give pleasure.

As far as discussing it goes, my wife hates to talk about sex. I'm still trying to find a way to make it comfortable for her.

Would you have a talk with my wife?

Dog in a Bathtub. It's when a dude put's his nuts in the girl's booty first and then his piece in her hole and goes at it. My g/f won't do it, and says anal feels like it rips her apart no matter the amount of lube.

xx

I would like to start swinging again, I totally miss it....

damn this is a hard one to say...i don't know where to begin

Have her tie you up and fuck you with a stap-on...

to the ladies reading this:

every male wants to try anal...
every male wants a threesome, usually ffm, but definitely mmf if you ask for it...
so, if you love him, know that it's not his fault, it's in every strand of dna in his body

Tried it, lots of fun :) . You really need to spend time shopping for the right one. Size does matter *shiver*. They can end up being way to big for the purpose. We got our first one mail ordered, it was a little big for what I was willing to try.

Jesus, that sounds too painful for words and I'm just reading it.


Oh God, I just read it again............

Oh come on, are you going to tell me that it doesn't sound freakin' awesome!?!?

tried it
 

OK guys i can give some input on the 3some thing me and my wife have done it mmf and mff both were with friends of ours we did alot of talk about it before it came down to it and with the mmf it went fine all she did that night with him was a bj and some fingering everything was cool afterwards then we had my play time the mff very very awesome experience problem was i asked if she still wanted me to fuck her she said yes so i did well turns out that was a mistake wife ended up having a lot of underlieing demons she didnt think she would have and right now she has a bit of a trust problem with me that i cant understand and thinks im gonna be over at the other girls house fucking her so be very cautious in your endevours.

I just have this irrational fear of sticking my nuts into something that can tighten and clench. Call me weird.

Having sex in random places could be fun. I just have to remember to wear a dress and no panties where ever I go. Slight bondage is also something I have wanted to try. I don't see my b/f not doing these things, but you never know.

anal and toys is what I'd want to try with her. She says that her fantasy is MMF but I'm not holding my breath

I'd like to try anal, and a swingers club

outdoors and public areas all the way

MMMM, k

If she were open and we talked through the ramifications:

MMF, MFF, MMFF, Anal, leather/latex/cosplay, more light to medium BDSM, roleplay (especially pick-up-a-stranger-and-fuck-in-the-parkinglot) piercing, tats (planned), clubbing in gear...oh so much to do and so little time!