First Time
 

Did your first time having sex live up to your expectations? Do you regret it?

It was not near as good as sex is now, but still damn fun.
Regrets? Not even a little bit.

I didn't even finish the first time. I can't finish in a condom.

I didn't have many expectations. It was great.

After my first time I think I was more nervous that the girl would be pregnant than having any sense of wow that was great and I can't wait to do it again. It was good though...and yes like most every other guy's first time it didn't last that long. The one good thing about being 30+ .... controlling the orgasm for basically as long as you want so you can satisfy your woman's need....:D

i was stoned off my ass, she was great though real fun and easy going.

wasn't until end of sophmore year of college and was over way to quick. course she did come back the next night, and the next...

It sucked. And not in the good way.

hmm...i was just 14 (the day after)and really scared..but it was with someone i loved so even tho it felt like crap it meant something and was wonderful and special :)

I remember my first time.. I was so nervous. Things went as they had times before and then we stopped and talked for a few minutes then tried it out. It was pretty terrible the whole time because we were both so nervous and it was a new experience but after a few times it got better and better. I really dont regret it at all.

It did, but i didn't last very long. I was 14, score for me. My expectations have gotten somewhat greater in the intervening years.

It happened out of the blue and with an older woman (I was 18 she was about 28). She worked as a nurse at a building where I was doing landscape work. We got drinking with friends and she asked me back to her place. 2 blowjobs and 3 sexual intercourses later, I stumbled out the door no longer a virgin.

Never did tell her that it was my first time now that I think about it. She was easy to please and it was all good. Don't ask me her name though.

I don't regret my first time at all. I'm not sure that it lived up to my expectations. But it wasn't bad. I do remember that it hurt... a lot.

I was about 14 at the time and it was not a pleasant experience... Quite tawdry. The best thing about it was that I got it out of the way...

My first time I felt cheated... I felt like a precious illusion had been broken and what I thought would be more special had proven to be just two human beings doing stuff...
I guess I'd been a vigin for too long... (20 fucking, or more accurately non-fucking, years) and had been indoctrinated too long by the media with how 'special' it was. It's not special unless you both really try hard to make it special.
Actually, for a long time afte that experiance, I didn't get aroused by anything... a nakid woman could've been standing in front of me and I would've been like 'yeah... whatever.. get out of my way, I'm watching a movie...'. It's only recently that I've begun to taken an interest in it again... and probably only because my genes tell me to.
Then again, it probably all depends on the situation... mine was with a woman I loved to dear life and that I found out didn't really love me back. So I guess you shouldn't listen to my bitter opinion.

I was like, "That's *it*???"
Regret? The only sex I regret is the kind I didn't go for, and should have.

yeah i was really disapointed.... i had been doing other things long before so i thought i knew what to expect.. boy was i wrong... he put it in.. so he claims.. wiggled a couple of seconds and was done.. but luckily its gotten better

I never regretted my first time. She had a few more years of experience so she pretty much decided how it was going to go. I didn't have any expectations so I wasn't disappointed. I will have to agree with everyone else, it has definitely gotten better.

I was 14.... it was a stupid mistake.

I didn't get any again until two years later, and I think I'd have been better off staying a virgin because at least I would have not known what I was missing out on.

exactly the same for me. first time was very nerveracking, but things got better and now its great.

It was not how i thought it would be but hey i got some and that is all that mattered. not a bad new years eve

it was worth it for sure
i wasnt nervous at all and i lasted for a few minutes so i was proud of myself for not being one of the few in the 2 pump or 30 second and finish horror stories.

It was awful.

I was so nervous. I knew nothing other than the very basic of basics. I was a fairly late bloomer and had all this pent up frustration and had built the moment up in my mind to the point that there was no way to live up to expectations.

I tried to be cool about. That lasted about 3 minutes when we fell off the bed and I nearly blacked out when my head hit the bedside table. Then the uncontrollable laughing began... Even after all that, I managed to soldier through.

I certainly don't regret it and it gave me a really funny story to share. Like Charlatan said, at least it got "it" out of the damn way.

My first time was when I was 16! I couldn't believe it took me about 2 years to build up the courage and when I did it was a bit of a disapointment!
Looking back the only thing I regret is not taking the bull by the horns sooner so to speak.

It totally sucked. It was painful, humilating. It was some guy I didn't even know.. gawd to take all that back. I was in pain for a couple days after, and had to ride a hour bus home before I could sit in cool water and help with the stinging.

I'll never forget my first time. It's good to have your first time with someone who is experienced.

Maybe I'm the minority here, but my first time was amazing. I was totally prepared for a painful experience, so maybe that's why... But we waited until we were both (read:till *I* was) ready. It was perfect. I wouldn't change a thing.

Ahh, bumbling awkward teenage sex! Way too nervous, didn't work out too well the first time. But it got a lot better the second time.

I remember feeling strange and sad after, and very morbid. Like most people, it didnt last as long as it ought. I was a little drunk, and we were outdoors, and it rained - I suppose thats quite symbolic, as it goes.

It sucked. But after that it got much better :D

My first time was a one night stand when I was very drunk. It was kind of like I just wanted to get it over with cause I was mad at some other girl. It was not that good at all. I didnt even climax. Do I regret it? Nope, Ive had much better later on.

first time sucked.
regret? no. i didn't throw it away.
and you have to get through the first sucky time or two before you get a bearing on how to do things right.

It worked out surprisingly well on my end. I expected I would finish quickly, but it took about 30 minutes. I *was* so proud.

I dont regret it because at least I knew what to expect from then on, for the most part anyway.

We were both virgins, and we didn't have intercourse til the next time we got together, but we did have oral sex that first time. It was a wonderful expeience that just got better the more we disovered things.

it was a month ago. i'm 17. i know you're suppossed to be 18 to be in here but girls mature 5 years faster than guys so i'm kind of like a 22 year old guy. but not in that way. anyways, i've been in love with him for about 3 1/2 years. we're great friends. he had a gf for about 3 of those years. she was a horrid bitch who ruined his desire to be in love again b/c she mistreated him and cheated on him and he was so in love with her. she was his first love and he was mine. he lost his virginity to her and i stupidly lost mine to him. she wasn't very attractive to say the least, and (not to brag) but he is very attracted to me. he and i had been hooking up since august (only about a month after he and his ex were ended) and we got drunk one night and had sex. thing is, he has hurt me so badly so many times, but i still can't let go of him. he doesn't want a relationship, which i really don't need from him. i just need him to make me feel special, and i don;t know how to tell him to do that. he doesn't know how either. he loves me, and he has feelings for me, but he doesn't want to date, and i want him soooooo badly i can't stand it. i think we have some kind of chemical chemistry that just makes us want each other. he is so bad for me b/c i care so much for him and he is so confused as to what he wants right now. he knows what he doesn't want ( a relationship) but he doesn't know what he does want. i have no will power when it comes to him. i'm a pretty strong person, but present me with him, and i lose all my convictions. i always imagined losing it to him, and it sucks how it happened. he doesn't even rememeber it. but i want to do it again, with him. i know i shouldn't, but ic an't help wanting him. i don't regret it at all. i live without regrets. i thought i would learn ffrom the experience, but i don't think i did. is it bad to want to keep hooking up with him? is it bad to keep doing it? we've been on and off since august and it being off obviously doesn't work since we keep going back on again. help me please.

actually this quite sums up me actually. Except a few years younger. Didn't masturbate for almost a whole week afterwords.

We put Sade on the stereo and went to business. It hurt soooo bad...that's my main memory of it...I certainly did not come...not that time or the time after...it took some time before everything was feeling up to par and then...damn! :)

My first time was amazing... that's all I will say.

The general pattern unfolding in this thread, as I see it, is that for the girls *most* of them said it hurt like hell, and it wasn't great (read: it stunk) and *most* of the guys are like, 'It was great!'. lol Guys only care about themselves the first time.

My first time was on my wedding night. It was not good. I say that because we didn't even have 'sex' on our wedding night. Hard as we tried, I didn't 'fit'. She is a smaller girl, and may even have a small vagina, if such a thing is possible, but either way, I didn't fit. And I'll be honest - I'm no Dirk Diggler. We had lube, we had foreplay, it just didn't work.
So we just had foreplay and went to bed. A few days later, driving home, we bought a big dildo in some gas station in Quebec and my wife stuffed herself with it until it went in. I don't exactly remember the first time I came inside my wife. So my first time, my actual first time isn't memorable at all. lol

Ah, these are great. Mine was at 14 and I was so ramped up, nervous and horny, that I came when I put the condom on. It's easy to look back and laugh now, but right then? Dear god, I wanted to curl up in the fetal position and die.

It was pretty special for the both of us... we were very much in love and physically things had progressed very quickly. We had finally decided it was time to, so we just did. There wasn't a huge buildup of anxiety towards it really, because we had been fooling around for a few months, and basically decided one day on the spot that it was time and to try it. But it was still a pretty special experience. It hurt some for her, was tight for me, but the passion and love exchange was quite nice.

...Then she turned into a nympho. ;D