How Many Notches Are On Your Stick (no pun intended) - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

31Friction · 04-06-2004, 08:48 PM

There may be a thread like this already but i'm not sure. There is a VERY broad and diverse group on this site, more-so than any other that I am a member of. So I'm wondering how many *different* people you've had sex with. I'd like you to post your response along with voting but it's ok to be anonymous. So?

Mephex · 04-06-2004, 08:50 PM

edit - nothing

31Friction · 04-06-2004, 08:52 PM

if it makes it any easier, ive got 14

*edit
0
1
2-5
6-10
11-15
16-20
21+

sorry for the type-oh. if a mod could fix it, it would be appreciated.

JStrider · 04-06-2004, 09:07 PM

woooo first person to vote for my category...

i remember when i went from 1 to 2 i called up a friend and told him i just doubled the number of sexual partners in one night... and he assumed i was in an orgy or somethin... it was funny as hell

nanofever · 04-06-2004, 10:45 PM

20+ honest, I would never lie on an online poll to boost my own ego... *cries the lonely man cry*

jay-g · 04-06-2004, 10:56 PM

MrFlux · 04-07-2004, 12:40 AM

John Henry · 04-07-2004, 01:26 AM

Firmly in the third category. I'd like to be able to hold my head in the air and say that it was bevause I was afraid of stds. In fact it's because for most of my life I've been afraid of girls (or they've been afraid of me).

sbscout · 04-07-2004, 03:59 AM

#1. a one-night stand in college (a long time ago in a land far, far away)

#2. wife of 21 years (starting 2 years after college)

no further variety needed

qtpye4u84 · 04-07-2004, 04:03 AM

I have only had one but the person I did it with i am still with!!! 4 years and counting lol but he has had 7 before me, so to me thats kinda gross, some times I try to imagine how he was having sex with them.
He still has the same bed from before we were even dating so thats kinda gross too.

Redlemon · 04-07-2004, 04:11 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by sbscout
#1. a one-night stand in college (a long time ago in a land far, far away)

#2. wife of 21 years (starting 2 years after college)

no further variety needed

Hey, I was going to write that!

Actually, for me it was a 2-night stand in college, followed a couple months later by meeting the woman who became my wife (together for 17 years now).

ninety09 · 04-07-2004, 04:25 AM

edit: 1

telekinetic · 04-07-2004, 04:27 AM

raeanna74 · 04-07-2004, 04:40 AM

14 men (counting hubby)
8 women

22 people total

All since I got married.

SabrinaFair · 04-07-2004, 04:51 AM

Wow.
Makes me happy that not everyone is fucking a lot of people.

2. Boyfriends. Loved them both, one of them loved me. The second I can't speak for. Or would even want to.

gremlinx8 · 04-07-2004, 05:18 AM

I've only had sex with one person. I think I'd like it to stay that way.

Nitrox · 04-07-2004, 05:29 AM

Whoa, guess I embraced the fact that I was born and raised in the sixties (can we say free love). 53 that I remember, and there are at least a dozen parties where I suppose it could have happened

Charlatan · 04-07-2004, 06:06 AM

I think I am around 25 or so... I am actually surprised by the lack of activity in young people today.

kwoodmex · 04-07-2004, 06:17 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Nitrox
Whoa, guess I embraced the fact that I was born and raised in the sixties (can we say free love). 53 that I remember, and there are at least a dozen parties where I suppose it could have happened

Great Googli Moogli!!!

And here I was thinking my 5 seemed like a lot.

This lack of activity in us young people could be due to all that sexual awareness/education they've been pushing for in schools. That and there's too many STDs goin around, I know I don't want any, who knows

.

skysooner · 04-07-2004, 06:22 AM

All of my activity was before AIDS really became a problem and before my marriage. I was well into my 50s when I stopped counting. Experience with different people is overrated based on my experience now, but at the time it seemed like the thing to do. I had trouble relating to women to beyond the first few dates. Sex would happen, and I just didn't know how to deal with a longer-term relationship. Some girls I had sex with didn't want a relationship either. The 80s were a bit different in that regard. I don't know about the 90s since I was dating or married to my wife the whole time.

onetime2 · 04-07-2004, 06:23 AM

How many are including themselves in that number?

Silvy · 04-07-2004, 06:30 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by onetime2
How many are including themselves in that number?

Not me
Just one for me, and it looks like it's going to stay that way for a while. She's been my girl for a decade now, and still going strong!

ratbastid · 04-07-2004, 06:37 AM

Does it depend on how you define "sex"? Not to get all Bill Clinton about this thing, but.... Is a blowjob sex? Or are we talking about intercourse here?

If it's intercourse, two. If it's any sort of sexual interaction at all, including kissing or touching... then it's more than that.

Nitrox · 04-07-2004, 06:37 AM

Skysooner, that is exactly it. I got married in 1986 and all of my activity was pre-marriage and pre-AIDS.

Averett · 04-07-2004, 06:40 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by ratbastid
Does it depend on how you define "sex"? Not to get all Bill Clinton about this thing, but.... Is a blowjob sex? Or are we talking about intercourse here?

If it's intercourse, two. If it's any sort of sexual interaction at all, including kissing or touching... then it's more than that.

I'm counting intercourse. Hell, if we counted kissing many of our numbers would be much higher!

Redlemon · 04-07-2004, 06:59 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by ratbastid
Does it depend on how you define "sex"? Not to get all Bill Clinton about this thing, but.... Is a blowjob sex? Or are we talking about intercourse here?

I don't think you get a "notch on your bedpost" for a blowjob. I assumed intercourse.

Prince · 04-07-2004, 07:23 AM

I've only ever had sex with my wife. She wasn't my wife when we first started, though, to be precise.

No, I don't regret it.

doncalypso · 04-07-2004, 08:31 AM

Tobe honest, I am not exactly sure as to how many women I've slept with...

I think the number is around 10 though.

tooth · 04-07-2004, 11:04 AM

1 - my wife.

We were each other's first 12 years ago. We've been happily married for over 6 years now.

Jim Kata · 04-07-2004, 11:21 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by jay-g
I have only had one partner. I like that number too. It keeps my mind at ease (std's).

word booty.

tisonlyi · 04-07-2004, 11:35 AM

Too many by most people's standards, but I wouldn't have it any other way.

I'm a naughty, naughty man.

I need punishing.

Volunteers for the punishment squad show apply (in green ink) to:

bender · 04-07-2004, 11:49 AM

36 at last count, but again I've been off the market for about 6 years or so, and think that I'll keep it that way.

SiN · 04-07-2004, 11:56 AM

At first I found it interesting that you stopped the poll at such a low number...

...and then I remembered that once you get much higher than that, it's easy to lose count.

Charlatan · 04-07-2004, 02:51 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by SiN
At first I found it interesting that you stopped the poll at such a low number...

...and then I remembered that once you get much higher than that, it's easy to lose count.

Good one SiN...

World's King · 04-07-2004, 03:28 PM

21+

There was a good six months that I hung out at this strip club alot and... yeah... things happen.

sillygirl · 04-07-2004, 04:10 PM

3.5

1) husband
2)boyfriend
3) uh... yeah.... one night thing... don't wanna talk about it
.5) depends on your opinion if it counts or not.. I was drunk, he was stone sober... do the math

Confederate · 04-07-2004, 05:37 PM

8 for me, basically one for every year I've been sexually active

SAM821 · 04-07-2004, 07:43 PM

nine for me... number 10 may be right around the corner

Blue93g20 · 04-07-2004, 08:03 PM

6, could be more but one night stands just don't do it for me. I can't get off....LOL

Blackthorn · 04-08-2004, 03:21 AM

Do random hook ups for blow jobs count in this?

I've responded including only those where intercourse was involved. Nine is the number.

View Poll Results: How Many?
0	113	19.19%
1	139	23.60%
2-5	158	26.83%
6-10	78	13.24%
11-15	24	4.07%
16-20	18	3.06%
21+	59	10.02%
Voters: 589. You may not vote on this poll

04-06-2004, 08:48 PM	#1 (permalink)
31Friction Addict Location: STL, MO	How Many Notches Are On Your Stick (no pun intended) There may be a thread like this already but i'm not sure. There is a VERY broad and diverse group on this site, more-so than any other that I am a member of. So I'm wondering how many different people you've had sex with. I'd like you to post your response along with voting but it's ok to be anonymous. So? __________________ "Saints need sinners." Alan Watts

04-06-2004, 08:52 PM	#3 (permalink)
31Friction Addict Location: STL, MO	if it makes it any easier, ive got 14 edit 0 1 2-5 6-10 11-15 16-20 21+ sorry for the type-oh. if a mod could fix it, it would be appreciated. __________________ "Saints need sinners." Alan Watts Last edited by 31Friction; 04-06-2004 at 08:54 PM..*

04-06-2004, 09:07 PM	#4 (permalink)
JStrider Poo-tee-weet? Location: The Woodlands, TX	woooo first person to vote for my category... i remember when i went from 1 to 2 i called up a friend and told him i just doubled the number of sexual partners in one night... and he assumed i was in an orgy or somethin... it was funny as hell __________________ -=JStrider=- ~Clatto Verata Nicto

04-06-2004, 10:45 PM	#5 (permalink)
nanofever Huzzah for Welcome Week, Much beer shall I imbibe. Location: UCSB	20+ honest, I would never lie on an online poll to boost my own ego... cries the lonely man cry __________________ I'm leaving for the University of California: Santa Barbara in 5 hours, give me your best college advice - things I need, good ideas, bad ideas, nooky, ect. Originally Posted by Norseman on another forum: "Yeah, the problem with the world is the stupid people are all cocksure of themselves and the intellectuals are full of doubt."

04-06-2004, 08:50 PM	#2 (permalink)
Mephex Psycho	edit - nothing

04-06-2004, 10:56 PM	#6 (permalink)
jay-g Addict	Last edited by jay-g; 03-20-2008 at 11:44 AM..

04-07-2004, 12:40 AM	#7 (permalink)
MrFlux Fluxing wildly... Location: Auckland, New Zealand	1 __________________ flux (n.) Medicine. The discharge of large quantities of fluid material from the body, especially the discharge of watery feces from the intestines.

04-07-2004, 01:26 AM	#8 (permalink)
John Henry Addict Location: Grey Britain	Firmly in the third category. I'd like to be able to hold my head in the air and say that it was bevause I was afraid of stds. In fact it's because for most of my life I've been afraid of girls (or they've been afraid of me). __________________ "No one was behaving from very Buddhist motives. Then, thought Pigsy, he was hardly a Buddha, nor was he a monkey. Presently, he was a pig spirit changed into a little girl pretending to be a little boy to be offered to a water monster. It was all very simple to a pig spirit."

04-07-2004, 03:59 AM	#9 (permalink)
sbscout Disorganized Location: back home again...	#1. a one-night stand in college (a long time ago in a land far, far away) #2. wife of 21 years (starting 2 years after college) no further variety needed __________________ Always question authority... it'll keep the bastards on their toes!

04-07-2004, 04:03 AM	#10 (permalink)
qtpye4u84 Flavor+noodles Location: oregon	I have only had one but the person I did it with i am still with!!! 4 years and counting lol but he has had 7 before me, so to me thats kinda gross, some times I try to imagine how he was having sex with them. He still has the same bed from before we were even dating so thats kinda gross too. __________________ The QTpie

04-07-2004, 04:25 AM	#12 (permalink)
ninety09 Flavour of the Weak Location: Canada	edit: 1 Last edited by ninety09; 06-12-2004 at 02:18 PM..

04-07-2004, 04:27 AM	#13 (permalink)
telekinetic zomgomgomgomgomgomg Location: Fauxenix, Azerona	__________________ twisted no more Last edited by telekinetic; 02-11-2008 at 02:50 AM..

04-07-2004, 04:40 AM	#14 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	14 men (counting hubby) 8 women 22 people total All since I got married. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.

04-07-2004, 04:51 AM	#15 (permalink)
SabrinaFair Junkie Location: Louisville, KY	Wow. Makes me happy that not everyone is fucking a lot of people. 2. Boyfriends. Loved them both, one of them loved me. The second I can't speak for. Or would even want to. __________________ "With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy." -Desiderata

04-07-2004, 05:18 AM	#16 (permalink)
gremlinx8 Insane Location: Illinois	I've only had sex with one person. I think I'd like it to stay that way. __________________ Time you enjoy wasting, was not wasted. -Lennon

04-07-2004, 05:29 AM	#17 (permalink)
Nitrox Crazy Location: IN	Whoa, guess I embraced the fact that I was born and raised in the sixties (can we say free love). 53 that I remember, and there are at least a dozen parties where I suppose it could have happened

04-07-2004, 06:06 AM	#18 (permalink)
Charlatan Getting it. Super Moderator Location: Lion City	I think I am around 25 or so... I am actually surprised by the lack of activity in young people today. __________________ "My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars." - Old Man Luedecke

04-07-2004, 06:22 AM	#20 (permalink)
skysooner Registered User Location: Oklahoma	All of my activity was before AIDS really became a problem and before my marriage. I was well into my 50s when I stopped counting. Experience with different people is overrated based on my experience now, but at the time it seemed like the thing to do. I had trouble relating to women to beyond the first few dates. Sex would happen, and I just didn't know how to deal with a longer-term relationship. Some girls I had sex with didn't want a relationship either. The 80s were a bit different in that regard. I don't know about the 90s since I was dating or married to my wife the whole time.

04-07-2004, 06:23 AM	#21 (permalink)
onetime2 Junkie Location: NJ	How many are including themselves in that number? __________________ Strive to be more curious than ignorant.

04-07-2004, 06:37 AM	#23 (permalink)
ratbastid Darth Papa Location: Yonder	Does it depend on how you define "sex"? Not to get all Bill Clinton about this thing, but.... Is a blowjob sex? Or are we talking about intercourse here? If it's intercourse, two. If it's any sort of sexual interaction at all, including kissing or touching... then it's more than that.

04-07-2004, 06:37 AM	#24 (permalink)
Nitrox Crazy Location: IN	Skysooner, that is exactly it. I got married in 1986 and all of my activity was pre-marriage and pre-AIDS.

04-07-2004, 07:23 AM	#27 (permalink)
Prince /nɑndəsˈkrɪpt/ Location: LV-426	I've only ever had sex with my wife. She wasn't my wife when we first started, though, to be precise. No, I don't regret it. __________________ Who is John Galt?

04-07-2004, 08:31 AM	#28 (permalink)
doncalypso TFP Mad Scientist Location: Philadelphia, PA	Tobe honest, I am not exactly sure as to how many women I've slept with... I think the number is around 10 though. __________________ Doncalypso... the one and only Haitian Sensation

04-07-2004, 11:04 AM	#29 (permalink)
tooth Addict	1 - my wife. We were each other's first 12 years ago. We've been happily married for over 6 years now.

04-07-2004, 11:35 AM	#31 (permalink)
tisonlyi Nothing	Too many by most people's standards, but I wouldn't have it any other way. I'm a naughty, naughty man. I need punishing. Volunteers for the punishment squad show apply (in green ink) to: __________________ "I do not agree that the dog in a manger has the final right to the manger even though he may have lain there for a very long time. I do not admit that right. I do not admit for instance, that a great wrong has been done to the Red Indians of America or the black people of Australia. I do not admit that a wrong has been done to these people by the fact that a stronger race, a higher-grade race, a more worldly wise race to put it that way, has come in and taken their place." - Winston Churchill, 1937 --{ORLY?}--

04-07-2004, 11:49 AM	#32 (permalink)
bender Addict Location: around the corner	36 at last count, but again I've been off the market for about 6 years or so, and think that I'll keep it that way.

04-07-2004, 11:56 AM	#33 (permalink)
SiN strangelove Location: ...more here than there...	At first I found it interesting that you stopped the poll at such a low number... ...and then I remembered that once you get much higher than that, it's easy to lose count. __________________ - + - ° GiRLie GeeK ° - + - ° 01110010011011110110111101110100001000000110110101100101 Therell be days/When Ill stray/I may appear to be/Constantly out of reach/I give in to sin/Because I like to practise what I preach

04-07-2004, 03:28 PM	#35 (permalink)
World's King Here Location: Denver City Denver	21+ There was a good six months that I hung out at this strip club alot and... yeah... things happen. __________________ heavy is the head that wears the crown

04-07-2004, 04:10 PM	#36 (permalink)
sillygirl Newlywed Location: at home	3.5 1) husband 2)boyfriend 3) uh... yeah.... one night thing... don't wanna talk about it .5) depends on your opinion if it counts or not.. I was drunk, he was stone sober... do the math __________________ Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly-Rose Franken ....absence makes me miss him more...

04-07-2004, 05:37 PM	#37 (permalink)
Confederate Death Leprechaun Location: College Station, TX	8 for me, basically one for every year I've been sexually active

04-07-2004, 07:43 PM	#38 (permalink)
SAM821 Surviving Hurricanes Location: Miami, Florida	nine for me... number 10 may be right around the corner

04-07-2004, 08:03 PM	#39 (permalink)
Blue93g20 Upright	6, could be more but one night stands just don't do it for me. I can't get off....LOL

04-08-2004, 03:21 AM	#40 (permalink)
Blackthorn Beware the Mad Irish Location: Wish I was on the N17...	Do random hook ups for blow jobs count in this? I've responded including only those where intercourse was involved. Nine is the number. __________________ What are you willing to give up in order to get what you want?