Guys: Ever have a girl practically beg you for sex?
 

Today was my first time anyone has ever actually begged me for sex. My ex-girlfriend gave me a call, and we talked about nonsense for awhile. Then she told me how something has been 'bothering' her. Apparently her new boyfriend doesn't "hit it" where she needs it to be "hit" in order for her to enjoy sex at all. On top of that, he only has sex with her once a week and only lasts 20 minutes. She asked me, "So...I was wondering if I could come over tonight later on..." I was like, "I dunno..." with a sarcastic tone. After asking me again a few more times, she then said in a very excited voice, "Aw c'mon! I really need some dick! I need to be fucked right now! You're the only one that can hit it right!" This is what I said to her:
"You cheated on me with him. You chose to be with him rather than with me, and NOW you're regretting it? It's not my fault that he can't handle your business. I knew you'd miss my dick someday. And oh yeah: NO!" I hung up in disgust.

Although I was thoroughly disgusted, and probably will regret not taking her up on her offer whenever I'm feeling stupid and horny, I must say that I was quite flattered. I didn't know that my libido was adequate enough to make someone actually fiend over it! Don't get me wrong; I'm not bragging...it's just this is the first time this has ever happened to me. It came as a disgusting yet pleasant surpise.

To her credit, she did call back and apologize.

Haven't had it happen. If I were in your position though, I'd pound her good and video tape it, then show it to her boyfriend. Well, no I wouldn't, but I'm sure someone would.

I'd do it hehehe j/k well maybe....

Id actually go for it, but id make her work for it big time

Wow good for you! I'm proud of you! :)

Hell yea man, give 'em a taiste of their own medicine.

I applaud you on your self control :), though i bet that felt good...

As for anyone begging for my sex? I think i speak for the majority of us guys when i say, "nope."

Haha lucky you....self control is a virtue. :D

Nice choice, and what a compliment! Wow!

yes, a woman has begged me to fuck her- and it was good........

Yep. It was a girl I knew and I wouldn't even consider us friends. I just knew her from some other friends. One night she came to where I worked and begged me.

Does someone you're seeing count?

My GF was all but crying for it today. I said no because she's on her period (which I'm normally ok with), I'm out of condoms, and she's geting on birth control tomorrow.

...but come Friday... ;)

The girlfriend was on her period, at about noon I received a phone call, the conversation is hazy but went something along these lines. "Hi honey, you know I love you! You love me too right"
"Yes, of course" I replied.
"Excellent, then would you please please please fuck me today!"
"Sure!"
"I'm on my period, baby"
*Silence*
And then a tentative "ok"
The sex was surprisingly good! The sensations were a bit odd at first and the blood on the condom was a tad disconcerting, but I got over it and now we joyfully fuck month round (But I still refuse to eat her out).

yep it's happened. ex gf of mine called one time at 1am complaining about how horny she was and how she needed it fixed right now. Told her I was sleeping and that she's a bitch for waking me up...then i went round and poled her.

Yeah, I have had that happen... makes you feel pretty good until you realize that she just wants to use you for sex...

...and then you feel good again when you realize how cool that is... hehe :)

Yeah, had an ex show up at the door to my apartment in college. I opened the door for her (we had parted on rather decent terms and are still friends to this day) and she told me she needed to fuck. She then pulled off her sweatshirt right there on my front porch in full view of the street (no bra, she hated them) just to show me she ment business. Then she pushed by me and by they time I had followed her back to my bedroom she was naked. It did not last long as was in a "Wham, bam, thank you ma'am" sort of mood but hey, it was still good.

Once, but was to drunk to enjoy it. However a friend of mine does it with his ex, who has a new boy friend. And he basically tells everyone except him directly. So the new boyfriend is going nuts with all the hear say and gossip he hears. Granted that is evil, but hey she constantly calls him, asks him out and begs him. He is only flesh and bones

Awesome self control man! Congrats on being the bigger guy (no pun inteded) and not doing the same thing that had happened to you.

And yes.. a couple of times but this is because i'm a No Sex Before Marriage guy and they were horny gals (different occations of course.) One of these act. led to a break up but thats a completely different thread all together. Short answer. Yes.

Nope.. I can't even seem to give it away lately.

nope never been begged,...but paid, yup, and more than once! :D

"You cheated on me with him. You chose to be with him rather than with me, and NOW you're regretting it? It's not my fault that he can't handle your business. I knew you'd miss my dick someday. And oh yeah: NO!" I hung up in disgust."

Good for you. Fuck her. (Well, not literally) :D

People that cheat deserve the lame sex they get stuck with.

Yeah I've been begged before... It is a good feeling. Although I have been in the same position as you and I have done the same. I won't have sex with someone if I know they are with someone else. I am just not that kind of guy.

Congrats to you for having the morals to do that... It is tough to turn down good sex...

about 10 years ago I worked near a coffee shop which I naturally frequented. There was a girl there who started flirting, then started bringing coffee to me in my office, then told me that I could "have her" in the bathroom if I wanted. Told her I wasn't available. She said she knew, she "often saw" my girlfriend around town.
She was really cute, but this was so far from sexy. It was just creepy. She moved to Maine shortly after this incident, only to return 3 years later. I was in a restaurant and she approached us (now married to the girlfriend). She asked If I remembered her, and my wife and I said "yes" in unison. She said "good" and walked away never to been seen again.

Well that happened to me, but with a different ending, I fucked her silly. It was great and to this day I don't regret it.

When I first met my wife she jumped me within a week. Of course she didn't so much beg as take charge and have her way... :crazy:

yes, but unfortunately it was with a married woman. she came on to me pretty hard and i didn't resist. i hope i didn't screw up the marriage. on a side note, it was VERY cool and would love to experience it again. not with a married woman though.

Most girls I know beg me to fuck them.

At least that's what I tell myself after they hit me in the crotch.

Happened to me once. This girl grabbed my arm and pulled me into her room. She says "lets fuck". I'm like "no" because she was very unattractive... she then sayd she just wants to cuddle... me again "no". She then says she just wants to talk, "no". She kept pulling my arm, but I kept denying her. It was a hard choice, but 2 days later I realized I made the right decision.

Yes, but very rarely is it the right girl. I suppose that's where the begging comes in.

Bravo. You did the right thing. I'd have told her to fuck off too.

"i knew you'd miss my dick someday"

thats a great line man, i'll have to remember that.

Why doesn't this kind of thing ever happen to me?

Maybe it's the total lack of ex-girlfriends affecting things.

I basically had the same thing happen to me while I was a Resident Assitant in college. The girl wasn't unattractive, but she was my resident and I had only known her for a few days. It was a weird experience since a few other of my residents were aware of her request. The worst part of it was that she would just not leave my room after I repeatedly told her "no." I had to make a compromise to get her out, so I agreed to let her hold me for 10 minutes. I still want those 10 minutes of my life back.

With all these sexual harassment suites being filed, mostly by women (I assume), I applaud you for your patience while dealing with that girl.

It seems like whenever I am at the bar with my gf, or when she comes home from the bar after going out with the girls, that she is totally horny like nobody's business. My gf is asian and probably has an allergic reaction to the alcohol (her body turns red from her knees to her forhead, i dunno why she's never seen a doctor), and there's been a handful of times when she's begged me to screw her in a corner booth or washroom. So far i haven't had the guts to do it in such a public place, and we often end up screwing in the car (during a pit stop) on the way home.

My ex is Chinese and she's exactly the same way. I don't think it's an allergic reaction, but rather a low tolerance for the alcohol. I took her to Olive Garden once and we ordered an entire bottle of wine (they didn't check ID as I was only 19 at the time). After one half-glass, she was shit-faced drunk. It was a mindblow for me, 'cause I'm so used to having at least 5-6 drinks before getting drunk off my ass. I'm not attributing the low tolerance to her ethnicity, but rather a) She's female, and b) She's not an everyday drinker.

An old co-worker of mine begged me for sex quite a few times but I never went for it because we worked together and we all know how that goes. Once night she called me and I finally said yes, but only if she would come to my house, pick me up, take me back to her place and then take me home afterwards because I didn't feel like driving. I didn't think she'd go for it but sure enough, she came over in about 15 minutes and we went through with it. I later found out that she was married and that her husband was in jail :| Yeah, that was the end of that. Fortunately for me, she got fired a week later (completely unrelated) :thumbsup:

I had my first experience with this last night. She'd come over as usual, but we both had a lot of work to do, and stuff to do early in the morning, and thought we'd just go to sleep. Throughout the night, she kept grinding into me, and I kept trying to resist. By the morning, she was literally begging for it, and it was some of the most amazing sex I've ever had. What a way to wake up .

Sometimes I willingly resist sex, just to get a reaction, sometimes I get aggression, sometimes it turns to begging. Almost every time we have phone sex, she begs for me to sneak out of my house and come fuck her. I enjoy it. :p

Oh yeah, and if I ever question if I'm "good at it" or not, I remember those situations and think... "Why would she beg if she didn't enjoy it?"

You know that I already want the sex anyways...Cpu...I too, though, have had a girl beg me for sex. Kinda wierd when it's your best friend.

Yes, my wifey...we both beg at times. It really depends on the mood.

To CityOfAngels: I'm glad that you reminded her that she cheated on you. People need to understand that being cheated on hurts, as they aparently didn't care enough in the first place about your feelings. It's not a matter of getting revenge, but a matter of them understanding the amount of pain they inflicted through a selfish act.

Oh yeah, sure.. Happened on several occations. It was by the same girl all of the times though. It still feels great to be wanted. ;)

Good for you, CityofAngels! Some women think they rule us with their sexuality and its good to knock'em down from that pedestal when they pull crap like that. Sure, girls have begged me for sex as well. I've never had that "I've got to have it now or I'm Gonna DIE!" urgent powerful need for sex and I think that percieved indifference has turned some women on. Go figure. Its not that I don't like sex, I do and am told I'm quite proficient but if I don't get any for a while its no big deal. Sometimes I'm just not in the mood or there is a moral or ethical issue with the particular situation. The women I've turned down for sex are always amazed and sometimes hurt (I feel bad about those) that their advances are rejected. I've never begged a woman for sex and when they've begged me I've been a bit mystified. No means no, right? If I ask a woman for sex and she says no I'm supposed to be cool and alright about it and just "enjoy the chase". I've had woman I've turned down get really mad, I've been asked if I was gay, and I had a couple of girls start crying because they thought I found them unnattractive. One girl, after I reapeatedly and politely said no left the room, came back nude and started rubbing herself all over me! If a man did that to a woman he'd be arrested. I mean hey, there are worse things than a naked woman cozying up to you but I REALLY didn't want sex at that time. The begging for sex sort of dirty talk foreplay sub/dom thing can be hot but when the "begging" becomes pressure its just not good at all.

No, I haven't had that happen to me(unless you count your gf begging for it while she's on her period) but if it did I don't think i could of turned down the offer(i know I'm weak). Good thing you held strong.

Sorry for the late reply.

It was definately an interesting night to say the least. Not to mention she was a bit drunk, which definately made the situation even more delicate. Thankfully, nothing more came out of the situation, specially considering she was next door to me.

Yeah, I had girls ask me for it during college every now and then. Being a basketball star at a small school had its advantages. Those were the days. I'm playing professional basketball in Croatia right now and I find it much harder to meet women.

Yeah - and then I woke up :D :D

Dude... you make me laugh and laugh.

Mr Mephisto

Finally, a man in control. Nice work man.

i had a complete stranger pretty much say she wanted to rape me.....she wanted me so badly. Kind of flattering but also kind of scary. The girl was all over me......and no nothing happened. Looking back though.....I bet that woulda been a real fun night / morning!

Yeah, a fun way to get all sorts of STDs! Oh joy.

Wasn't really begging, but one time my ex begged me to let her come up to my room so she could borrow a porno. When she got there she got her porn, and then started masterbating and of course you know what happened next. When we were done, she just left the porno there and went on her way.

i know this is a question for guys but i thought i could contribute.... i recently had a girls night out.. me a couple friends and a couple of thier friends... we were all dancing and drinking and having a fun time.. we started doing our typical girl on girl dancing trying to drive some guys wild.. we occasionally kissed just to really get their motors going.. i ended up making out with one of those friends of a friend...a lil while passed and she pulled me aside and confessed that she heard i was bi and had secretly wanted to do some of her expiriementing of her own with me... i laughed it off trying to downplay it but she was persistant and wanted to go back to her apt... i again declined and went back with the group.. the rest of the night she was dancing on me grinding me kissing me whispering to me how she would love to leave and and have our own private party and how she wanted me sooo bad... we closed the bar down and we all spent the night at her house.. i hurried up and passed out to avoid the situation.. the next day she apologized and said she was sorry for throwing herself at me and that she wouldnt let it happen again.. she still tells our mutual friend that we should go out just the 3 of us and constantly asks her about me

I've had a girl more than "practically" beg me for sex. I've had a number of girls ACTUALLY beg me for sex. The last one was a FB who was somewhat of a liar. She'd do something to piss me off and I'd refuse to fuck her. After a few days she'd usually invite me over to talk and I'd say 'Sure, but I'm not going to fuck you.' Then she'd beg me to spend the night, and I'd say, "OK, but I'm not going to fuck you, I'll sleep on the couch." She'd come down in about an hour and lay down with me all humpy and squirmy trying to get me turned on. Eventually she'd beg me to come upstairs and fuck her. I'd refuse until morning, when I was done being pissed off and common sense would take over. Hell, when there's a hot woman who's all over you all night you should take her up on it unless there's a damn good reason not to (like she dumped you for some other guy and now wants you back.)

Until I have a woman come to be and beg me to fuck her I just won't believe in the myth of women begging men for sex. There's just no way I could conceive of a woman approaching me for sex and begging for it.

Honestly, for every one man that turns a woman down there are twenty more lined up ready to give her the time of her life. So why would a woman get all worked up if one guy turned her down?

It just looks like that to us guys. Also, what iif she's fixated on this one guy because he's not "easy" from her point of view? He doesn't want her, so she's interested in the challenge, or maybe he's an ex or whatever.

It's called alcohol dehydrogenase, and your gf doesn't make it. Basically her body doesn't break down alcohol, so she only gets rid of it through piss and sweat (vomit too if it comes to it). It's much more common in asians than any other group. There's also some microbe that tends to infect people with a high carbohydrate diet (i.e. rice) that produces low levels of alchohol as a byproduct - most people wouldn't ever notice it, but asians w/o alcohol dehydrogenase cop a perma-buzz. I can think of worse problems,

You obviously....have never met my wife....heh

I've been asked, never begged. I've been told "fuck me or else!" but never begged. I copped a headjob in the freezer at work...but 'I' did the begging for that. Come to think of it...shit...I've never been begged for sex! That's it. Now I'm in a shitty mood.

I don't know about begging, my wife prefers a more physical approach. Like grabbing me and taking any response as consent.
Works for me.

i have, and all the beggers have been over-sized women of ill moral repute

ugh, total gross out from old memories

You rock! Great response.

My SO has begged a couple times recently. She went off the patch and basically forced me into using condoms even though she knows i hate them with a passion. So I haven't really been interested lately, and she pretty much begged a couple times. I gave her a good lickin' instead and called it even.

I had one person when I moved back to Canada, boy am I glad I made the right decision and stayed away. She begged, and begged, and begged, she still begs till this day, now I've just blocked her on my phone, MSN, and any other way she can contact me. *shudders* I'm just glad I am with my girlfriend now.

Both of my significant exes have begged me for sex after the breakup. Denied the first, gave in to the second.

my gf did a lot while she was going through a hard time, i think she thought it would make her feel more loved. i had to turn her down though, because she was clearly not thinking straight. toughest thing i've ever done, she can be sooo hot sometimes.

not for sex proper, but close enough for government contracting.

ended up caving in once...i don't entirely regret it but it wasn't smart. after we broke up, she tried a similar line. very glad i had my head on straight for that time...she'd cheated on me, and i'd finally gotten some perspective on her damn games.

CoA, here's to moving on. :thumbsup:

Well done CityofAngels. Many men wouldn't have been able to resist the offer.

Never had a girl beg for it. There was this one girl tho that I work with, had her over to the house a couple of times. I think the most I ever gave her was a hug, but next thing I know people are telling me she said we had screwed. Lol, she must have wanted it, just never got to that begging point.

Yes, as a matter of fact it happened to me recently. There was this woman walking in front of me on a dark street. She seemed a little nervous that I was walking behind her so I gave her my friendliest "howdy-do!". Then she stopped and talked to me and asked me where I was going. She was older and very townie and not my type.

I deliberately said that I was going to a bar that I thought she wouldn't like. She followed me in anyways. Over the course of a few drinks she propositioned me many times. I tried in vain to find a nice way of saying that I wasn't interested. She rubbed my leg and touched me innapropriately. She wasn't getting the message so I told her that there was no "nice way" of putting it but she was just not my type and that she should get over it. Then she got mad at me.

Several people online and in my personal life asked me why I just didn't go for it. After all it's been over a year since I've had sex... But the fact is that I don't want to risk an STD for someone that I really don't care about -that I'd never see again ect.

And Quite frankly, I'm not that desperate. And no she wasn't ugly or fat per se. She just wasn't someone I would be interested in.

hahaha yeah.. my girlfriend started humping my leg at like 3 in the morning.... soooo funny. we slept at 1 i believe, right after finishing EuroTrip. 3 oclock comes, and i wake up to her grinding/humping my left leg and her yelling "god i want your dick NOWWW"

senior year... good times. winter formal 05.

It happened to me once. I turned her down. I still regret it to this day, because i'm still a virgin. I could have had a lifetime of fucking, but instead had this dumbass notion that I wanted to lose my virginity to somebody I loved. I've never thought of myself as a shallow guy, nor have I committed any shallow acts, but never again will I refuse sex from such a willing woman. Especially while my sex life is in a rather pathetic state.

I have, not with many women but one in particular. The first time with her was a grudge f**k. She was getting back at her ex. There is nothing like grudge sex. One time when she was begging I resisted until she finally went down on me. This woman loved to give head. She started giving me head and didn't stop until I had come 5 times.

I have to know. Did you beg her to stop? It would be such a yin-yang balance thing :D

My girlfriend would beg me at the start of our relationship, even wake me up in the middle of the night. That was cool. Then came the public places - I went through with it. We even have sex on her period.

Good one CityofAngels I wouldn't take that shit if I were you.

I look forward to the day when I attain your degree of self-control and serenity. This is one reason I'm seriously considering going full-blown celibate while I'm in grad school. This way I hope I'll learn to find contentment with myself without the pressure of having to be in a relationship to be happy, and hopefully I'll learn not to be so desperate for sex.

Amen for Canada

5-6 before getting drunk of you ass? You must not handle it very well... owel maybe I just see things differntly... Drinking is in my blood... Natural born resistance lol :crazy:

I personally don't like being begged for sex.
Here I go, admitting an egregious lack of male prowess: Sometimes I am too tired and not at all horny enough to get it up and fuck for a 5th or 6th time in a night. In the beginning of the relationship, yeah, but after some time, bleh.
Usually she wins the argument and comes once or thrice.

it's happened to me a couple of times, and it just happened to me again this weekend. i just think it's interesting how wierd some women think i am when i'm not very interested in sex. maybe it's because i come off as a very sexual person, but sex itself is only something i like when it's with someone i love. boy, did i just go off on a tangent or what?

I'm new here, but reading this thread has made me incredibly depressed.

A few times (only from women I've had sex with already) and, to be honest, it didn't turn me on. I guess I really like "the chase".

And good for you with that self-control; I doubt I could pull that off.

Good for you! You tell her where to stick it man!! The cheating cunt made her bed now let her sleep in it.

This is what I think is great about being a male.. If a man begs a woman for sex, the woman is, more times than not, put off by this. In most cases takes her to a (mental) place wich is farthest from any desire to have sex, if it were there at all. A man on the other hand, no matter how sencitive he claims to be, can find pure joy from this senerio, no matter the out-come (or lack there-of *OH*).

I don't think that the act of sex, in itself, is the true drive towards sexual desire in men.. But more the sexual desire shown towards him..

That being said.. I think I could *almost* do w/out sex entirely, knowing that I had, say, three women hanging on my every word, waiting for the moment to feast apon me.. WHEW! I think I need to take this to a another thread now.. ROFL..

And the answer is yes, I have been there, done that.

And you my friend did the right thing.. Feels damn good doesn't it?

I would have pegged her in your position.

Probably would have been very nasty too and then pulled out and come on her face.

I had an ex lie about being on birth control she wanted it so bad... I was not happy.

Jezz! I'd hate to be in you sitiuation!

You did the right thing buddy,

rcr