DVD suggestions?
 

I'm looking for a how to video for my wife. How to give head, how to fuck like a pro..... I love her lots but well, she could use some help in the sack. So I'm thinking for my birthday I'll get myself a video for her. While I'm at it I would like to pick up a good porn that we could both watch. Any suggestions?

be careful not to insult her or make her insecure about her self (that will compromise your goals)

[QUOTE=Mango]I'm looking for a how to video for my wife. How to give head, how to fuck like a pro..... I love her lots but well, she could use some help in the sack. So I'm thinking for my birthday I'll get myself a video for her. /QUOTE]

You're fucking kidding right? Do you want to actually keep your wife?

[QUOTE=-:mantra:-]What's wrong with him wanting to please his wife better? I just bought my wife her first dildo tonight and I used it earlier tonight. She loved it.

Are you that insecure?

this is great dvd's

http://www.sexualintimacy.com/

heh, my guess is that the reason you asked this question is the very reason she's not pleasing you ;) If you waren't communicating with her about what you want and about what she wants, then it doesn't matter how many "instructional" videos you get. If you don't like something about how she gives head, then suggest different things to her. Tell her when something isn't pleasing to you. Things like that. Communication goes a LONG way.

Ditto, communication all the way. But still, I think your wife will be hurt when you try to give her this video...what will you say?

"er, um, here's a dvd...to help...uuuh I'd like it if you did this to me...?"

Good luck! Most likely she will be unhappy with your blunt approach. Much better to give her the idea slowly when you're being intimate. Little steps and eventually she'll catch on, without need for this direct confrontation. Give her subtle hints as to what you want/need...If you don't tell her, how's she going to guess that what she's been doing the whole time isn't pleasing you?

Precisely. Getting a DVD like that is fine if you've had constant and open communication beforehand and you mutually agreed to the idea of getting it, but as it stands it'd be more like a gesture of "you suck, here's something you can do about it, I'm gonna go have a sandwich, see you later." It's just as much YOUR responsibility to help he please you as it is hers to try to please you.

Man, that is a recipe for disaster.

Here's the plan:

1. Please your wife.
2. Please your wife.
3. Please your wife.

If you concentrate entirely on her, you'll most likely find that you start enjoying it more, too.

After all this is your wife, not some stray piece of ass you picked up, right? Concentrate of putting her into another world and you will have learned the key to wonderful sex: Just take care of your partner.

Little hints while in the sack will go alot farther than any video. "Harder", "softer", "slower", faster", "a little to the left"... Get the idea? Just one or two innocent words can make things so much better. Maybe you guys just don't talk when having sex?

If she doesn't get the hint after doing that for a while, maybe a little less subtle conversation might be in order. But whatever the case, communication is the key, not some how-to materials.