The sounds of sexual pleasures!
 

Just would like to know if most people are quiet, make some noise or loud during sex and especially during climax?

Also, does it turn you on or off to hear your partner?

Me it turns me on big time!

It turns me on without doubt. Adds a another element to the pleasure given, and received.

I'm pretty loud during sex (which I'm sure my roommate appreciates, ahh thin walls....) and it also definitely turns me on when my guy is noisy too.

My wife and I are both fairly quiet. She will ususally purr loudly if she's enjoying it, but loud to me is probably very quiet to most.

I'm pretty quiet, but love to hear my partner being vocal and loud. It definitely turns me on.

Here's another question that I need to run a poll on: Is there a connection between loud laughers and being loud in bed. I came upon this thought the other day, and the more people I talk to about it, the more I think I might be on to something. If it's true, think of how fun that could be. You hear someone you work with laughing loudly, and you could know they're loud and crazy in bed too. Just a thought.

Pump up the volume
 

The relation between loud laughs and loud sexual expressions is a funny thought. I know of a couple of people working with me that must be pretty loud in bed!

I'm very quiet, I don't usually make any sounds except heavy breathing. I'm not sure why that is. My partner's very, very loud, she's a screamer, and sometimes it can get a little scary, to be honest! She wants me to be louder, and I'm working on being loud and vocal without sounding lame.

I'm typically quiet because most times I've had sex, we had to be quiet in case we heard someone getting home (hate living with parents). I like getting into though and being loud when I can, since being quiet is just a bad habit.

I like it when my boyfriend is talkative.

I loved it when my (edit: Ex-)girlfirend was loud, but we usually had to keep it quiet because we were usually doing it while while her parents were home(they were usually asleep though), or at my house with my parents home. But when we were somewhere all alone, she got really loud and I did to sometimes.

edited due to a change in tense needing to be used....

I love hearing my girl moan with pleasure......it makes me that much hotter! I make some noises, usually letting her know how good it feels or when I'm cumming.

I love it when a girl moans in pleasure, but for some unfortunate reason, I can totally tell when they're faking it, so that kinda kills it. Not that I mind them faking it, but KNOWING that they fake it kills it.

As for me, I vary from different types of sessions. If she's going down on me, you hear me moaning, and all the "Ohhh yesss" and sometimes a "You're a pro!" when I'm feeling a little risquey, hehe. If I'm making love, then it's usually, "I love you sooo much," more stuff to increase the emotional experience than the sexual experience. If I'm just fucking, I'll only moan if I'm enjoying it. If the girl asks, "Do you like it?" then I might fake some moans and say something like, "Of course, baby!"
Hehe, nice topic by the way.

i like it when she's loud. Especially if it's genuine. It gives me feedback. So I can do more of the same. I'm only loud during climax though.

I'm typically pretty quiet, though it does turn me on when my gf is making noise (though she's fairly quiet as well, only really gets loud on big ones).

And to think I was gonna get to buy this great CD to sleep to..

I make a lot of noise - especially when I cum. Loverboy on the other hand only makes noises when he reaches climax which is a big turn on :crazy:

if the women i am with makes noise then i will join in but if she does not then i will will not

I will make some noise when something feels particularly good. This helps to let the girl know that you really enjoy what she is doing. I love it when a girl I am with makes some noise. The more noise the better. Unfortunately I have gotten a noise complaint at my apartment for "Loud verbal and thumping noises" late at night. And the guy who used to live below me would pound on the walls quite often... Ahhhh the joys of apartment living...

I'm pretty quiet. I moan and groan a little bit. It is a turn on when the girl makes noises unless it's a little too loud. Then I get a little paranoid about my neighbors calling the cops. Yup, another apartment dweller here.

We are both pretty quiet now. Kids are in the next room. Used to get a little loud before we had the rugrats.

I'm a bit more vocal, which has taken me a while to get to. When i first started having sex i was still living at home and it was normally during the wee hours of the night. We both had to be quiet so as not to wake anyone up, or get caught for that matter. Now that i'm on my own, it's fair game, as long as music's turned on, roomie doesn't care! :)

It is a turn on for me to hear a lover make any noises, moans, sighs, gasps, all music to my ears. Agreed, i don't like it if it's forced though :) As long as we're both enjoying ourselves.

I'm usually very quiet... maybe a slight gasp or a groan when I orgasm.

I love it when the girl I'm with is loud though! :) Sometime that's all it takes to push me over the edge.

My only hang-up is worrying about whether someone else could hear us... Even living together in an apartment I would sometimes worry about how loud my ex was, and it would dampen my mood. But if there's no chance of being overheard, let 'er rip! :p

i'm rather quiet, will let out a gasp, or groan if it feels good. My SO is a loud one though, screamer, such a turn on. Too bad for us, her roommate has had to pound on the wall multiple times, and my neighbor (across the way, not the one next to me) has had to come knock on the door at 4:00 AM to ask us to keep it down. At my place when she starts screaming I'll put a few fingers in her mouth or give her a kiss, cause asking her to be quiet kinda ruins the mood.

The wife and I are pretty quite, though I do encourage her to be a bit more vocal. The hottest thing I have personally ever encountered was my first year living in an apartment with my wife. The power went out one night and suddenly there was a LOT of loud moaning coming from the unit across the hall from us. AFAIK the lights went out and the girl across the way suddenly found herself in the living room in the dark with her beau and decided to make the best of the situation. She was so loud that you could hear her three stories down! Wish the wife could let go like that =)

Sex sounds in general really turn me on. I've gotten my girlfriend to get louder over the years, and now she says it really helps the experience, so now she has no problem being loud. I love hearing her moans and breathing, and I try to be loud for her as well.

my lover and i recently had a conversation about this very subject. i've always thought i was really loud during sex...in my mind i'm moaning and gasping and calling out his name (or god's). he tells me, though, that i am very quiet...just the occasional change in breath and maybe a few little bird-like chirps every now and then. how funny is that? i'm all wild and loud in my head, but in reality i am as quiet as a mouse. i had nooooo idea! he, however, is very quiet...i strain sometimes just to notice changes in his breathing to alert me of the big moment.

I love it when my fiance starts to get a little louder. Tho sometimes after I've gone down on her and stayed there for a good 20 or 30 minutes she has almost bit thru a pillow trying to keep herself quiet. :D

I make noise the whole time, and always have been, which has led to everything from "Ssshh" to the fingers-in-the-mouth method. My man is quiet, though, right up until the moment,

I make hardly any noise when I'm orgasming, other than some deep moans or grunts or something on that level. I'm normally on the quiet side anyway, so I don't make a lot of noise, but I do like to hear my man talking to me or expressing himself in some way. The best memory was laughing together through the whole time from the pure joy of it.

Turns me on big time to hear her, mmm...on the other hand I'm not very vocal.

i'm pretty quiet but i love it when she's loud.

i'm not usually that loud because i'm trying not to bust and get her off several times and my girlfriend is pretty loud, i like it she likes it, she wants me to be louder though. its hard though when she wants me to pull out i need to concentrate :-p

All the guys who complain about their girls being loud - just put your hand over her mouth. I had a girlfriend who was really loud and the walls in my house are thin so I had to keep her quiet. I'd just press my hand against her mouth, sometimes even covering her nose too so that she couldn't breathe. She loved it :D

I was wondering the same thing :lol:

Why does this not surprise me :thumbsup: /hugs nancy :)

anyway...my wife has always been the quiet one but i think its cause she always had to before we got our own place...as for me i will be somewhat loud if it were really good and if she is somewhat vocal even if she is quiet to other ppl.

I'm pretty quiet. (loud laugher though). I blame it on my first sexual experiences being in my boyfriends basement with the parents upstairs. Forced quietness.

Im really quiet, but I hate people with someone who is also quiet.

i'm a guy, very quiet, but she loves it when i make noise
and likewise, i love it when she makes noise and stuff. hot hot hot

I can be pretty loud and I like when a guy makes some noise (esp moans) because it means he's enjoying it.

I love to be loud and I love to hear it! Bring on the noise baby. :D

I tend to be too loud for a dorm situation. My SO has had to put his hand over my mouth a few times to tell me to be quiet. I've also been told by people who live around me that they can hear me. Given half a chance, I'm quite loud.

I have a quiet laugh but I'm generally quite vocal in bed. One weird situation happened to me with my boyfriend once where he put his hand over my mouth so we wouldn't be heard in the next room and I was almost sufocating and couldn't tell him...not funny

I like making noise and I get turned on by a few well put groans...and I don't usually care too much if we're being overheard

Haha my wife is like that lady, I don't think she can NOT make noise. We have to keep it down or risk waking the baby but when we're alone its awesome

Uh, we had the police called on us. We forgot to shut the windows this summer and one of the neighbors thought an assault was occurring. Me, I am relatively quiet, but my wife, a literal banshee

My wife is very vocal. I really enjoy that. I tend to be pretty quiet though. It's a turn on to hear her but she doesn't mind me not making noises (probably wouldn't hear me over her's anyhow)

I love it when the wife is loud. When she's really into it she can scream the roof off! Hoo Yeah! I can get raucous as well. Unfortunately her 12 year old daughter's bedroom is directly across from ours and my wife is petrified she might hear us and be "scarred for life". This means the week day sex has to be VERY quiet and subdued and she's paranoid the whole time. Not long ago my wife asked why our sex life had dropped off a bit and I had to be honest, the utterly silent careful sex really didn't hold a lot of interest for me. Sometimes its ok but as a whole I'd rather just watch tv or go to sleep and wait until the weekend when we can really let our hair down (the kid goes to her father's place).

My gf and I are both pretty quiet in bed, but when she's close to climax she starts to moan a bit more and that turns me on big time. Sometimes it's damn hard for me not to cum when I hear that she's close.

I'm fairly quiet. I'll get loud on occasion. My husband is a real talker. He'd like for me to be, but I always feel that I sound lame. You know, like those really bad movies.

My wife and I are relatively quiet! Although on some occassions she needs to pull a pillow over her face to avoid waking the baby!

I'm extremely quiet, generally. (and a quiet laugher) The only reason why I feel the pressure to make any sort of noises is because that's what they do in porno (or so I am told). My wife does make some sounds during sex, but it's never the screaming, howling 'f___k me! f___k me now!' kind of stuff. That could me attributed in part to the fact that she hasn't orgasmed in a long time. (shes a loud laugher)

:lol: Seems we have the same problem.

I used to be very loud, BK (before kids). Now, I do moan and stuff, but it's more subdued. My orgasms can be fairly loud, though. My husband is very quiet during sex, but he's a yeller when he cums!

my fiancee is well, quite vocal. Of course she also usually cums within a minute and usually has at least 3 before i'm done.

wonder if her being extra sensitive has anything to with it?

tim(mah)

My lady friend is loud when the roomates aren't home. I myself only make noise if it's going really well. I would have to say that sex noises of any sort are generally pretty fucking hot.

I just love to hear my wife loose control when she cums! makes me cum real fast!

I used to be silent, but realized how much the girl enjoyed it when I made noise. So it's not exactly natural, but I do some moaning and say her name when I'm really enjoying myself. She seems to get a kick out of it.

My girlfriend, on the other hand, can hardly shut up to save her life. Her roommate will be in the next room studying with a friend, and I'll be frantically kissing my gal to try to keep her down.

Gotta say, though, it's REALLY hot.

The girl I was dating last would moan loudly and occasionally scream. I loved it the next morning when one of my roommates (I have 2) ran into the other's room and said loudly "I can't sleep! They're too loud!". I on the other hand am pretty quiet, though I've started making more noise.

I'm basically quiet, although I can get a little louder on occasion. Shadefire can get loud, but usually tries not to so she doesn't disturb anyone. I wish she would quit that, though. Sorceress, on the other hand, is mostly quiet. She thinks she's being loud sometimes, but I don't think she realizes how quiet she really is.

I love loud sex noises. In fact, they're actually the reason that I like porn. I wish I could find some good 'audio porn' but there aren't too many places that make it.

I'm pretty quiet during sex. I only make sounds because my partners all have liked it.

I do, however, love gasp and moaning sounds from my ladies. Makes me feel like a stud.

Interesting how so many of the men say they're quiet, yet love their women loud..
If it's taking my breath away, I don't make a sound. If it's fast and furious, get out the earplugs.

I'm more of a moaner....my bf is the one that talks dirty. We both scream when we cum. Our neighbors upstairs always comment that they heard us the night before....lol. The four of us have a lil competition to see who can cum the loudest. Right now, I think they're winning. :hmm: I think I'm gonna have to go change that :thumbsup:

I've been with my girlfriend for almost four years. A few years ago, the little daughter heard us and thought I was "hurting" mommy and came running into the bedroom. So, mommy has tried to be quieter. Except when the kids aren't home. Lately, if the kids hear us, they bang on the wall and tell us to keep it down, like we do to them when they are noisy.

Actually, what kind of sounds should a guy make, anyways...
I mean, guys can't whimper, and if a guy moaned it might be weird too.. Do guys growl, or make some other weird noises?

Seriously - can you describe what a manly guy noise would be?

uh, it definitely turns me on.. that's a given!
it really depends on my environment if I'm loud or not. I tend to let loose a bit more when no one but us is around..

love it when she's verbal

ok loud laughter and quiet orgasm for me i grunt and convulse mostly, my gf however is a little loud though she claims to be able to control it i can tell when the sudden gasp is cause i hit the spot or cause she wanted me to know i hit the spot. and on a wierd tangent i acctually love kissing her through her screams its a more primal form of noise control and the energy off of it is intense, riding her mouth as she convulses into a monster orgasm, gets me hot thinkign about it. in other words one vote for love the noise and love controling the noise its all good. we both laugh REALLY loud and shes loud but not a screamer and im quiet

The more noise the better. Not necessarily volume, but just viscerality and carnal lust spilling out in random noises... oh I love it when ktspktsp is so turned on. He has gotten more expressive during sex over the time we've been together, and I can't get enough. I love his moans and groans and eye-rolls (those are quiet, but I love them too). :crazy: :icare:

And I think I'm fairly loud, but it's repetitive... I get into a rhythm. I find that I can't cum when I am being loud, though. I have to make myself be quiet and still, when it gets near the end point, to latch on to those sensations and allow myself to orgasm with ktspktsp at the helm (rather, down in the hatch?). :lol:

The best noises are the ones that we hear on old videos we made of ourselves... god it's hot watching/listening to those. :)

If a woman doesnt make a lot of noise I take it as an insult. Ive found that woman that are more likely to be hurt by rough sex are quieter. If the woman can take vigorous love making she is usually more likely to make a lot more noise because I can work a lot harder and deeper.

I love to hear a woman scream and feel her claw at my back and head. If that doesnt happen, its not good to me.

Turn me on when i heard the sound.

maybe somebody off

Noise, to me, indicates pleasure. I like it when my boyfriend can't contain himself and gets a lil rowdy...lets me know that i'm doing my job right?! ...and it usually sends me over the edge too. So yea...go team Noisemakers!!

I prefer it loud, it shows me the other person is feeling comfortable, confident and doesn't care about what he may sound like.

I myself am pretty loud--not in a screaming scary movie kinda loud..I lose all inhibitions when I'm feeling good, hey isn't that what it's all about anyway?..

The more a guy can let loose and just give in to the sensation and the passion, the more I enjoy pleasuring him.

I'm quiet while having sex, but I can have a loud and raucous laugh. My SO is quiet and tends to clutch and hold her breath when she gets excited, as well as closing her eyes and biting her lip. All of this turns me on big time.

Although the whispered, breathless words 'stop, I don't want to cum yet!' are always going to be the biggest turn on and ego fluffer ever. :crazy:

I'm pretty quiet, just a few groans and such now and then. I dunno... being too loud during sex is kind of a turn-off, it almost seems faked. But then again, dirty talk is always nice. =P

I don't think I'm too loud, just a lot of heavy breathing and the occasional moan/gasp or whimper. Sometimes I wish I was louder but at the same time sometimes I feel distracted when I'm loud.

My boyfriend is more vocal than I am, I think. Not so much with heavy breathing but with what I can only describe as loud, short, rough AHHs. I LOVE it when he makes noise, it turns me on like crazy and definitely lets me know what I'm doing is good.
This topic has taught me that I need to definitely try being louder.

I tend to be pretty quiet through the whole thing.

My girlfriend tends to be loud during the sex, but gets silent when she comes.

Wife and I are both fiarly quiet ... guess were gentle natured ..
but when she makes a noise.. good god it turns me on ..

but i say the same about when she smiles during sex.. or when you can feel that she's really getting into it ..

in all truth .. her getting off is a huge turn on for me .. whether it's because of me .. or the shower head :)

luckily...I haven't had a partner yet that's had an issue with my loudness...

Oh God yes.

I tend to be a bit noisy sometimes...I can be very, very quiet if necessary but I don't like to be. My boyfriend doesn't make a lot of noise but boy, his face shows everything. That's just as hot in my mind.

I'm not a loud laugher, more of a giggly sort of girl... when it comes to sex, it really depends if it's the slow, grinding kind of sex (heavy, heavy breathing and low moans), or battering ram sex (shrieks and swearing).

I love it when a guy breathes warm air heavily into my ear to show his excitement. Drives me totally bananas.

At the moment of climax, two things get me really hot - staring into my partner's eyes, and him kissing me really really deep... which often happens as he tries to keep me quiet!

So people love it to hear their partner's pleasure and climax! I do to!

I myself am a little of both. I am really loud sometimes (everything from moans to screams) and other times I can be really quiet, until I orgasm of course. My partner is kind of quiet but he's gotten alot more comfortable and thus more noisy. Usually for him it's just breathing/gasping and a few moans when it's really good.

It is a HUGE turn on for me to hear him. Plus, when I get really loud and he has to find ways to quiet me it usually is a turn on for me too.

Funny topic!

I have a "friend with benefits" who is not only loud as hell, she cusses like a sailor while in the throws of passion. I live in a highrise condo, and at 2am, her barrage of profanity echoes through the courtyard.

"OH FUCK, SHUT UP, SHHH FUCK ME, UUUUUUUUNNNNNNGGGGGGGG, FUUUCCCCK!"
. . .. for 20 minutes, 30 minutes, and hour. . . she keeps hollering as long as I keep going!

It embarrassed me the first couple of times, because everyone knew where it was coming from. But after I got used to it, I started feeling kinda proud. :D :lol:

Mmmmm I LOOOOVE noise! Love to make noise, love to hear xepherys make noise... love it love it love it!

Lately, however, we can't be loud because we're rooming with the baby while xeph's friend stays in Ethans room. Sad.

I don't make much noise myself, can do a bit at climax...
My partner does a lot and I have to say I love it!
Could you imagine being with someone that doesn't make any noises at all, can propbably make you wonder if they are having a good time or not...

I don't mind if it is quiet, but none at all is horrible. My current girl make no noise, one because I think she has multiple (more then normal) and does not want to show it, two she is insecure. But, she is working on it with breathing.

Now it is a fact that with the right breathing for a female, their orgasm pleasure will increase. With that it’s best to be quite if you understand that. The problem I have is that it gives me no motive, now if there is heavy breathing that I can pick up then I have a motive to be more active, to understand when to relax or judge what is better. Body language is good as well but some freeze up so physical contact is needed. I used to be silent as hell, till I understood that when I showed it my partners would change up a bit and it would feel even better now I make is faint just enough for them to go harder, and if it feels better I get louder. The trick is to make them want to please you more, and if they are silent then they must find other ways to achieve the same feeling otherwise they appear selfish to me.

Sex....IS selfish...we need to actively consider the mindset of a partner to make it otherwise.

My wife and I were always afraid of getting 'caught' when we were younger. Now neither of us make much more than a wimper.

One time I lost my voice. Nuff said.

OH GOD! OH GOD! OH GODDDD!

How could you not enjoy hearing your partner enjoy your pleasure. Don't hold back, give me noise!!!!!!!!

..my guy thinks im loud...so loud that somtimes he puts his hand over my mouth and i sound like im getting raped..lol..cuz i keep muffling...:lol: ....i believe that moans and moderate screaming is just one of those sounds that you cann't leave out while making love... hehe :p...

Meh... I'm quiet as a mouse. So is my girlfriend. Sometimes I have to poke her with a stick to see if she's even alive or not.

Examples.

We need examples people! C'mon!

Examples? Like recordings, lol?

I am fairly loud.....not a screamer, per se, but vocal. I like to talk dirty and to be talked dirty to. And I cannot hold back a parade of vocalizations....moans, gasps, whimpers, whines, oh fucks, oh my gods, oh yes, babys, etc. Just not at the top of my lungs.....been a mom for twenty years now...so you learn to moderate the volume as needed. Only a few times have I had sex in a situation where I HAD to be very quiet and it is a struggle....and a bummer. I'd much rather not have to think about it.

when we're having intercourse it's starts out as heaving breathing, but once my guy hits the spot and goes faster, i can't help but be really loud. sometimes i think i'm too loud, but he doesn't mind ;)

as for him.. i love it when he makes some type of noise.. it doesn't have to be extremely loud, but a part of me wants to know he's enjoying it too.

What!? And lights off too?! Noise makes your partner know how enjoyable they are to you I think.

I love to make noise! It justs makes the moment hotter!
My SO loves it when I queef. How sick/weird is that? lol That is something that turns him on. I don't mind... I think sexual pleasure noises are the hottest because you know something good is going down.

My girlfriend can be very loud, especially when she is cumming. It drives me wild! We recently discovered my ex roomates used to hear her sometimes lol. It didn't embaress us or anything, but I felt kind of bad about it for their sake. I don't really make any noises at all, besides heavy breathing or talking dirty I suppose. I just don't feel compelled to make loud sounds.

I love it when my girl is loud! It really gets me going, unfortuantely I have roomates. Actually tonight I was having some fun with my girl, going down on her, and she was just really into it this time. After one loud scream that I am sure you could hear throughout the apartment, I had to grab a pillow up for her. I'm sure if it werent for that my roomates might have been beating down the door to see if anything was wrong.

As for me, I used to be pretty quiet, btu with my current partner she coaxes some moans and various other exclaimations from me.

Nothing sexier or a bigger turn on than a lover whispering to you waht she is going to do to you and then doing it.

Noise is half the fun when having sex! I love to moan and I like hearing my partner do it because then I know they are having a good time.

I'm quite loud most of the time. I tend to cuss a lot too and/or get really religious when I'm really getting into it. On the same token, I'm generally kinda quite during morning sex....there's something different about having sex when you're not quite awake and so I tend to be a bit more gentle and therefore quiet. But the rest of the time, ya....watch out! lol

My wife is fairly quiet, but moans a bit when she cums. I think she's a bit inhibited sexually. I'm vocal depending on how it feels.