Women and Oral Sex
 

Can we safely say that ALL or Most women really enjoy oral sex? For those who don't, can you tell us why?

Truenorth!

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i think he pretty much summed it up, but it also goes on how good the guy is. if he's mechanical and dull then the woman will have to be the same.

if its not good then we dont like it. it gets kinda boring if you dont know what you're doing

a girl once told me that the best orgasm is the orgasm from receiving great oral. :thumbsup:

I don't know. My husband, who was raised in a very prudish home, is unwilling to try it. *sigh*

Rachel

I've heard this also. Suposedly, When there's something inside the vigina the muscles can't contract as much as they would with oral.

Strangely enough - and thi scomes from masturbation and vibrators - for me the orgasm is more intense when there is soming in me and the intense clitoral stimulation.

Hence my adoration for the Decadent Indulgence.

Rachel

I have never met a girl who didnt like oral.

However IF the girl is not interested in sex (relationship going down hill or self image issues) then she will generally avoid it because she is worried that it will lead to other things or feeling of guilt because she is getting some and not giving any back.

I actually new a girl once who did not like receiving oral sex. But she had a pretty good reason not to, apparently one of her previous boyfriends had made her let him do it when she didn't want him too. She has no problems with having sex, she just doesn't like being eaten out.

Oral is fanfuckingtastic! I do have much more fond memories of it from when I was a virgin than now. Same guy, so the difference has to be me.

I don't like to orgasm from oral, I like to save that for the actual sex part. Because, to second MrsRight, orgasms feel better when I have something inside of me. Something BIG! hehe...

[QUOTE=MrsRight41401]I don't know. My husband, who was raised in a very prudish home, is unwilling to try it. *sigh*

Not to be judgmental, but you married a guy that won't even try to go down on you? I would think that unwillingness to try new things, or to please you would be a big hurdle to overcome. Maybe I'm just placing my thoughts on the situation though. Different strokes...it's what makes the world go around right?

This post assumes the original poster meant, "Do women enjoy receiving oral sex?"

I've never known of a girl to not enjoy oral - once she's had it from someone who's decent at it.

The main thing I've heard is that some women are uncomfortable with their bodies to begin with, and putting your head between their legs is exposing their most private of parts to close scrutiny, so they don't like the idea at first. Once they get over that and break their "oral cherry" they typically enjoy it.

Another thing is, some women have probably had bad experiences with oral and therefore shun it - sorta like falling off the horse but NOT getting back on. Either way, patience is a virtue when dealing with women and oral, whether they love it or have some issues with it.

I love oral but I like to be penetrated at the same time. That's where toys and fingers come in. That is the most fantastic orgasm for me.

We're gettin' there. When I married the guy he was a virgin and I've gotten him to go PLENTY of places. I actually had to beg the guy to let me go down on him. How's that for different? Sheesh. Anyway - we're movin' up and we'll get there soon. I can be patient.

Rachel

Rachel, I find this quite unbelieveable. I assume you are clean and fresh when you offer yourself to him? I just can't think of any other reason why a man would deny this kind of pleasure to his wife. Personally, I get almost as much pleasure from giving my woman oral as she gets from receiving it. Well maybe not nearly as much but I know I damn well like doing it to her.

I think most women like receiving oral sex... but I'd say that only a few (relatively speaking) like to give men head.

I actually had to learn to like receiving oral, but I love giving! I think learning to get over my own bodyimage issues was the key to enjoyment for me. I orgasm much more intensely when something is in my vagina though.

I'd have to disagree. An orgasm achieved during anal sex is the most mindblowing of all orgasms. I guess she hasn't tried that yet..

And that's why you need to use a dildo during oral sex. I can only do that trick when I don't want any sexual favors in return, because it tends to leave my wife in a quivering, unresponsive puddle.

i love giving as well as receiving...stimulation of any kind during both is definitely wanted.

I do enjoy receiving oral sex as much as the next woman, it just doesn't happen nearly as often as I'd like. I just don't wait around for it, i'll find other things to enjoy instead :)

I hope they do, oral is my favorite personally :)

Inharmony, That is how my wife likes it too :) I think better than intercourse although she will not admit it. I had a g/f that was not into it. She was a prude with a weird maybe bad self image

I could love you.

I guess I'm one of those rare women who can say that it isn't my favorite thing. A lot of the reasons have been mentioned here - having guys insist on doing it when I didn't really want them to, having dull and boring times with it, and having guys with little or no technique. Or at least technique that didn't work for me, since I might need something a little different than most. It can be a weird and lonely feeling if you're not really into it, since he's down there, practically invisible, and sometimes you want to feel a little more connected than that. Another reason - and I don't want to sound like a prude here, because I'm not - is the messiness of it sometimes. I don't necessarily enjoy the feeling of being awash in someone's saliva...I guess we're back to technique here. A big thing with me is I generally don't have orgasms with anything other than manual stimulation, so oral sex doesn't get me off. Or at least it didn't until my current boyfriend, the first and only person to bring me to orgasm orally. Funny coincidence, I am liking it more than ever before. ;)

Yeah, we've done that before but it's still not as good to me. I think I have control issues... :lol:

I guess I should answer too. My wife loves it. In the past, she would stop me before her orgasm hit, so she could enjoy me being in her at that moment. Since she has opened up to toys, she's having even better orgasms. I've even been able to fist her while going down/using a vibe, and she had shakey knees for like 2 hours after. Now if I can just get her to go down on me... but that's another issue.

I like this very much...but I know if I think the guy is grossed out by me or it or whatever it isn't enjoyable. My hubby says he likes it but I'm not sure if he's being honest with me or not...it doesn't happen often enough for me anyways. He recently said it's best after a shower so I guess that confirms the gross out factor! :( I'm not dirty or anything...sometimes I get pretty wet though.

I remember when I was a teenager I went around with this chick who would never let me go down on her. She didn't even want me to look at her crotch.

She was also a terrible lay. Maybe there's a correlation. We did have sex in her parents' bed though. Heh.

Yeah, that's the best. The dildo combined with the oral is great if the guy can lick and thrust the dildo at the same time.

Personally, I LOVE giving and recieving oral sex. It's the best thing in the world!!

That explains a lot. Don't give up.

Yay for you! :thumbsup:

I love oral! Thankfully, my husband loves to give it almost more than I love to receive it! He often begs to eat me out. :crazy:

I've only had one partner, but she didn't seem to mind at all when I went down on her!

I loved it, and would love the opportunity to go down again!

I don't think that there is anything more satisfying to me than to have her totally at ease and so let go! That's better to me than having an orgasm!!

the only woman i've ever been with that didn't enjoy oral sex said it made her "uncomfortable" and wouldn't even let me try. all of my other girlfriends, however, have loved it.

Oral sex is better than intercourse, to me at least
;-)

Yeah, mine loves it except when I have a beard, but then she just has me come at her sideways. Doesn't give it as often as she gets it though, but she does have a decent excuse, she has a jaw injury and had to have surgery on it and claims it makes it hurt.

Guys, a little hint, FROZEN GRAPES.

I know it sounds bizarre, but put one in your mouth then tongue it into her use a finger push it just the right depth. Then tongue and suck it out, feed it to her and repeat as necessary.

As bizzare as it sounds trust me when I say women go fucking nuts for it.

There's other oral tricks I use, but by far I have found women LOVE the frozen grapes.

My wife grew up in a strict catholic home. I was her second lover. Took her awhile to become comfortable with oral sex. Now, she loves it. Although, every so often, she get's a little embarrassed/shy about spreading. Damn catholic guilt :o

Had one girlfriend that had the most amazing orgasm while I was giving her oral the first time (first or second time we were together). Found out later that night, it was her FIRST orgasm. Ever. After that, she wanted my face between her legs every chance she got. The best was that she loved to give head, too. She couldn't get enuf!!

Hey, you find the clit and your on your way. My girlfriend says she LOVES it! And since its so great she gives me oral on a regular basis.

So tip to all guys... get good at oral sex and you shall recieve some great head!

I certainly love it but its not a necessity all the time....some guys are WAY better than others at it.

I guess I'm one of the wierd guys. I like to give but I don't like receiving.

I don't like kissing after a woman has been downstairs. I dunno it's all in my head but I just get creeped out by that for some reason.

I gotta say: on some level, I really lucked out! my girlfriend has said to me, and I quote

" I think the penis is the best toy ever invented, and I love giving head. "

So, needless to say, I really like this girl. Actually, I just wrote a huge post about her... She's never climaxed in her life from anything but the touch of her own hand... She can't come during sex, and the only thing that gets her off is masturbating (and even that's not a sure thing)...

...so, way up on this post, I was reading that women often have self-image problems that translate into an inability to relax and let go during sex/foreplay. I really think that might be the problem my girlfriend is suffering.

What I really want to know is: how does one accelerate the healing process for someone with pre-damaged self-esteem?

I think she's a beautiful girl who's one of the most incredible people I've ever met. not to mention, one of the cooooooolest chicks i've ever dated.
{she looks good in tight jeans, drives a mustang, drinks beer, makes more money than I do, and she likes me} there's way more to her than that, but those are the fun things to mention.

I guess I'm wierd, too. I enjoy the feeling that I am pleasing the woman much more than I enjoy sex. The better she feels, that more I love it. I don't mind kissing after anything, either (unless it's after eating beets, eww).

I'm not to hot about receiving or giving..I went out with a strict catholic for seven years who felt that oral sex and fingering were the only pre-marital acts he could do without going to hell or something...so when you have so many years of nothing but those things, I guess it's like hearing a song repeat itself too many times...it just wore on me and now I don't like giving.

I feel kind of bad with my new guy (of 13 months now) because he wishes I was more into it, I dunno...maybe I still have issues to get over with the ex. :confused:

I think you'd be surprised.

I really enjoy it.. and well, my SO is very happy about that. I'm just glad that he's always eager to give as well. :D

I'm having an affair with someone who absolutly loves giving head. I've never met anyone like her. Sometimes she will keep me inside of her until I climaxed three times. Does anyone think this is a put on, or does she really like it that much?

My wife doesn't like it as well because she feels too far away from me and not as intimate.

Jesus, have you proposed yet? I'd be real surprised if she doesn't truly enjoy it... Question is, what does she get in return? If she doesn't get anything in return, there's a slight possibility that she's simply trying to please you. If she requires penetration afterwards, or any kind of return favor she obviously enjoys it very much.

I just wish more of the girls I were meeting weren't so self concious and would be more open to receiving. I'm beginning to feel age is a big factor and in the late 20s most women finally become comfortable with who they are and what they want... Unfortunately, I'm still attracted to the younger, active girls :p

My wife agrees.

You just have to be careful and in the mood. :-)


Mr Mephisto

I diagree...at least in my case...I love giving head. I think I'd rather do that than receive. I just like pleasing my partner and getting him off.