for the guys: Do you like to watch your girl masturbate?
 

And if you do - to what extent? Demure stroking and a little titilating fingering, or real fast and furious if thats how it is?

My wife recently told me that she want's a toy, one of those home kits (if they really exist) that can make a mold of my dick for when I'm gone at work :eek: That came out of nowhere. Whether she'll actually use the thing when she gets it is another story.

For sure! I don't really care how she goes about it, it's always a turn on.

http://www.makeyourowndildo.com/kits.php

This could be a fascinating money maker... :D

I would love to see my wife do that. But, she won't and said she never has (and I don't believe that). I think it's totally cool for a woman or a man to be in touch with themselves, but also to share that with their partner. She won't but oh well.

Toys = YES, fingers = no thanks.

of course, i love to see her touch herself. she shows me how she likes it and it helps me out for future use. it's such a turn-on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111

How could you not?

No Brainer... YESYESYES!!! It shows that the woman in completely comfortable with herself and you, and that confidence is the turn on for me.

my wife never touched herself til i finally got her to do it while i was...only time she will do it...and i believe it hehe...hell ya its a turn on and vis versa

oh boy, thanks for the link! I know what Dave and I are going to do before he leaves for Germany next month hehehe

I'll answer for him since he's not here...yes he loves for me to masturbate for him...it REALLY gets him going

my ex wouldn't show me... :( but theoretically, I think it's one of the most erotic things that I could ever experience... can't want 'til it happens ;)

i like to pretty much watch girls do anything nekkid

Yes, I'd love to watch a girl "jill off" in front of me. I think it would be incredibly erotic, and would have a hard time keeping it to just that. :D

Yeah, absolutely. My wife won't, but maybe I'll convince her at some point. :-)

No doubt, a great turn on. My wife will let me watch her with toys and fingers and will also use both while I'm giving her head.

I like to let her use her fingers to stimulate her clitoris when I'm eating her out. To me it is a major turn on to watch her pleasure herself.

As to liking it in general, I thought the question was a joke. I don't know if I'd be convinced regarding the mental health of someone who said that they didn't enjoy watching their female SO masturbate ;)

As for how, I guess I can see variation in that response. Personally, I like it all :)

yeh i do. I asked her to do it for me and shes never done it for any of her previous partners. its definitely a turn on.

i know she is comfortable with me and i like the intimacy of it :)

Well, if I had a girl, for sure I'd like it.

Yeah, what he said.

Like many have already said, I love it when she shares that part of her with me, plus it gives me pointers in what she likes and such.

Jason

couldn't have said it better myself :)

I like it, don't care what the girl is doing as long as she turned on

I would but she doesn't do it. Not even by herself.

Yes, I love to see my girlfriend play with herself... it's great!
We often do it in front of eachother, and then right before (or while) she cums, I cum on her - that usually multiplies the orgasm for her...

I really love to watch my girlfriend masturbate... but she rarely does this activity in front of me though so I never get a good chance to observe what technique she uses to get herself off.

Ok! this is all very positive...some of you think this is so obvious:a real no-brainer.
But #6 says he doesnt want to see fingers being used - would be interested to know why...
I'm asking this question because in my own experience there are men out there who seem maybe intimidated by getting too up close and personal with a womans sexuality when it is not within their control ..
Some men seem really easy with including themselves in the proccess, really excited and comfortable, and others not so...
I would love to get some insight into how to make a man feel included and comfortable with this, if they arent naturally so. Mutual masturbation is hot, but sometimes its nice to just give a show and know its turning someone on.

I would love her to touch herself when we are together, but she won't.

i loved it when my ex would do her thing for me. now my current girl im still working on :)

Oh hell yeah. Sometimes she does it just for me to see, and she'll do it if I ask to watch her do it most times. It gets me incredibly horny. I don't even care if I actually get to touch her while she's doing it. The fact that I'm allowed to observe such a personally intimate act is super-hot.

I'd love to, but she claims she doesn't masturbate.

It's not the sexiest thing when my girlfriend does it. The whole thing is kind of sloppy.

It has nothing to do with how she does it, and everything to do with her getting off. To be honest, I am looking more at her face and the way she's moving then focusing between her legs.

-al

It's been a while, but I too enjoy the face more. The rest is alright, but more action takes place on the face. :)

Abso-smurfin-lutely! I love to see my wife masturbate. It's usually just a form of foreplay for us, not a means to an end, so to speak. Not with toys though. Don't know why, but toys just aren't a turn on for me.

My wife have a bag full of toys, and she use it...a lot.....and i watch. (I have a "fan cam")....I´m a pervert....
A man who does NOT love to see a girl masturbate must be gay......;)

definitely....as often as I can

I love it when my girl gets herself off while I watch. The only thing better is when I get her off.

Most of the time if she's goin' at it by herself I'm also goin' at it... Mutal Masturbation. It's even more badass when you can get off at the same time. I come on her chest as she's thrashing about the bed.

Wish my girl would do this. Don't know what her problem is. She says she's fine with it, but when I suggest it she always says no. I don't get it.

I love to watch, and she loves to do it. Works out pretty good.

Both fingers and toys are used regularly.

i would have to agree with u on this :lol:

if there are any females reading this....could ya give us some insite into why some women dont like to masturbate in front of another or even just by themselves? tho there prolly arent too many females like that here :lol:

Oh HELL YEAH!!!!! awesome turn on!! Toys are great, you just gotta be really comfortable with each other, it really can open some cool doors to explore with each other. Sometimes I just watch, eventually join in, its cool

Oh HELL YEAH!!!!! awesome turn on!! Toys are great, you just gotta be really comfortable with each other, it really can open some cool doors to explore with each other. Sometimes I just watch, eventually join in, its cool. I wish people would lighten up a little with the toy thing, kind of taboo

according to my wife, anything relating to masterbation is strictly prohibited in my house. I think I married the one person who truly never did it.

Yes! Yes! Yes! I absolutely LOVE watching her get herself off. The most exciting thing in the world to me. Sometimes we lay next to each other and masturbate. Very nice.

will have to go with the rest of the pack and say yep! nothin sexier than a woman pleasuring herself in my opinion...

My lady was a bit hesitant about this. After talking with her and explaining how much of a turn on it is for me, she was able to relax and go at it.

HOTTEST THING EVER.

I love the fact that's she's comfortable enough with me to do this. I'm hoping she's as open minded about toys. I'll let you know.

No! We hate it -- absolutely no turn on with a female having sex with
herself, and convulsing, and making all those nice groaning noises, and
really enjoying herself -- only if we're on freakin crack!

My god, if I ever saw a woman in real life having an intense masturbating
sequence, I'll sploosh my pants before I could get them off.

Paradise Lost :lol: :icare: Ok - you think my question absurd... thats great.
Because you are all really into sex,and open, I guess thats why you're here... maybe I should have phrased it quite differently.Do you guys have any reservations at all, or anxieties,or feelings of exclusion, or inadequacy... when you watch your girl make herself come?

I definitely enjoy watching my girl masturbate. I also highly recommend watching each other. Kind of like being so close to heaven that you can touch it, but you are held back.

Remember: sometimes having a thing is not as wonderful a thing as wanting a thing.


I definitely recommend watching each other - it will also help you understand what the other person likes, too.

HELL YES!!!

Its one of my favourite things! And sadly something she does not like to do :(, but she does it from time to time for me. :D

I can't imagine anything hotter than a woman touching herself for me.

You're kidding right? We have to ask this question? Okay...I'll bite.

ABSO-FUCKING-LOOOOTELY!!! :D

In my realm of expereince women who masturbate are better lovers. They are better in tune with what gives them pleasure and better able to guide you in that endeavor. ;)

I love watching and participating with a woman who is willing to share this experience....wooo hoooooo!!!

In the past I would have said yes. Now, while I would not really mind it, I would rather be in on the action.

I've not had the pleasure of sitting back and watching but her doing it while I am fingering her or going down on her is quite nice. I even offer to lick her fingers for her if she need me to ;)

:) :)

So cool.

damned right I like it. If it involves sex, I like it... If it involves my wife... I like it... If it involves both.... WOOT WOOT

I love to watch my wife "stir the trough". Most of the time she gets embarrassed and it takes a lot of coaxing. Mutual masturbation usually takes less coaxing, but sometimes I like to sit back and watch because she has such a nice snatch. :cool:

My hubby doesn't.. not becuase he doesn't like my pussy but he's SUCH a breast man.

this can get annoying I confess.

Rachel

I'd like to but it just hasnt happened yet...
Mostly because I cant keep my hands off of my girlfriend...

Absolutly not, watching a woman cum is one of the greatest things in the world and probably more than half the reason to have sex =) Besides a good female masturbation session just warms her up and gets me ready, whereas my sessions can poop me out for a while =)