An oral sex question: "Where does it all go?"
 

Girls - If you give head, what do you do when the guy finishes? Also, given that we don't always fulfill our own preferences in order to fulfill the fantasies of our SO's, let us know which one you actually prefer.
a) Make him finish in a condom, on a towel or in the bathroom.
b) Make him finish on your body.
c) Let him ejaculate on your face.
d) Let him ejaculate in your mouth, but no swallowing.
e) Swallow.

Guys - If you have received head, how many instances of a, b, c, d, or e have you experienced? Tally it up. For example: I've been with two women. My first occasionally let me ejaculate on her face or in her mouth, but she would never swallow. Most of the time she would make me finish on her body. The second girl would make me finish in a condom. So, I would say "a) 1, b) 1, c) 1, d) 1, e) 0." Also let us know which you would actually prefer.

My preference would be anywhere from "b" to "e", with me not in any case feeling disappointed if it is one or the other. "a" just seems too impersonal and makes it feel like I am the only one participating in the sex act for some reason.

F: Let me spew in midair and clean up the mess after.
That's most gfs for me.

my currrent gf always swallows. She thinks not swallowing it is kinda dumb since you already put it in your mouth, and it saves a big mess. I couldn't agree more. :D


interesting enough she says it only tastes good if it doesn't hit open air....she won't lick up cum or anything. It has to be direct deposit. ;)

Most of the girls i have known do not like swallowing...but are ok with it in their mouths. I'd be dissapointed in a tho.

E for me!! I kinda agree with holo's g/f thought...it DOES taste different if air hits it. It tastes MUCH better warm...but, in my case I would never waste it and lick it up IF it gets somewhere besides my mouth...I even wait 30 seconds or so after we are done and resuck any that has leaked out from him

Wow. Just wow.
In a very very VERY good way; wow.

I've never gotten to that point with any girl I've been with. Every girl aways has stopped way way short.

The taste of cum makes her gag and as I've been told far too many times "It's the most sour substance ever" - I'm not willing to alter my diet so normally it just ends up all over her.

I'd much rather prefer E though.

Ditto Holo's gf and Shani. It's already in my mouth and I'm already tasting it, so whats the point in spitting?

e) Every single last drop of "e"

As a guy I've done all of them from a to e. My preference is for d or e since cumming in her mouth is the best for me just like it's best to cum inside her during sex. I've learnt to ask women in advance about what they prefer, since you'll get more head if they enjoy it.

How many times for each? Too many to count if you've been in a few relationships. The only one not that common is cumming on her face or body. Just too damn messy to do on a regular basis. Using a condom or going into the bathroom hasn't happened either; having a tissue handy certainly has since one girlfriend didn't like the taste at all but enjoyed giving head otherwise.

Absolutely. Excellent for the skin and full of protein. Yummy too. :thumbsup:

Depends on my mood really. Sometimes I like it on me, sometimes I like to swallow, and sometimes I would prefer I didn't come in contact with it at all.

ive had b,c,some d and once e done to me.

wont go into it due to SO wrath lol

drink pineapple juice.. makes it sweet im told :thumbsup:

My current fuck buddy swallows. I had a girlfriend before her who would let it end up all over me. At that point, I would almost rather not have a BJ. I can understand not wanting to swallow it, but it totally ruins the mood for me if I am covered in cum after.

usually e, sometimes b with my first SO. second SO wanted A. my preference is E. makes things so much easier (and less messY!)

hmmmm maybe thats why my skin hasnt been so great lately. so it really is good for the skin? interesting...

Bingo. Not swallowing is quite pointless. Sometimes you (or your s.o. is) in the mood to cum on her body or something, but if it's going in the mouth then not swallowing is just beyond logic.

Well I prefer if she swallos but let me watch u play with my hot load in your mouth. I have given facials or blasted across her body too. I've been told my load is thick like hot yogurt and its a bit salty.

Yeah, my girlfriend gives me a handjob for the last 10 seconds of it so it flies everywhere. Too much mess.

My first wife didn't like giving blowjobs so when I got one from her I shot in a towel or napkin :( My current gf loves giving bj's and always swallows. She sucks well after I have cum so she can get every last drop. That feeling is so amazing!!!

Of course I swallow. If you don't like the taste, wouldn't you not want it pass over your taste buds again as you are in the process of spitting it out? I don't get it. Besides, to me, spitting it out seems insulting and I didn't go to bed with someone to insult them or make them feel like part of their body is distasteful. I only find the taste unpleasant on very rare occasions. :)

I agree Squishor, I have ALWAYS felt that its very disrespectful to a man to NOT swallow...I mean come on.....what if they told us they couldnt do oral on us because it was "icky, nasty, disgusting, etc"

Why wouldn't you swallow???

Mmmmhmmm. I agree about the "disrespectful" comment two others made too. Why take it out at the best part for them?? :icare:

my wife always finishes with a handjob into a napkin or tissue while grabbing my sack. I prefer this way over in the mouth. Just my prefrence.

I've done all of them but D. I prefer C or E.

She says that not swallowing is silly.

It depends on the situation.


Most of the time I like to come on her.

Sorry to deviate a bit....but I have a question.

I prefer E - my wife does not. Now the last time she tried (2nd out of 2 times in our lives together) she gagged on it - more because, she says, of the force of it coming out. Shes says she could deal with the taste but it hitting the back of her throat makes her gag reflex go off.

Any advice on how to avoid this?

with me and my wife, its all of the above. just depends on the mood. as long as it doesnt go in her hair. she is against that, but everything else is fair game.

as long as there is a happy ending, it matters not to me where it ends up.

I've only received one such instance of actually finishing, and she gave me an E).

I like it if she swallows, and she does 90% of time. When she does not I come on her somewhere.

i prefer swallowing but its no big deal to me, as long as I can come on her I am happy.

I really don't get why people always have to make such a big deal about it.

I shall have to try that, the challenge is trying to persuade her to swallow again at some point, the only place she likes me cumming is in her pussy. I usually cum on her body after a bj but the other day she let me cum on her face and she was complaining because some went up her nose. :)

I've only had one girlfriend who'll give bjs. At first, it was A, but after a few times, she felt ready for e. I'm pretty sure she doesn't like the taste or consistency, but hey, she don't complain and neither do I.

I used to never swallow, or even let him cum in my mouth, but then we decided to try it and I haven't gone back ever since. It's always swallow now! I've even learned to kinda enjoy it, on occasion.

Actually, there isn't that much protein in cum at all. That was probably said by a guy to make his woman swallow the payload.

No- wait a second, I was um..mistaken. There is PLENTY of healthy protein in every creamy shot! Drink it all and drink it each and every time! Mmm....remember gals- CUM is YUM!!

just because Im geeky and nerdy...I thought I'd post this fact just so that every one was informed hahahaha

The protein content is about equivalent to that contained in the egg white of a large egg. Its fructose gives it about 12-15 calories per ejaculation

All of my GF's have always done e). I have had a couple of the other ones, but e has been the most common by a ratio of probably 100:1. I'm with most of you in that spitting doesn't seem to make much sense. Not that I would be complaining mind you...

For my wife its b, c, or d, and she lets me decide where it goes. She doesn't seem to prefer any option, she told me once that as long as I enjoy it she doesn't care, just don't get it in the hair. She won't swallow though. Which reminds about the pineapple juice thing, I need to try it and see if I can change her mind...

Mostly b's - a few d's and one e - Comming inside of her is my favourite, but I have to use any other orifice. She doesn't hate the taste - but the warm feeling of me filling her mouth results in me having a nice display of her previous meal(s) when she "comes" all over me in return :)

My girlfriend swallows. :)

My girlfriend used to swallow for a while but then she stopped doing it, now I usually come on her chest, she won't let me come on her face.

swallow. i haven't heard of any other way :P

I usually finish on a towel. And when I'm about to finish I have to stroke myself to that point. She doesn't do it for me.
And to top it off, she swallowed with every other guy (4 of them) before me, but won't swallow mine and she has been with me the longest by about 2 1/2 years. God damn that pisses me off....but what can ya do....

damn dirty double post!

I really don't care where it goes. I'm lucky to have a wife that either doesn't mind it much or doesn't complain. Putting on a condom seems like too much of a break in the action though and would partially ruin the moment. The most important thing is constant stimulation around the time of finishing either by continuing in the mouth or using your hands or her hands.

I don't get how spitting would be disrespectful. I also think it's hotter to watch it drip out of her mouth than for her to swallow. I also have no problem with it getting on my belly (it does clean up). Facials are lots of fun and probably the most visually appealing.

I'm honestly not that concerned with where it goes. I'm usually not thinking "Man, I wish that she would have blah blah blah...". I'm usually thinking "Man, I could use a sammich".

/romantic

Mrs. Dano sucks it all down. Always has, I'm guessing always will. I was the first guy she ever sucked off. She didn't pull it out and just sucked me off the first time. She says she loves it. She'll also wear it on her face or tits. She loves cum.

My previous girlfriend didn't like it at all. Most of the time it was hanky central.

depends on the mood for both parties. Usually I like them to swallow, but sometimes, watching it squirt across their breasts, stomach and/or face is a huge turnon.

Personally I prefer when the girl swallows, but I've dealt with cumming on the girl and in the girl's mouth without her swallowing. Honestly it feels the best when the girl swallows and keeps giving a little stimulation afterward, though there is a certain level of visual appeal to cumming on her breasts or face (which I'd like to try at some point). So far I've had one girl who almost always swallowed and my current one started out with only letting me cum on her and has graduated up in her mouth but not swallowing and is slowly starting to swallow.

Since when is letting it run out of your mouth after he cums inside of your mouth spitting?? My man LIKES that.

I really don't get why it is such an issue to men if women swallow it or not. I mean damn, she sucked on your cock to get you there, is that not enough?

You men confuse me. I bet all of you get a lot more oral then you give.

The only thing that makes a difference sensation wise is between cumming in her mouth (and keeping the stimulation constant) versus her stopping it so you don't orgasm in her mouth (such as finishing you with a handjob). The mouth feels insanley better. However, I couldn't care less about what she decides to do with it afterward.

I was only aware of 'f' until your q & a.
My GF INSISTS on 'f' so ... who am I to keep her from what SHE wants !
I think it may be a spiritual sign, that when it's aligned - it's easy to be 'f'.
I've had about 6 other GF's and 2 of the 6 were great on 'f'. 4 of 6 or 2/3
would of probably gone into a seizure, but like I said, the spiritual connection was
like, 'not there'. Say, maybe it's like Cinderella and her magic slipper. You just
carry your johnson around the kingdom and find a gal who likes, loves, HAS SO
swallow - that tells' you she's connection worthy. Think about it !

its always been a towel clean up for me

She prefers to swallow. Every once in a while I cum on her face or chest. It really depends on the mood. I think it's easier to stay hard and go immediately to a 2nd round if I cum outside of her orifices. For some reason sex just doesn't feel complete until I've cum somewhere warm.

I'm up for whatever he wants. I like him to tell me what would turn him on the most at that particular point. Usually a swallow but i'm up for anything he wants.

My first was an F, that is all over the floor, but my current swallows every time and I wouldn't have it any other way.

Actually I tend to give significantly more than I get most of the time (well, atleast by number of orgasms). As far as why it's an issue the big deal is generally if the girl either pulls back as soon as you start cumming or won't let you cum in her mouth period. Think of it as having a guy go down on you to the point where you've just started to cum and then pulling away and not touching you any more; it's a huge difference in how powerful it is. Besides, as a guy, when you're going down on a girl you get alot of her in your mouth and swallow alot, is reciprocation such a big deal?

My gf used to suck every once in a while, but to no avail.... I've actually never cum from oral from any of the women I've had sex with. I think I would prefer an external shot though, it's a big turn on to see the 'fruits of your labors'.

I've heard (and benefitted from) the same opinion. :thumbsup: Sadly, only once. She also said that swallowing was a better pick-me-up and mood-lifter (for her) than any supplement on the market. :crazy: :crazy: :crazy:

All my girls have always swallowed.

Seriously, sex is messy enough.
I like a clean BJ.

Recently, I have been wanted to shoot in a girls mouth, or on her face. In the mouth I think, I'd like to see it a few times.

I think a swallowing BJ is HOT for some reason, better than any other. I also LOVE no mess, and the hottest kisses are after a girl has just swallowed your load.

I had a girl that would do the 30-second count cleanup.
You women are very special people, I miss you. :(

Part of what's sexy and great about giving head is when my boyfriend orgasms, so why would I stop and make him finish in a towel? I personally love the taste of his cum, so it's never been a problem. Like some of the women who posted, I simply wouldn't give up the chance to taste him. Not to mention I enjoy feeling him in my mouth. The entire act turns me on completely, and sometimes I also really like it when he comes on me. So, in short, I guess I love everything about giving head, and would be open to any of the options listed besides the first.

E and its pineapple juice and/or seaweed salads

a) 3 b) 3 c) 0 d) total bj's minus 20...so, um...150? *shrug* Wasn't really keeping track e) 4 f) 10

Honestly, the difference between d and e is so insignificant that it really doesn't bother me. Now, the difference between abf and de is HUGE...I'd almost rather not have an abf BJ (if you're reading this, honey, I said *ALMOST*)...there are much better things we could be doing. However, if she doesn't want to swallow, but is willing to discretely spit it out somewhere after I'm done, I am NOT going to complain :icare:

I've never had much luck with getting blowjobs.

My first time, I came in the girl's mouth and she let it dribble back out, but after that, I've not had any luck. I've had one woman choke pretty badly, so I'm a little fearful.

My most recent partner apparently had a jaw condition (TMJ) that wouldn't let her open her mouth wide enough or for long enough to do my business. That sucked...or didn't.


Does anyone have any experience (giving or receiving) with the addition of pineapple juice to fix the taste? How long does something like that take? Days? Weeks?

My girlfriend has never given me a blowjob. ever. We have sex, i have eaten her out, and she has given me hadjobs, but she thinks its sick to give blowjobs. She'd say "You pee with that" So we had sex in a shower a couple times and i ate her out both times, and both times she still wouldn't do it. I didn't think it would bother me at first, but now i really miss that. I mean eating out a girl is just as dirty, if not dirtier than sucking dick wouldn't u say? I would never force it on her, i just really miss it. She says that she might do it one day, but i am yet to see that day, if it ever comes.

My preference however, well i dun have one, its wat ever she wants to do.

With my girlfriend, it's only spitting or snowballing. I'd prefer if she'd swallow so we don't have to get out of bed or anything, but I'm just glad she's finished me off. :)

It took a while for my girlfriend to get around to me cumming in her mouth. It used to be her giving me oral sex until I got to the point of climaxing, where she would stop and I would cum on a towel or something. Now she doesn't mind me cumming in her mouth, but she spits and doesn't swallow. It really doesn't matter to me what she does, whatever she's comfortable with.

Usually B or D. The taste and the way it feels in my mouth makes me gag, so i cant swallow (or rather, i wont because I'd rather not vomit). I dont have a problem with him goin in the condom, on a towel, on my body (sometimes it turns me on) or in my mouth--in fact, i like the feeling of him cumming in my mouth. He doesn't care that I dont like to swallow. .and there's no pressure :thumbsup: God i love him.

In the beginning my wife and I only did A I was too embarrassed to do it in front of her i think...now..it's e all the way for her. Sometimes though, the feeling is way too intense when I cum in her mouth. I get way too sensitive, so I like cumming on her body or just letting it fly. That is what god intended papertowels for..lol.. Never did it on her face though.

I do D because for some reason the cum makes my throat sore if I swallow it. It makes my mouth sore, too, but I figure some sacrifices have to be made. My man says he doesn't mind my not swallowing it (although he could just be being nice).

dont touch anything made from tomatoes for a day or so before and it will taste way better so im told

If my girlfriend swallowed I'd be a very happy man.

I think the pineapple thing really does work. Primal eats a lot of them and the past few times I've given him a BJ I've commented that it actually tasted pretty good.

For women who don't like the taste- just get some Good Head or other flavored crap to put on it first and then you won't ever taste the cum. I haven't tried my Good Head yet, I just bought it, but it's supposed to slightly numb the back of your throat (you put it in your mouth, not on him) so you can do more deep throat stuff without gagging. Plus it tastes good.

I've always swallowed, never really considered doing anything else with it. I have always been into them and like to do it before we have sex so I can fantasize about what I just did while we're fucking. Even before I was comfortable letting him go down on me, I would go down on him.

I like it all over me! I am really into having my BF do his thing all over my face and lips....It really turns me on..

I hope everyone here does not think I am dirty or something for my picture, but my BF and I took that pic and it was his idea to post it...

have had everything except giving a facial. i would love to try that

tht's such a great attitude - :thumbsup:

It looks like Kobe Bryant like to finish on a woman's face too.....Check this out:

http://thesmokinggun.com/archive/0924041kobea18.html

My wife has only offered to swallow once, and even then I felt too guilty to actually cum in her mouth. But in the past, she's always stopped short. But lately she's been getting really freaky deaky and she likes to suck me off whenever she gets the chance. So maybe she'll actually indulge me now! :thumbsup:

I've Always had Orally active GF's and I enjoy it, Enjoy it alot, But of the Two times I have ever Cum from it, it has been swollowed.

Pineapple juice does work, or so my wife says...and eating celery makes it sweet too, for some reason....

What a luck guy

What a lucky guy

Thats kind of a sticky situation. (no pun intended) I mean at what point do you find out what she likes to do? Thats not normal dinner conversation, obtw when you give head where do like to take it? i mean come on i know i wouldnt be able to ask that witha straight face. For me i have always let the girls decide. I mean if shes gonna swallow, your gonna know that when you start giving her whatever verbal cues that your ready and she keeps going thats a great sign, both ive had others that hated the taste and would ask right before and then let me finsh on them, all depends on the girl. But hey anyway you look at it your still getting head and thats never a bad deal! :thumbsup:

I'm having a relation with a woman who gives me a blowjob 5 times a week (for the past 2 years) and she swallows it every time.

The day she stops swallowing it I know it's over.

My wife has always swallowed. I once asked her if she minded, and suggested we could do something different if it wasn't her preferred option, and she appeared surprised. She hadn't even though of any other options bless her heart hahahaha.

My girlfriends only let me do E once, very dissapointed since I end up swallowing her stuff whenever I am down there... lol. We've only finished each other with our mouths once each, is that uncommon?

iv heard that from somewhere too. that cum actually can bring a chicks mood up when they feel down. its true i tell ya.

MY girlfriend swallows when needed(don't want to make a mess because you're not in an area where you can get tissues and wipe it all up)...she's let me cum on her face before, and on her body(i think she prefers the body since the day it got in her eye...sorry baby)..
yup yup. There have been times where she licks it off my body, but i kind of feel bad.
I love you baby :D

HAHA...that is too funny man :lol: ...we're all hoping she never stops swallowing.

I never used to swallow, but I do now. And actually... I like it.

If letter E is your answer, here's what's going down the tubes according to one web site:
A tablespoon of semen contains approximately six calories. Semen does contain protein, but it also contains all kinds of chemicals and minerals, including water, sugar, calcium, chlorine, magnesium, nitrogen, vitamin B12, and zinc. But it does not contain enough of any of these things to be considered "nutritious."
High levels of fructose (fruit sugar!) is normal in the semen and this sugar comes almost entirely from the seminal vesicles.
Yummy stuff!
Ridge

whats oral sex?

My wife swallows... but sometimes she pulls it out and has me shoot on her face...

Had the same thing happen... it's no fun at all. Would've just as soon not had it at all :(

i've learned to alway warn before it happens. If you let them know whats going on, they seem more receptive to e than we you just let it fire without any notice.

I love when Loverboy cums in my ass, mouth or all over me. I would like to swallow as well but unfortunately I feel sick for hours afterwards if I do. Apparently I'm intolerant of his sperm. It's annoying as hell :|

I don't think I could ever be with someone who didn't like option E (unless, of course, it actually phsically bothered them like mentioned above)

That's just not fun at all!

"It tastes nasty." Yeah, okay. And you want us to lick what? :rolleyes:

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