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matt_mll · 08-19-2004, 05:55 PM

Recently, I've found myself attracted to women that are somewhat older than me. It's been a trend over the last couple years. I'm finding women in their mid thirties to be so much more appealing than women my own age, which is 24. I think it's because I’ve developed good friendships with several women of that age, through work and social circles. I have yet to date anyone much older me though; although I want to.

Does anyone have any similar thoughts or experiences? What was it like? Did problems develop due to the age difference? Any advice?

pinkie · 08-19-2004, 06:01 PM

My husband is seven years younger and we're really happy. Do what you want to. Have fun.

micah67 · 08-19-2004, 06:03 PM

My wife is seven years older than me and we're happy (no, it's not pinkie). The difference was never an issue and the only time it's mentioned is when her friends give her high-fives...

Holo · 08-19-2004, 06:17 PM

Try these threads.

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...ht=older+women

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...ht=older+women

doncalypso · 08-19-2004, 08:00 PM

If I were single right now I'd definitely try to go for an older woman (i.e. late-20s to mid-30s) because older women often know what they want and are more in touch with their sexuality. The drawback with older women though may be that the biological clock is ticking so they might be looking for someone to settle down with and start having kids.

davidc209 · 08-19-2004, 08:55 PM

I turned 28 this summer. Last weekend I hooked up with a girl at a huge kegger party at a friend's house. I swear I thought she was about 32 to 34. At least four friends at the party also guessed her age to be around 34. After fucking around 12 times in a 48 hour period she tells me she has to confess her age to me... FORTY-FOUR.

Too old for a long term relationship, but I swear to whatever god you believe in, this has been the best sex EVER. I mean, truly, incredible, mind blowing sex. Holy shit it's amazing!

Rdr4evr · 08-19-2004, 09:06 PM

My G/f of four years is 6 years older than me and I much rather be with her than someone my own age. She is 28 and I am 22, today is her bday actually.

rufgti · 08-20-2004, 09:18 AM

When I was 21, I dated a 36 y/o woman. All I can say is that it was one of the best experiences of my life.

Mac1 · 08-21-2004, 06:08 AM

my current love is 9 years older than me. she is at that age where she acts like an 18 year old guy. sex, sex, sex, and more sex.

god I love older women.

TM875 · 08-21-2004, 06:39 AM

Ever since I was a kid, I had always been mentally attracted to older girls, but more physically attracted to those younger than me (not like creepy younger, just a few years). Only a few women that I have ever met have made me both want to sleep with them and be their best friends.

The age and maturity thing is all relative. All of my female buddies are a couple years older than me. Most of the girls that I've spent one night with have been younger. Not to say that I've only slept with younger ladies - but just on average. My point is age may just seem like a number, but it has a lot of influence on your dating and relationship habits.

CanadianCommie · 08-21-2004, 08:15 AM

I'm attracted to people that are relatively older than me, and I'm only 18. hell, I'd date as high as 30-35 if the situation was right. But I do find, and would certainly consider, dating women a year or even maybe two younger than me- depending on the person

(for the record my last g/f was almost 20 and I was just-turned 18)

World's King · 08-21-2004, 08:23 AM

My girl is 25. I'm 23. Does that count?

WilliamTulsaOk · 08-21-2004, 10:39 AM

I don't think it's uncommon at all to feel attracted to those closer to your own maturity level, in the city where I live the average maturity of others my own age is just sadistically low, meeting girls who aren't still walking around with a dominantly high school mentality is difficult, I've always been attracted to older women, and thankfully they reciprocate.

-William the Dissident

NJFrank · 08-21-2004, 06:52 PM

Uh, yeah.
Older chicks are cool.
I'm in a 7 year older older than me relationship, as a matter of fact, I proposed and she accepted within the past week.
And it's not my first, and I swear I wouldn't do it again, but she's great.

DEI37 · 08-22-2004, 06:17 AM

As far as sexual relations go, I prefer the older women. I'm 27, and I have a few women that I keep in touch with sexually. One is 51 and looks 41, and is good in bed, and the other is 57, looks younger than that, and is insatiable in the sack. Most of my "girlfriends" are 35+, and it's all great. Even my wife is older than I am. Not by much, but that just shows the way I like it.

tdoc · 08-22-2004, 07:34 AM

When I was 22 I dated a woman in her mid thirties. She was beautiful, horny, kinky, smart and made shitloads of money. Time of my life!

146519 · 08-22-2004, 05:00 PM

Go graduate style! Older women rock. They can teach you so much.

08-19-2004, 05:55 PM	#1 (permalink)
matt_mll Crazy Location: some volcano in the middle of the pacific	dating older women Recently, I've found myself attracted to women that are somewhat older than me. It's been a trend over the last couple years. I'm finding women in their mid thirties to be so much more appealing than women my own age, which is 24. I think it's because I’ve developed good friendships with several women of that age, through work and social circles. I have yet to date anyone much older me though; although I want to. Does anyone have any similar thoughts or experiences? What was it like? Did problems develop due to the age difference? Any advice?

08-19-2004, 06:03 PM	#3 (permalink)
micah67 Thor Location: 33:08:12N 117:10:23W	My wife is seven years older than me and we're happy (no, it's not pinkie). The difference was never an issue and the only time it's mentioned is when her friends give her high-fives... __________________ ~micah

08-19-2004, 06:17 PM	#4 (permalink)
Holo A Real American	Try these threads. http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...ht=older+women http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...ht=older+women __________________ I happen to like the words "fuck", "cock", "pussy", "tits", "cunt", "twat", "shit" and even "bitch". As long as I am not using them to describe you, don't go telling me whether or not I can/should use them...that is, if you want me to continue refraining from using them to describe you. ~Prince

08-19-2004, 08:00 PM	#5 (permalink)
doncalypso TFP Mad Scientist Location: Philadelphia, PA	If I were single right now I'd definitely try to go for an older woman (i.e. late-20s to mid-30s) because older women often know what they want and are more in touch with their sexuality. The drawback with older women though may be that the biological clock is ticking so they might be looking for someone to settle down with and start having kids. __________________ Doncalypso... the one and only Haitian Sensation

08-19-2004, 09:06 PM	#7 (permalink)
Rdr4evr Banned	My G/f of four years is 6 years older than me and I much rather be with her than someone my own age. She is 28 and I am 22, today is her bday actually. Last edited by Rdr4evr; 08-20-2004 at 11:07 AM..

08-19-2004, 06:01 PM	#2 (permalink)
pinkie Helplessly hoping Location: Above the stars	My husband is seven years younger and we're really happy. Do what you want to. Have fun.

08-19-2004, 08:55 PM	#6 (permalink)
davidc209 Tilted Location: Miami, FL	I turned 28 this summer. Last weekend I hooked up with a girl at a huge kegger party at a friend's house. I swear I thought she was about 32 to 34. At least four friends at the party also guessed her age to be around 34. After fucking around 12 times in a 48 hour period she tells me she has to confess her age to me... FORTY-FOUR. Too old for a long term relationship, but I swear to whatever god you believe in, this has been the best sex EVER. I mean, truly, incredible, mind blowing sex. Holy shit it's amazing!

08-20-2004, 09:18 AM	#8 (permalink)
rufgti Crazy Location: North of the Border	When I was 21, I dated a 36 y/o woman. All I can say is that it was one of the best experiences of my life. __________________ Sometimes, you gotta say no to a stripper....

08-21-2004, 06:08 AM	#9 (permalink)
Mac1 Upright Location: Texas	my current love is 9 years older than me. she is at that age where she acts like an 18 year old guy. sex, sex, sex, and more sex. god I love older women.

08-21-2004, 06:39 AM	#10 (permalink)
TM875 Addict Location: Amish-land, PA	Ever since I was a kid, I had always been mentally attracted to older girls, but more physically attracted to those younger than me (not like creepy younger, just a few years). Only a few women that I have ever met have made me both want to sleep with them and be their best friends. The age and maturity thing is all relative. All of my female buddies are a couple years older than me. Most of the girls that I've spent one night with have been younger. Not to say that I've only slept with younger ladies - but just on average. My point is age may just seem like a number, but it has a lot of influence on your dating and relationship habits. __________________ "I've made only one mistake in my life. But I made it over and over and over. That was saying 'yes' when I meant 'no'. Forgive me."

08-21-2004, 08:15 AM	#11 (permalink)
CanadianCommie Upright	I'm attracted to people that are relatively older than me, and I'm only 18. hell, I'd date as high as 30-35 if the situation was right. But I do find, and would certainly consider, dating women a year or even maybe two younger than me- depending on the person (for the record my last g/f was almost 20 and I was just-turned 18)

08-21-2004, 08:23 AM	#12 (permalink)
World's King Here Location: Denver City Denver	My girl is 25. I'm 23. Does that count? __________________ heavy is the head that wears the crown

08-21-2004, 10:39 AM	#13 (permalink)
WilliamTulsaOk Upright	I don't think it's uncommon at all to feel attracted to those closer to your own maturity level, in the city where I live the average maturity of others my own age is just sadistically low, meeting girls who aren't still walking around with a dominantly high school mentality is difficult, I've always been attracted to older women, and thankfully they reciprocate. -William the Dissident

08-21-2004, 06:52 PM	#14 (permalink)
NJFrank Upright Location: South Jersey	Uh, yeah. Older chicks are cool. I'm in a 7 year older older than me relationship, as a matter of fact, I proposed and she accepted within the past week. And it's not my first, and I swear I wouldn't do it again, but she's great.

08-22-2004, 06:17 AM	#15 (permalink)
DEI37 Go faster! Location: Wisconsin	As far as sexual relations go, I prefer the older women. I'm 27, and I have a few women that I keep in touch with sexually. One is 51 and looks 41, and is good in bed, and the other is 57, looks younger than that, and is insatiable in the sack. Most of my "girlfriends" are 35+, and it's all great. Even my wife is older than I am. Not by much, but that just shows the way I like it. __________________ Generally speaking, if you were to get what you really deserve, you might be unpleasantly surprised.

08-22-2004, 07:34 AM	#16 (permalink)
tdoc Tilted	When I was 22 I dated a woman in her mid thirties. She was beautiful, horny, kinky, smart and made shitloads of money. Time of my life!

08-22-2004, 05:00 PM	#17 (permalink)
146519 Crazy	Go graduate style! Older women rock. They can teach you so much.