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murp0837 · 05-13-2003, 08:55 AM

There is this chick that I know that absolutely drives me wild. I know she likes me, but she always pushes me away.

What is the best way to approach a girl like this? Should I be demanding and aggressive, or should I lay low, be quiet and approach when the time is right?

justadude · 05-13-2003, 07:17 PM

go for it!!

i'm in a 'relationship' now with a girl that i'm totally into, and i went the lay low approach and it's just not working out the way it should....and she has told me flat out, it's cause i was not aggressive enough and "opened up" too much to her...

women....they want ya to be sensitive, but when you are they rip your guts out and stomp all over them!!

Slims · 05-13-2003, 11:44 PM

Go for it, ask her out on something that is obviously a date. Then make your move. If she is interested, good things will happen. The worst that can happen is that she will be flattered, but not interested.

teriaki · 05-14-2003, 01:09 AM

oooh, Greg's answer rocked.

Ok. Seriously though. I am a BIIIIG flirt, there are several men that have taken it to mean I was interested in them outside of just being a bit flirtatous (I am a bartender -it's kinda in my job description), and have taken my attentions to mean that I was interested beyond the initial interaction.

Best bet? Ask her straight out- "Hey, is this just friendly or what, because I'd like to get my groove on, and if it ain't you, I gotta mozy looking for that elsewhere" - if she answers like she's just friendly, don't dump her as your friend- girls are valuable assets for getting you into the sack with other girls! Just accept and maybe move on to the next conquest

Best of luck!

kurty[B] · 05-14-2003, 02:04 PM

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Originally posted by teriaki
girls are valuable assets for getting you into the sack with other girls!

Probably the best advice there is if she just wants to be friends.

cdwonderful · 05-14-2003, 03:42 PM

show her your credit report, flash some money and tell her your toungue has been clocked at 150 MPH

Rippley · 05-17-2003, 05:43 AM

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Originally posted by cdwonderful
show her your credit report, flash some money and tell her your toungue has been clocked at 150 MPH

ROFL!!
That's hilarious!!!
Funny Shit...

05-13-2003, 08:55 AM	#1 (permalink)
murp0837 Upright Location: Buffalo, NY	Picking up girls..... There is this chick that I know that absolutely drives me wild. I know she likes me, but she always pushes me away. What is the best way to approach a girl like this? Should I be demanding and aggressive, or should I lay low, be quiet and approach when the time is right?

05-13-2003, 11:44 PM	#3 (permalink)
Slims Eccentric insomniac Location: North Carolina	Go for it, ask her out on something that is obviously a date. Then make your move. If she is interested, good things will happen. The worst that can happen is that she will be flattered, but not interested. __________________ "Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery." - Winston Churchill "All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act out their dream with open eyes, to make it possible." Seven Pillars of Wisdom, T.E. Lawrence Last edited by Slims; 12-20-2010 at 06:17 PM..

05-14-2003, 01:09 AM	#4 (permalink)
teriaki Tilted Location: San Francisco	oooh, Greg's answer rocked. Ok. Seriously though. I am a BIIIIG flirt, there are several men that have taken it to mean I was interested in them outside of just being a bit flirtatous (I am a bartender -it's kinda in my job description), and have taken my attentions to mean that I was interested beyond the initial interaction. Best bet? Ask her straight out- "Hey, is this just friendly or what, because I'd like to get my groove on, and if it ain't you, I gotta mozy looking for that elsewhere" - if she answers like she's just friendly, don't dump her as your friend- girls are valuable assets for getting you into the sack with other girls! Just accept and maybe move on to the next conquest Best of luck! __________________ Cute, but useless.

05-14-2003, 03:42 PM	#6 (permalink)
cdwonderful another passenger Location: Youngstown, Ohio	show her your credit report, flash some money and tell her your toungue has been clocked at 150 MPH __________________ Never try to teach a pig to whistle it wastes your time, and annoys the pig.....

05-13-2003, 07:17 PM	#2 (permalink)
justadude Upright	go for it!! i'm in a 'relationship' now with a girl that i'm totally into, and i went the lay low approach and it's just not working out the way it should....and she has told me flat out, it's cause i was not aggressive enough and "opened up" too much to her... women....they want ya to be sensitive, but when you are they rip your guts out and stomp all over them!!