About 8 years ago you could have asked me this question and I would have put down the same as most of the people here.

Then I met this guy who I became amazing friends with, we told each other things we've never told anyone. One day, he told me he thought he was gay. We talked about it for a long time, Me trying to let him know he wasnt gay, him trying to say he could be.

At the end of the night he said we should kiss to see how it felt for him. After about an hour of him bugging me about it, I gave in and we kissed, for about half an hour we kissed, things leading into other things. He ended up staying the night and we played around the whole night.

Today he is a very happily gay man, and I am by all technicalities, Bisexual.


I honestly believe that everyone is Bisexual whether they will admit it or not, its all about emotion. I won't say its all about love eww eww huggy kissy. But its about a connection between two people, it doesnt have to be male/female. It seems ludacris to say that connections can only be made between the opposite sexes.

Yes.
In the third grade, I was 'raped' by another girl.
In the sixth grade, my best friend and I experimented with each other.

Yes, many times.

Menoman,

I agree with you.

Many many times.....and I hope to do so many more times :)

I have thought about it for about 5 years and think that one day it will happen. I am not attracted to guys but I would like to try playing with a guy. I think it would be easiest and most likely to happen if I was given the opportunity during a MMF threesome with another guy of simlar mindset. So since I am married and my wife is not into it and I live in a small town I may have to wait a long long time unless I can convince her to either let me play without her or join me.

very moving account, Menoman. i applaud your willingness to take you where your sexuality allows. i only wish our society were as accepting of such behavior and exploration.

i am bisexual as well, yet both physically and emotionally more attracted to males. I am currently in a relationship with a bisexual male who is more physically attracted to females, so it's very difficult sometimes but we love each other.

i like the way this thread is going

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Some. When I was a teenager, my best mate and I had some experimental fun... Blowjobs etc. There was no romantic interest there, just curiosity and horniness.

I guess in this homophobic culture we live in, I should feel somehow guilty and bad about it. I don't.

I fixed that for you!:)

My wife likes watching men on men. We decided to find a couple that had a bi male. The first time was "secretly" fun. I got to experience what she gets to do my cock. It was kinda like masterbating but somebody else. I was a little nervous.

The second time was a buzz kill. The guy was small and it was boring.

I must say that I do not perfer men sucking me. It feels wierd (at least right now)

Those are the only two times and I have not done it in a while. I have not missed it either.

But the post has made me curious again.

On the other side of the coin, I love to watch my wife with other women.

Hmm, never done anything that I consider very sexual with another man. Although, I have masturbated with a best friend of mine when we were younger and discovering ourselves after I had already entered puberty and he was beginning to enter the start of puberty. The closest thing to any sort of experimenting is when we touched each others genitals to compare how they felt since we were so different physically at the time. It's something I think a lot of guys do with a close, so-called intimate friend.

I don't know if I would ever neccesarilly engage in a sexual act with another man though. I will admit I have found some men to be physically attractive, but for me, to engage in sexual acts requires more than just being beautiful; especially considering I've been highly attracted to some women who are not beautiful but had a personality that clicked with me more than others.

/AOL

Totally echo this.

id do it in a heartbeat.. as long as it was discreet and not emotional

Yes, long ago with one or two very special best girlfriends during long stretches of time between unsuitable guys as dates. We are all still great friends and haven't discussed these ladies 'lunches" (for lack of a better descriptor) with anyone else even our hubs. We did agree that nothing beats a wide hard cock for real satisfaction though..