It's getting to a stage where naked girls no longer turn me on
 

Today I realised I've had enough of seeing naked girls. Everywhere I go on the internet its porn everywhere. Porn isnt restricted to hot girls anymore, I see some of the UGLIEST chicks getting naked it just turns me way off. Why is it that there are millions upon millions of girls getting naked on the internet? Get a job and make some money the real way instead of whoring yourself out for cash. Whenever i see a pair of boobs now, it just even register to me as being hot, I see boobs and I'm like eh its boobs I don't care anymore. If i see a girl spreading I actually get turned off, its ugly to me. I havent masturbated in around 2 weeks, because even just thinking about naked girls doesnt turn me on. It's not as if there are major problems such as stress in my life that are killing my sex drive, its just that what used to turn me on no longer does, so I dont feel anything sexual right now. Let's all thank the internet for killing my sex drive.

Oh btw if you read this, sorry for killing a few mins of your time

Maybe you should take a break from the nekkid girls site?

Oh, and as for the phenominom of so many women getting naked for money online.... If they men out there didn't pay of it/view it en masse, then well... They wouldn't get paid. Simple case of supply and demand.

Maybe you should try lookin at naked men? ;)

stop looking at naked women on the internet. Barraging yourself with picture after picture of porn is overwhelming your senses. Go after some real women for a while, you'll get that appreciation for nakedness back.

Way to kill the messenger! Unless someone has been strapping you down and making you look at internet porn, a la "A Clockwork Orange," you're the one who's been choosing what to look at. Sounds like a classic case of desensitization, and maybe, as others have suggested, you need to take a break.

And as for the "ugly" chicks getting naked, Averett hit the nail on the head. They do it because someone will pay them to do it!

Quitcher whining and go hang out with some real people for a while. Expand your definition of what's sexy to include the everyday seduction of concealing instead of revealing. Sometimes imagining what a sexy woman looks like under that dress is a lot more arousing than having a bunch of airbrushed (or not) naked women just paraded in front of you.

Hope you find your mojo again!

Sounds like this has already been answered.
(insert 2cp here) (enter snazzy whitisism here and good point right after that.)

heh

This is because people like you and I will go around and look at their pictures. They're getting good money for exposing themselves or hopefully a decent amount and just doing that, some probably don't need a job.

Men only pay for porn because they don't know that they can get all of it for free :p

This reminds me of that bit by Dave Chapelle during one of his shows, he's like:

"If pussy was a stock, it'd be going wayyyyyy down- because you've flooded the market with it!
'In other news pussy went down 100 points, the NASDAQ rose 10.' "

So yeah... stop watching porn and you'll fix this problem.

I've found that what I get turned on by has become WAY more selective. Naked girls spreading their legs just doesn't do it for me anymore. These days there's specific shapes, lines, curves and forms that do it for me. Anything else, meh.

Internet parn is probably to blame, but it might also be my advancing age.

I'd just like to take this moment and say SHUT UP! Some of us still like seeing naked women! ;)

Now that I've got that out, I might suggest you take a look at erotic fiction if you want your sex drive back. Whenever I start feeling desensitized by porn, switching over to text for a while, which engages the imagination, sets things right.

Or maybe go out on a date.

classic case of desensatization......I went thru the same thing....first boobs would work..than it had to be beaver...than is had to be lezzies.....than it had to be midgets and horses.....uhh..i mean....haha

take a break dude.....try a 40 day cleansing of no wanking, no porn........and I guarantee you.....it'll all come back. Also....try getting a real chick......big difference between a chick on your monitor and one in real life naked!!!

Indulge in alcohol and smoke and then look at the pron. If that doesn't return your drive see a Dr.

yes, overload. give up porn for a while. seriously. and go find a real girl. :)

Screw that man just get freakier and freakier.

Start off with nekked chix and bewbs then when thats no good anymore move on to

various fetishes like latex or something.

Then BDSM once thats old throw in

midgets

and have BDSM with migits,

then once thats old have trannies doing midgits in a BDSM eviroment.

Sooner or later you'll be whoreing yourself about the internet as the self proclamined most diverse sextual person on earth ( and hippie ).

the thing is its not as if i sit there hours and hours on end in a row and look at porn, it's just that everywhere i go on the internet leads me to porn some how. Like any healthy male I do look for porn every now and then, but I'm getting sick of seeing it everywhere. Even when i just come on msn to chat with my mates about what's happening on the weekend they all have porn in their lil msn pic thingies!

If I ever get to the stage where pictures of naked women don't turn me on, I'll be looking for a sturdy overhead structure and a small length of rope.

I feel for ya, bro.

This thread reminds me of the Seinfeld episode where Elaine was dating a guy who worked in a hospital delivering babies. He never wanted to have sex with her because he was tired of seeing vaginas all day long.

...If real girls and real sex stops turning you on...you've got a problem...

I had your problem, my friend, and still do in a way.

Because for me, a little fooling around with my girlfriend (I'm talking little here: very little touchy touchy b/c she's shy) will turn me on much more than watching a 30 min M-F-F porno on my computer. Take a break, find a girl to fool around with a bit, after a few weeks porno will be fun once again.

I would have to agree with most of the statements above. Just try surfing something else if you need to surf. Besides, nothing beats a "real live" person.

yeah sounds like you need to lay off the porn...

If I were a chick I'd try and make money off being nekkid...

Yes, there are TONS of ugly girls in porn. I thought i was the only one that was bothered by this ROFL.. of course i am female so it may be different for me...

It's funny how guys will say "what a hottie" when the gal isn't even remotely hot. lol in those situations i think they're talking about the T&A, not overall appearance.

Perhaps, but I also think that guys are much more forgiving than we women are. We can be so cruel to ourselves and each other when it comes to our bodies.

^^ That's true. A lot of girls really just try to impress each other more than the guys becaue girls are the critical ones.

But still...I am constantly amazed at all the ugly girls who get raving comments on the internet. I guess once there is a lack of clothing, nothing else matters.

I still think it's shitty that these REALLY attractive girls end up wasting their lives doing internet porn.

It's nasty old men stealing MY chances of getting a hot girl. :mad:

Hehe, either way, it's sad.

Yeah that's sad too. I always wonder why they do porn instead of modeling or acting or something like that...
But...i guess if you're sexy with absolutely nothing else going for you...porn isn't too bad.

It's called childhood abuse and/or neglect. The pretty ones who've become models probably had overbearing parents (in which case they're more likely to develop eating disorders...something (coincidentally?) conducive to modeling).

The pron on the Internet just reflects the extremely highly sexualized nature of the culture it is born in. I say good luck trying to dodge the porn. It's almost like it tries to find you rather than the other way around.

maybe you need some romance to turn you on;-)

porn = fun, easy money ... if I had boobs and wasnt fugly Id do it, but Im a guy so I have to be like forty to get in the internet porn with the young hotties

I go through stages like what you're describing. I just think you get case-hardened after so much porn.

And of course this one makes more sense, but everyone once and a while when I'm with my girlfriend(who I've been with for a long time) we'll just be sitting there watching TV...stark naked, and it hits me how amazing that is, cause when I first got with this girl, I would've killed to see her naked, and it doesn't even effect me anymore.

BUT sometimes she'll strip down and it just blows my mind all over again how beautiful she is and it turns me on big time.

Personally, just the fact that someone is naked isn't cause for sexual aroual anyway. People can be incredibably disinterested in sex and ALSO be naked. I hardly ever find stills of women arousing anymore because I'm not convinced they really want sex at the moment of the picture (though some have done it for me.)

It's all about desires and intentions.

Back in the '60s Motorola offered TV sets that put out X-rays at such high levels that they were considered harmful. There was a lot of joking about "improving the race," in that lazy and unintelligent kids who did nothing but sit in front of the TV all day would eventually be sterilized by the X-rays so they couldn't reproduce (probably not really, but that was the joke). Thus improving the specifies, you see.

Sometimes I wonder if porn on the internet isn't set up that way. By keeping men at home with their machines instead of out with real women, and by setting impossibly high and artificial standards of female beauty, is Internet porn selecting out certain classes of young males by replacing their need to breed actually with the ability to breed virtually. (Or destroy the willingness to breed entirely.) You could build a helluva conspiracy theory out of this, and that's for sure.

slimshaydee:

It sounds like you need to get some of the real thing and put the internet into perspective. Images and masterbation are great as an adjunct to real women and sex. I bet if some of those "ugly" whoring girls were in YOUR bed you would get a chubby. Get out and see and feel some REAL boobies!!! Then the internet images might be cool as a reminder or as a goal or as inspiration for new and different things to do with REAL WOMEN. I honestly am not saying this as any slamming or disrespect. It just sounds like you need to eat a pussy and feel some real tittys.

I second that.
I myself get the real thing and masterbate quite a bit. Never have I gotten sick of porn. Maybe that is because of the misses giving it up. That's my 2 cents.

i think u are just looking at the wrong women

Nudity in and of itself isn't necessarily erotic, and eroticism doesn't require nudity. And eroticism and pornography are two different things. You can become desensitized to pornography, because it creates a purely physiological response, whereas eroticism, done well, engages the mind and imagination, and is, in my 38 years of experience at least, immune to desensitization.

i totally agree..... in terms of looking at porn i have been selective.... the way the body is curved and other different forums do it for me.

well the women are doing these things because its "easy money" funny thing is from what i have read in the newspaper, alot of these girls get ripped off in the porn industry they think they will make millions and they don't..they get fooled.

yea its so much more erotic if the women is showing just the right amount of skin..this just causes the imagination to go wild. when you see a naked women it just leaves nothing to the imagination.

To any girls who initially wanted to send me naked pics of themselves but decided not to after reading this thread, DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS GUY!!

Now that I've spoken to my imaginary friends, I must ask you this: What DO you find attractive now? Maybe you're having some hormonal problems? Check it out bro, 'cause you can desensitize yourself all you want, but you should NEVER get tired of a nice set of boobies.

This is very true lurkette :)
I am no longer turned on by the full-on porn of the net. Seeing all the guts and glory no longer does it for me, but nice pictures of an attractive woman in heels and a slinky dress do it for me every time.
I like to see maybe a hint of nipple, and no more. Then my imagination runs wild!

My wife is a different story though, I love to see her naked all the time :)

It sounds more like a psychological issue to me. Perhaps none of the girls online turn you on because all you see are pictures -- no identity or personality to relate to the girl. Then it occurs to you that they are just "whoring [themselves] out for cash" and it turns you off.