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bAck iN aCtiOn!
Location: in my imagination
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anal first
so i tried anal for the first time, and one weird thing i noticed is that my ass felt as if it were really REALLY hot on the inside......but only when something was inserted. also it felt like i had to "go" each time anything was inserted, but when i tried to go to the bathroom, i couldn't "go". anyone else experienced this or maybe have any suggestions/comments on why this is and how i can get around it? i enjoyed it but just couldn't keep going because of the combined hotness and need to defecate. so thanks!
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Location: near the water
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it only felt like i had to 'go' when it was being removed... i felt it was easier if he stroked my 'love button' lol... made me more aroused, which relaxed me more, and if you're relaxed you won't tense up which just causes problems for both of you
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Location: Bayou Country
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Can't really give much info. Me and wife try it every now and then and she likes it sometimes, others she can't handle it....she says it is so much better when she is very very relaxed and extremely aroused right before insertion. She never really commented about having to "go".
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Location: ...more here than there...
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I've never felt the need to 'go'...but fallenangel's tip abt clit rubbing during is a good one, and bouray is correct in that sometimes it just doesn't work as well as others.
I find the more i stress about trying to make it work, the tenser i am and the more difficult it is. So, relax, and try not to put too much pressure on yourself. ![]()
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Location: Elysium
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same goes for me the first couple of times I tried it and it's still a "problem" because your ass wasn't designed for sex. But as time goes a long you'll get used to it, though. But until then you can do either of the following things:
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Location: Philadelphia, PA
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As for the perceived need to defecate that was probably a reflex reaction from having an object being inserted into your rectum rather than just expelled. Your nervous system reacted automatically and assumed you needed to defecate because it was your first time having anal sex and your body didn't have any other frame of reference to deal with this situation except to assume that you had a need to defecate. In the future make sure you and your lover have plenty of foreplay beforehand, and also, make sure your clitoris is being stimultated as he penetrates you anally. Not only might that reduce that feeling of your needing to defecate, but you might actually get an orgasm out of anal sex.
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I have a question. It's kind of "nasty", but I need to ask it. Whenever I have anal sex with my girlfriend some sort of wet poopy substance always ends up coming out and getting all over me. It's like poop mixed with lube. How do I stop this? I know my girlfriend won't give herself an enema or anything like that.
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Location: Elysium
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Huzzah for Welcome Week, Much beer shall I imbibe.
Location: UCSB
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the byproduct of anal sex.
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Location: Philadelphia, PA
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Another solution would be to take a shower with her after she's and a bowel movement and personally wash her anal area (both on the inside and outside). Of course, I'd suggest you wait an hour or two before initiating anal sex then.
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Location: Elysium
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I have all the characteristics of a human being: blood, flesh, skin, hair; but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion, except for greed and disgust. Something horrible is happening inside of me and I don't know why. My nightly bloodlust has overflown into my days. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy. I think my mask of sanity is about to slip. |
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Hiya Puddin'! Miss me?
Location: Silicon Valley, CA
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Can't help you on the hotness sensation. Just make sure you're properly lubed up and ready to go (sufficiently turned on).
As for the need-to-defecate feeling, that is natural. The purpose of your rectum is to detect when there is feces waiting to be expelled. Any object inserted anally will ultimately end up in this detection region. When your rectum senses an object there, it sends signals to the brain that it needs to be expelled. So if you stick an anal plug or finger up there, your brain is going to say "I need to poop." When you take out the plug or finger, and try to go to the bathroom, nothing comes out because you've already taken out the object that was tricking your brain into thinking it needs to poop. If you masturbate while getting accustomed to an object that has been inserted, it will help you distract yourself from the feeling of needing to poop. Also, once motion sets in, and if at the proper angle, it will massage your vagina in a totally new way that you've never experienced before. Since the anus and rectum have as many nerve endings as a vagina, you'll probably be too busy working on an orgasm to notice your brain telling you to go to the bathroom.
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bAck iN aCtiOn!
Location: in my imagination
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well i was properly lubed....(too much is never enough) and was drunk, but that shouldnta made any difference, i was horny and all....
*shrug* yeah the need to defecate i imagine i can get over after a few times, but the extreme heat sensation was really what made us stop.... thanks for the comments and ideas so far....
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Hiya Puddin'! Miss me?
Location: Silicon Valley, CA
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just to make sure you've got all the obvious out of the way.
you said you were drunk. how drunk were you? did you pay attention to what kind of lube you were using? it wasn't a warming lube, was it? (like the new KY one, or some kind of warming massage oil) it also might be a hot sensation from too much friction and/or not enough lube. we've established that you used a lot of lube. did you use a condom? that reduces friction. anything that you might experience vaginally like a warming lube or dryness is going to be like 100x more intense via anal.
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I have all the characteristics of a human being: blood, flesh, skin, hair; but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion, except for greed and disgust. Something horrible is happening inside of me and I don't know why. My nightly bloodlust has overflown into my days. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy. I think my mask of sanity is about to slip. |
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Location: Philadelphia, PA
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Next time you want to try anal sex, please do so while you're sober. You will be able to gauge your body's reaction to anal sex better, and hopefully your partner will be sober too so he won't plow at you like a madman but actually take his time and be gentle.
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bAck iN aCtiOn!
Location: in my imagination
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actually my partner was very near sober and he's always extremely (overly) gentle with me unless i ask for it hard. so it wasn't that.
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I have all the characteristics of a human being: blood, flesh, skin, hair; but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion, except for greed and disgust. Something horrible is happening inside of me and I don't know why. My nightly bloodlust has overflown into my days. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy. I think my mask of sanity is about to slip. |
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Location: Elysium
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I have all the characteristics of a human being: blood, flesh, skin, hair; but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion, except for greed and disgust. Something horrible is happening inside of me and I don't know why. My nightly bloodlust has overflown into my days. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy. I think my mask of sanity is about to slip. |
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Location: Lubbock, TX
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it's so cool that even after you had a somewhat uncomfortable experience the first time, you sound like you'd still be willing to try it again which is badass.
But yeah from what I understand, feeling like you have to "go" is normal; I've never heard of the hot feeling either... |
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![]() You can use something like that one. I use a small bottle that used to contain moisturizer.... (If you're gonna use an old bottle then make sure you clean it with just water. Not soap! Soap is not good for the inside of your rectum) You basically just fill up the bottle with lukewarm water (using hot/cold water is extremely unpleasant!) push it against your rectum and squeeze the bottle so the water will run into your rectum. Just a bit of water will make you go straight away and every last bit of poop will get out, leaving your rectum almost 100% clean. The first couple of times it's gonna feel....weird. But you'll get used to it and maybe even end up enjoying it perhaps... ![]()
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I have all the characteristics of a human being: blood, flesh, skin, hair; but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion, except for greed and disgust. Something horrible is happening inside of me and I don't know why. My nightly bloodlust has overflown into my days. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy. I think my mask of sanity is about to slip. Last edited by Nancy; 05-17-2004 at 09:54 PM.. |
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*swoon*
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Location: Native America
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Wow, thanks for the info Nancy. I always thought you had to buy enema's and I would be too embarrased to do that. I had also heard that too many could be bad for you. Is that just a myth? Something about the bacteria in there needing to stay in balance...
As for ArieKitten- I have only done anal once and I didn't like it much. But that was years ago, and I'm starting to want to explore it again. I was planning on starting small with a butt plug though cuz last time we jumped right in with the mothership and it was too much, too fast. Maybe that's what you did, too? Maybe should start with something smaller?
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Location: Charlotte, NC
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What a discussion - anal sex, defecation urges, hot rectums, poop / feces, enemas, butt plugs, Santorum, etc., etc., etc. You've got to love the TFP. Don't know too many other places where you can ask these types of questions (at least without being extremely embarrassed) and receive honest, knowledgeable answers. You guys rock
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I can't say I've really felt the need to go feeling. The first time I tried it everything went really well..I actually enjoyed it. I was really relaxed possibly from drinking some alcohol earlier. Tried it again a few days ago and it hurt so bad! The worst pain I have ever experienced in my life! Only thing that was different was the alcohol factor. I don't understand! I want to try it again, but now I'm scared to death of the pain.
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bAck iN aCtiOn!
Location: in my imagination
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thanx for the suggestion redgirl, and the info nancy....i really want to try it again, if the circumstances are right and all. im thinking about going to the megaplexx here in town right after one of my paydays and buying a bunch of fun sex toys
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I have all the characteristics of a human being: blood, flesh, skin, hair; but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion, except for greed and disgust. Something horrible is happening inside of me and I don't know why. My nightly bloodlust has overflown into my days. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy. I think my mask of sanity is about to slip. |
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I have all the characteristics of a human being: blood, flesh, skin, hair; but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion, except for greed and disgust. Something horrible is happening inside of me and I don't know why. My nightly bloodlust has overflown into my days. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy. I think my mask of sanity is about to slip. |
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Even though I've been having anal sex for years I still get that particular pain inside of the rectum. If that happens then I just use more lube and take it really slow....98% of the times the pain goes away and we continue the sex. And if the pain continues then we stop of course... so should you if the pain really bothers you. The pain is due to friction so nothing to be worried about! ![]()
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I have all the characteristics of a human being: blood, flesh, skin, hair; but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion, except for greed and disgust. Something horrible is happening inside of me and I don't know why. My nightly bloodlust has overflown into my days. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy. I think my mask of sanity is about to slip. |
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The wench has a steel pagoda winging its way towards her - all in the interests of science, you understand...
Tisonlyi - putting the lass through her trials for the brown wings.
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Wow -- all I can say is wow. Great thread, lots of information, and we have a resident expert -- thanks Nancy.
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I have all the characteristics of a human being: blood, flesh, skin, hair; but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion, except for greed and disgust. Something horrible is happening inside of me and I don't know why. My nightly bloodlust has overflown into my days. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy. I think my mask of sanity is about to slip. Last edited by Nancy; 05-24-2004 at 03:48 AM.. |
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