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Kazic · 05-30-2004, 01:14 AM

Hello People.

I just recently went through a very traumatic life changing event. I left 1 person I truly cared about, for another. I thought at the time that she was my true Love and that we could work anything out with time and patience.

I realize now that that is only if you turly believe the other person is worth it.
I guess I am not.

In all my flaws I guess talking things out is not an option for me. Either I have everything all at once or nothing.
My feelings for this person grew while hers only shrank away.
I guess the true pain here is the fact that I didn't belive in true love or soul mates until she came alonge. And she was the one that had me convinced it was so.
Again I guess I was wrong.
Would I change what happened? No I don't think I would have. The time that I was happy was great.
If I have learned anything though is that when you are trying to build something with someone, don't hold back don't sit on a problem hoping it will go away. And above all If you TRULY care for someone, Give them the chance to be the person you met and fell in love with. ( assuming you did!~)

Be true to yourself and to the person you are with. If you can do that you will be happy.

WarWagon · 05-30-2004, 01:22 AM

Good advice. Love is a strong word, but as far as working on being with someone you truly believe in and care for, I'm working on it right now.

Spidey · 05-30-2004, 02:47 AM

saying that though, the actions has to be mutual for it to work.
You cant waste your life trying to fix something when the person doesn't have the same will.

05-30-2004, 01:14 AM	#1 (permalink)
Kazic Psycho Location: Fortress of Solitude	True Love?? Hello People. I just recently went through a very traumatic life changing event. I left 1 person I truly cared about, for another. I thought at the time that she was my true Love and that we could work anything out with time and patience. I realize now that that is only if you turly believe the other person is worth it. I guess I am not. In all my flaws I guess talking things out is not an option for me. Either I have everything all at once or nothing. My feelings for this person grew while hers only shrank away. I guess the true pain here is the fact that I didn't belive in true love or soul mates until she came alonge. And she was the one that had me convinced it was so. Again I guess I was wrong. Would I change what happened? No I don't think I would have. The time that I was happy was great. If I have learned anything though is that when you are trying to build something with someone, don't hold back don't sit on a problem hoping it will go away. And above all If you TRULY care for someone, Give them the chance to be the person you met and fell in love with. ( assuming you did!~) Be true to yourself and to the person you are with. If you can do that you will be happy. __________________ "Computer games don't affect kids; I mean if Pac-Man affected us as kids,we'd all be running around in darkened rooms, munching magic pills and listening to repetitive electronic music." -Kristian Wilson, Nintendo, Inc, 1989

05-30-2004, 01:22 AM	#2 (permalink)
WarWagon Loser	Good advice. Love is a strong word, but as far as working on being with someone you truly believe in and care for, I'm working on it right now.

05-30-2004, 02:47 AM	#3 (permalink)
Spidey Crazy Location: Wellington, New Zealand	saying that though, the actions has to be mutual for it to work. You cant waste your life trying to fix something when the person doesn't have the same will.