First Kiss Technique
 

Okay, when you go in for the first kiss with a girl, and you aren't sure how she's going to react, do you use tounge or do you just lock lips or just a peck on the lips?

The times when I've gone in for a first kiss, I was absouletly positive that she'd respond in a positive way, so I used tounge and it worked out great every time.

Start off slowly with just the lips, and if you keep at it, feel free to get in some tongue action. If she doesn't react in a good way, then she probably doesnt want to move too quickly. Either that, or you're drooling all over the place.

IMO never use tongue on the first kiss. Long kiss yes, but dont push the tongue until at least the second so you can gague how she feels.

Tounge took a little while longer. No tounge the first few times.

Nooooo tongue. That seems like you just wanna jam it in her mouth.

No tongue, and keep the lips soft; don't tense them up. Drag your lips across (his/her) lips.

perfect advice.
Loosen your lips, and if it feels right, part them a little as a suggestion of your intention.
If she's kissed before she'll notice and either follow or not.
If she's inexperienced you'll have to follow your intuition. But take things slow in the beginning.

Its all situational. Best bet is to take it slow unless you know she wants it. Its pretty easy too tell in her/his body language whether they want it.

But that's what I want to do, why give false impressions? =p

No tongue at first cause you don't want to just come at her and shove your tongue in her mouth. Start out with a slow, soft kiss. You'll be able to tell if tongue is appropriate by the way she responds to your kiss. Don't stress about it..it'll come naturally.

Yeah, no tongue the first kiss.

So, with no tongue, do you just lock lips for a litle bit? It just seems so pointless....

Ok.... this one from a chick...

Mooove sloooowly... and the perfect kiss will fall into place.

Remember that your mouth is bigger than hers and she will feel like you are trying to eat her face if you arent careful...
Keep drool to a minimum..
start by lip locking and moving lip smooches and lick her bottom lip.. if her tongue meets yours.... youre frenchin... if it doesnt.. shes more than likely feeling spit on... tough call.. good luck.

lol a friend of mine was so worried about this he found a "practice person" before the party... needless to say he realized it was really easy... so he lost his first kiss to someone unimportant.... and well she wasnt attractive... and she was built like a linebacker... so were not ever gonna let him forget about it....

moral of the story... kissing is easy... you dont need to practice....

If kissing is meant to happen between two people, it should come naturally and not be forced, however, on occasion you'll kiss someone rather inexperienced who has yet to be shown the ways of controlling the tongue *shudder* in which case, take charge with your mouth, and slow them down so you can breath again without their tongue shoved down your throat.

Less is more people

There is something I *LOVE* about those 10 seconds before I kiss a girl for the first time. You both sit there, looking into each other's eyes, then down at their lips, then back at each other's eyes again. Then, almost intuitively, you both lick your lips at the same time as you slowly bring your heads together... The anticipation is heavenly.

LMFAO; why do I think I know who you are talking about? HAHAHAHAHAHA

Skip the tounge and just stick your cock in her mouth. Worked for me!

no tounge, but i always go for the sucking on the bottom lip/ little nibble. it has always lead to good things for me.

Possibly the best ten-seconds ever!!

My advice is, don't try for the tongue on the first kiss.

And don't worry about it. In those 10 seconds mentioned above, it'll all just kinda "click" and you'll figure it out.

^you got it majik_6. You definitel hit the nail on the head. Those 10 seconds are amazing. All fear and anxiety disappears and everything just comes together perfectly.

Gotta love it!

Use lots of tongue and as much spit as you can get in you mouth...


Just kidding. Please don't do that. You will give men everywhere a bad name.

just my opinion, but from experience (what little experience i have), start off slow and let her decide how far she wants to go.

either way she'll be satisfied: if you break off soon then she will be ok, or she will want more. if you get the tongue on the first kiss then you'll both be happy (you especially)

Is it her first kiss also?

I know my first kiss was with a girl who kissed another guy already(thats a big deal when your 12-13!! hehe)

It was straight to the ole tongue-age. Which I'm happy because I have good memories of my first kiss I guess I wasnt horrible or something :)

Bah, I meant first kiss as in first kiss for your next date.

I've made out with tons of girls, and I've always gone tounge first.

lol.

i think i need to move out of this city, all this romantic type of kissing is gettin me jealous.

if kissing is involved, it usually happens half way through sex.