The Sex Toy Thread
 

I've gotten really into sex toys lately. So much so that I've bought a Sybian
and an Eroscillator for my wife and I to enjoy together (or for her to enjoy herself, should the need arise). The Sybian is so damned expensive that I guess the term "sex toy" doesn't really apply. Sex appliance, maybe. It is worth every penny though. You may have seen videos of girls going apeshit on the Sybian and all I can say is -- believe it. The first night we tried it, she had 6 unbelievably intense orgasms from it, and it's just gotten better from there. I usually man the controls and watch her get off. What a turn-on. I also had an idea that she could ride it with the flat top attachment (the one that doesn't actually penetrate the vagina) and then I could enter her from behind while her clit is being massaged by the Sybian. I still haven't worked out the logistics yet, but it seems promising.

The Eroscillator is much less expensive (around $100-140 depending on which attachments you get), but definitely has its uses. It differs from a normal vibrator in that it oscillates from side to side rather than vibrating, which apparently makes a big difference. The really nice thing about the Eroscillator is that we can use it while I'm inside her in various positions. It's also a lot quieter than some of the other toys I've heard (like the Sybian, which is loud as hell).

Another device I want to get eventually is a Hitachi Magic Wand . A lot of people regard this as the best (hand held) vibrator you can buy. (By the way, I have no financial interest in any of the linked sites, I just wanted people to be able to see what they looked like).

I'm also really interested in e-stim (electronic stimulation of the gentials and other areas, as demonstrated extensively on sites like wiredpussy.com). The Slightest Touch device also looks intriguing, but I have some doubts about it -- has anyone tried it?

So, any other gadget freaks here? I'd like to hear your experiences with any of the devices I've mentioned, or any others you may have tried.

I own a set of hand cuffs. I think that's pretty cool. They are propper police issue ones, no safety releases or anything like that.

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Im actually in the market for a vibrator. My gf and I are novices when it comes to this subject. She brought it up to maybe help spice our love life up a little. As of now, we dont have sex, just oral and manual stimulation. Since I am a newbie of sorts, I was wondering what would be an inexpensive yet practical solution to our needs. Ive checked out www.talksexwithsue.com and checked out a few sites in her directory but Im unsure of what would make a good first.

Any help, links or suggestions would be most generously appreciated.

Jayrock, I heard there was one called the rabbit that is supposed to be good. I wouldnt really know though. I expect they are all reasonably similar in their effect, so just go for one that takes her fancy I guess?

I dont want to advertise one site, but if you just type "sex toys" into yahoo search engine, you get a mad selection of sites that sell them.

Also, the Sybian looks like a bad boy, I had a look at the link, I'm not even sure what goes where!

I have the furry hand/leg cuffs, vibrator, lubricating gels and such. I keep seeing ads for the Sybian and it sounds great until I saw the price.

I have no problems with orgasms so I'm not really in the market for any toys to aid in that problem. I'd get them just for experimental purposes.

Ever see the ads for those fucking machines? Those look hot! I'm curious if anyone knows how safe/good they are.

Strange Famous can you recommend a good site or the name of an item. Whats your take on jellies, hard plastic, clit vibes...anything of that nature. Being a guy shopping for my girl is a bit weird and difficult because I dont know what she is gonna like, and she is too scared to even look. I know when we do oral stuffs, she likes her clit rubbed a lot more than me going inside her, but Im down for anything at this point.

Thanks for any help

There are many variations of the Rabbit, but the thing they all have in common is a dildo piece that goes inside the vagina and a stem coming off it that stays outside for clitorial stimulation. Some of them also have rotating part on the dildo piece as well. Lots of people really like them - we haven't tried them personally, so I couldn't say if they are worth it or not.

From what I've heard, you can't go wrong with the Magic Wand I linked above, but you may be looking for something a little more portable (the Magic Wand plugs into the wall) and quieter (possibly cheaper too..the Magic Wand will set you back about $50 or so).

Check out The Vibe Guide and How to Choose a Vibrator on women.com for a good introduction to what's available and how to make your decision.

http://www.blowfish.com.

Not affiliated. Just a satisfied customer. I'm fixing to place my second order from them right now. My girl needs a collar and maybe some wrist restraints.

<a href="http://www.blowfish.com/catalog/guides/vibrators.html">Here's their "how to choose a vibrator" page. Very comprehensively done, from the total newbie's point of view.</a>

For those curious about how the Sybian is used, I just posted a link to some free video clips on the Links board in the Erogenous Zone. If you don't have access there, pm me and I'll send you the url.

Always up for some new fun -- time to save my pennies.

You are a lucky man Spanky, no amount of pleasure would subside the wrath of my wife when she found out how much the Sybian cost!

where did you get those?!??!???!??!?!??!?!??!?! :D

The trick is to get a few earth-shattering, rip-in-the-fabric-of-the-universe type orgasms under her belt before "remembering" to mention how much it costs! :D

Besides, I wouldn't hesitate to drop that much $$ or even more on a new computer or a family vacation. I think keeping our sex life interesting is worth it. After 15 years of marriage, I think if you don't introduce some new stuff from time to time, there's a very real risk of getting bored. Fortunately, we are at a point in our lives where we can afford an occasional indulgence. I wouldn't do it if there was a question of paying the bills each month, but there isn't, so why not?

this one is cool, it actually gives you an online control panel to control your girls vibe....www.sinulate.com

As a man who has purchased too many vibrators, for too many different ladies *sigh* here's my reccommendations:

First and foremost; An Egg Style Vibrator - they aren't intimidating in any way, are damn fine in their own right and seem to wet the appettite of the, ahem, user. :)

A Rampant Rabbit in some shape or form...

I think those two are the basics. They're damn fine in their own right, and plenty of fun - but there's a whole wealth of the little devils out there.

I like using these on a lass, if i get the option.

As an aside, I think it's probably a good thing if you suppliment your vibrator purchase with some top quality lube

At a local shop, one of the owners told us that the "rabbits" were one of the best selling items, and many of the customers had come back just to say how good they worked. They're also available in various price ranges from cheap to moderately pricey.

We used to sell them at the gun shop I used to work at. We actually sold most of the things that police officers needed/used. They'd come down telling us that they were sent there because the police station knew that we carried things they needed. I never got them then. Kinda wished I had.

My absolute favorite toy is the rabbit. It was mentioned once here once or twice already. Rabbit This site is asking almost twice what I've heard it can go for. The one I got to use was somewhere in the $40-50 range and they said they went through it every 4-5 years. She was nuts about her toy so it got plenty of use. What broke on hers ever was the rotating head portion. She could still use the vibrator part and all and it was still great. The rotating portion was a definate plus though.

My gf got an egg type vibe and it definately helped to push her over the edge and finally orasm. Not intimidating, even funny looking, and the feeling is apparently pleasant.

We've got a hitachi magic wand, and it's worth every penny. Not only does it work well as a nonsexual massager, it gave me my first "hands free" solo orgasm with no movement, and my wife can orgasm in about 60 seconds flat from it.

other favorites include:

The Scorpion, a triple stimulator, from www.safesexmall.com

Bondage Tape, cheapest place we've found it at is www.subshop.com

a cyber-skin butterfly (basicaly a strap on bullet)

and our newest item, the liberator....it's basicaly a very firm foam pillow. we've got a wedge, the smallest one, and it's great. not sure of the site, but google it and it'll pop up.

jtstockroom.com for handcuffs and accessories, they started as a mail order place with an email catalog back when World Wide Web was not real common. good prices too.

Wow...I have one cheap vibrator, but after reading the thread and checking out the links, I think it's definitely time to start saving some money.

so... no mail ordering then?! :(

Not necessarily. I remembered seeing such items in a few of our manufacturer catalogs.

Smith and Wesson
Peerless

Sorry don't mean to hijack. Back to Toys in general.

Yay! They will make an excellent gift for my boyfriend! :D

I'm just a bit curious if anyone brings their toys with them on trips or vacations? Summer's coming up, so me and gf are looking to travel (hopefully to hawaii!!! *crosses fingers), and it wouldn't be the same without the rabbits, sleeves...etc. So I'm basically wondering if you've ever gotten caught with them in your luggage, or gotten weird stares from the xray guys?

couple sex toy tips:

You get what you pay for. You buy a ugly looking $25 Rabbit, you get something with lower power, a bad control that will prolly break quickly, or the motor will burn out. Spend between 80-100 on a rabbit if you really want one. Remember sex store markup is minimum 300% so expect to pay more for better stuff.

A very popular item at the store where I worked was the Pocket Rocket. They have welfare (cheap) versions of this but again, shell out the bigger bucks for longevity and quality. The run about 35-50 depending on where you shop but they were our biggest selling vibe.


for a dong/ phallic vibe I would have to recomend anything made of Cyberskin. You can put these in hot water before use and they retain heat so they feel quite real. Tip for those: do NOT put them in a carboard box! they will melt and soak material into the cardboard, leaving you with a misshapen blob of cyberskin. Any non-absorbent container should do.

Jelly Dongs are pretty good value, and dont' suffer the problems Cyberskin ones do.

Longevity tip: do NOT use Alkaline batteries! Alkalines are too powerful for some vibe motors and they will burn out within 6 months. Use General Purpose batteries.

I always travel with my Aneros
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I pack it in my suitcase, rather than my carry-on. If the X-ray techs see it I'm not there anyway... But really so what it they do? Just look them in the eye and smile sweetly...

how did i miss this thread?

I'm being constantly amazed by the wide array of toys available and i love it, thanks for opening my eyes a bit more! awesome...

I'm a sex toy, my name is Ry*cough* Tuffy. I'm powerless over women's sexual desires. . .

Seriously, I want a fleshlight but can't afford it.

Bought the <a href="http://www.goodvibes.com/cgi-bin/sgin0102.exe?FNM=00&T1=1+9+XX+0397&UID=2004052723475460&UREQA=5&UREQB=4&UREQC=3&TRAN85=N" target="_new">Heavenly G Kit</a> from <a href="http://www.goodvibes.com/cgi-bin/sgdynamo.exe?CODIV=0102&UID=2004052723475460&HTNAME=index.html" target="_new"> Good Vibrations</a> and she just LOVED it. I kinda got jealous after seeing how much fun she was having with it.