I'd love it.
My wife just might....she's hinted at some interest...
"Just get your honey and head out to an on-site swinger party"?
How the heck do you find one you can trust?

Have I watched? Yes.

Details? Hell no. It's one of the only things I've been sworn to secrecy about, and totally, 100% kept my word on.

I just photographed (and watched) people having sex tonight!

I've watched people have sex and have been watched. it's kinda fun I guess. definately wouldnt want it all the time though.
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if you watch the right people it's very very hot though. it turns from watching people fuck to this raw act of emotion...

I've done the threesome thing....and let me tell ya, there is NOTHING sexier than watching your wife with another hot, sexy woman!!!

Holy chit!!

I went to a strip club in Spain where the girl pulled a guy from the crowd and they had sex right on stage.

Yes, many times... often enough all in the same hottub...

Yeah, at a party when I was 15. This girl invited a load of people round her house and then like 5 guys had 15 minutes each with her (this was her idea). I suppose I am not exactly very proud of it, but at 15 you pretty much will have sex in any situation that's available.

There are swinger clubs everywhere in the US. Just go to:

http://www.swingersboard.com/clubs/

It's a free site and you can check out clubs in your area. I attend frequently, all over the country. And yes, some of the BEST are in Texas. By far, though, the best in the US is Red Rooster in Las Vegas.

The key to voyeurism at swing clubs, if you're a single male, is to develop a true friendship with a swinging M/F couple. Most clubs require a single male to attend the parties with a couple. Once you're there, check it out. It's extremely comfortable. It's like being in a bar without boundaries.

As you browse the listings above, note that "on-premise" means there will be sex, and lots of it. "Off-premise" means heavy flirting, but no action in the club itself. I've never gone to an "off-premise" I liked, cause I'm an exhibitionist and always want to take it farther than the rules allow.

One more thing: Most swinger clubs aren't teeming with 20-somethings. It's a more mature crowd, and I'd say the average couple is 30-45 yrs. old.

Have fun!! It's a wonderful lifestyle for many people.

Yes, you are correct in that most swinger clubs have a vast majority of a more "mature" crowd. This is a good thing. Raeanna and I are in our late 20's, so we're kind of in the minority, but it also makes her more desirable, as the late 30's and up men would love to have sex with a 20-something woman. We've been with couples in their mid-late 50's, and it was still fun, and the sex was awesome. Most of our partners have been 35+. I have a thing for older women, so for me (26) to get between the legs of a 45 year old woman is an incredible turn on.

You could just masturbate while watching a bunch of other people masturbate via webcam. it would almost be the same...

Dei37-

We've found it kinda neat to be with older people, too. Not senior citizens, mind you...but last party I went to in Dallas, I got some of the best oral from an older guy, maybe 50 years old. Also, older women are SO hot because they're not as uncomfortable with their bodies. I was around 30 when I was exposed to "the lifestyle" and I've come waaaaay far in appreciating how hot I am! (I keep thinking, "damn, I wish I'd known it before!")

To me, the best thing about the clubs is seeing people from all walks of life: young, older, fat, thin....walking around less repressed and more comfortable with their bodies. Granted, we're still attractive and so we're "Ken and Barbie" at these places, but I have no doubt I'd still have a ball if I weren't young or weren't attractive.

Cool, huh? :icare:

It is. And yes, it is cool to see the various types of people that are comfortable with themselves. I'm not exactly a little guy...I'm built more like a football player...not grotesquley overweight, but a little bigger than I need to be. It's cool to still get accepted, and watch the others be recognized as people as well. I've learned how to be more comfortable with myself, despite my shortcomings, and just have fun. That's what it's all about anyways.

In the end, I think the rule is: Personality and technique trump all. :)

You bet they do. I mean, there has to be some attraction in the first place visually, otherwise you won't be as eager to go up and talk to them and get to know what their personality is like, but watching them interact with others can help you decide on that one. Now, if y'all would come up here for a party...that'd be fun! Who wants to start up a TFP swinger club, and we'll have a big ol' party?!

We're in!

OK, so now we have a start...didn't lurkette and ratbastid get a start in the lifestyle last night? Here's a call to them!

I've actually had a few couples having sex in front of me at the same time... of course, my wife and I were getting it on as well. :)

one time here at college a few of us got pretty drunk, and a very impressionable sophomore ended up masturbating in front of a few of us, and eventually pulled a guy in to 'give her a hand'. it was kinda cool at the time, but now its awkward as hell and i wish it hadn't happened.

stupid alcamahol

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