Best Friend's Girl
 

So, the other night I went drinking with my best friend (since high school), and his new girl (maybe known each other a month), and her friend (obviously they were trying to set me up with her, but I wasn't interested or particularly attracted to her). For simplicity's sake, we'll call his girl Mary. She's a cute short little asian/polynesian girl with a nice ass and general cute petiteness about her. She likes to dance, and what not, and while I'm generally not one to dance while sober, when I'm drunk that's a totally different thing. My friend doesn't dance (aside from mashing), and well at the bar her and I were dancing a lil' (no probs, there, dance with guy's girls all the time, never think twice about that).

We went back to my friend's house, and played some drinking games, and I know Mary and her friend were completely sloshed, and she was stumbling about. Multiple times she did this, she would stand up, stumble a little and then fall over and land her nice ass perfectly right onto my crotch, and then start grinding/dry humping me while I was sitting there. The first time she did this I looked at my best-friend all weird, and he simply smiled??? (Not sure if he was so drunk he didn't realize what was going on, or if he just didn't care). Being drunk, and rather attracted to her, my hands wandered, don't believe they ever traveled under her clothes, but I was definitely rubbing down, and feeling the inside of her thighs, and abs and what not. Whenever my friend left the room she'd start making out with me, and told me multiple times "Oh, you're so cute!" Eventually we all went our ways, my friend took her home, and I went to my house.

I've been busy working all week, and haven't talked to him (work night-shift, he's not awake when I am on my work-days), and well, dunno. We're good friends, I'd never want to cross him, I'm not sure if he's offended at all, or even realized what was going on.

Anyone else have this happen to them, any ideas on how to handle it? I'm really not too worried about it, mainly just found it an awkward situation.

All i have to say is this: Don't ever ever ever mess around with your friends girl. EVER.
That will only lead to awkwardness and perhaps a broken friendship.

Best suggestion is to just say to your friend... god i was so drunk last week... I didnt make a fool out of my self did i? Basically saying you were to drunk to remember what you did. it would be the best way to handle it... If he does remember and is pissed it is the best way to for give you... On another side he better watch out because I doubt you were the first and I'm sure you wont be the last she does that too...

L.B.F.M.

There are two things you don't fuck with, the first is a man's ride and the second is his girl. In that order.

I wouldn't mention it to him. Chances are he was too wasted to even remember it now. Either way unless he's acting funny, let it go.

Water under the bridge. Just be wary of her.


MB

All I can say is mate, a friend of mine did the same thing sort of, the rest of my friends wanted to go kick the crap outta him.. I was like, naw...

Just watch yourself, I wouldn't take it any further man.. obviously you are concerned which is a good thing, there are plenty of other girls out there man, leave your mate with his and you go get something else :)

As much as you might not want to, it isn't really right and with the way the world works today you'll prolly get in some serious trouble unfortunantly.

She spells trouble dude...spells trouble...

That night was just a party night, alot of awkward thing can happen. The only rule that we all have about parties is this: We don't mention the party. Period.

Simply because alot of "werid" thing can happen and nobody wants to know about it.

The girl sounds like trouble, but you shouldn't add to it. I've had experience with this sort of thing, and you do not EVER touch a friend's girlfriend (or crush).

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That kind of a situation is always bad news... don't let a chick get in between you and your best friend.

Yeah, definitely trouble. I'm still debating whether I should talk to him, wait to see if he says anything about it, or just blow it off as one of those things that happened at a party, and joke about it when she's long gone, and time has passed (those are always good stories). I know our friendship is pretty damn strong, had some fucked up things happen, but we've never doubted each other.

Just need to make sure next time we're all together that I avoid temptation to play too much. We'll see what develops.

Just let it sliiiiideeee, don't mention it at all because for all you know, he doesn't even know/remember.

yeah, you should just enjoy what you got and pray that it never surfaces again

This girl is definetely a friendship wrecker. MEss with her and you'll end up with no friend or girl

playing with fire here dude. you've been friends with him for quiet some time by the sounds of it - is it really worth the risk?

imho, there is never a situation where a best friends girl is worth the risk of losing a friendship.

One of my friends girlfriends is quite similar to this, and yeah she does some dodgy stuff with me and some other guys, but mainly with my other friend. It's pretty dodgy and she does it when he's not there as well. Although now, we pretty much try to steer clear of her and try not to interact or stir her too much. Which may be a little rude, but it has seemed to work more recently?