masturbation technique
 

This is for both guys and girls(that give guys handjobs). When you're beating off, do you usually take a tighter grip on the shaft and move the skin up and down, or do you have a loose grip and move your hand up and down allowing your bare palm to rub against the head? I try it both ways sometimes, but I'm curious to hear your opinions on each.

When I've given guys a handjob, they have preferred the tighter grip. One of them told me that it chafes when my grip is looser. It probably depends on your mood too.

*shrug* its prolly a combo of both... more the later... im cut so theres not a ton of extra skin to move up and down...



i knew a guy who said he grabs the head and moves it in a circle (think stirring a pot)... we like to poke fun at him for it...

yeah js- im cut too, but i still find theres enough to just make it over the border of the shaft and head, which is pretty much the only area that matters.

It all depends on how I am feeling. Sometimes I don't even touch the head or just the bottom of it, sometimes it is the head exclusively with a little shaft. I pretty much know right away what is going to feel good that particular night.

Loose grip all the way. I have big hands so I like it better

That depends if I use lube or not. Lube, loose grip. No lube, tight grip.

Too much loose rubbing can be painful, but a little is ok for me.

Two handed. Much more exciting, but it pays to experiment i find...i wish i had a girlfriend...

A firm grip works everytime for me :D

Firm grip all the way...

I think it might be of upmost importance to separate masterbators into circumcised and uncirmcised camps. I would think running the hand along the length is best for cut, and moving the skin up and down is best for uncut. </me>

I am with hu-man

Firm

firm too

yep, the firm grip it is

same
I don't usually use lube much though because I can come alot faster without it, and I mean alot faster

Lube, loose or tight, dry, little loose mostly tight.

Loose

I don't know I just kinda jerk it up and down where it feels good. And spit is a must! :D

Firm....

My b/f likes a really tight grip on the top and bottom (not sides). At first I felt like I was hurting him, now I just hurt my hands trying to squeeze hard enough ;).

Kinda off subject but anyway, we have a running joke that his excessive experience masturbating is the reason he is the only one that can open the maynoaise jar (even though we don't eat mayonaise b/c he is vegatarian!)!!

mix it up, switch off

I have to agree with loose if lubed, tight if not.


MB

ya i'm cut so not much extra skin to stretch around. so kinda just loose i guess

never really thought about it. I am cut and i dont have a whole lot of skin to move around.... guess i go pretty loose w/o lube. Actually, it is reasonably tight, but enough that the hand is sliding on the skin....not grabbbing and moving it. With lube it gets much tighter usually.

Varies based on the lube.

Im all about different techniques, my fav. is when my girl friend lubs it then grips it tight and rolls her wrist from behind the head all the way down the shaft, while cuffing the balls might I add :)


Also while were on the subject, do you all make ur partner remove rings before they give u a hand job?? just wondering.

Variety is the spice of life.

right hand on shaft, left palm on head, stoke, repeat till deflation.

So many ways to reach the same goal. LOL

I like a woman with a firm hand.

I don't see how good it could be using the "firm" technique, but I'm cut. One thing that is cool is to use your hand upside-down. Your (bf's) dick feels a lot different and it feels a lot different.

I switch around a bit, when i want him to come i go quicker and my grip becomes firmer.

But a tip or a suggestion i want to give to all of you is the screwdriver. I know it sounds painfull, but to my guy it's as closest to heaven as he gets!

I use both hands and place them firmly around his shaft (with the one hand) and the other above it. Then i gently (otherwise it can be too painful...) move them both in opposite directions (as if you would squish out a wet towel or something!)

I only use it now and then but he is always very pleasantly surprised when 'screw' him! :)

I'm cut and I would have to say that going with the loose grip is the best way for me...

It works well when very dry, also when lubed.

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I'm not cut and I think that if you naturally produce alot of lubrication..the best thing is to move the foreskin over it. Just make sure to stop and not try to finish so quickly.

i agree with hu-man on the lube- loose, no lube- tight.

and yea always get the girl to remove rings. they hurt.

Im cut but i seem to have enough skin to do it firm, I think this is also why i last so long during sex, because I got used to the firm and dry, and when I have sex the wet and soft is different, It feels great obviously, but it takes longer, which is good for all parties anyway!!

you all should try the "stranger".
what you do is sit on your left hand until it is numb and then use it for the ob. That way you can't you hand doing it. Thus it feeling like someone else. Hence the name.

the "stranger" owns you! I like to talk to myself.

Really, all that would do is make it feel like some lefthanded stranger who didn't know what he was doing was trying to get me off... :)
But hey, to each their own right?

try the "making fire" method, roll it between the palms of your hands.

my g/friend did it to me and my eyes nearly fell out.........

more more

Hmm....

www.jackinworld.com

Has all the masturbation techniques you need.

Pretty informative site.. some of those techniques are pretty interesting heh

Well... I'm not cut, and well.. to add to the issue... I do not like REALLY tight grips.. but rather like a semi-tight... loose is good to get me going... but the lil tighter feels better....

and about the head... since I'm not cut, it is EXTREMELY sensetive... and makes me wanna piss if a girl ends up just playing with it.... I don't piss on her.. but I have to work not to and it makes me lose my how can I say... preformance?? not the erection.. but the stimuli towards orgasim.... in other words... if I ever meet any of ya'll in bed.. don't go after the head of my cock.... its too sensetive... just stick to the shaft and you are good to go....

another thing about a guy who isn't cut...

AND PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD!! do NOT pull all the skin down where the head is completely exposed while giving a handjob... that has a feeling like when someone is pulling you around by your ears... it hurts....

just let it cover the head naturally and treat it like a cut penis.. and yer good to go

YES... she has a strange ring that hurts if she doesnt take it off

I have Lexi take her ring off when I think about it. I can't ever feel it, but the thought that it's there and it _might_ snag something, it just worries me. That's only like 50% of the time thought...

firm grip.

i actually dont like lube.

to messy and it doesn't feel as good as firm grip.

ditto and ladies don't try the loose grip like a jackhammer without good lube (astroglide ect) it won't be pretty

Yup, stretching skin in ways/directions its not supposed to kills. Lots. Don't do it!

I hump my pillow! anyone else? hahahaha

Do you have a designated pillow, or do we not want to know?

Tight grip. Much better. Happy wank. Good feel.

yeah; been going there for years. great site.

Three Step Guide:

1) Stroke Down
2) Stroke Up
3) Repeat until desired results

huh? :rolleyes:

I love giving hand jobs.
Its easier to see the look on their faces while your doing it.

Firm, with the thumb stuck up to stimulate the split on the head.

I'm cut, but my head is extremely sensitive, and I lose it if it's stimulated.

Firm grip on shaft, all the way to the bottom. Same thing applies to BJs actually, I like the head skipped. Deep throat! :)

For the record, my head was not always extra sensitive. I think it had something to do with the time I found out that I am allergic to latex :mad: :mad: :mad:

really don't have a problem with up and down. It works well.