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dalnet22 · 10-30-2003, 05:29 PM

I'm going to my girlfriend's house this weekend, and we're going to watch a movie and get pizza. I've yet to kiss her, but I'm confident she wants me to. I want to start it during the movie, but is it rude to just look over and start kissing while we're watching? When should do I do it and how? Also, I heard that eating pizza before kissing isn't the best idea, is this true? If so, what should I do then?

Thanks.

JStrider · 10-30-2003, 05:33 PM

start with playful little pecks on the lips... and see how she responds... if she wants to start then youll know

Averett · 10-30-2003, 05:33 PM

Aww.. I just want to give you a big hug!

There isnt a person here who can answer this question for you. You just have to do things as they come. We don't know the ins and outs of your relationship so its hard to comment.

If I were in her place, I wouldn't mind if you kissed me in the middle of the movie. Thats what the rewind button is for! Sit near her on the couch, cuddle up close and just have fun. Dont worry about anything. Dont push it. I'm sure she'll snuggle up next to you as well.

Long story short, there is no right or wrong time to go in for the kiss. And the pizza thing... Well, you're both eating it, right? So you'll both have pizza breath

Don't worry about it so much!

SabrinaFair · 10-30-2003, 05:43 PM

I agree that no one can pull out a formula and tell you at exactly what moment to lay a kiss on your lady fair. But do follow your instincts. Make some eye contact, lean in a little, and if she follows suit, go for it. Also, a little warm-up cheek peckin' never hurt nobody. *wink*

rainheart · 10-30-2003, 06:37 PM

So does that mean that you and that girl that approached you before have been going out?

dalnet22 · 10-30-2003, 06:50 PM

Yes it does

She told me a few days ago that her parents will be away on Saturday night so we'll have the house to ourselves. She also mentioned the video and how we'll get pizza.. she's repeatedly mentioned how nobody else will be home.. so I take that as a good thing. I don't want to have sex, but I want to kiss her so much.

Averett · 10-30-2003, 06:57 PM

Aww thats so sweet

Just be relaxed, I'm sure everything will be great.

dalnet22 · 10-30-2003, 07:03 PM

Alright thanks.

tikki · 10-30-2003, 07:56 PM

hmm, now i wanna makeout w/ someone. damn this thread!

Enjoy! :-D

strcrssd · 10-30-2003, 08:04 PM

I agree...my date for tomorrow (halloween) cancelled on me because her mother is making her volunteer at her church....

*argh*

I really want to get to know this girl better, and her schedule is /not/ helping things

sorry all, had to vent

WarWagon · 10-30-2003, 08:05 PM

Ditto. The girl I was hoping to go out with Saturday night already had plans to go to OU with the crew team to party, and I can't help but envy every guy she'll talk to. Cant see her tomorrow night either b/c of her work.

Hell, I'd even settle for a cuddle right now with someone I have in mind, but I dont forsee that happening any time soon :-(

bermuDa · 10-30-2003, 09:17 PM

you'll know when the time is right. I'm so jealous :\

arch13 · 10-30-2003, 09:36 PM

Glad to hear things are going so well Dalnet.
Sounds like your going to be having some fun this weekend

Just remember to take it slow and let it happen. No reason to rush a good thing when you should savor every second.

anti fishstick · 10-31-2003, 12:41 AM

movies aren't meant to be watched ;D

Milliways · 10-31-2003, 10:09 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by dalnet22
She told me a few days ago that her parents will be away on Saturday night so we'll have the house to ourselves. She also mentioned the video and how we'll get pizza.. she's repeatedly mentioned how nobody else will be home.. so I take that as a good thing. I don't want to have sex, but I want to kiss her so much.

At least to me, that rings good chimes :-).

That's actually what happened with me and my g/f when we first made out. . ."Want to come see a movie at my place? My parents won't be home at this time. . ."

I've now, uh, seen a lot of movies at her house.

-Anders · 11-01-2003, 01:26 AM

Haha well I'm sure it's going to go just great, in my eyes shes begging for it

But as a lot of us already said:
I'm soo jealous

Whaaa.

Lets know how things work out

rainheart · 11-01-2003, 01:34 AM

So, congrats then, I take it things have gone well.

Don't worry about anything, she's already into you and everything will unfold well, relax and have a good time.

Sunrise · 11-01-2003, 02:13 AM

Things will just flow and you'll know when it's just right, and it'll happen.

dalnet22 · 11-02-2003, 06:22 AM

Thanks guys, it went really well last night. The details aren't necessary right now, but I did get to kiss her a lot.

oberon · 11-02-2003, 06:32 AM

Good stuff, man. I'm jealous too.

-Anders · 11-02-2003, 07:24 AM

Details are important.. For us anyways

dalnet22 · 11-02-2003, 07:49 AM

Ok, well after the movie, we sat and talked while watching tv. She was going on and on about her Thanksgiving vacation, and as soon as she finished I turned her face towards mine and kissed her. As soon as I finished she said I'm really good and started kissing me again. Afterwards, she rested her head on my shoulder as we continued to watch tv. Unfortunately, her parents called a few minutes later saying they were on their way home, so I had to leave. Then as I was leaving I kissed her again. She wasn't bad, but it was either her first time or she hasn't kissed in a long while. We bothed enjoyed it, however.

JStrider · 11-02-2003, 09:04 AM

sounds like you had a good time....

Jervis · 11-02-2003, 11:26 AM

Well now you're set for next time. Make-out definitely imminent once you've laid the grounds for being comfortable with kissing her first off.

motdakasha · 11-02-2003, 05:42 PM

Watch a chick flick and kiss during a mushy moment. Ideally, it sounds foolproof.

hm.. made out briefly with someone this weekend... kinda wish it lasted longer.. oh well.

*edit: Good to hear things went well.

The.Lunatic · 11-02-2003, 05:51 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by SabrinaFair
I agree that no one can pull out a formula and tell you at exactly what moment to lay a kiss on your lady fair. But do follow your instincts. Make some eye contact, lean in a little, and if she follows suit, go for it. Also, a little warm-up cheek peckin' never hurt nobody. *wink*

Its really easy. When you feel like it she will to. You may want to, but when you "feel like kissing her" go for it she'll follow suit.

skysooner · 11-02-2003, 07:51 PM

Heck, there are still times when I don't know if my wife wants to be kissed. Most of the time she is game, but sometimes it just gets her upset

Averett · 11-02-2003, 07:53 PM

Aww.. I'm so jealous of you dalnet!

The Geek · 11-02-2003, 09:11 PM

It's different for everyone. My current gf, whom I've been with for over 6 years, I asked her the first time. She loved that I asked.

arch13 · 11-02-2003, 10:38 PM

Can you tell we're all glad for you?

Congratualtions and keep it up! Your off to a good start for something meaningful and emotionaly fufilling that creates a feeling in your soul that's undescribable.
You know the one i'm talking about right? It;s the one you felt the moment your lips brushed against hers. Kind of like a rollercoaster of being scared and swearing there are fireworks going off at the same time.
Best feeling on earth.

omega2K4 · 11-03-2003, 12:54 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by dalnet22
She told me a few days ago that her parents will be away on Saturday night so we'll have the house to ourselves. ...... she's repeatedly mentioned how nobody else will be home....

*Hint* *Hint* *Wink* *Wink* *Nudge* *Nudge*

Pink Floyd · 11-03-2003, 04:30 PM

Little pot or alcohol never hurts. I've you're really insecure and self concious like me you could always take a few hits or a few shots before going over... This sounds bad but I don't mean to get wasted or to make it aparent. Just enough to loosen you up. That way you can have it easy the first few times and once you get to know her you won't have to do that anymore. But that's just me... :-/

MooseMan3000 · 11-03-2003, 06:57 PM

Pot? Alcohol?

Never combine with relationship.

Trust me, it's SO much better without. Kissing, making out, having sex, just snuggling by a fire... infinitely better sober.

twotimesadingo · 11-03-2003, 07:14 PM

Way to go, dalnet

My happiness is only tarnished by my envy.

It's all about the follow-up, man. Make a joke about her pizza breath, and tell her you want to give her a chance to redeem herself...

Rlyss · 11-03-2003, 08:06 PM

If it really is her first time kissing don't make a joke about her breath! That'll make her feel so bad!

I'd go the opposite route: tell her you really liked kissing her... and if you could have another kiss that'd really make your day... she'll love it

dalnet22 · 11-03-2003, 08:42 PM

Yeah I kissed her again after school today. It wasn't really long, just a a kiss goodbye.

Averett · 11-03-2003, 08:43 PM

Awww... sound's like youre making a nice start to this relationship

bundy · 11-04-2003, 03:55 AM

way to go dalnet!!
you´re inspiring us all to get out there and kiss the ones we love... thanks.

jaker · 11-04-2003, 04:03 AM

punch her in the face, turn her around, and give it to her from behind...she'll never know what hit her. and isnt one suppose to be 18 to be a member of this form, and your talking about kissing after pizza, watching mary go lucky and kissing her after school?

Doos · 11-04-2003, 04:19 AM

Had a good makeup session on Sunday night. We went to a dinner function, we went to her house, her people were out.

Her top had glitter on it and when I got home my chest/ head was full of glitter too.

10-30-2003, 05:29 PM	#1 (permalink)
dalnet22 Crazy	When to start making out? I'm going to my girlfriend's house this weekend, and we're going to watch a movie and get pizza. I've yet to kiss her, but I'm confident she wants me to. I want to start it during the movie, but is it rude to just look over and start kissing while we're watching? When should do I do it and how? Also, I heard that eating pizza before kissing isn't the best idea, is this true? If so, what should I do then? Thanks.

10-30-2003, 05:33 PM	#2 (permalink)
JStrider Poo-tee-weet? Location: The Woodlands, TX	start with playful little pecks on the lips... and see how she responds... if she wants to start then youll know __________________ -=JStrider=- ~Clatto Verata Nicto

10-30-2003, 05:33 PM	#3 (permalink)
Averett Is In Love Location: I'm workin' on it	Aww.. I just want to give you a big hug! There isnt a person here who can answer this question for you. You just have to do things as they come. We don't know the ins and outs of your relationship so its hard to comment. If I were in her place, I wouldn't mind if you kissed me in the middle of the movie. Thats what the rewind button is for! Sit near her on the couch, cuddle up close and just have fun. Dont worry about anything. Dont push it. I'm sure she'll snuggle up next to you as well. Long story short, there is no right or wrong time to go in for the kiss. And the pizza thing... Well, you're both eating it, right? So you'll both have pizza breath Don't worry about it so much! __________________ Absence is to love what wind is to fire. It extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.

10-30-2003, 05:43 PM	#4 (permalink)
SabrinaFair Junkie Location: Louisville, KY	I agree that no one can pull out a formula and tell you at exactly what moment to lay a kiss on your lady fair. But do follow your instincts. Make some eye contact, lean in a little, and if she follows suit, go for it. Also, a little warm-up cheek peckin' never hurt nobody. wink __________________ "With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy." -Desiderata

10-30-2003, 06:57 PM	#7 (permalink)
Averett Is In Love Location: I'm workin' on it	Aww thats so sweet Just be relaxed, I'm sure everything will be great. __________________ Absence is to love what wind is to fire. It extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.

10-30-2003, 06:37 PM	#5 (permalink)
rainheart Psycho	So does that mean that you and that girl that approached you before have been going out?

10-30-2003, 06:50 PM	#6 (permalink)
dalnet22 Crazy	Yes it does She told me a few days ago that her parents will be away on Saturday night so we'll have the house to ourselves. She also mentioned the video and how we'll get pizza.. she's repeatedly mentioned how nobody else will be home.. so I take that as a good thing. I don't want to have sex, but I want to kiss her so much.

10-30-2003, 07:03 PM	#8 (permalink)
dalnet22 Crazy	Alright thanks.

10-30-2003, 07:56 PM	#9 (permalink)
tikki Justified Location: West Lafayette, IN	hmm, now i wanna makeout w/ someone. damn this thread! Enjoy! :-D __________________ Take notice. Take interest. Take me with you.

10-30-2003, 08:04 PM	#10 (permalink)
strcrssd Insane Location: Rio Grande Valley, Texas	I agree...my date for tomorrow (halloween) cancelled on me because her mother is making her volunteer at her church.... argh I really want to get to know this girl better, and her schedule is /not/ helping things sorry all, had to vent __________________ "I can't understand why people are frightened of new ideas. I'm frightened of the old ones." -- John Cage (1912 - 1992)

10-30-2003, 08:05 PM	#11 (permalink)
WarWagon Loser	Ditto. The girl I was hoping to go out with Saturday night already had plans to go to OU with the crew team to party, and I can't help but envy every guy she'll talk to. Cant see her tomorrow night either b/c of her work. Hell, I'd even settle for a cuddle right now with someone I have in mind, but I dont forsee that happening any time soon :-( Last edited by WarWagon; 10-30-2003 at 08:13 PM..

10-30-2003, 09:17 PM	#12 (permalink)
bermuDa don't ignore this--> Location: CA	you'll know when the time is right. I'm so jealous :\ __________________ I am the very model of a moderator gentleman.

10-30-2003, 09:36 PM	#13 (permalink)
arch13 Loves my girl in thongs Location: North of Mexico, South of Canada	Glad to hear things are going so well Dalnet. Sounds like your going to be having some fun this weekend Just remember to take it slow and let it happen. No reason to rush a good thing when you should savor every second. __________________ Seen on an employer evaluation: "The wheel is turning but the hamsters dead" ____________________________ Is arch13 really a porn diety ? find out after the film at 11. -Nanofever

10-31-2003, 12:41 AM	#14 (permalink)
anti fishstick Post-modernism meets Individualism AKA the Clash Location: oregon	movies aren't meant to be watched ;D __________________ And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. ~Anais Nin

11-01-2003, 01:26 AM	#16 (permalink)
-Anders Custom title. Location: Denmark.	Haha well I'm sure it's going to go just great, in my eyes shes begging for it But as a lot of us already said: I'm soo jealous Whaaa. Lets know how things work out __________________ Signature 101

11-02-2003, 06:32 AM	#20 (permalink)
oberon Quadrature Amplitude Modulator Location: Denver	Good stuff, man. I'm jealous too. __________________ "There are finer fish in the sea than have ever been caught." -- Irish proverb

11-01-2003, 01:34 AM	#17 (permalink)
rainheart Psycho	So, congrats then, I take it things have gone well. Don't worry about anything, she's already into you and everything will unfold well, relax and have a good time.

11-01-2003, 02:13 AM	#18 (permalink)
Sunrise Crazy Location: Melbourne, Australia	Things will just flow and you'll know when it's just right, and it'll happen.

11-02-2003, 06:22 AM	#19 (permalink)
dalnet22 Crazy	Thanks guys, it went really well last night. The details aren't necessary right now, but I did get to kiss her a lot.

11-02-2003, 07:24 AM	#21 (permalink)
-Anders Custom title. Location: Denmark.	Details are important.. For us anyways __________________ Signature 101

11-02-2003, 07:49 AM	#22 (permalink)
dalnet22 Crazy	Ok, well after the movie, we sat and talked while watching tv. She was going on and on about her Thanksgiving vacation, and as soon as she finished I turned her face towards mine and kissed her. As soon as I finished she said I'm really good and started kissing me again. Afterwards, she rested her head on my shoulder as we continued to watch tv. Unfortunately, her parents called a few minutes later saying they were on their way home, so I had to leave. Then as I was leaving I kissed her again. She wasn't bad, but it was either her first time or she hasn't kissed in a long while. We bothed enjoyed it, however.

11-02-2003, 09:04 AM	#23 (permalink)
JStrider Poo-tee-weet? Location: The Woodlands, TX	sounds like you had a good time.... __________________ -=JStrider=- ~Clatto Verata Nicto

11-02-2003, 11:26 AM	#24 (permalink)
Jervis Tilted	Well now you're set for next time. Make-out definitely imminent once you've laid the grounds for being comfortable with kissing her first off.

11-02-2003, 05:42 PM	#25 (permalink)
motdakasha Hiya Puddin'! Miss me? Location: Silicon Valley, CA	Watch a chick flick and kiss during a mushy moment. Ideally, it sounds foolproof. hm.. made out briefly with someone this weekend... kinda wish it lasted longer.. oh well. edit: Good to hear things went well. __________________ =^-^= motdakasha =^-^= Just Google* It. BA Psychology & Photography (I'm not going psychoanalyze you nor will I let you cry on my shoulder. Have a nice day.)

11-02-2003, 07:51 PM	#27 (permalink)
skysooner Registered User Location: Oklahoma	Heck, there are still times when I don't know if my wife wants to be kissed. Most of the time she is game, but sometimes it just gets her upset

11-02-2003, 07:53 PM	#28 (permalink)
Averett Is In Love Location: I'm workin' on it	Aww.. I'm so jealous of you dalnet! __________________ Absence is to love what wind is to fire. It extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.

11-02-2003, 09:11 PM	#29 (permalink)
The Geek Upright	It's different for everyone. My current gf, whom I've been with for over 6 years, I asked her the first time. She loved that I asked.

11-02-2003, 10:38 PM	#30 (permalink)
arch13 Loves my girl in thongs Location: North of Mexico, South of Canada	Wahooo! Can you tell we're all glad for you? Congratualtions and keep it up! Your off to a good start for something meaningful and emotionaly fufilling that creates a feeling in your soul that's undescribable. You know the one i'm talking about right? It;s the one you felt the moment your lips brushed against hers. Kind of like a rollercoaster of being scared and swearing there are fireworks going off at the same time. Best feeling on earth. __________________ Seen on an employer evaluation: "The wheel is turning but the hamsters dead" ____________________________ Is arch13 really a porn diety ? find out after the film at 11. -Nanofever

11-03-2003, 04:30 PM	#32 (permalink)
Pink Floyd Banned	Little pot or alcohol never hurts. I've you're really insecure and self concious like me you could always take a few hits or a few shots before going over... This sounds bad but I don't mean to get wasted or to make it aparent. Just enough to loosen you up. That way you can have it easy the first few times and once you get to know her you won't have to do that anymore. But that's just me... :-/

11-03-2003, 06:57 PM	#33 (permalink)
MooseMan3000 wouldn't mind being a ninja. Location: Maine, the Other White State.	Pot? Alcohol? Never combine with relationship. Trust me, it's SO much better without. Kissing, making out, having sex, just snuggling by a fire... infinitely better sober.

11-03-2003, 07:14 PM	#34 (permalink)
twotimesadingo Psycho Location: that place with the thing	Way to go, dalnet My happiness is only tarnished by my envy. It's all about the follow-up, man. Make a joke about her pizza breath, and tell her you want to give her a chance to redeem herself... __________________ I'll be the one to protect you from your enemies and all your demons. I'll be the one to protect you from a will to survive and voice of reason. I'll be the one to protect you from your enemies and your choices, son. They're one and the same I must isolate you, isolate and save you from yourself." - A Perfect Circle

11-03-2003, 08:06 PM	#35 (permalink)
Rlyss The Pusher Location: Edinburgh	If it really is her first time kissing don't make a joke about her breath! That'll make her feel so bad! I'd go the opposite route: tell her you really liked kissing her... and if you could have another kiss that'd really make your day... she'll love it

11-03-2003, 08:42 PM	#36 (permalink)
dalnet22 Crazy	Yeah I kissed her again after school today. It wasn't really long, just a a kiss goodbye.

11-03-2003, 08:43 PM	#37 (permalink)
Averett Is In Love Location: I'm workin' on it	Awww... sound's like youre making a nice start to this relationship __________________ Absence is to love what wind is to fire. It extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.

11-04-2003, 03:55 AM	#38 (permalink)
bundy . Location: Tokyo	way to go dalnet!! you´re inspiring us all to get out there and kiss the ones we love... thanks. __________________ Ohayo!!!

11-04-2003, 04:03 AM	#39 (permalink)
jaker Crazy	punch her in the face, turn her around, and give it to her from behind...she'll never know what hit her. and isnt one suppose to be 18 to be a member of this form, and your talking about kissing after pizza, watching mary go lucky and kissing her after school?