Vaginal Wetness as it relates to Masturbation/Excitement
 

A question for the ladies, and forgive my sounding at all crude. I have very limited experience, and in my experience the few girls I've been with had very different levels of wetness at arousal/orgasm.

How wet do you get when aroused?

My experience with various girlfriends and lovers was that one was tactially wet through her jeans after some on-top-of-clothes petting, one was only slightly damp even after orgasm (petting), and two were not dry, but not noticably wet outside of their vaginas just before sex.

I'm somewhat confused on the issue, as none of these have been lasting relationships (all due to me visiting them during a long distance relationship, or them moving out of town pre-event).

Can someone shed some light on my confusion?

It all depends. For my girlfriend the only way she is wet is if she makes herself squirt..no matter how much petting and oral sex I give her she will not get wet. This is a side effect of birth control so we live with it. Most of the other people I've been with usually get mildly wet.

Gariig

My wife can be a squirter! It's pretty cool.

Jesus, you guys that brag about your girl pissing on you are a weird bunch.

But, back to the lecture at hand.

The simple answer is: a womans wetness depends on her level of sexual arousal. There are some other factors, but they aren't really relevant here.

The thing is, one womans level of wetness at maximum arousal can vary markedly from anothers.

To explain why, here is another lesson in evolutionary psychology by Spads.

Arousal, erection and ejaculation are pre-programmed and
automatic, but the niceties of sex have to be acquired.

For a girl to let a guy have sex with her, he has to pick up subtleties of courtship and stimulation.

Men have a lot to learn from gaining a woman's interest, to actually knowing what to do when they have it. A woman's
body sets the man tests.
e.g. it is the male quality that is being tested in his ability to learn how to use her body and cope with her behaviour.
The challenges are set to the man by varying her response to
what stimulates her.

The advantage a woman gains from selecting the more competent men are biological as well as sensual. The woman also uses the mans approach to foreplay and intercourse to gain information about him. If a man can stimulate the woman to a climax then she know that he has had some past experience. This tells her that other women have also found him attractive.

Thus, mixing her genes with his could produce attractive offspring who are also attractive to the opposite sex, hence increasing her reproductive success.

Her urges to do all these things are subconsciously performed by her body.

Basically, what I am saying is that all women are different. And the reason they are different is to set you a test.

Not the same.

Birth control does change it all. Before I was on birth control I got so wet that my panties got weighed down, but never anything through my pants. Now it's just little spots of it in my underwear. I don't know how it differs for other girls though. I guess everyone is a little different. Just like not all females can ejaculate not all get really wet.

Some good information already from this thread.... My major question has already been solved, according to the above posts, there is a significant difference between those girls on the pill, and those who are not. This corresponds directly with the data with which I have observed.

Thanks, this helps a lot...if anyone wants to continue posting information, I'd be happy to hear more collaborative data.

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the two are somewhat related i think. i mean if a girl is really wet she's likely to be turned on, but she may be turned on and not wet as far as i know. differs from girl to girl, from day to day. sometime i can't even figure myself out, so i wouldn't expect a guy to, especially with going girl to girl.

it does vary wildly, I personally get wet and stay wet for a long time. I know many of my friends who have wetness problems after orgasm and or after long durations. Now to squirting, Ive seen it and knew one friend who did. Its amazing so many guys here on tilted have experience in it.

If she's not wet enough go down on her and lube thing up with your tounge.

I have no problem with the wetness of the women I've been with....and I do greatly enjoy a quick romp between their legs with my tounge (and from my previously bruised ears, they enjoy it as well). The scope of this question is primarily due to my relativly limited experience, and the drastically different amounts of lubrication that I've encountered...I'm a curious boy :)

Thanks for all the replies!

Depends on the woman, nuff said.

Ive never known any of the women i have slept with to get as wet as me. In fact im very rarely dry. Iim gonna check this out in the ladies lounge

One time when not on the Depo shot my wife leaked through her panties AND overalls.. Just being with me.. It was fun to see how embarissed she was but we fucked like rabbits when she got home ;)