Same-sex Intimate Encounters
 

So, in line with Hal(x)'s thread (http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...threadid=20412), I ask the following two questions:

1) How many sexual engagements have you had with members of the same sex, if any?

2) If you have, what was your motivation? If you haven't, why not?

1) one
2) alcohol

1) zero
2) not interested at all (and no interest was expressed by others either.)

1) none
2) because the opportunity hasn't come up yet

1) One
2) Because we clicked really well. Later that day we decided to keep it 'friends'.

1) None
2) Because i don't find people of the same sex attractive.

1) One.
2) What, and pass out an opportunity for a threesome? Please.

1) Kissed a guy once.
2) Ever seen American Pie 2? Yeah. We kissed, then they kissed. But they were drunk, so then they did a whole lot more. :D

Totally worth it. :)

1) Several.
2) Girls are squishy and soft.

Girls are just so much nicer looking overall than guys. I mean, the gentle flowing curves, the ... well, "squishy and soft" parts just feel so damn nice, and they smell good. :)

1. None
2. Unlike girls, guys are hard and rough. Bleh! :p

Hmmm... nope... I guess that's open to debate and I won't get into it unless you want me to, but that isn't true, at least imo.

1) Zero
2) Maybe I'm just a tad bit curious, but girls are way more fun than guys could ever be.. to me... weee!

1) none

2) I'm just not really attracted to guys. I really don't know if i wouldn't like it but i can't say I've ever met a guy I'd want to do anything with... they're just... guys.... i dunno, not really sexually attractive to me. If I were to ever actually do anything it'd probably just be kissing... the short answer is i dunno.

1) only stuff that other jock-like/male juvenile types do when they muck around. Like pretending to fuck each other and maybe slapping each other/grabbing each others ass. Anything i've done has never been sexual and only to show off or joke around, i guess??? i haven't got any sexual enjoyment or fufillment out of it.


2) male's body is utilitarian and females body is beautiful, even though we basically came from the same place there are just a few differences which really set them apart. As AlCapOwn pointed ouot, i agree with him.

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1). none
2). not attracted to men at all.

1. None, never, no way.
2. Women are goddesses, an my only attraction.

1) Smack on the lips with my best friend.
2) Alcohol makes everything seem like a much better idea than it actually is...I'm sort of bi-curious however.

1) once
2) He asked and I was curious... Can't say it was all that thrilling but I'd do it again with the right guy. It did drive home the fact that I truly prefer women... (I'm in the soft and squishy camp).

1)alas, none
2)its so hard to find a girl that's willing, and I'm sorta shy about it, anway. Right now, in a serious relationship with a guy who's not up for me experimenting with anyone but him.

1: Just a few

2: I dated a guy in high school for about two weeks until I decided I couldn't do it anymore and that I was straight. We had a lot of fun... it just wasn't right.

we both know that's not entirely true....... :lol:

1) how many? a lot
2) i'm bi :D

1) Three so far, hopefully will be four this winter while visiting a sexy friend.

2) Both sexes are yummy! My very first was just best friends curiously experimenting before I realized I was bi, though. =)

(1) Numerous

(2) Horniness, availibility, thrill, pleasure.

1: none

2: Its not out of the question though

Never had sex with a man, and have zero desire to. I don't understand male homosexuality. However, if I was a woman I would definately be a lesbian. In fact, I suspect now that I may very well be a male lesbian.

1. several
2. how many? I realized I was bisexual 5 years ago, you do the math! :)

1.
zilch

2.
Have had guys attracted to me...I'm not offended or weirded out
Don't see it as wrong either....been offered, said sorry
Just not wired that way...It's the way I am.

Once, right after H.S.

Three-way with wife (then girlfriend) and my best friend.

1) one (sort of)
2) This was a male-female-male 3-some with absolutely no contact between us guys. I have absolutely no interest in having any sexual relations with a male.

1.) None
2.) Not interested at all. Girls are way WAY more fun.

1.Nope
2. just not attracted to the male form. If i had the same mentality i had right now and was a woman I'd be a lesbian.
I have no problems with homosexuality (more girls for me if the guy is gay and hot lesbians are a turn on)

1) yes several

2) It was mostly so my guy could watch

what he said...

Once,

Well, I was pretty young, 11ish, I dont know why to be honest!

I've been with 7 different women. 4 of which of been multiple times and 2 of those I see a regular basis.

All of the women I've been with have been in swinging situations where they hubby or SO is around and so is mine. One time at a house swinger party there were 3 of us women that went in one room to play together and the men just peaked in but didn't bother us. We told them it was girl time.

1

3-some couldn't pass up the oppertunity

None, unfortunatley.

I am really bi-curious. I could never be in a relationship with another woman, because I get along with guys so much easier, and I don't see women as any more than friends, on an emotional level.

On a sexual level, I would love to experiment with a woman. I have noticed recently that seeing my boyfriend's "hidden" porn on his computer really, really turns me on.

So I guess I never have because I have not been given the chance.

1) yes, when I was young. I was experimenting and I got busted by my parents. They treated me like I was unclean. Interesting year followed.
2) Experimentation, horniness.

1. No (hopefully never will).
2. I juist dot find guys attractive, i mean i look at a guy and see no curves(at least sexy curves), no sexy lips, no soft skin. Dang i dont know how you girls do it.

once

I was young and insecure so I sucked some dick in the name of science. Not attracted to men so I would never do it again

A few times

The first time I was twelve and had an overnight over another kids house. That night I learned how to jack off. This was good for a couple times over the evening and next day. The next night he told be about blow jobs and then we gave each other head... then anal...What the hell, it sounded reasonable. After that had sex with some friends and in college I had sex with five guys, I was gang banged by three of them one time. Years later my buddy that I did it first with we can still laugh about it. My wife thinks it's funny and his never found out. No big deal and at least I know I love women... Probably shouldn't have posted but what the hell....

1) none
2) completely hetero, I've tried imagining it, but just can't. not attracted to men in the slightest.

1) One, only a kiss.

2) Because it was a situation like the scene with the "Lesbians" from American Pie 2.

I'm TAKING ONE FOR THE TEAM!

Nope.

I wouldn't, I just don't find men attractive, and the thought of an encounter with a man does nothing.

" " " " "

1. A couple
2. Because my wife won't do it to me

None
Haven't had the opportunity.

1) None, assuming we don't include 3rd grade experimentation.

2) Not really interested (male). Happily married, don't plan to have sex with anyone else of either gender.

American Pie 2 sucked ass, but that part about "If you want see us, we get to see you." I'm a libertarian soclialist and a bisexual, so I think it is only fair for guys to have to play with their buds if they expect girls to.

It's taking one for the team, and it's one night you will never forget.

Once, I was 11.

Why? Well I really think it was due to trauma. My sister got hit by a pizza delivery truck and had to have emergency brain surgery (they took out the right front temporal lobe.) I really think that I need to be close to someone that night, it just happened to be a friend that my parents pawned me off on so they could spend the night in the hospital. I've been curious since, but have never really found myself in a presentable situation.

1) none

2) because no one loves me :(. Well actualy a lot of the bi and gay girls I know are just sluts, wouldn't wanna catch anything from them.

On the other hand I LOVE watching gay men porn. If I was a man I'd be doing it.

several times
Usually with my SO. watching or partisipating

and yes alcohol is a great stimulus

0

I just don't swing that way, no interest, no offers, even if offered NO! Women are much better, and I don't plan on having sex again untill I marry my love (she won't untill we tie the knot)

Once

I was like 12, Experimented. Would love to try it again, but i never got the chance:(

Never

Guys just don't do it for me. The thought repulses me.

1.) two.
2.) first was forced by some crazed curious girl. second was because we were curious young girls with time on our hands.

1) None.
2) No interest in it. I like girls :D

1) a few times when i was younger and "experimenting"

2) i was curious

none

but if it does happen, I pitch.