Condom or No Condom? - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

IC3 · 09-06-2003, 08:35 AM

Do you use a Condom?

I am assuming the people here who are married or have been with thier girlfriends for a long time do not, But I may be wrong.

I have used condoms before, But I just can't reach orgasm wearing a Condom...So I don't anymore, I am not saying I am big...But condoms are just to damn tight, And it takes away that ohh so good feeling that you get without a condom.

That's why I can't reach orgasm wearing a condom, That natural feeling has got to be there.

I am single, But there are a couple girls who I....Ahem....Sleep with...F*ck buddies I guess....Just giving eachother the pleasure of releasing the urge...

Soo...Condom or No Condom?

Any of you have the same problem I have with Condoms? Or am I alone on this.

Thanks.

JStrider · 09-06-2003, 08:43 AM

all the time... specially if its not a long term relationship...

Ganguro · 09-06-2003, 10:06 AM

all the time. regardless of the relaionship.
I dont want kids, or germs.. It's pretty simple .

An orgasm isn't worth having an unplanned child, or dying.

tenchi069 · 09-06-2003, 10:15 AM

Fiance is my first and only and we are both clean. She is on the pill. No I don't wear a condom. Were it not a long term relationship or she was not already on birth control then yes I would.

SiN · 09-06-2003, 10:37 AM

voted for depends on who with...

currently (and hopefully forever) with my bf, we're both clean and i'm on the pill. so, no, we don't use condoms.

cheerios · 09-06-2003, 10:59 AM

I'm the no, but let me preface that w/ the conditions it happens under.

#1: we were both virgins when we started.
#2: we are monogomous (sp?)
#3: I'm on the pill

I, too, have no need for little squirts, and the risk of germs, as gang puts it, is relatively small. We're std-free, and if i'm willing to eat off his fork, then, well, I'm not worried about his cooties.

kel · 09-06-2003, 12:19 PM

Don't trust the woman I'm with... I'm the type to demand a doctor's note if the girl gives me the wrong impression. Sex with someone I don't love means very little to me. If she gets insulted and says no I really don't care.

twotimesadingo · 09-06-2003, 01:06 PM

Voted that it depends on who I'm with.

Years ago, when I was young and stupid, I had promiscuous sex with multiple partners, and managed to avoid the HIV.
I've been with my girlfriend for a few years now, and we don't use condoms, but she's on the pill, and miraculously, I'm clean, so that's that.

yournamehere · 09-06-2003, 01:23 PM

Never.

Of course - I've been monogamous since 1986, and although the last few years of my promiscuous days had an element of risk, for the most part, it was the pre-HIV days.

So no - never.

collide · 09-06-2003, 01:53 PM

Ganguro summed it up for me. I was never fond of taking pills for anything at all, so condoms are the way to go.

theguyondacouch · 09-06-2003, 01:56 PM

yes always, better safe than sorry, and i last longer.

sexymama · 09-06-2003, 04:05 PM

I prefer not to use them -- so am on the patch. As long as Lebell and I are together, no way! However, if that were to change (heaven forbid) then I'd definitely use the latex free kind.

macmanmike6100 · 09-06-2003, 04:06 PM

if she's on the pill and we're in a long-term (and have been tested for STDs) then i'm not going to wear one (unless she wants to).

with fuck buddies or one-nighters, condoms all the way

Mongolguy · 09-06-2003, 04:18 PM

Befor I got married, all the time. Then even after till we decided to have kids. Two weeks of no-glove-love and she was preggers. Then back to the condoms till the next kid. We decided to stop at three and I got snipped.

tbc · 09-06-2003, 06:10 PM

If the girls on the pill and clean then no but any other time condom. I'm not ready for kids.

Stare At The Sun · 09-06-2003, 06:20 PM

Tried to use one once, ripped it off, and pounded it the way it should be done. Though, a few months later, she got pregnant.

. I lucked out w/ the good ol miscarriage though

. *phew* been kinda avoiding sex since then

BigDonkey2 · 09-06-2003, 06:36 PM

all the time...always be safe

rival · 09-06-2003, 09:58 PM

It really depends who I am with, I guess. I don't like condoms because they completely dull the sensation for me. At this point no sex is worth an STD or child, though. So, basically, I only have sex when in a long term relationship with someone I trust. *

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though, a few months later, she got pregnant. . I lucked out w/ the good ol miscarriage though

That has to be better than winning the lottery.

* In theory. Sometimes it's hard to be rational when you're hard.

quantumburnz · 09-06-2003, 10:50 PM

I'd have to say all the time, but in my younger days, maybe about a year ago? A girl coaxed me into not using a condom. I'm clean though, I think, but ya, condoms from now on...

analog · 09-06-2003, 11:03 PM

I voted for option 2- depends on who i'm with.

I've not been very promiscuous in my 22 years here, I didn't lose my virginity until 18 (I was a very, VERY shy person, despite anything else about me). I've only had 4 partners. The first was a 5-month relationship- clean, pill, no condom. Second was a 3-year relationship- clean (she was a virgin), pill, no condom. Third was a chick from work (a different store than I work at) who I knew nothign about her past, it was a hookup- condom all the way.

And finally, my sweet baby... going on about 6 months now, happiest i've ever been in my whole life... we're fucking like rabbits, on the pill, no condom. Damn she fine! heh heh

bundy · 09-06-2003, 11:28 PM

definitely depends on who its with.
when i'm in long term, monogamous relationships, then i don't use one.
for one night stands, they are essential genital attire.

james t kirk · 09-07-2003, 05:48 AM

Honestly.....

Sometimes.

And that's the god's honest truth.

vveronica · 09-07-2003, 07:25 AM

I am in the nooo.
I have been active for years but, out side of a time when i could not control the events I have always knows my partners well enough to know where that thing they want to stick in me has been. Welll There were some times when i was a lot younger but i dodged the billions of those tailed bullets

brandon11983 · 09-07-2003, 10:31 AM

My g/f is on the pill, so I avoid condoms like the plague. It just feels better.

juanvaldes · 09-07-2003, 10:42 AM

nope.

firebirdta · 09-07-2003, 11:35 AM

My girlfriend is on the pill, but we're both too young for a child, so we always use a condom. It gives us both that extra comfort and allows us to enjoy each other without having to worry about her getting pregnant.

legolas · 09-07-2003, 12:10 PM

We always use a condom but last night we were both real drunk and it was close. I wish she'd go on the pill but she says it complicates things and has bad side effects.

MadMax · 09-08-2003, 04:12 AM

When I was single I always used a condom - except once and guess what she became pregnant, that's all it took.

To to all you young cum filled blokes out there take it from someone who's been there:

If it's not on then it's not on!!

wry1 · 09-08-2003, 10:43 PM

If you're not using a condom, you'd better be getting tested for AIDS (and every other venerial disease) at least monthly!

Life is too short....especially if you have a killer virus attacking you. Be responsible, put a rubber on. If you can't get off using one, fuck her silly and then have her finish you orally - without that pesky condom!

But don't be a moron, man!

motdakasha · 09-09-2003, 01:05 AM

I'd like to be Captain Obvious for a moment and point out the fact that you can't possibly get tested for AIDS at least monthly. The most you can get tested is once every 6 months.

absorbentishe · 09-09-2003, 05:31 AM

Not now. I've been married for 7+ years, and I've had the pipes disconnected. Now if I weren't married, then I'd be wearing one every time.

cruisergirl · 09-09-2003, 10:18 PM

Seeing as I'm still married to my first, I haven't really had to worry. We always used rubbers. No glove, no love. When we decided to go bareback to conceive, my husband got addicted to the naked pootie-tang, so I went on the shot. But you should never give it a chance, you can get heppatitus C from a toilet seat or a tatoo! So protect yourself.There ya go.

SkanK0r · 09-10-2003, 12:11 PM

Nope, I've been with my girlfriend a year, she's on the pill.

cjjeep21 · 09-10-2003, 12:22 PM

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Originally posted by UnlikedOne
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. I lucked out w/ the good ol miscarriage though

. *phew* been kinda avoiding sex since then [/B]

you are a very sick person. go get some help

Swimalum · 09-10-2003, 02:16 PM

I was ina long relationship and never used one... always use them when I am unsure....

druptight · 09-10-2003, 02:44 PM

i said sometimes, but not because of who it's with, my gf and i just use them most of the time, but not every time. She's on the pill, so we usually use them for extra protection, but sometimes we don't use one just for me....

Apache · 09-11-2003, 10:03 PM

Well I've been married for almost 4 years now, I was on the pill at first but had really bad side effects from them, so I figured I would get the same from a shot. While I was on the pill though we never used a condom, then when I decided to go off them two years ago we have almost always used them. There have been those nights when we have run out and we just gotta do it, then it's the pull out method, but I think that I hate condoms more than my husband. Ok that may not be true but I really do hate them anyway. But you gotta do what ya gotta do I guess.

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Sometimes..Depends Who It Is With	42	42.42%
No, Never	21	21.21%
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09-06-2003, 08:35 AM	#1 (permalink)
IC3 Poison Location: Canada	Condom or No Condom? Do you use a Condom? I am assuming the people here who are married or have been with thier girlfriends for a long time do not, But I may be wrong. I have used condoms before, But I just can't reach orgasm wearing a Condom...So I don't anymore, I am not saying I am big...But condoms are just to damn tight, And it takes away that ohh so good feeling that you get without a condom. That's why I can't reach orgasm wearing a condom, That natural feeling has got to be there. I am single, But there are a couple girls who I....Ahem....Sleep with...F*ck buddies I guess....Just giving eachother the pleasure of releasing the urge... Soo...Condom or No Condom? Any of you have the same problem I have with Condoms? Or am I alone on this. Thanks.

09-06-2003, 08:43 AM	#2 (permalink)
JStrider Poo-tee-weet? Location: The Woodlands, TX	all the time... specially if its not a long term relationship... __________________ -=JStrider=- ~Clatto Verata Nicto

09-06-2003, 10:15 AM	#4 (permalink)
tenchi069 Lost Location: One step closer to the padded cell...	Fiance is my first and only and we are both clean. She is on the pill. No I don't wear a condom. Were it not a long term relationship or she was not already on birth control then yes I would. __________________ ERROR- PLBSAK Problem Lies Between Seat and Keyboard.

09-06-2003, 10:37 AM	#5 (permalink)
SiN strangelove Location: ...more here than there...	voted for depends on who with... currently (and hopefully forever) with my bf, we're both clean and i'm on the pill. so, no, we don't use condoms. __________________ - + - ° GiRLie GeeK ° - + - ° 01110010011011110110111101110100001000000110110101100101 Therell be days/When Ill stray/I may appear to be/Constantly out of reach/I give in to sin/Because I like to practise what I preach

09-06-2003, 10:06 AM	#3 (permalink)
Ganguro Army of Me	all the time. regardless of the relaionship. I dont want kids, or germs.. It's pretty simple . An orgasm isn't worth having an unplanned child, or dying.

09-06-2003, 10:59 AM	#6 (permalink)
cheerios Banned Location: 'bout 2 feet from my iMac	I'm the no, but let me preface that w/ the conditions it happens under. #1: we were both virgins when we started. #2: we are monogomous (sp?) #3: I'm on the pill I, too, have no need for little squirts, and the risk of germs, as gang puts it, is relatively small. We're std-free, and if i'm willing to eat off his fork, then, well, I'm not worried about his cooties.

09-06-2003, 12:19 PM	#7 (permalink)
kel WARNING: FLAMMABLE Location: Ask Acetylene	condomn only Don't trust the woman I'm with... I'm the type to demand a doctor's note if the girl gives me the wrong impression. Sex with someone I don't love means very little to me. If she gets insulted and says no I really don't care. __________________ "It better be funny"

09-06-2003, 01:06 PM	#8 (permalink)
twotimesadingo Psycho Location: that place with the thing	Voted that it depends on who I'm with. Years ago, when I was young and stupid, I had promiscuous sex with multiple partners, and managed to avoid the HIV. I've been with my girlfriend for a few years now, and we don't use condoms, but she's on the pill, and miraculously, I'm clean, so that's that. __________________ I'll be the one to protect you from your enemies and all your demons. I'll be the one to protect you from a will to survive and voice of reason. I'll be the one to protect you from your enemies and your choices, son. They're one and the same I must isolate you, isolate and save you from yourself." - A Perfect Circle

09-06-2003, 01:23 PM	#9 (permalink)
yournamehere Invisible Location: tentative, at best	Never. Of course - I've been monogamous since 1986, and although the last few years of my promiscuous days had an element of risk, for the most part, it was the pre-HIV days. So no - never. __________________ If you want to avoid 95% of internet spelling errors: "If your ridiculous pants are too loose, you're definitely going to lose them. Tell your two loser friends over there that they're going to lose theirs, too." It won't hurt your fashion sense, either.

09-06-2003, 01:53 PM	#10 (permalink)
collide Turn off your TV. Location: ... .- -. ..-. .-. .- -. -.-. .. ... -.-. --- --..-- -.-. .-	Ganguro summed it up for me. I was never fond of taking pills for anything at all, so condoms are the way to go. __________________ "inhuman fiery goat worship" is an anagram for "information superhighway" -kingvolc

09-06-2003, 01:56 PM	#11 (permalink)
theguyondacouch salmon? Location: Outside Providence	yes always, better safe than sorry, and i last longer. __________________ "Lick my frozen metal ass!"

09-06-2003, 04:05 PM	#12 (permalink)
sexymama My own person -- his by choice Location: Lebell's arms	I prefer not to use them -- so am on the patch. As long as Lebell and I are together, no way! However, if that were to change (heaven forbid) then I'd definitely use the latex free kind. __________________ If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.

09-06-2003, 04:06 PM	#13 (permalink)
macmanmike6100 High Honorary Junkie Location: Tri-state.	if she's on the pill and we're in a long-term (and have been tested for STDs) then i'm not going to wear one (unless she wants to). with fuck buddies or one-nighters, condoms all the way

09-06-2003, 04:18 PM	#14 (permalink)
Mongolguy Crazy Location: My own little world. 'Cause they know me there.	Befor I got married, all the time. Then even after till we decided to have kids. Two weeks of no-glove-love and she was preggers. Then back to the condoms till the next kid. We decided to stop at three and I got snipped.

09-07-2003, 10:42 AM	#25 (permalink)
juanvaldes Banned Location: shittown, CA	nope.

09-06-2003, 06:10 PM	#15 (permalink)
tbc Crazy	If the girls on the pill and clean then no but any other time condom. I'm not ready for kids.

09-06-2003, 06:20 PM	#16 (permalink)
Stare At The Sun Eh? Location: Somewhere over the rainbow	Tried to use one once, ripped it off, and pounded it the way it should be done. Though, a few months later, she got pregnant. . I lucked out w/ the good ol miscarriage though . phew been kinda avoiding sex since then

09-06-2003, 06:36 PM	#17 (permalink)
BigDonkey2 Insane Location: California	all the time...always be safe

09-06-2003, 10:50 PM	#19 (permalink)
quantumburnz Tilted Location: Tucson, AZ	I'd have to say all the time, but in my younger days, maybe about a year ago? A girl coaxed me into not using a condom. I'm clean though, I think, but ya, condoms from now on... __________________ University of Arizona Tucson, AZ Computer Engineering

09-06-2003, 11:03 PM	#20 (permalink)
analog Banned	I voted for option 2- depends on who i'm with. I've not been very promiscuous in my 22 years here, I didn't lose my virginity until 18 (I was a very, VERY shy person, despite anything else about me). I've only had 4 partners. The first was a 5-month relationship- clean, pill, no condom. Second was a 3-year relationship- clean (she was a virgin), pill, no condom. Third was a chick from work (a different store than I work at) who I knew nothign about her past, it was a hookup- condom all the way. And finally, my sweet baby... going on about 6 months now, happiest i've ever been in my whole life... we're fucking like rabbits, on the pill, no condom. Damn she fine! heh heh

09-06-2003, 11:28 PM	#21 (permalink)
bundy . Location: Tokyo	definitely depends on who its with. when i'm in long term, monogamous relationships, then i don't use one. for one night stands, they are essential genital attire. __________________ Ohayo!!!

09-07-2003, 05:48 AM	#22 (permalink)
james t kirk Junkie Location: Toronto	Honestly..... Sometimes. And that's the god's honest truth.

09-07-2003, 07:25 AM	#23 (permalink)
vveronica Psycho Location: northern california	I am in the nooo. I have been active for years but, out side of a time when i could not control the events I have always knows my partners well enough to know where that thing they want to stick in me has been. Welll There were some times when i was a lot younger but i dodged the billions of those tailed bullets __________________ ...We find ourselves in a struggle for our very right to exsist... We will not go quietly into the night... We will not give up without a fight...

09-07-2003, 10:31 AM	#24 (permalink)
brandon11983 Stereophonic Location: Chitown!!	My g/f is on the pill, so I avoid condoms like the plague. It just feels better. __________________ Well behaved women rarely make history.

09-07-2003, 11:35 AM	#26 (permalink)
firebirdta Crazy	My girlfriend is on the pill, but we're both too young for a child, so we always use a condom. It gives us both that extra comfort and allows us to enjoy each other without having to worry about her getting pregnant. __________________ "Even if you prove me wrong, I'm not going to believe you." - A. McGill

09-07-2003, 12:10 PM	#27 (permalink)
legolas shit faced cockmaster Location: CT	We always use a condom but last night we were both real drunk and it was close. I wish she'd go on the pill but she says it complicates things and has bad side effects. __________________ "To alcohol! The cause of, and solution to, all of life's problems."

09-08-2003, 04:12 AM	#28 (permalink)
MadMax Upright Location: Sydney, Australia	When I was single I always used a condom - except once and guess what she became pregnant, that's all it took. To to all you young cum filled blokes out there take it from someone who's been there: If it's not on then it's not on!!

09-08-2003, 10:43 PM	#29 (permalink)
wry1 Loser Location: Far too far from my Angel....	If you're not using a condom, you'd better be getting tested for AIDS (and every other venerial disease) at least monthly! Life is too short....especially if you have a killer virus attacking you. Be responsible, put a rubber on. If you can't get off using one, fuck her silly and then have her finish you orally - without that pesky condom! But don't be a moron, man!

09-09-2003, 01:05 AM	#30 (permalink)
motdakasha Hiya Puddin'! Miss me? Location: Silicon Valley, CA	I'd like to be Captain Obvious for a moment and point out the fact that you can't possibly get tested for AIDS at least monthly. The most you can get tested is once every 6 months. __________________ =^-^= motdakasha =^-^= Just Google It. BA Psychology & Photography (I'm not going psychoanalyze you nor will I let you cry on my shoulder. Have a nice day.)

09-09-2003, 05:31 AM	#31 (permalink)
absorbentishe Boy am I horny today Location: T O L E D O, Toledo!!	Not now. I've been married for 7+ years, and I've had the pipes disconnected. Now if I weren't married, then I'd be wearing one every time.

09-09-2003, 10:18 PM	#32 (permalink)
cruisergirl Upright Location: Mesa	Seeing as I'm still married to my first, I haven't really had to worry. We always used rubbers. No glove, no love. When we decided to go bareback to conceive, my husband got addicted to the naked pootie-tang, so I went on the shot. But you should never give it a chance, you can get heppatitus C from a toilet seat or a tatoo! So protect yourself.There ya go. __________________ If your going to ride my ass, at least pull my hair. Love, Cruisergirl.

09-10-2003, 12:11 PM	#33 (permalink)
SkanK0r Crazy	Nope, I've been with my girlfriend a year, she's on the pill.

09-10-2003, 02:16 PM	#35 (permalink)
Swimalum Upright Location: Royal Oak, MI	I was ina long relationship and never used one... always use them when I am unsure.... __________________ He who leads, but hjas no followers, is just taking a walk.

09-10-2003, 02:44 PM	#36 (permalink)
druptight Banned Location: In Your Pants!!!!	i said sometimes, but not because of who it's with, my gf and i just use them most of the time, but not every time. She's on the pill, so we usually use them for extra protection, but sometimes we don't use one just for me....

09-11-2003, 10:03 PM	#37 (permalink)
Apache Insane	Well I've been married for almost 4 years now, I was on the pill at first but had really bad side effects from them, so I figured I would get the same from a shot. While I was on the pill though we never used a condom, then when I decided to go off them two years ago we have almost always used them. There have been those nights when we have run out and we just gotta do it, then it's the pull out method, but I think that I hate condoms more than my husband. Ok that may not be true but I really do hate them anyway. But you gotta do what ya gotta do I guess.