Getting laid: One of your life goals?
 

I know it was for me. What about you?

Not directly, no. I wanted to get a loving and serious girlfriend. Got one. Got laid. But the getting laid part wasn't my direct aim, just a nice fringe benefit :)

Yeah for sure.

of course, as well as getting anal and having two girls at once :) lol

Getting, or giving anal?

It wasn't for me. I *wanted* to get laid, but I would have been okay in life without it I think.

yeah i guess so. Namely because it's the pinnacle of human interaction, well for me.

Not at all. I was perfectly content with life before i got laid. I don't see how it changed anything in my life now.

Yeah, it was when I was a teenager. Hormones can do that to you.

It is. And since having it, it's still a priority in my life.

Yes, it IS a goal of mine. School starts Monday...

Definitely.

nope, but i dont ever mind it.

yeah i have to admit that i think im in the category that it was a lifetime goal... but i feel no different at all since im not a virgin anymore... not a bit different.

I think you will have a better chance at meeting your goal if you don't focus too much on it - just relax. You'll have a much better chance of meeting a cool attractive girl who wants to have sex with you if you just chill out and take it one step at a time. The sex itself won't necessarily be that great, but a fun relationship with sex will be.

Which is not to say having sex a life goal makes you a little horny freak running around trying to hump people's legs, but I have known some people who do act that way, and god willing, they will never procreate. Just relax, have fun, and soon enough the sex will come.

Umm... i wouldnt say its one of my life goals... life goals have to have a little bit more importance to most people.

Take it easy, dudes. Sex is fun, but sex isn't important. Don't confuse the two. If your self-esteem depends on being able to FUK A CHIKC, you better re-evaluate your priorities.

Is there anything important besides sex?;)

^^^
Understatment. :D

Gettin laid was not that big of deal for me, I even turned down a few offers from my gf before i decided to do it.

maybe if you stated it differently?....

One of my goals is to find someone that i love and loves me and share the rest of our lives together.

yes, along with running across the road int he middle of nowhere with a sasquatch outfit on

hell yes

Yeah- I could get a fat chik wasted, and bust a nut in her if I really really wanted to. I'd much rather my first time be with a girl I actually care about. Hopefully she'll come along sometime soon.

...yea gettin laid too

Before I was old enough to consider it, I thought it was, but now, I'm not in a hurry to go do it. When the time is right, it will happen.

Considering that human beings are hard-wired to pro-create, I guess that would make it one of my life's goals. Having achieved that, it still ranks high on my priority list and will remain there for many years to come (at least until I have kids and they suck the life out of me, that is).

When I was pretty young, I told my friends and myself that I fully intended to lose my virginity by 16. Really, I just wanted to know what it was like, so it was more curiosity than it was some really important life goal. I had succeeded, however, my plan didn't go as well as I had hoped. The guy I had written off in my mind as a one-night stand kinda guy pursued me and ended up being my worst boyfriend ever for two years.

It was, but I realised that there so much more than that.

After that it was an extra goodie when it came.

Well, when I was 18.

well i was a pretty horny virgin. and i wished i could just get it over with and DO it so i wouldn't have to wait and think about the first time being special and shit.. but i wouldn't say it was a *life goal*.. i'd just like to find someone compatible. haven't yet :P

My advice for anyone who makes it a life-quest to get laid: STOP RIGHT NOW.

My high school years were all about trying to get laid. I had it so hyped up in my head that the first experience (and everyone thereafter for quite a while) pretty much sucked.

Nope, it isn't a goal for me. I am in a comitted relatonship that I hope will turn into marriage, so we are waiting. I'll get laid sooner or later.

it never was my goal to get laid, but if a woman shoed intrest in a good sexual experiance, i gave it to her.. my first time was unexpected when i was 12 with an older experianced woman..

now 16 yrs later, have already got laid with 100+ women from many diiferent cultures...and still looking for more experinaces with other women until i find that one thta sweep off my feet.
I found her once, but she was only a friend, and she was married, so nothing happened..

Mine probably wasn't a life goal, but I gotta say, I sure enjoyed my first time. It's something nice to look forward to.

sltkr2000 - I seem to keep posting after you and your posts never cease to amaze me. 100+ women!??! Whew... you've been busy!

I'm with anti-fishstick on this. I didn't want my first time with someone SPECIAL to be awkward and uncomfortable. I wanted to be prepared for when it really mattered.

Getting laid with the right girl is a goal. Not just with any chick. If that was the case, paying for it would be the obvious move.

hmmm i think you misinterpreted me. i DID want my first time to be special which is why i wished i WASN'T a virgin so i wouldn't hesitate to have sex with people so much... bcos if i wasn't a virgin, that first 'special' time would have already happened. but you do pose a good point.... while i don't regret loosing my virginity at the time i did, and don't doubt it was special to me... i'll be a lot more prepared for the time with someone even greater. :P

yeah, lifes goal... still :(

It's one of my goals, but I want to lose it with someone who means something to me. I want it to be special and I want to be truly in love with her. I figure when the time is right it will happen.

When I was 16-17, I just wanted to be laid. It didn't matter with who. Once I figured out it was going to take a bit to get good at it, I started going for quality rather than quantity.

I don't know if it is one of my life goals, but I sure would like for it to happen eventually

It was a life goal of mine yes definitely I DIDNT WANT TO DIE A VIRGIN!

Well I lost it with someone one night, after a bar. It could have meant nothing and just pure fucking, but i think we made a little bit more, i was 18, she was 22, and didnt know i was a virgin. After the awkwardness of it all it was great....

Nope. By the time I had done it, it was too early to decide or to really know. No, my goal now is to..wait...what was it...

Not really, no.

I wanted to get laid, but I never thought of it as a milestone in my life.

For those of you that did, you really need to get out more.....

While it's not an all-consuming task, I certainly won't do anything to deter my getting some 'tang.

I had a goal of loosing my virginity before i was 16. It didnt happen before but it happened that year. The lay wasnt memerable....cause i really cant remember much cause i was drunk at a house party. One of my best friends lost his virginity to the same girl....the same night.....only minutes after me, after i passed out. I think i left her wanting more.....but i wasnt in a position to do it.

I now just try to make sex an important and consistent occurence in my life. So far SO good, lol.

All these potential diseases sure make you be careful of your every move though.

No such thing as just free love anymore!