Friends wife
 

So my buddy tells me his wife likes me and that the have an open relationship he wants to know if she can come over. I said yes and she came over three times last week now he wants to know if I would mind if we both did her. IM still a little uneasy about that.
What do you guys think

why not! go for it!

That is what i was thinking about it. Figgured its not every day that it happens so might as well go for it

why not.....
 

If all are up to it.... just set the ground rules ahead of time.....

this is a pretty once in a lifetime opportunity, and if they're both cool with it, why not? ground rules are definatly good... web cam would be too! at the very least, have fun!

Stupid thing, but you better make sure that they are clean, and find out if it has happened before, you dont want jealousy to come into play, and ruin the friendship. Sorry to be the one to say this, but it might royall fuck your friendship as you might look at them in a different light, and you might act differently, she might be amazing in bed, you might try to do it again, she denies, you get pissed, whatever, i would just advise you to really think about it...

Well I know he has done it before but she was virgin when they got married and I was the first one plus I strapped one on. And he always uses a condom when he does other girls and they are only people he knows and he has only done it with two other girls.

It certainly has the ability to make things wierd between you and your friend. Keep it in mind.

Let the come fly...

Yea I know but we are good friends and he said if i didnt want to no big deal and if I get a girlfriend or something I don’t have to do his wife anymore. I guess after 11 years of being together they just wanted to try different things. Plus she likes my piercings.

If you feel comfortable with it, then go for it. Otherwise say no.

can you say, sorry Im not into the 3some thing but can I still continue banging your wife?

bone her

Why the hell not, the guy is letting you bang his wife, the least you can do is let him join in on the fun ;)


MB

i told him sure why the hell not. Might be fun.
:crazy:

Details!

As long as your boundaries are set, who cares! Keep us informed

i don't think i could perform properly with another guy right there like that, it's really a performance issue more than anything else. i'm a very secure guy, but the thought of double-teaming a chick with another guy is not really that appealing to me. BUT, if you are up for it- do that shit, hit that bitch!

That is my main hangup dont know what will happen dont want to be like it doesnt want to get up caus he is there. I will just hope fir the best i guess. It will bee a few days because i laid down my bike and banged my leg up and i am a gimp right now

Some people don't like the idea of three or more-somes.

Personally, I have no problem with it. Some of the best sex I've had has been in threesomes!

Mr Mephisto

oh, after you're done tag teaming her with her hubby, slap her in the face and start calling her "finger cuffs." i hear chicks dig that shit.

I've done that kind of thing twice. Both times with the husband present and one with my girlfriend involved with the gal's husband. Had a great time. Still get along with all involved 20 years later.

is this too much to be asking but take the pictures of the escapade?

this is for sharing for your friends at tfp (number one!) who enjoy to look at the sexy wives who are having sexy with many swollen cocks.

if not the pictures, i understand for you may be shy of your member.

My wife and I have a friend that we would like to do this with, but he doesnt seem to be interested. I think he is afraid it will fuck up our friendship. My wife is pretty hot, and I guess im just a perv cause the thought of her with me and someone else is mucho sexy. Coming from my point of view, I know my wife loves me and our relationship is built on more than just sex, so doing something like a 3sum is more for our fun as a couple rather than NEEDING to get it somewhere else. just my .02

Y'know, that's a line I never thought I'd see anywhere. :crazy:

Damn funny though. :)

Re: Friends wife
 

Something like that happened to me, only it was really spontaneous and it developed into a great, polyfidelitous relationship.

However, a one time deal might be very fun. Just know boundaries, their concerns, your concerns, and you should be all set (assuming the people involved have no STDs).

Go for it.. take a lot of the adive already listed and take it into consideration.. You know her, your friend, and yourself, you know if it will work

I can't stress this enough....GROUND RULES...and go for it...

go for it dude

Yeah go for it just make sure in advance your friend doesn't want to do you.

You'll need new orgy friends! New carpeting! Then you'll be an orgy guy!!!!

(Apologies to Jerry.)

If you think you can deal with it ... GO FOR IT!!!!

Been around a lot of this in the past. Bottom line things can get wierd, but when can they not. Sounds like the coast is clear with these two. You're already in this one if you like it or not. You're going to have to fuck your way back out of it.

do it before she (or he) decides you are a ninny for having to think about it...

a mans greatest gift in this world is the gift of his wife...

i say go for it! and let us know what happens!

not my cup of tea... but if you've all set the limits... what the heck!

It would be pretty awkward but what the hell, go for it

Flip for sides - heads or tails?

go for it mate it sounds like there wacked so i say size the moment

Heh. Fingercuffs.

You have nothing to lose.
It is not like she is your wife and this might end your marriage.
If your mate is happy to share then go for it.

no

Echo on laying out the ground rules first. If you aren't interested in guys, you probably aren't going to want your neighbour thinking that this means you want to suck him off!

as someone who is married & 39, i'm telling you if you don't do it now, you'll always wonder what it would've been like.

just be prepared for some awkward situations later on.

maybe discuss it with them.........,"hey, swingers, i'm in as long as i don't have to put up with ANY mindfuck fallout from this later. ok? let's get naked."

I've done the two guys and one girl thing with my best friend a few times. It's hard to get hard at first but if you can put the male thing behind you, it's very fun.

8~0

I would never let my wife have sex w/o me, but if your bud is already that care free then a 3sum with him seems like a step down from what you have already done.

I would normally say do it, but man weird situation. Happened to me, wife only been with him, he asked if i would be the second man. I did, she tried to come over for more all the time. Weird situation.

Any news from this situation?

When you start, call out "I get the butt", and see what happens!

Seriously, you might as well, if you are good friends, then your friendship could over come any problems later, but there shouldn't be. If you don't, then you will always wonder..

Im doing it this weekend i will let you know how it goes:crazy:

if they're both ok with it... then there's no harm to you (except wear proper protection)...

it's not everyday you get a chance to do that...

and they both willingly want to try it too.

I say go for it...damn, what a turn on. It may kill your relationship but what the fuck...it will be a great time.

Well, how did it go?

Yea, how did it go. Don't leave us hanging.

Friends and sex don't mesh. It is the dream, but a dream better lived with anonymous people.

It can mesh, but it is very fraught with danger. Most people can't get past the emotions that are generated. It is just sex. Enjoy it as much as possible.

It went good did it friday night and again on saturday. And they want me to come over again this weekend. Thing havent changed at all i see him at work every day and nothing different at all. He said thanks for helping him she was starting to over sex him LOL

That is fantastic. The only time it could become awkward is if you get a girlfriend who isn't into it, but if you added a 4th, it could get even more interesting. At least it is working well now.

Your buddy said he's over sexed? She must be wearing him out then, or she has a sex drive like no other I've been with! Looks like it's working out for both of you, way to go!

(Chinese) Fingercuffs and tag teaming are totally different! Fingercuffs = 1 guy fucks, 1 guy is fellated. Tag Team = 2 guys taking turns fucking her. SO different!



Anyways, you sound like you could cope with any strange aftermath. It sounds like they won't be weirded out since they're experienced. If you are comfortable with the idea of both genders being present, then I say go for it. And yes, ground rules, perhaps even a safe word in case if it gets really weird or something.

I'm in agreement with most of these other people....GO FOR IT DUDE

That is a piss poor way of making the rest of us pigs feel poorly. Of course you should. We all (or most) have had that fantacy before.

This is not as rare an occurance as you all may think :thumbsup:

Been there and done that and had fun everytime. As long as you dont let feelings get involved and just do it as a sex thing