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rodgerd · 08-05-2003, 11:56 AM

Echo on laying out the ground rules first. If you aren't interested in guys, you probably aren't going to want your neighbour thinking that this means you want to suck him off!

jimk · 08-05-2003, 01:12 PM

as someone who is married & 39, i'm telling you if you don't do it now, you'll always wonder what it would've been like.

just be prepared for some awkward situations later on.

maybe discuss it with them.........,"hey, swingers, i'm in as long as i don't have to put up with ANY mindfuck fallout from this later. ok? let's get naked."

Force 10 · 08-05-2003, 04:16 PM

I've done the two guys and one girl thing with my best friend a few times. It's hard to get hard at first but if you can put the male thing behind you, it's very fun.

Fagabeefe · 08-05-2003, 08:52 PM

xxmsaxx · 08-05-2003, 09:13 PM

I would never let my wife have sex w/o me, but if your bud is already that care free then a 3sum with him seems like a step down from what you have already done.

kilty · 08-06-2003, 12:06 AM

I would normally say do it, but man weird situation. Happened to me, wife only been with him, he asked if i would be the second man. I did, she tried to come over for more all the time. Weird situation.

08-07-2003, 09:21 PM

Any news from this situation?

absorbentishe · 08-08-2003, 05:28 AM

When you start, call out "I get the butt", and see what happens!

Seriously, you might as well, if you are good friends, then your friendship could over come any problems later, but there shouldn't be. If you don't, then you will always wonder..

holden777 · 08-08-2003, 05:35 AM

Im doing it this weekend i will let you know how it goes

aestivalis · 08-12-2003, 12:40 PM

if they're both ok with it... then there's no harm to you (except wear proper protection)...

it's not everyday you get a chance to do that...

and they both willingly want to try it too.

mute76 · 08-13-2003, 08:23 AM

I say go for it...damn, what a turn on. It may kill your relationship but what the fuck...it will be a great time.

Mango · 08-13-2003, 09:28 AM

Well, how did it go?

iceman2032 · 08-13-2003, 09:33 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Mango
Well, how did it go?

Yea, how did it go. Don't leave us hanging.

funbob · 08-13-2003, 10:03 AM

Friends and sex don't mesh. It is the dream, but a dream better lived with anonymous people.

skysooner · 08-13-2003, 10:09 AM

It can mesh, but it is very fraught with danger. Most people can't get past the emotions that are generated. It is just sex. Enjoy it as much as possible.

holden777 · 08-13-2003, 11:15 AM

It went good did it friday night and again on saturday. And they want me to come over again this weekend. Thing havent changed at all i see him at work every day and nothing different at all. He said thanks for helping him she was starting to over sex him LOL

skysooner · 08-13-2003, 11:32 AM

That is fantastic. The only time it could become awkward is if you get a girlfriend who isn't into it, but if you added a 4th, it could get even more interesting. At least it is working well now.

absorbentishe · 08-13-2003, 11:50 AM

Your buddy said he's over sexed? She must be wearing him out then, or she has a sex drive like no other I've been with! Looks like it's working out for both of you, way to go!

motdakasha · 08-13-2003, 01:02 PM

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Originally posted by Mael
oh, after you're done tag teaming her with her hubby, slap her in the face and start calling her "finger cuffs." i hear chicks dig that shit.

(Chinese) Fingercuffs and tag teaming are totally different! Fingercuffs = 1 guy fucks, 1 guy is fellated. Tag Team = 2 guys taking turns fucking her. SO different!

Anyways, you sound like you could cope with any strange aftermath. It sounds like they won't be weirded out since they're experienced. If you are comfortable with the idea of both genders being present, then I say go for it. And yes, ground rules, perhaps even a safe word in case if it gets really weird or something.

happy_joy · 08-13-2003, 07:20 PM

I'm in agreement with most of these other people....GO FOR IT DUDE

yankeefatboy · 08-13-2003, 07:31 PM

That is a piss poor way of making the rest of us pigs feel poorly. Of course you should. We all (or most) have had that fantacy before.

Juxtapozed · 08-13-2003, 07:49 PM

This is not as rare an occurance as you all may think

Vanilla Ice · 08-13-2003, 11:52 PM

Been there and done that and had fun everytime. As long as you dont let feelings get involved and just do it as a sex thing

08-05-2003, 11:37 AM	#41 (permalink)
bender Addict Location: around the corner	no Last edited by bender; 10-21-2003 at 01:08 PM..

08-05-2003, 01:12 PM	#43 (permalink)
jimk Addict Location: Chicago	as someone who is married & 39, i'm telling you if you don't do it now, you'll always wonder what it would've been like. just be prepared for some awkward situations later on. maybe discuss it with them.........,"hey, swingers, i'm in as long as i don't have to put up with ANY mindfuck fallout from this later. ok? let's get naked." __________________ raw power is a guaranteed o.d. raw power is a laughin' at you & me -iggy

08-05-2003, 08:52 PM	#45 (permalink)
Fagabeefe What? WHAT?! Location: Over here	8~0 __________________ If you can't make fun of yourself... Well at least there's always the French! Those chese-eating surrender monkeys!

08-05-2003, 09:13 PM	#46 (permalink)
xxmsaxx Tilted Location: Home of the First Clone	I would never let my wife have sex w/o me, but if your bud is already that care free then a 3sum with him seems like a step down from what you have already done. __________________ .................. /..../\../\....\ \|.S.\|..V..\|.A.\| \....\..../..../ .................. Work for pay and pay for freedom

08-13-2003, 08:23 AM	#52 (permalink)
mute76 Psycho Location: Anywhere but here	I say go for it...damn, what a turn on. It may kill your relationship but what the fuck...it will be a great time. __________________ What the fuck is "wtf"?

08-05-2003, 11:56 AM	#42 (permalink)
rodgerd Psycho Location: Wellington, New Zealand	Echo on laying out the ground rules first. If you aren't interested in guys, you probably aren't going to want your neighbour thinking that this means you want to suck him off!

08-05-2003, 04:16 PM	#44 (permalink)
Force 10 Had to leave this awesome space	I've done the two guys and one girl thing with my best friend a few times. It's hard to get hard at first but if you can put the male thing behind you, it's very fun.

08-06-2003, 12:06 AM	#47 (permalink)
kilty Tilted	I would normally say do it, but man weird situation. Happened to me, wife only been with him, he asked if i would be the second man. I did, she tried to come over for more all the time. Weird situation.

08-07-2003, 09:21 PM	#48 (permalink)
Achernar Guest	Any news from this situation?

08-08-2003, 05:28 AM	#49 (permalink)
absorbentishe Boy am I horny today Location: T O L E D O, Toledo!!	When you start, call out "I get the butt", and see what happens! Seriously, you might as well, if you are good friends, then your friendship could over come any problems later, but there shouldn't be. If you don't, then you will always wonder..

08-08-2003, 05:35 AM	#50 (permalink)
holden777 Upright Location: 192.168.1.100	Im doing it this weekend i will let you know how it goes

08-12-2003, 12:40 PM	#51 (permalink)
aestivalis Upright Location: Philippines	if they're both ok with it... then there's no harm to you (except wear proper protection)... it's not everyday you get a chance to do that... and they both willingly want to try it too.

08-13-2003, 09:28 AM	#53 (permalink)
Mango Banned	Well, how did it go?

08-13-2003, 10:03 AM	#55 (permalink)
funbob Crazy Location: The Desert Southwest	Friends and sex don't mesh. It is the dream, but a dream better lived with anonymous people.

08-13-2003, 10:09 AM	#56 (permalink)
skysooner Registered User Location: Oklahoma	It can mesh, but it is very fraught with danger. Most people can't get past the emotions that are generated. It is just sex. Enjoy it as much as possible.

08-13-2003, 11:15 AM	#57 (permalink)
holden777 Upright Location: 192.168.1.100	It went good did it friday night and again on saturday. And they want me to come over again this weekend. Thing havent changed at all i see him at work every day and nothing different at all. He said thanks for helping him she was starting to over sex him LOL

08-13-2003, 11:32 AM	#58 (permalink)
skysooner Registered User Location: Oklahoma	That is fantastic. The only time it could become awkward is if you get a girlfriend who isn't into it, but if you added a 4th, it could get even more interesting. At least it is working well now.

08-13-2003, 11:50 AM	#59 (permalink)
absorbentishe Boy am I horny today Location: T O L E D O, Toledo!!	Your buddy said he's over sexed? She must be wearing him out then, or she has a sex drive like no other I've been with! Looks like it's working out for both of you, way to go!

08-13-2003, 07:20 PM	#61 (permalink)
happy_joy Upright Location: wisconsin	I'm in agreement with most of these other people....GO FOR IT DUDE

08-13-2003, 07:31 PM	#62 (permalink)
yankeefatboy Addict Location: northern california	That is a piss poor way of making the rest of us pigs feel poorly. Of course you should. We all (or most) have had that fantacy before.

08-13-2003, 07:49 PM	#63 (permalink)
Juxtapozed Upright Location: Western Massachusetts	This is not as rare an occurance as you all may think __________________ FuKkiT

08-13-2003, 11:52 PM	#64 (permalink)
Vanilla Ice Upright	Been there and done that and had fun everytime. As long as you dont let feelings get involved and just do it as a sex thing