how can you tell if a guy is into you?
 

I have been told that I am horrible at reading the signs. I just never can be able to tell when a guy is interested. I was just hoping I could gte some help. How can I tell if a guy is in to me?

His pants are down and you hear a fapfapfap noise
he tells you
he seems overly flirty(rubbing, gentle touching poking, joking around alot, tries to hang around you alot)

You notice him looking at you way too often.

If you can't tell, he's not into you.

If he hangs out with you alot, even when he <b>doesn't</b> have to!!! Then he wants it! In this case <b>you</b>!

-touch is typically big with guys, so what girls frequently interpret as friendly touching probably isn't (i.e. "let me give you a massage" or he touches your arm/back)

-he looks into your eyes, or generally looks at you

-he tries, with determination, to convince you to go with him to random places

-you see his penis.

he's either in your body or he isn't.:)

how do we tell if someone likesl ikes us? good luck and tell me the answer, please.

I'd have to say that touching is a strong hint, yes. Also the bit about trying to spend time with you, or calling you up/e-mailing for no real reason.

And if you can't tell he's in you, you should pay more attention. :D

Seriously, if you wish he was "into" you, you could reverse this and send him all the signs: touch, "accidentally" show a bit of cleavage around him or bump him with a breast. Or flash him. Or, oh my God, tell him. Rough to do if you're shy, but it can be done.

You're allowed to ask him out these days if he's too thick to notice that you want him to spend time with you, for instance. Young guys are fairly good at not seeing what women think of as being fairly blatant. Subtlety is not their strength yet. That comes with more experience, if ever.

these indications so far are hilarious.

i have one thing to add though, hopefully you know him well enough to know if he is touchy feely in general. I know I am, and most of the time I don't mean to be, so that may not be a good indication.

and as far as the person who said if you can't tell, then he isn't... Don't worry about that... I can tell with almost anyone when I see the two together if one has a thing for the other, but with anyones feelings to me I basically have to be hit with a tuna and flat out told that they like me...

oh, how so many very attractive girls slipped my grasp because I didn't notice, only to have them flat out tell me a few years later, after they no longer have those feelings .... *sigh*...

"ahh....I made myself sad."

He tries his hardest to NOT look at your breasts/body.

I'm sure a lot of guys do this, but if you pass them by in a hallway, and they almost break their neck cause they turn their head and watch you walk past and continue to do so for a long time, and even better hint is if they walk into something cause they aren't paying attention to where they're going.

there is much wisdom here.

Just tell him that you like him and then he will like you. Guys arent really very complicated.

Ask him, if he says "yes" or perhaps "yeah", that means he is into you. Most other answers indicate a negative response.

Re: how can you tell if a guy is into you?
 

I'm the male version of you.
The subtle signs just go right over my head.

For many, subtlety is over-rated.

Most people will understand "I want to spend time with you." or "I want to jump your bones." or "I want you inside me NOW!!!!" You might be able to get away with "Yes!" to anything he asks you, as well. :D

is he humping your leg?

seriously, usually when I'm into a girl, i can't help but stutter and act geekish.

I am very much like what Forks described. I do glance at her a lot, but look away when she turns and looks at me. I tend to get nervous when she comes near me and I can't really think or do anything right. This is more the case when I know her less. If I know her a bit more, I'll be a bit more comfortable although the same things still apply. I am fairly bad at reading girls unless they are blatantly obvious (VERY obvious, not subtle obvious). If the guy likes you, he will likely not tell you unless he believes you like him first. If you like a guy and think he might like you, try to find more time to hang out. It doesn't matter if its just you two or if there are some other friends with you, as long as you spend time together. Proximity is key.

Wrong!!! I still check out the girls that I like. I was sitting next to my gf at a baseball game last week, and I was frequently looking down her shirt and at her legs and all that.

Seriously, compare his actions to his actions towards other girls. Does he act the same or differently? Don't look for some of these signs because they won't all happen. For example, when I'm interested in a girl, I want to take her places and hang out with her and look at her a lot and stuff like that, but I don't go for the contact (touching) early (I think it's a little sketchy to randomly touch girls when you barely know them)

You could look to see if is pants are around his ankles and his tounge is hanging out. I'd call that a sign

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Try giving him a massage or something, then brush up against the front of his pants. It's quick and easy.

Much easier in cartoons, with the poppy-out eyes, big hooting noise, love hearts floating up, birds going round head, tongue on floor etc etc...

But then again, who'd want a cartoon? (except perhaps J.Rabbit)

when the man is into the girl, his cheeks flush crimson with excitement!

you may also notice his breath going in and out at a fast rate. this is aroused!

also, his nipples may poke through the fabric of his clothing.

If you're 12 he hits you and smears dog shit on your skirt.

Or...

If you're older then 12 he will probably be all flirty and stupid around you. Light your cigarettes or try and pinch your ass when your aren't paying attention. Guys are really hard to read... We tend to just do what ever feels good without really thinking about it.

If he acts differently around you than he does around other girls he's friends with, then it's a sign. If he does a half-ass job of trying to conceal that because he's not sure if you like him, it's also a sign, and usualy even more obvious (staring and looking away quickly when you look back at him, finding reasons to stand closer to you, and trying to make it lok like coincidence, stuff like that.)

WOAH WOAH WOAH! ... not all guys are that 'good' to where they can express their emotions properly. Some guys are soo shy that you'd never know if they liked you or not because they don't talk to you, or stare at you; and when you do stare at them, they look away cuz they're just not accustomed to the ways of the world yet -too shy.

In any case, unless you're a fugly truck driving whore bag with tentacles hanging from your forehead, I'm sure he likes you, or WILL like you if given the opportunity and the hint that if he likes you he wont be wasting his time, but will instead have potential to actually 'go out' with you.

It's all biology.
I agree with that.

As long as you're hot/decent and not a biatch, and he has a penis that works, he's into you.

Then again, he just might have high standards and want to date only supermodels.

ps: There are exceptions to almost everything.

I liked all of your replies on this topic. It's broadened my horizons so to speak.

Well this girl i like figured it out pretty easily,
she explained that it was because i kept asking her to go places with me and i looked at her in a 'special' way.. She never really elaborated on what that special way was, but it didnt work anwyays. hehe.

But really, guy's will look goofy at you, and try to be around you as much as they possibly can. It's not all too hard with most guys.

The piece of advice that I'd agree with the most, since every guys will act differently towards a girl that he's interested in. (for example: depending on if he's shy or brash)
Try to engineer a situation where there are a few other girls around (heh, preferably girls that arn't compitition) and try and gauge his actions.

It's always worked for me with girls - I can only assume it would be the same with notquiteasfair sex.

good luck! ;)

As someone wisely said, If you can't read the signs. It might be because there aren't any to read

Guys have a wonderful mechanism that will always make them try harder if they want to get noticed.

So, you might not notice every of the first signs, but after a while the guy will turn of his charming charisma, and try again.
IF he is into you ..

Wait it out, and just for the record, don't get sad if he is not into you, There will always be a guy for a girl .. but not always a girl for a guy! ..