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Daoust 08-10-2005 06:28 AM

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Originally Posted by abaya
So there was this joke in the Christian community about kisses being peaches, prunes, or alfalfa... think about the shape your mouth makes when you say those words. Peaches and prunes were okay, according to our youth pastor, but alfalfa was in the danger zone. Ha!

:D

This is classic! I come from an evangelical background as well, and although I never heard someone explain it like that ( we were told that basically everything after holding hands was unacceptable before marriage) I think it's hilarious. I'm going to use that on my wife tonight.
"Honey, enough of the peaches, I want an alfalfa kiss!"

gh0ti 08-10-2005 06:40 AM

My first kiss was in Rome Italy when I was 17. We took this see Europe in 21 days tour in high school during the summer and we happened to stay in a hotel with students from three other cities. I met this girl from Anne Arbor Michigan. We talked a lot and headed for the roof of the hotel. We hung out with a bunch of other kids for a while drinking, smoking, having a good time and one thing lead to another.. we ended up making out for (what seemed like) a couple of hours.

Roof top, Rome Italy, Full Moon. I'll never forget that night, even though I never saw the girl again.

Charlatan 08-10-2005 06:41 AM

My first real kiss was with Lillianne Ouillette and it was behind a hill near her house... I was about 13 or 14 at the time. It was electric. We dated (if you can call necking dating) for a very short while. She even let me touch her boobies (skin to skin even!).

She was also my very first heartbreak. She cheated on me with an older guy in the neighbourhood. To top it off, I really hated the guy.

I suppose I've been jaded ever since.

abaya 08-10-2005 06:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Daoust
This is classic! I come from an evangelical background as well, and although I never heard someone explain it like that ( we were told that basically everything after holding hands was unacceptable before marriage) I think it's hilarious. I'm going to use that on my wife tonight.
"Honey, enough of the peaches, I want an alfalfa kiss!"

Yep, good stuff. Alll-fallll-fa... lots of tongue usage there. :lol: I'm glad someone else came from that same crazy background and knows what I'm talking about. I don't mean any disrespect to people who still believe in waiting till marriage to kiss, but DAAAMN I am glad that I didn't go with that opinion for too long! Just wasn't for me.

tecoyah 08-10-2005 06:43 AM

10....Babysitter.....enough said

ngdawg 08-10-2005 07:06 AM

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Originally Posted by tecoyah
10....Babysitter.....enough said

so THAT'S who led you down this path :lol: :lol:

First ever, 13.(full tongue) John McCoy. Back seat of a Ford Fairlane while his friend and mine were in the front. After he kissed me, my friend announced, 'you KNOW she's 13, right?' John was 21..... :lol: :lol:

abaya 08-10-2005 07:10 AM

Let me just add briefly: one of the very few cool things about being long-distance, is that every time I am reunited with ktspktsp, it's like kissing him for the first time. :icare: I get to have that "first kiss" feeling at the airport, train station, front door, wherever... it's WONDERFUL. :D So you can imagine, after 2.5 months apart, how our "first kiss" will be on September 2nd!!!! :D Look out, airport security...

bobillydylan 08-10-2005 08:31 AM

I was eight when i had my first proper kiss, i had kissed girls before but not with tongues. I was in the second year at junior school and i fancied this girl Debra Rigby in my class.. we passed notes accross the classroom and she said she wanted to kiss me in the cloakroom there and then, and told me to ask to go to the toilet and she would as well. so i put my hand up and asked the teacher then went and sat in the cloakroom. I could hear the door open to the classroom and my heart was thumping with excitement, she came and sat down beside me and without any words being said, she started to kiss me on the lips, then i felt her push her tongue inside my mouth and i was like wow!!! so i pushed mine into hers and we stayed like that for what seemed like ages.Then she got up and rushed back into the classroom, and i followed a couple of seconds later and sat down. I could see her telling her mates and they where all giggling. She sent me another note saying she couldnt wait for school to finish....that was the longest two hours of my life.lol...

chelsea_9 08-10-2005 09:22 PM

i built myself up for so many instances where i thought he was going to kiss me.. but when it actually happened, i was caught completely off guard.

and it was kind of awkward, mainly because we were laying on his couch, so noses got in the way... and the whole caught off guard thing. but it was very soft and sweet, very touchy-feely and... lovely.

and i do remember the food network was on inthe background.

then again, the food network is usually on at his house!

Stompy 08-11-2005 07:59 AM

Hm, I was 12.

It was in a cemetery.

AVoiceOfReason 08-11-2005 10:23 AM

Indeed I do remember it. It's a bit of a tale, but I'll make it quick.

One weekend, I was at the movies near my hometown. I'd been birddogging a gal in my school for years, but not getting anywhere. She was there with a friend from out of town. The two girls left and came back and swapped seats, with Kim sitting next to me (she's the one from out of town). We started talking and before long, we were holding hands (she was a 9th grader, I think). The movie got interrupted by a tornado warning, and we were ushered out of the theater. As we rushed to our cars, I tried to give her a kiss, but she didn't catch what I was doing at the moment.

So, as luck would have it, I was scheduled to be in her town (about 120 miles away) in a couple of weeks for something school related. As more luck would have it, the place we were staying was withing walking distance of her house. So, we arranged to meet and we went back to her house. She said "I'm sorry about the night at the show."

I'd already forgotten and said "huh?"

"When you tried to kiss me."

"Oh." I said, noticing we were alone. And even at my age and inexperience, I knew what she was getting at.

So we did--full French kiss.

Funny thing, I don't remember if we kissed any more during that time, but I remember that first one.

hotzot 08-11-2005 03:09 PM

I was playing spin the bottle in 7th grade. She was very cute and I was very embarrassed.

radioguy 08-11-2005 04:24 PM

yep, her name was cara :)

Blonddie 08-11-2005 09:06 PM

My first real kiss, was with my then bf, at night, under a street light, it was lightly snowing out. It was very gentle and romantic. A nice memory-- the only one of him I think I have..lol!

Acetylene 08-12-2005 06:24 AM

My first kiss was like sucking on a wet facecloth. It was totally disgusting and I didn't kiss anyone for a very long time, certain that kissing was way overrated.

MiSo 08-12-2005 09:09 AM

my first kiss was in 9th grade.
it was unbelievable.
multiply "wow" times a billion and you'll get the idea.

justjt 08-13-2005 01:02 PM

Kissin in God's House
 
Her name was Charity Lanferman and it was on a Sunday afternoon in one of the sunday school rooms while everyone else was outside enjoying the picnic, we were 12.....ROFL....too funny...her Dad was the pastor....Oh and her boobs were my first set as well. -----------"Did you hear lightening and thunder or is it just me?" :hmm:

genuinegirly 08-13-2005 01:23 PM

1st kiss: 11pm in a park, on a bench. Scariest thing ever. I was 17.

Trisk 08-14-2005 04:42 AM

Hmm, I think my first kiss was around 14, at camp. I was terrified and proceeded to run away and avoid the person for the rest of the term, in fear that they had thought I was a horrible kisser. I later found out that he had actually told some other inquisitive people that he enjoyed it.

Still, I kinda consider my first kiss to be on New Years when I was 16. I was drunk, he was drunk, we had been eyeing each other all night and proceeded to make out/explore each other for several hours once we got started, ending in falling asleep in each other's arms.
Things were kind of awkward upon waking up the next day though.


*Edit*
I didn't read the entire thread before, but I just finished with it and I just wanted to add that every time I read a thread like this, I'm so suprised to see how late everyone else got started. I remember at 16, I was sooo ashamed to have so little experience. I guess I shouldn't have felt so alone hehe. If only I had known how many of us were out there.

ktspktsp 08-14-2005 08:33 AM

From a super-late bloomer:

My first kiss was about a year and a half ago. It was my birthday party, I had been flirting a lot with Abaya (mostly on msn) in the previous week, had danced Salsa with her a few days before that.. and I was starting to fall for her.. I had decided by my birthday that I would tell her how I felt..

So, the party starts. Her mom was visiting her, she's also a casino dealer.. So we had organized for her to deal blackjack at the party (I had under 21's there so grateful to be at a party with drinks and card games, heh). Thankfully, she drove her mom back to her place at some point.

Of course, this being my birthday party, I was drinking quite a bit. And no beer or vodka or whatever - this is a special day, so I opened a bottle of Arak (Lebanese alcohol, like Ouzo, mmmmmmm good). Lovely drink, strong drink.

By the time I was ready to make my move, Abaya was talking with a friend of hers.. They kept talking and talking, I kept drinking, by the time she was alone I was toast!. Well, I still managed to tell her how I felt, then I kissed her - and lost my balance and fell :). Yep, that first kiss really did make me weak in the knees! (ok, so the alcohol helped too). After that, we kept kissing, I took her to the laundry room (right by the busy kitchen, and with no door) and we were kissing all the time (by that point I didn't give any damn about the party, I'm sure people were trying to say bye but I didn't notice them :D

Eventually she had to walk back home, so I walked with her, stopping and kissing all the time.. Eventually we were near her house, kissing again, I start dropping my hands in her pants, somehow thinking we were in a discreet place (we were not! I was just drunk).

At the end, her roommate came down to fetch her (her mom was still waiting up there!). But from that beginning we never looked back :D

I wish I remembered the first kissing moments better, but I was too drunk.. I still remember the rest quite well though :)

Ah, my Abaya :icare:

minimedgirl 08-14-2005 10:22 AM

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777 08-14-2005 07:44 PM

with a gal I met through a friend I made at a hang out after school. her and I were hanging out in the alley behind the store. she kept tickling me, so I held her hand to get her to stop. stared at the clouds for a while. then she rushed me :) I was stepping on gum. couldn't get it off for a few days. that alley later became our make-out spot for the spring. odd gal, but in a fun way.

Ramallah 08-14-2005 08:33 PM

My first kiss was with my first girlfriend, on the floor of her room, listening to Orgy. I was 14 and it was the first time I met her in person (we originally met in a chat room). We went out for about 11 months.

mandy 08-15-2005 03:00 AM

i cant really remember all that much of it.i was 11 i think.when you look at it it was kinda young but it was with a boy in my class and i was turning 12 in a coupla months:-)

but seriously, i dont count all the other kisses as 1st ones just practise ones that helped me improve my ability so i could give the best i could to the one who really meant something.THAT, i regard as my first kiss, the kiss where you feel jolts of electricity shoot through your body, when the whole room turns and you're spinning with it.

it was at a friend of mines house when my current bf had just come back from a 21st birthday party and everyone knew we liked eachother as did we but we were both too shy.but that night was different, even though we took long to actually get a kiss in, it was perfect.the right moment and everything and the best part... him and his freind were getting ready to leave, they were just out the door and he turned back for one last kiss.....

ding ding ding ding !!!! major point scorer:-)

Average_Joe 08-15-2005 12:11 PM

It was just before my Junior year in High School with a girl I had a major thing for. I got up enough nerve to ask her to the movies, and we went to see Back to the Future (boy this dates me). After the movies I took her to a Mexican restaurant (bad choice for a pre-kissing meal), then I dropped her home. We just started making out in my car in front of her house. It was going well until I accidentally hit the volume dial of the radio and blasted us apart. After that, we both lost our nerve, and she went into the house (damn radio). It really wasn't that great because I really had no chemistry with the girl, which was unfortunate 'cause she was a hottie! Kissing my wife sets of fireworks every time, even after 8 years.

ICER 08-16-2005 08:56 AM

I remember each first kiss I got from every girl I've kissed. Each one was different and special in their own right. But as for my very first kiss. I would have to say that I thought it was wet. not great. not moving, just wet. However my second kiss from I really cared for. was like being hit the head with a sack of quarters. it was great.

joemc91 08-16-2005 09:01 AM

Sadly enough, mine was only a few months ago, way too late as far as I'm concerned. But it was definitely good. After my roommate asked for a kiss goodnight from her and was rejected, I walked her to the car when it was raining. She didn't really respond when I asked if I could have a kiss goodnight then, so I just went for it. Apparently she was just fine with it! The best part was that she didn't believe me that it was my first.


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