sex with a best friend's man or woman
 

it just happened to me - I did it with my best friend girlfriend

honestly, I share, with her, many interesting, first of all music/movies - that's why it was very easy to speak about a spanish movie (lucia y el sexo) and having some kisses - foreplay
after that - i asked to stop - about one week after - i called at 1am and i asked her to meet me - i couldn't believe it - she came and we made love

what about you

thanx

simo

ahh isn't that cheating?
are you bragging or something..... i can't really understand your intentions of this post?

I don't think that's cool. But it sounds like you are closer to her than your friend.

Invite the friend in for some same-room adult fun.

What goes around comes around. If she does leave your best friend for you, you will lose your best friend. And if she cheated on him with you, whats gonna stop her from doing the same to you later on?

I have always had that rule -- no matter how attractive I found her to be -- if she is with someone who is in my inner circle than she is off limits. Call it out of respect or courtesy. As I've aged I've become a bit cynical -- there is not just one perfect love for each of us out there but a bevy of beauties who I could spend the rest of my life with so why would I need to break up a friendship over a one night stand....

Yeah after you fucked his chick you might as well have bent him over and fucked him in the ass. Cause that's basically what your doing in the friendship sense. I would slap her before I ever did that to a friend of mine. But hey I guess if your that hard up for a piece of ass get what you can huh......

well, i didn't mean to be judged

so...

I was trying to see if someone else had same xperience in his/her life - nobody did it in the past ?

Nah, I have morals, and value my friendships.

nobody did it -- ok

this is almost true - now - but it was different before of the affair

I'm don't know anything about me, she and he. I just know that sex was great and we did just once.

what else ?

I did it once and once only. We were all 20-ish and she left him for me and I left my gf at the time for her. It was mad love. And... it lasted about a year.

The aftermath? I haven't talked to her in about 10 years, neither has he. My first gf... she and I are still close friensd. He and I are still close friends, but there has been a weird undercurrent ever since and, mind you, this was 14 years ago.

Would I do it again? We were young, she was a fabulous piece of ass (absolutely every guy I knew wanted her and she wanted me! woo!) and for quite a while, we thought we were in love. Yes, I'd do THAT one over again, in a heartbeat... I learned a lot of good lessons as a result. But, as a consequence of those lessons... never again.

There are wayyyy too many single hot chicks out there; why go after the ones who are already with someone? Even if she's looking to get out, you can just bet that when she's tired of you, she's not going to break up with you til she's already with someone else. How's that gonna feel? I've got better things to do with my time...

"well, i didn't mean to be judged"

sorry - im italian maybe i said something wrong

sorry about last post .( if admin sees this please delete, thank you)
what I was going to say was that I think people were confused about your post. It is very disjointed, not very focused and doesnt really explain what you wanted to say. Its not that they are judging you . Sometimes we only type bits and pieces in posts thinkning everyone understands our thinking. Were all guilty of it from time to time. hope that can help in a way.

this is what i mean:
does somebody else had same experience that I'm having right now ?
it's just happened to me - i'm curious (in some way) to know different situations I could see in my life.

If you consider that your best friend, and you went ahead and slept with his girl, actually called her over to your place after you had just made out with her the week before.

I have alot of shit I would be saying to you, but I just got bloodwork done and am drained^_^ going back to bed. I will leave it at , you are a shitty friend.

Yeah, I slept with a very close friend's wife. I have deeply, DEEPLY regretted it ever since, despite him forgiving me. I won't sit her and say I learned from it, that's bs, because I knew better before that, I wasn't 5 years old.

Just thinking about it makes me hate myself, even though the event did play a pivatol role in solidifying my morals to never do that shit again. I just wish that had never happened. The only thing I'd ever take back.

never done it.. wouldnt think of if i could..

If a one of my best friends ever did that to me, I'd fuckin kill him. I value trust and loyalty above almost everything else, and I couldn't take that, and I would never do it either. But, I have a very close group of friends.

Had that happen to me and its a shitty feeling

Ouch. Well, I know none of the people I consider friends would do something like that to me and I wouldn't think about doing it to him. I mean, how can you call someone a friend and then bang their girlfriend. That's not something friends do. Especially to someone they consider their best friend.

i think thats just bad news all around, but you only live once. so i say go for it

Never with a friends GF. NO way

You fucked up big time.

You have betrayed your best friend in a gut wrenching way, and to make it worse, his girlfriend is cheating in him now too.

I would distance yourself from his girl, and either agree never to mention it again, and then deny it if she ever brings it up, or fess up and offer your sincere apologies and get the crap kicked out of you.

Or, if you don't value your friendship very much, you can just keep the girl (if she is willing, of course).

I love my best friends outlook on this sort of thing: "Your best friends girlfriend is always beautiful, but never your type."

Good luck sorting it out, your going to need some.

Oh, if something like this did happen to me and my best friend ended up running off with my girlfriend, I would be severely hurt, and enraged for a while. But, as long as he ran off with her because he had sincere feelings for her (as opposed to just wanting to fuck), I would probably get over it, and we would remain friends. After all, you have to expect people to follow their hearts, and he would only be stealing someone who wasn't loyal to me anyway.

If it happened to me I'd probably rip out their hearts and show it to them, if one of my other friends didn't do it first.

I called her - and told her your opinion about me. After an half hour she was at my apartment (never been before) and we made love another time. Thank you, guys.

They are still together.

HAHAH, I can't wait for HER to tell HIM that she is cheating on him with YOU. Thats gonna be some good melorse place shit.
I can't wait for this to come back around ten fold to you.

we will see...

You will probably burn in hell for that one! You're at least gonna get a big ass whoopin when your former best friend finds out! Personally, I think your a dumbass for doing that in the first place. You will definately lose your (former) best friend, and you likely won't stay with that cheeting, cum burping whore for very long either. Best of luck with your shitty life!!

SO I see your into sloppy seconds, good for you and for a gem like her I'm sure she has a few more sperm donares. But for some one like you hey you have found your love match some one of the same moral fabric.

Honestly - I was thinkin' that this could have been a great place to speak and to exchange opinions. But... Most of the people are spending all time cursing me.

I'm sorry about that, I will keep on fucking who wants to fuck with me. This is my life and I will pay my dues. Nobody has any rights to judge me and my life.

Sorry for my english.
Simo

Simo

People find it easy to judge till something happens to them.
Then it isn't so easy to judge.

It happened and there is no changing that so now you have to stop and think:

What do I value more my freindship or this girl.

You can't have both.

If its true love and you choose the girl then the best of luck to you but its going to be rough. All your freinds will be taking side, considering you a threat to their relationshiups and generally won't trust you much any more (unless they have been through same)

If it was just sex then i'd make a heartfelt appology to your friend and warn him what she is like. He may never forgive you but thats his right and his right to know. Hopefully your friendship will be strong enough if your sorrow for the mistake is sincere enough. Unlikely though.

Either way its time to face the consquences. Don't think you can just bury what happened. These things have a habit of coming out. She'll tell him in anger during an argument or something.

i did it only once.....felt bad told my friend. least saved the relationship tween me and my friend. we still are friends we haven't seen her in years.

i think its a little sad that you don't seem to sorry or regretful about your actions, and you almost gloat about it. Try to be empathetic with your best friend, how would you feel if your girlfriend was fucking your best friend?

also, are you making love or are you fucking her?
there is a big difference, not that it really matters, your dick is still in her or whatever.

I hope you don't hurt too many poeple.

Simo,

I think that I know what you're going through. I've been in this situation before, and it sucks. I basically spent most of the time screaming the same things that you've seen above at myself.

This was with my best friend from high school's girlfriend while we were in college. We met up for New Year's Eve one year, and my friend and another friend basically played pool all night, ignoring us at the bar. I had just broken up with my girlfriend of several months and was still getting over that. Laura and I ended up "hooking up" in the back of the van that we all came in, and then again back at her place where we stopped for a drink on the way home.

Where my story diverges from most of the others is that I apologized to Bill, and we went about our lives as usual. Two years later, after we both graduated, I went back to visit him. He and Laura had broken up by then (surprising who?), but they were still good friends. She and I ended up hooking up again, and started dating, and lived together for 2 years. We broke up when I got a job in LA, and she didn't want to move out there. That was about 8 years ago, and we're both married to other people now, but we still talk from time to time.

What does all that mean? Well sometimes, it's the worst thing that you can do. Othertimes, maybe not. People sleeping around is usually the sign of a problem, either with the relationship or with themselves. Marriage should change things, but in my experience, it usually doesn't.

That's my story. Hope it helps.

I won't try to be empathetic with him. I just think about my self, this is what life taught me. Anyway, if she is having sex with, maybe it means that he is not so good between her legs.

Your problem is that you think to own a girl if she is with you. This is a great mistake. He should thank me because I'm teaching her how to make sex. I listen to her, while we are making love, he doesn't do it. I speak with her during sex, he doesn't. She is "touching" real sex. I spend "hours" between her legs, sucking, licking and touching it. Something that he doesn't like. And she loves it.

Right now, it's 11.55pm and I'm waiting for her again. He will come with her. We won't be alone.

I'll tell you how many people I will hurt.
I guess you are the first one.

Bye

:rolleyes:

The answer is NO!

I find many of my friends girlfriends very attractive

but like many people have said, the respect for my friends keeps me from acting on anything

that and i have a girlfriend who i love

God, you'll fucking burn for that.

I did it once, but had permission to "Take care of her while he was in the Navy".

I ended up marrying that girl a few years later.

Oh yeah...David and I are still pretty good friends