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I am finally getting to have a threesome!

Me and my girlfriend talked it out for a long time with this other girl that we know... got everything straightened out, and now its finally a go!

im so excited

heheh..lucky you.

make sure you've got everything communicated beforehand, and good luck.

please let us kno how it went :)

Yeah, the only "letdown" i can see in the whole situation is my girlfriend is uneasy with me having sex with the other girl

so working around that, it should be an overall enjoyable experience

and yeah, we have gotten everything communicated out, all thats left to do is enjoy it

Seems kinda wierd having to plan sex out like that. But given the circumstance, yeah, I think I'd be able to schedule it in.
Best of luck!
And, yes, we will want details.

Oh don't worry about the details

:D

they are fun

we do want details

whens your lucky day?

In your circumstance (at least one of the girls is new to it), in my past, it has proven quite useful for the girls to get together once or twice before I was ever invited.

Either way, have fun and welcome to the club. We'll show you the secret handshake once the deed is done. ;)

haha couldnt you have just thrown all three of those replies in one post?

the lucky day is "sometime" between the 2nd and the 10th of august

when we go down to vancouver to "visit"

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secret handshake??? SWEET!!! :p

Well, sure, but then he wouldn't be able to bump his post count as quickly. =D

donkeypunch

now that is a hell of an idea. i've tried talkn' my wife into it and we've never thought about that part. thats a damn good idea!

all sorts of good stuff goin on... have a great time (as if you wouldnt) and bring back details!

I need to try this sometime....

Yeah - if she's never been with another woman before, there's the whole awkwardness of the "new" activity to begin with, plus whatever awkwardness always exists for most any of us with any new partner, plus, she's probably going to stress out over trying to make sure you get pleased... bah. If we're inviting another woman into our bed, I don't have any problems with them being alone once in a while either and it makes the whole 3-some thing far more relaxed.

Additionally, it doesn't hurt if you all like to hang out together. Not necessarily an existing friend - it can be someone new - but spend time together, out of bed, doing things. It makes everyone more comfortable when the clothes are off.

I think I am too selfish to have a threesome. I don't want to share my girl with anyone. And if I were to share, the only thing that is really appealing to me about a threesome is having them both sucking on my two toned cock at the same time.
But if I were single, I would be making fun of someone that posted what I just said.

yeah we've done good so far. we've done the whole what if it were to happen talk and what she was ok with me doing versus not doing. so were good there. like no penitration to the other girl for me. but i can handle that long as i get to play alittle and basically watch them do stuff. but she's never been with a girl and hell i wouldn't mind one bit her off being with another girl without me around. damn gettn' chub just thinking about that.

she's not so sure about being with another women. but loves going to the Titty bar with me. i think she would enjoy it alot but just doesn't know it till she tries. hummmm maybe her doin that would make chances of this happening higher.

but anyway my bad this is Ace_O_Spades post....lol

YOU LUCKY MAN!!!

She asked how i would feel if they had a little one-on-one action, I wasnt comfortable with it.... unless i was there to watch :cool:

I dunno...3some would be outstandingly cool, but I don't think I'd like my girl doing the nasty with someone else. Even if it IS another girl...

if i couldn't have a 3some i'd settle for watchn' my chick with another chick ANY day.

I definitely want to hear how it goes. Kudos!!!

I used to thinking having a threesome would be the greatest thing ever.

Maybe I'm a little older or whatever now but I just can't imagine it being all its cracked up to be.

Good luck with your experience and I hope you and your girl enjoy it.

Man. I hate you. ;)

That's just too many eyes to try and goo in.

I'll stick to one girl.

The during would be great, it's the after that I would be worried about.

what my girlfriend was initially worried about was just one-on-one sex not being satisfying enough

I got a threesome for my birthday last year and it was pretty cool. Me and both girls all got a lot of attention from each other and we left satisfied. But, when it comes down to it, one-on-one is still my favorite.

I had one... its everything its cracked up to be

*shhhhhhhhhh
secret little fantasy here....don't tell anyone :lol:

I would love to try it with a girl and have my honey watch BUT I am just way way way to jealous to share. I couldn't handle him doing her. Not fair...I know I know! A little groping her...sure but not penetration. I would get a kick out of watching a guy get his jollies just watching me & a girl go at 'er.

Ace...make sure you let us know how it goes....I'll be very curious to see how your lady takes it all being her first time and all.

I think I'll stick with my one woman with only me doing the playing or the penetration and only playing with or penetrating her. Maybe I'm just selfish or old school though.

Please tell us how it goes Ace.

my olny advice ... and its important... if the girl is being unsure about any aspects of this thing, when it happens DONT be the boss, let them tell you what to do, then she wont get jealous or pissed off!!! enjoy,.........................i like it better that way anyhow, much more exciting!!

I have trouble getting 1 girl =P Cant even contemplate 2 right now =P

A couple of weeks to go. I bet the anticipation is killing you!

wish you best of luck ace - it's only been a fantasy for me - never had the opportunity!

::fighting back strange compulsion to post in threads where I have nothing constructive to contribute:: ::still fighting::

::finds something idiotic-- at best-- to say::

Have fun! :thumbsup:

You... lucky.. sob.

Good luck to ya, man! :thumbsup:

Good luck, have fun, but most of all remember:

SAFTEY FIRST!!!

Haha.



I think it would be fun. Now would you swtiched condoms every time you switched girls??? You might want to stock up!!!
:D

Have Fun.

Oh man, best of luck.

They're great. I'd take another in a heartbeat, and I know exactly with whom...

Minx: Hey! That's MY fantasy! How did you find out? Who told you? :hmm:

Good luck man. I'm sure it'll be a blast for all three of you. Feel free to let everyone know about it afterward.

My hubby and i had a 3some. it was great. we had talked about it beforehand just in case the opportunity ever presented itself. she and i got things started while he watched. when he joined in, i wasn't as jealous as i thought i might be. i even motioned for him to join me eating. he did. i still stuck to my rule of him penetrating me, not her and he didn't have a problem with it.

i sure had to do some sweet talking and coaxing to get her pants off, though. Now, i know what you guys go through.

firstly, congrats for sure.
secondly, have you seen chasing amy? the speech that alyssa gives near the end of the movie brings up some of the possible issues after a threesome. it made me think. i don't know if you'd even want to think about it if it could make you think twice about things, but if you were looking for something to give you like the warnings side of things.... plus it's a damn good movie. kevin smith is an amazing guy.

Anybody who would agree to a threesome, would probably agree to taping it too. Set up the video cam and you can relive the moment after the 3rd party is long gone.

your a lucky man.

I hate you. :-D

All i can say is good luck and be absolutely sure you've discussed EVERYTHING beforehand. Obey your rules and everything should be fine.

Do we get to hear now?

Hopefully this turned out okay for you. Sometimes the reality is less than the anticipation you have built up in your head, but other times it can lead to some really fun times.

ive never figured out if its better to have the other woman a close friend of one of you, or for her to almost be a stranger. i think it would be better if she was more of a stranger or aquaintence,then if things get messed up, there can be some distance between the couple and the problem. not to mention having it the other way your gambling with something precious... a frienship!

alright well this advice comes late but you should know that even if you cant penetrate the other woman (because you set up a rule with your gilrfriend) id be carefull with not lending enough attension to each, and be asolutly sure they are comfortable with oneanother because if they arent then they are just going to look at you for pleasure and remain indifferent of oneanother (althoug they might not say it out load) anyway, wish i was you whenever it happens

have fun!!

wow! have fun, be safe

arie and i are lookin into this a lil... letting the 2 girls do it by themselves a couple times... just to get them past the awkwardness of a new activity... but i dunno if i would be comfortable with them completely alone... i could watch tho :D

good luck, I'm sure you'll have fun. details would be excellent for those of us who have not been so blessed :-)

(and so I could convince my girl to try?)

this is premium for you! i am wishing for two vaginas for you today, with your swollen member needing to satisfy!

perhaps you make bring them both orgasm? they would like this for sure!

I have returned

i came, i saw, i had a threesome

it was definitely awesome!

We agreed beforehand that I wouldnt penetrate the other girl, but during the act, the other girl wanted to watch me and my girlfriend having sex... so i wasnt gonna complain about it!

Everything turned out great, taking everything out before hand was definitely a major bonus.

The girl lives on the other side of the province from us... so its not like things are even gonna be weird

we all agreed we wanted to try it again sometime.. perhaps even videotaped!

i love my life

Lucky you, and at least its with another girl, instead of another guy.

Yeah, lucky man! :)

Nice work Ace, Glad everything went well!

Beware of how it will effect your relationship with your gf in the long run. Ok, that's from the old guy in me. Go for it! Don't look back and never regret it, it will be awesome!

Ace, my best advice (coming from someone who's had that fantasy fulfilled) is this:
If you love your girlfriend and think you might take things to the next step... then really reconsider doing it.
Chicks get jealous REAL easy. During the threesome they size themselves up against the other chick (breast size, waistline, hair, etc.) and that can make them feel really insecure.
After I had one (which was a lot of fun, mind you), my then-girlfriend got really jealous and kept asking me if I was interested in the other girl.

Although the act was a lot of fun, I don't look back and feel that my life is any better because I did it. So, losing your girlfriend over something that won't mean anything later on might not be worth it to you.

I now firmly believe in "love the one you're with."
Go carefully, and weigh all your options.

You have gone where few men have gone before...and where most have only dreamed of. Congrats

Personally I would prefer not being alone with the other girl my first time. I've done this numerous times before and it was/is easier to enjoy with a man/men around to play too. It's gets you past the same gender thing that you've been programmed to think is wierd. It's more fun with a guy around because you can show off for him/them - I enjoy that part almost as much as being with the woman. I wouldn't say it's necessary to give the girls a chance alone. I would suggest that you make sure you let the girls lead and tell them they are in the lead. It will make them just a little more confident about doing things new to them and all of you.

Good luck. I know your in for a treat.

Congrats....I am still waiting for a threesome.....I would prefer two girls I don't know very well as I don't have a GF....by choice....

I think the reprocussions of doing it with someone I am with would be too much in the long run.

I'm not sure if its every mans dream - at least not forever - i had one, when i was about 20 - it was really incredible, and both the grls stayed as roomies for a few weeks... But now, given the choice, i'd much rather go one on one with someone i really know - the intensity can't be matched - a threesome for me, though grat, now feels too much like juggling, for what i like in the bedroom

Yeah my girl encourages Threesomes, if she's comfortable with it it's totaly healthy and something cool to talk about when you're hung over the next day.

All I can say is DAAAAMNNNNNN YOOUUUUUUUU!!!!!!

(i am jealous)

Mr.S and I have talked at length about having threesomes. Before he and I started dating, I considered myself a lesbian. And I'll admit, there are days when I really want my face between a girl's legs. Lucky me, Mr.S gets really turned on by this idea (go figure). His fantasy, and I share it, is to have me eatin' at the Y and him behind me, watching and fucking. I have no problems watching him fuck another girl. I'd like to help him pleasure her.

We're going to wait awhile before setting this up. Maybe in a year or two. We're having way too much fun on our own right now.

Lol, that is a good question to switch when switching girls, I know most guys wouldnt care, and would say no, some guys, would say uhhh hell yah cause the third "newer" girl if a stranger could be well, not as clean as one said "steady" girl, but then again you might know the "new one" quite well.... jeez, I guess if you were going by the "book" you would have to switch

oh man... hard on growing just thinking how lucky you are

It is a mine field to say the least. First one I was involved with, the other girl started coming on to me afterwards and my girl friend didn't dig that too much, to say the least. End result, end of relationship. The second one was with a casual friend (read fuck buddy) and her roommate. Of course it helped that the two of them were already sleeping together. That one was fun and I look back on it with teary eyes of loss

yeah, i think i like the second example. i think if i were going to do it, i'd prefer to do it NOT with my girlfriend.

come one every one it is just a threesome, i had a relationship for 3 1/2 yrs with 2 bi-girls..

i ejaculated 3-4 times every night we sleep together... the view of a woman taking you rod, out of the other so dhe would give you a BJ and put back in is unforgetable..

they even made thier own collection of videos of us doing it around the house, on ehting forshure, if you are going to have threesome with you gf and another woman, keep in mind that she is the center of attention.. as long as she feels that she is in the center of your attention, looking in her eyes more the other girl as you haveing sex, even keep your hand on her while haveing sex with the other, would make her know that no matter how many women is your bed, she will always be your favorite..

luky me, they where already living together as lovers before i become thier bf.. however, because they very sexually active. when there is aday go by that we do not have sex or oral at all. I call it a ejaculation day off..lol

sltkr2000,
sounds like you had it pretty good. nice find.

As for Ace, I'm glad ya had fun, hope your relationship still works out with that girl, and I'm off to find me 2 bi girls! :)

we do want details
we do want details

sltkr2000, you rock, I need a couple bi-girls.

ace, great work man! Glad you had a good time, and that's great to hear that it went well. Lucky you.

Good luck. Make sure you post how it turned out......

good luck ... hope you discussed all the ramifications of it, like some of the things Alyssa mentioned at the end of Chasing Amy...

:o

I would love that however I would have to think of what would happen with all the relationships. Could really F things up.

Man, I can only dream of having a 3some...

My girlfriend and I don't have many friends, except the casual acquaintences and on top of that, she watches too many Kevin Smith movies.

*sigh*. I'll just have to live through others sexually gratifying lives here on the forum...