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illdeviant 07-13-2003 10:36 AM

how many orgasms for the ladies?
 
what are the average AND normal number of orgasms a female has attained via intercouse in one uh.. session? just curious :D this isnt limited to jus males. the ladies out there;feel free to post.

me personally..
2 to 3 average
6 max

rogue49 07-13-2003 11:08 AM

They can have quite a few.
Some intense, some small.
Also they can have a continuous one too. (minutes at a time)

I don't count, we just have loads of fun.:)

tikki 07-13-2003 11:27 AM

6 is the record I think. Then I was exhausted and passed out despite her demanding more. Slave drivers!

Turned it into a game for a while.

lurkette 07-13-2003 12:46 PM

I don't know about multiples - one is usually enough for me. They're intense and prolonged and usually leave me dizzy and thoroughly satisfied. Sometimes I have several smaller ones on the way there, or a few smaller ones afterward.

Lebell 07-13-2003 01:01 PM

Totally depends on the woman.

The maximum I ever had with my ex was 5 (hers) in one all night session. That same night I came 3 times (and that is about my max.)

On the other hand, I've been with women who can do that easily in a half hour.

Ultimately, guys are screwed in that department, so we just have to accept the fact and get on wit da lovin'!

clockworkgreen 07-13-2003 02:53 PM

With my ex, it was 4. My current one is still having problems with one...

cheerios 07-13-2003 04:40 PM

dunno, never counted. some days one, some days more. some long, some short. variety is the spice of life ;)

illdeviant 07-13-2003 04:50 PM

aha. thx. jus curious =P

Kadath 07-13-2003 05:36 PM

At one point I got her to five during an hour-long continuous session, due to extraordinary and likely unrepeatable circumstances. She tends to have between one and three on average.

relic 07-13-2003 06:23 PM

at least 3, i think the max is 5, but I don't really ask her all the time.

*Nikki* 07-13-2003 06:46 PM

One big one is fine for me. Then I want a nap and some food.;)

07-13-2003 07:01 PM

Here lately my girlfriend has been having a minimum of three each time. The most she's ever had with me in one session was eight, but we were screwing around for at least five hours.

suviko 07-13-2003 10:49 PM

Usually one bigger (and some weaker) and the weaker ones are like being on the edge for long and almost going over. I might not get at all if I am tired and he wants to fuck at 3 in the morning and I still consider it technically good sex (if emotionally as fulfilling as plate of luke warm porridge..). But I have never figured out how to delay on orgasm by will like men seem to be able to do. Can some women here do that?

When I had just met my bf, we could fuck the whole weekend without dressing up, just sleeping and eating something. The goodness of sex is better measured in how excited I get, that's the real source of endorphines and adrenaline for me and the orgasm is better after that and the floating good sensation might go on a few days. This only occurs in the first times with a new partner whit whom everything just clicks the right way.

guesswhatihacke 07-14-2003 12:50 AM

Hmm...this may sound like BS, but with one girlfriend, we set at record at 17. I actually surpased that with my current girlfriend at 26. We only stopped because she ran out of juice.

Normally though, with most of my girlfriends the average was 6 to 8 during a 45 minute session.

mtsgsd 07-14-2003 04:34 AM

Hmm. The first girl I had sex with had multiples every time. For as long as I or my hand would last. Only woman I've met like that though. Once she got going she'd just go right from one into another with almost no time between and getting more and more intense. Lucky girl!

A count? Waaaay more than I could keep track of.

nlevan 07-14-2003 04:51 AM

I've had a few girlfriends and the average seems to be from 1-3; however, I had one girlfriend that could do it at will simply by thinking about it enough. During sex, she could orgasm constantly the entire time. That was amazing, but a truely rare find.

Kadath 07-14-2003 05:06 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by suviko

When I had just met my bf, we could fuck the whole weekend without dressing up, just sleeping and eating something. The goodness of sex is better measured in how excited I get, that's the real source of endorphines and adrenaline for me and the orgasm is better after that and the floating good sensation might go on a few days. This only occurs in the first times with a new partner whit whom everything just clicks the right way.

Yeah...yeah. :|

sexymama 07-14-2003 07:51 AM

My ex had a minimal sex drive (if any) so once during a night (about once during the week IF I was lucky) was enough for him. I'm thrilled I have a new man in my life who can bring me to orgasm over and over again. We'll have to keep track to see how many in a given session and get back to you. This will be fun, not to mention very fulfilling.

oblar 07-14-2003 10:42 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by *Nikki*
One big one is fine for me. Then I want a nap and some food.;)
that is one of the most quotable things I have read all day :lol:

PhoenixFire 07-14-2003 07:29 PM

When I'm dating a guy, my lack of luck brings me about one to three a month, sexin' it up at 5 to 16 times a week. And finally, after 4 years of being consitently sexually active, it's starting to get to me. Psychologically, I'm starting to build a sex block....that could be another thread.....

NO! Orgasms are good guys, but pressure put on them is worse than none at all. Advice from a hypocrite: enjoy the experience over aiming for climax.

suviko 07-15-2003 03:01 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by PhoenixFire

NO! Orgasms are good guys, but pressure put on them is worse than none at all. Advice from a hypocrite: enjoy the experience over aiming for climax.

Hear, hear. Men, if your women never say "I can't get today, can I just do something fo you", you can be assured she fakes pretty often.

neoinoakleys 07-15-2003 05:54 AM

About 4 seems to be the limit for me...

MrWizard 07-16-2003 02:40 PM

Using my boyfriend's account:
I know that I've had 19 as a max in one session, one long ass session. But I usually have 4 or 5 per session. I'm really easy to get off, I guess.

LittleOralAnnie 07-16-2003 02:42 PM

I'm a multiple orgasm girl myself. The most I ever had was about 4 in one session. They seem to come easy for me for some reason, which I guess is a good thing ;)

tisonlyi 07-16-2003 03:50 PM

I've been with allsorts.

Some who where easily and multiply orgasmic whatever i did, some who where 'reasonably' orgasmic (like, the middle single figures mentioned, max), some who can only come in one or two ways (with their hand or my tongue/hand, for example), some who could never orgasm with another person in the room (to the extent of kicking me out of the room after i finished up, heh) and some who just couldn't at all.

Squirters, le petit mort practitioners, screamers, whimperers, silentists, pray-ers, cursers, hitters and literal lip biters (i saw this particular lass draw her own blood one time i kept her on the edge for an extended period - not big or clever).

The orgasmititude, or sensitivity of a lady is a varied and special as the rest of her physical and mental aspects. Treat it like that.

Pressure is the last thing a woman should feel or have foisted on her. 'Normally' the ladies who have had troubles with their orgasm, we've found they have particular, peculiar sensitivities in other dimensions. Extremely sensitive nipples, anal sex can drive them crazy, licking the back of their knee can do similar...

Orgasm isn't everything, don't get me wrong, it's great and all, but even as a bloke there are times it just ain't gonna happen for me... and sometimes i can't stop it!

:op

Counting orgasms? Like counting lovers. It's a silly idea, and very retentive.

ok, enough rambling. I tired now.

Kadath 07-16-2003 06:18 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by suviko
Hear, hear. Men, if your women never say "I can't get today, can I just do something fo you", you can be assured she fakes pretty often.
God damn you suviko. God damn you. My gf said it to me last night, and I haven't stopped thinking about it since.

sexymama 07-17-2003 06:43 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Kadath
God damn you suviko. God damn you. My gf said it to me last night, and I haven't stopped thinking about it since.
Relax, Suviko may be wrong here. I think a woman who is open enough to say tonight is not my night, is honest enough to not fake orgasms. Why would she fake most of them and then say, "not working tonight?" That makes no sense! And there is no reason to lie -- I never have! And I have said, "just not going to cum tonight but would love to please you."

Kadath 07-17-2003 06:47 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by sexymama
Relax, Suviko may be wrong here. I think a woman who is open enough to say tonight is not my night, is honest enough to not fake orgasms. Why would she fake most of them and then say, "not working tonight?" That makes no sense! And there is no reason to lie -- I never have! And I have said, "just not going to cum tonight but would love to please you."
I was mostly kidding(mostly), but thank you very much for the reassurance, sexymama. I'm not generally concerned about being a good lover, as we have excellent communication, I know and pay attention to what she likes and doesn't like, and we keep things fresh. It's just that suviko's remark came about 12 hours before my gf said it, and thus it was in my head :D
Plus I wanted to quote Heat, in an obscure way.

raeanna74 07-17-2003 07:17 AM

I never bother to count. There are more than one kind but I often have multiples - one builds on the next and so it's hard to tell exactly when one ends and another begins. I'd say I've had 4 or 5 average in an hour session. No idea how many when I went for 17 sessions in 36 hours.

steveincolumbus 07-17-2003 11:31 PM

I think her average any more would be about 5 the max that we we trying to count just for the hell of it because we were trying to see how many times she could was 17.....................

TehWatcher 03-26-2007 02:53 AM

Guess I'm a Lucky Guy...
 
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year now, and we have a no bullshit policy.... if its real, its real... and she is really easy to get off, and they are pretty big... her whole body practically convulses every time she peaks, and one just plays right into another.... between tongue, fingers and sex she counted over 60 in a 7 hour period.... I only got to 5, but dang were we both exhausted afterwards....

beartrucci 09-14-2009 08:06 PM

Orgasm
 
Hey, I just had sex for the first time last week, and my girlfriend had 6 orgasms in the 2 hours that we had sex. She said that was her record, which was funny since I was a virgin and had "no idea" what I was doing :p. It was awesome for me too :)

LoganSnake 09-14-2009 08:11 PM

From what I remember one of my my exes stopped me after her 9th in about 60 minutes cause she was a brink of passing out. The average seems to be 2-3.

Xerxys 09-14-2009 08:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by beartrucci (Post 2703397)
Hey, I just had sex for the first time last week, and my girlfriend had 6 orgasms in the 2 hours that we had sex. She said that was her record, which was funny since I was a virgin and had "no idea" what I was doing :p. It was awesome for me too :)

Congrats Man!

Anormalguy 09-15-2009 05:08 AM

These days my wife probably averages about six. The number varies depending on how I energetic I'm feeling & how horny she is before we even start foreplay; some times three are enough and some times she needs 10 before she's done.

Earlier in our marriage we frequently had some great times where she'd go over 15, maybe even 20 (it's hard to keep an exact count because some of her orgasms are back-to-back). She can still get there, but I'm not in the same physical condition that I was.

little_tippler 09-15-2009 05:30 AM

dang is it just me or is every woman in the world multi-orgasmic? Jesus. If I get one in a session I'm pretty happy. I suppose this can be worked on...heh.

MSD 09-15-2009 06:58 AM

While I can't post any numbers to beat anyone in this thread, I do recall one of my friends mentioning that he and his girlfriend managed over 30 in an hour and a half. Apparently, the man has a magic tongue. I believe three out of his past five girlfriends are now with other women, and I told him he'd better stop proving to women that a penis isn't that important in the grand scheme of things.

Vaultboy 09-15-2009 09:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by suviko (Post 392216)
Hear, hear. Men, if your women never say "I can't get today, can I just do something fo you", you can be assured she fakes pretty often.

True. But I've found it relatively easy to tell if my woman is faking as well. I suppose you need to know your partner very well (i.e. given her lots of orgasms), or her cues need to be clear.

Another question, though:

Is semen related to a difference in the amount and power of women's orgasms? In my experience it does. My wife has more orgasms when I cum inside her (up to 6 in a one-hour session), vs max 3 when using condoms or if I pull out.

and what is the best time-unit to measure this orgasm-clock in? I used one-hour, simply because my own preferences for activity coincide with this. My wife would happily go on for longer, depending on her "greediness" (i.e. timing of her cycle).

mixedmedia 09-15-2009 09:34 AM

During a full sex session (not a quickie) I average 2-3, I think. Occasionally more. During a quickie, I may have one or may not come at all, and that's ok.

For me, I don't think semen has anything to do with my orgasms. I've had very powerful & plentiful orgasms without having any contact with his genitals at all...although, if given a choice... :)

lostgirl 09-15-2009 11:12 AM

Usually I have 2, but I have been known to have up to 8. One guy wanted to know my record and proceeded to break it.

Esoteric 09-17-2009 01:40 PM

The record with my most recent ex was 14.

cellophanedeity 09-17-2009 07:04 PM

I'm hyper-orgasmic. I couldn't count if I wanted to.

Strange Famous 09-17-2009 09:06 PM

"she came twice, I came last" (Biggie Smalls)

PlanG 09-20-2009 03:58 PM

Umm. my ex I managed 7 while fingering her, was really easy though with her.. I think it was only limited by her moving onto other things with me. That was in about 20mins.. absolutely ridiculous and I'm incredibly jealous of it, particularly being male :P

My current girlfriend the max is 2 but it's only happened once. They seem better though because I need to know what works for her; it's taken a while but I can kind of read her and nearly always get her to climax now (exceptions are the occasional time when we've had a LOT of sex, and it's kinda run out for her :p )

snowy 09-20-2009 04:34 PM

I'm not trying to make anyone feel bad by saying this, but honestly, I lose count.

seamaiden 10-11-2009 07:01 PM

I'm happy with one, occasionally I'm treated to two, very rarely three, but never more than that. The first is always the best and can linger for several minutes if circumstances allow. I must say I'm a little disappointed at how the intensity is diminishing with age...but on the flip side of that...I'm with the best lover I ever had, and never felt more sensual.

curiousbear 10-13-2009 05:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sexymama (Post 388466)
I'm thrilled I have a new man in my life who can bring me to orgasm over and over again. We'll have to keep track to see how many in a given session and get back to you. This will be fun, not to mention very fulfilling.

sexymama, pls keep us posted :)

My SO's average is 1. Max is 3. I am sure if I have a sound proof bedroom and if she is tied up, it will be countless... It is just that she wont allow me to continue

YellowBird 10-28-2009 02:49 AM

I can't manage one. :( I get to a a point where I feel like i should but it just doesn't happen. it's really frustrating. or maybe i have and not known it, seems unlikely though.

Ce'Nedra 10-28-2009 11:07 PM

On average I have 2 per sex session, usually one with him stimulating me manually and then a second with penetration. The record would be five, though we do try to break the record every now and then! :thumbsup:

Of course it all depends on my mood and stress levels and foreplay and all of that.

Yellowbird - can you orgasm solo?

YellowBird 10-29-2009 03:09 AM

not really. both with and without someone else I can get to a point where it really feels like i should but i just can't push it over the edge.

GreyWolf 10-29-2009 05:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by YellowBird (Post 2722683)
not really. both with and without someone else I can get to a point where it really feels like i should but i just can't push it over the edge.

Have you tried using vibrators or other toys?

curiousbear 10-29-2009 08:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by YellowBird (Post 2722683)
not really. both with and without someone else I can get to a point where it really feels like i should but i just can't push it over the edge.

have you tried oral?
are there things that you stop your SO from doing because it is too much to take?

YellowBird 10-29-2009 02:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by curiousbear (Post 2722811)
have you tried oral?
are there things that you stop your SO from doing because it is too much to take?

Oral's good but not amazing.
I've stopped him because it became to much and was just becoming more painful rather them more pleasurable and I've stopped myself cause I get bored and dont feel like it's going anywhere.


And I haven't tried toys cause I havent plucked up the courage to go into a shop and I live at home so even plain packages in the mail get questioned endlessly.

Aladdin Sane 10-30-2009 12:51 PM

On Love Line last night a girl said she orgasms so frequently and intensely that she often passes out. When she regains consciousness she has memory loss. Dr. Drew said this wasn't healthy and she should stop before it goes that far. The girl also said that for days after she has sex she is in a hyper-excited state that is extremely distracting. She carries a vibe to work to relieve herself.

huldu 11-01-2009 07:51 PM

Most women will fake for whatever reasons, the best part is its like they think we care. Of course this changes in some relationships and so on. How can you trust someone if you cant even trust yourself, exactly. Womens are like fun you have every now and then, nothing more. If you start to worry about how you performance and what not, you should get married. Live the life and die happy. Worry about such things when you're dead imo.

Ce'Nedra 11-02-2009 01:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by YellowBird (Post 2722954)
Oral's good but not amazing.
I've stopped him because it became to much and was just becoming more painful rather them more pleasurable and I've stopped myself cause I get bored and dont feel like it's going anywhere.

It sounds counter-productive, and much easier said than done, but the first step is to not think or worry about it. When you'rea lone just focus on breathing and the sensations, don't focus on getting to the finish line. It might take practice for you to get yourself comfortable and relaxed enough to get there.

BIGOX 11-03-2009 07:02 PM

some nice records ive been reading..for me majority of the females ive been with usually have continous orgasms per nightly session which usally las for me 6 hrs min. for me tho i usually get two to three in that time but only because im always focused on her getting hers many times over.most usually lose count within the first thirty minutes unless they squirt then they can usually tell until its just a steady dose..

Plan9 11-03-2009 07:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BIGOX (Post 2724673)
some nice records ive been reading..for me majority of the females ive been with usually have continous orgasms per nightly session which usally las for me 6 hrs min. for me tho i usually get two to three in that time but only because im always focused on her getting hers many times over.most usually lose count within the first thirty minutes unless they squirt then they can usually tell until its just a steady dose..

6 hours, huh?


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