discovering and liking the 'underbelly' of the internet , but i still have 1 problem
 

a problem that is re-occurring and ubiquitous.

first let me provide some background and then let me illustrate my point.

So; in between bouts of being single, or being away from my girlfriend, or simple being away from places where there are girls within my peer group- it's obvious that I get bored. So I spend alot of time perusing forums or blogus and such all generally pertaining to sex and sexuality; I get my kicks this way. They're interesting, entertaining, insightful and often arousing.

So when I was doing alot of clicking around (as one tends to do, just following links and clicking and just wasting time in general)
I came across some sort of "truth or dare" forum. Very interesting indeed. People either stating dares or requesting them. Threads were of course with people posting dares (generally either slightly sexual or straight pornographic) and responses were from the 'sub' or the target 'Daree" recounting their experience (much of this was probably made up, and as such is more along the lines of erotic fiction). However, some of them provided picture evidence.

There was subforum within this forum which was essentially a dom/sub personal ad. And from what I could gather it seemed to be quite popular and effective.

Of course, the basis of the problem "there are no girls on the internet".

Probably 9 in 10 of these "seeking" were males.

It appealed to me very much. The idea of finding a girl (of course the hope is that she's young-ish and relatively attractive) with whom i can participate in some sort of chatting/socializing/connection via the internet- build trust and generate sexual tension, and generally just gain an "E-friend" as one would from say, posting anywhere.

However, the caveat that this relationship is superficially built upon watching each other change on webcam/mutual jerk sessions/or her being submissive to me through webcam is basically the pinnacle of the "internet dream", no?

We can get along on a good friendship level, shoot the shit, chat whatever, build trust (as these things don't work without trust) but as an aside do something absolutely filthy and perverted... with no stress or pressure to ever have to meet each other.

So what I'm saying is, this probably happens everywhere and all the time. It's exhibited in sites like chatroulette and stuff. The internet is solely composed of dudes jacking off.

However, after doing alot of reading on such forums it becomes evident that there is a certain population of females who are turned on by INTERNET PERVERSION!

I think you just need to find the right vessel. So, let me state the obvious. I want to find a girl with whom I can talk dirty and watch stick things in her ass on webcam while i jerk off.

But that goes without saying, that's what every guy wants.

Now, bring the flood of PMs saying 19/f/blonde/vry horny email me bb... ... from a dude jacking off.






Of course if i succeed in this goal, i will definitely let tfp know.

I don't get it. You are telling me you like to jack off to dudes and turn on girls? What is there to discuss? We like people to discuss here not ramble incoherently with a mash of thoughts and barely strung together ideas.

I think that would still be considered the mainstream porn side of the Internet. You haven't described the 'underbelly'...

Your title states you have a problem, so...what's the problem?

reading comprehension

one of your strong suits.

the underbelly is, as i mentioned, the sites peddling flesh which seem, to some extent legit (as a contrast to the image of some dude spamming a messageboard TITS OR GTFO WHO WANTS TO SEE MY COCK LOLOLOLOL)

I predict a ban bomb coming. Boom.

Tell us what exactly we should be discussing, Tusko, 'cause I have no idea.

So again I don't see what you are talking about. I'm not the only one as evidenced by the other poster Pearl and the lack of participating community members.

What did you just discover porn because its been here since we opened our doors 8 years ago.

I'm goons to again ask nicely, what do you want to discuss?

So people trading pictures, dudes sending pictures of their dicks to everyone, and occasional hookups from people on various forums is what you consider the "underbelly" of the Internet?

I'm going to bite my tongue and not traumatize you.

Let's see if I've got this right:

You found something that you seem to think is cutting edge (but is mostly pretty vanilla in most folks experience, including mine), you want to hook up with hot chicks that will do your bidding and you want to do that here?

Do I have that right? Cause if I do - especially the using TFP as a hook-up zone - you deserve to be traumatized by MSD. Or to deal with me. Your call.

:)

I get the impression that this person lives in an environment where sex is considered "dirty" or a sin of some sort. Which to me, means someone who either just moved out on their own (young) or is just inexperienced all around to things pertaining to the subject of sex.

There are girls on the internet, but beautiful ones are either milking it for all it's worth, or so tired of it that they try to keep their sex a secret to anonymous2145 for the exact reason you described. They don't want a barrage of guys trying to pressure them in to sticking things in their buttholes on camera. There are girls you can pay for that online. Hell I'm sure if you look hard enough you may even find one for free once in a while. But that requires a right place/right time dynamic.

Honestly, it sounds like way too much effort for such a mundane sexual act (at least, to me, it's far too simple)

I thought the underbelly of the Internet was still self-published poetry and fanfic....

Haha, I've seen Mr. Hands get drilled by a horse, run of the mill porn is nothing to me. Not saying I watch beastiality vids and that kind of thing to get my jollies, I'm saying that me watching a dude get blown by a girl is pretty normal fare for the pseudo-internet underbelly.

The underbelly of the internet is kinda like the underbelly of an uncut horse: if you can't see any horse dicks you're probably nowhere near the underbelly.

Tusko:
May all your underbelly fantasies be replete with cellulite.

wow
worse than i thought
tfp is completely incapable of discussing and chewing on topics with any ambiguity.
WHAT ARE SAYING?!?!!? DO NOT UNDERSTAND HOW ARE QUESTION??!! DO INTERNET WORK?!!

jesus christ.

conversations generally go as follows:

"Idea"
"Additional idea"
"Consideration of additional Idea with reference to initial idea"
"Novel idea"
"Reflection upon pool of idea"
"Formulation of hypothesis or phrasing of supposition"
"Counter hypothesis or agreement with additional detail"

etc.


Instead, conversation here appears as follows

"Thoughts"
"what are you saying this isn't a question??"
"Oh u gonna get banned lolololol"
"I'm a dull and boring robot"
"...thoughts??? Ideas??"
"Ideas are gay literally kill urself jump on a sword u noob"
"banned"

It's no wonder this forum gets like 3 hits a day.

Actually, we seem to have a higher standard for our thread-starters than you seem willing to contribute. If you have questions about these standards, check out our new user section of the board, including our guidelines and rules. If you choose to hang around, even after this mild level of hazing you have endured, you will find that we are a complex community which chooses to engage in meaningful discussions. As your OP stands, it would be better suited for our Blogs section.

so then there's nothing in there about relfect, discuss and contribute?

no not really, you may be reflecting, but we can't discuss or contribute to it because it's not really framed as a discussion. You may want to continue to debate it, but I don't. I like keeping the standard of discussion higher than what you've put in for the OP. I've tried to cajole it out of you and you've seen other staff members make attempts as well. You're obviously not interested in turning this into a discussion of your topic but you're trying to defend what the entire staff agrees is a poorly framed discussion. I'm not interested in furthering it, so I'm now locking the thread. You're free to try again on a different one and I hope that you can take a moment, reflect, contribute, and set the tone for people to discuss.

no we don't get just 3 hits a day, we get substantially more than that.

Maybe you're thinking that's the case because you signed up so long ago and just looked at the porn. I removed the porn from the site over a year ago, it lives on a different site that kind of looks the same but it's a totally different URL.