Relationship Help!
 

Hello there ladies and gents. This will be the first time of inviting my girlfriend over to my house. We'll be staying mostly in my room for the day.. and yeah I've had some things planned out to do but willing to hear advices and seek more on this topic as I am inexperienced.

I checked out a movie where I highly recommended her to watch since she has not seen it yet so that will be a good 2 hours to waste time on. [Lucky Number Slevin] She's gets real into good movies so yeah.

She likes to wrestle with me too and play games like Big 2, and just being a competitive person. SO I thought of a game that would consist of a series of mini games ie BIG 2, Thumb master, rock paper scissors and/or ANY other games such as these that would be great and fun to play. SO whoever wins the most games gets to either flinch/poke/flick the other person while having his/her eyes closed. LOL So that's all i've thought of atm... and yeah we have kissed and made out before so she's totally ok with it.

So I Don't know if it'll last me the whole day or not.. I'm probably going to need more things to do with her and not bore her.
Thanks for taking the time to read this and Thanks again in advance.

-Chicken Muffin

BTW, What Planet are you from?

The planet of Under 18 I bet.

Yeah, seriously.

Try playing card games, like War, Spades, Crazy 8's. Then you are facing each other, not side by side in front of a screen.

lol
 

Lol im 20...
Yeah.. pff I knew better than that obviously but .. we can't just be playing card games all day ya know..

Can't you make her something to eat? Being playful in the kitchen has always worked out for me. Just don't be a wuss and let an opportunity slip by. Once it's gone it's gone forever and things can get awkward.

I don't know, a girl comin' round...who sounds like she might be a little frisky...and we're talking cards, movies and cooking? Man you need to pound on that for a little while, if it works out right you'll never have to push play on the dvd and the day will fly by. :thumbsup:

Okay maybe things aren't moving that quickly and you want to impress, but why stay at home in your room? No offense but that kind of sounds a little depressing. If you know her well enough that the two you just like hanging out and feel like dispensing with the usual date/get to know you garbage, how about taking a walk or a nice drive somewhere quiet with a stunning view (or into town and find something fun to do)? Its easy, gives you lots of alone time together, bring some good music along and quiet honestly a good sunset over a lake with a place to cuddle is a grade-A bra remover my friend (of course I find lots of alcohol tends to help here...but what the hell it should work without it). If that doesn't work bring her back home and prepare or take out a nice meal, slump down on the sofa, start the movie and let nature take its course.

I mean it sounds like you want to get something going with her while she's over, I don't think hanging around in your room and playing games is going to get the job done. But you know her better then we do, if she's into that sort of thing give it a shot...but yeah...I don't know...

I may be being crazy, but I've found as a 40 year old man, recently re-introduced to a group of people I was at college with 20 years ago (via Facebook), that at a time in my life when I was wondering how to get women to notice me and trying all sorts of gentle things (card games, walks, meals, films) to get them to fall for me, it turns out that a couple of the ones that I desperately wanted to notice me already had, and have spent the last 20 years wondering why I never made a move!

In short, if I'd been brave enough to say "Hey [lady's name], I really like you - would you like to be more than just friends?", I'd have got a very positive response. Obviously as a happily married man of 40 this makes me chuckle, but if I could go back and tell my 20 year old self, he'd be balls deep in flexible young women!

Not only is this true but it is good for morale to say it aloud.

I'm ten years older than the OP, yet I would have the same question... My house is set up for me,and I have no idea how to play the role of a host. I would be very confused and have no idea what to do to pass the time in an interesting way.

Well... you could watch movies, talk to her, play games.

Or you could do what I did the last time I invited a woman over for the first time: start by watching TV, start kissing a few minutes later, and end up in bed shortly thereafter. Time flies when you're having fun. :D

Wow, thanks for all of your responses. Yeah when it comes down to these typical situations of 'what-to-do' things in your room. YOu gotta play your cards right and yeah by doing so, perhaps i am the only one here obviously to knows my gf better than anyone. She likes to play games, and just be competitive about it. Movies are another thing which we could talk about it afterward .. and slowly climb onto the the Bed.

Of course if your living room tv doesn't work and only the bedroom tv does, and its a good movie that you both wanna watch...

She's already your GF, just go for it. let your hands wander a bit during your next smoochy session (just make sure it's on the couch/bed, not at the door on her way out... fail)

Chances are, she's just as curious when you're going to do the humpty as you are. Girls aren't as innocent as they pretend to be, and they certainly think about sex at least once every 10 minutes compared to a guy's 3 per minute :p
(statistics were made up on the spot, I claim no accuracy)

edit: if you're not interested in the sex thing yet, well, sounds like you're already covered, though you should really grow past the pinch/poke high school games. Time to be an old fart like the rest of us.

hum.. was thinking about watching the movie on my 15 inch old Monitor LMFAO. and yeah we're gonna be sitting on chairs too. Don't wanna make her feel uncomfortable by using the bed to sit on and watch if you know what i mean.

@Shauk
There was this one incident where yeah we made out and I was touching in the right spot but was cock blocked by security guards at a mall. LOL.

I find this thread suspicious.

chairs? monitor?
How un-romantic.

most 20 year olds aren't exactly rolling in luxury when they move out. Hell I had inflatable furniture for the 1st year out on my own.

I was poor as dirt at 20 but if you get creative the whole charming, poor, bachelor thing can be quite endearing. Its amazing how well mac and cheese goes over for dinner when you spread a blanket on your empty living room floor and light a cheap candle or how turning down the lights and snuggling on the futon while you watch a movie on your broken down 10 inch portable dvd player can be the most romantic thing you can do.

When you need/want to go out there are all sorts of things you can do without money...I once bought a 50 cent kite to play with when I brought a girl I liked down to the beach (or the park or vacant lot whatever), she loved it. But it wasn't about flying a kite it was a conversation piece. She asked me to show her how to use and I had to wrap my arms around her when I showed her (all sorts of touchy feely goodness), when it inevitably wouldn't stay in the air we got a laugh out of watching it crash and burn time and time again...it was just something to do on a nothing budget. Its about taking the effort to make the time you spend together quality time and doing what you can to make it feel special.

You're definitely right but its the very first time that my gf is coming over. GONA Make things Clean and Smooth like Michael Jackson Lol.

BTW, does anyone know of any good ps3 games for couples to play on? FOR example, I already own LIttle Big Planet, RE5.. what else?

EDited:
FOrgot about Modern warfare 2 BABES!. :) . hopefully she'll be into it. ._.

Just a question... what does your girlfriend think is going to happen at your place? I know, trick question, but still... perhaps she's thinking about making out?

I can imagine she'd be pretty annoyed when you show her the computer games and movies... But then again, if she likes to play games, she might surprise you. ;)

Yeah, she gotta be in the mood for making out but no sex lol.

errrr..why no sex mcmuffin?

we're too early in the relationship. Not even a month yet broski.

err, what an odd thread. especially on this forum. eh, if you're not wanting to take it to the next level b/c you haven't been together for a month yet, probably best to not spend the day in your bedroom. i'd reserve the dinner/candles/games/etc for when you are actually ready to have sex. it is inevitably awkward and sometimes a relationship killer when that weirdo-strange moment comes and you say "um, i'm not ready" or some such thing when she wants to hop on pop. All the above advise is great but if you're not wanting to get laid for whatever reason, i'd hold off on it altogether until you ARE ready.

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edit - question - if i may ask, how old is she?

It's not that i'm not ready for sex, it's her. lol she's just a year younger than I.

Hooray for self restraint!

Why not ask her for a few ideas, kiddo? Have her identify one or two things she'd like to do?

If nookie is not gonna happen... a bedroom is the last place you should be.

Plan the first thing for the day and then let her pick one, you pick one, etc.


Or... you could be spontaneous and just have fun enjoying each other's company.

yeah get out of the bedroom kiddo....

you two got no business in there if you're not ready to play ball. Dont get me wrong, i think it's commendable that you show such values, but they wont last long if you have a whole day of chilling out in your room. theres only so many games you can play before those hormones kick in.

Are you Amish?

21, had sex with my ex right around ~month or so mark, don't want to use the word "regret" but lets just say there's nothing wrong with waiting. If anything I'm more interested in what's in her head than her pants... Think I'm amish too mate?

Some guys are more willing to wait than others. It's called self restraint. Or a sexual dysfunction, kinda 50/50 on the internet.

Hmmmm What else can we possibly do atm. Have anyone here tried sucking their gf's neck before? How does that shit work? im planning on trying that out. Any tips/suggestions on how to begin.. lol MY gf and I will be in the living room for starters on the sofa and will be playing some ps3 games.

Go for a bike ride, a walk, cook dinner or lunch together, play horseshoes, go bowling, go out for a country drive/picnic. What kind of things have the two of you done before that was fun? Is there a reason you're just planning on spending the whole day in your living room/your room with her?

THIS.

Somebody please card OP.

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I second this but for different reasons.

She is your g/f, I am sure anything you do together she will have fun. With me and my man we could just be sitting there watching tv and cuddling, or playing video games, or even just cuddling and talking. It doesnt take much for us girls to be happy as long as we are with our guy :-)

I'll let you in on a secret: That works for a lot of dudes too. I had fun with my ex once just sitting on my bed (no other furniture) watching an abysmally bad syfy tv movie and making fun of it with her.

Unfamiliar with this term... is this like Doxxing someone?

Card = age.

I've never heard of anyone over the age of 14 (at the most) wrestling with his girlfriend and doing that "poke pinch" shit. This guy reeks of pre-pubescence.

Shadowex, being carded is when someone checks your ID, your card.

Now I'm curious ... what is doxxing??

Dox is a typical internet language corruption of "documents", doxxing is basically building as full a dossier on someone as possible on the internet. Sometimes it goes as far as finding their address, like with the assholes that keep trying to hurt animals, othertimes it stops at a facebook or verified identity of some kind.