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LoganSnake · 03-09-2010, 03:57 PM

Why hasn't the OP replied to this thread?

He should show his friend the replies. Maybe she'll rethink her idea. Probably not, but it couldn't hurt.

Phoenix Ryzing · 03-10-2010, 03:16 PM

I think it depends on the situation.

If the woman is working and making her own pay in the real world, then she should charge if she feels no desire to actually please her husband, but in the same regard the man should be able to charge her also.

If the woman isn't working and wants to charge, then the guy should hold out on supplying food, clothes, makeup, extra spending money, ect.. ect..

Hey fair is only fair. You want to grab a man by the balls, then you better be prepared for him to get defensive.

Fire · 03-27-2010, 09:38 PM

divorce the bitch immediately.....

serious issues there, and not apparently worth salvaging.....

her mom is no better than a whore, and she wants to be one too?

monkeysugar · 03-28-2010, 01:52 AM

This is so incredibly dysfunctional. I'd dump her ass on the spot. Do not pass go, do not receive $200, get your shit and get the fuck out.

orionnebula · 04-03-2010, 10:39 PM

Definitelly no way I would accept a deal like that.... if I want a whore as wife, I would get a whore.... would be cheaper in the long run

And where's the love and everybody gives.... so No BJ, no licking...

LazyBoy · 04-13-2010, 08:04 PM

My simple reply....I think it's a bad idea.

PhD · 04-20-2010, 02:33 PM

The OP is obviously posting a fake post.
But interesting to read the real responses.

counterpoint · 04-20-2010, 06:18 PM

I'd never pay for sex, or things of the sort. I think it's kind of... not right.

sbscout · 04-20-2010, 07:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PhD

The OP is obviously posting a fake post.
But interesting to read the real responses.

It is not a fake post. I was simply relating to the TFP community something that was reported to me by a friend. I have no reason not to believe her story.

Nazggul · 04-22-2010, 01:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sbscout

It is not a fake post. I was simply relating to the TFP community something that was reported to me by a friend. I have no reason not to believe her story.

I would love to hear her reaction to the feedback, and whether she actually plans to continue the tradition.

Shauk · 04-22-2010, 01:57 PM

OP: your friend's mother was a whore, the end.

sbscout · 05-16-2010, 02:01 PM

Well, I've let the lady in question know about your reactions. She was quite surprised by the number of replies, but not the negativity.

She says she was just thinking out loud. Intimacy is something to share, not charge for.

She does find it difficult to look her parents in the eye, though.

telekinetic · 05-16-2010, 02:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sbscout

She says she was just thinking out loud. Intimacy is something to share, not charge for.

If both the OP and the person the story was about disagree with the premise of the first post, why does this thread exist?

Seems a lot like:
X starts a thread titled "my friend wants to start using a tazer to discipline her 8 month old daughter, do you think this is a good idea?"
X waits 3 months and 90 horrified posts
X posts "she would never really do it, she knows it's a terrible idea, kids are meant to be loved not elecricuted!"

phathom · 06-01-2010, 04:52 PM

Well if I had a choice between paying (not like I don't pay for EVERYTHING already) and waiting til my birthday and hoping it would actually happen. I'd probably take the paying option. I think it's messed up that it comes up at all though.
Anyone who's married notice that when that ring gets put on her drive to do stuff with you and her willingness to do other stuff straight up dies?

snowy · 06-02-2010, 07:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by phathom

Well if I had a choice between paying (not like I don't pay for EVERYTHING already) and waiting til my birthday and hoping it would actually happen. I'd probably take the paying option. I think it's messed up that it comes up at all though.
Anyone who's married notice that when that ring gets put on her drive to do stuff with you and her willingness to do other stuff straight up dies?

News to me. I'm getting married this summer and I certainly know that nothing of the sort is likely to happen. If anything, the wedding kind of feels like a random party because we've been living together for so long. I know this may be true in some relationships, but I would say that it happens in relationships where there are underlying issues already.

phathom · 06-02-2010, 09:21 AM

So were we. It was just a formality. Before it used to be a lot then after it just completely stopped except on special occasions.

raging moderate · 06-04-2010, 11:05 AM

that's a fucking fact. i just got married in february, and it went from daily to weekly to monthly to WTF in the three months since then

Strange Famous · 06-04-2010, 11:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sbscout

A friend of a friend just revealed that she is thinking about carrying on a family tradition. Seems her mother has charged her father $50 for every bj given. She didn't charge him for straight sex, but figured the bj was "special" and deserving of a reward for her. Rumor has it that mom has amassed a rather sizable bank account over the years.

So the daughter's thinking of a price list for services. She thinks her husband will likely be agreeable. He doesn't need to reciprocate. This is her, doing things to/for him. Getting in the mood isn't required...

Here's what she's thinking:
handjob $20
blowjob $30
bj with swallow $40
anal $100

What do you think? Would you do this? Pay for this? Are the prices in line?

I told her he needs to pay more. Do you agree?

If somebody I was in a relationship with suggested such a thing in any context other than a joke, sorry to be impolite, but I would tell them to do one.

If I found myself married to a person like this, I would count myself as cursed and cursed again. I wouldnt touch her or let her touch me and get out as fast as I could.

I'd rather have a wank than pay someone who is supposed to care about you.

What an absolutely vile idea.

03-09-2010, 03:57 PM	#81 (permalink)
LoganSnake We work alone Location: Cake Town	Why hasn't the OP replied to this thread? He should show his friend the replies. Maybe she'll rethink her idea. Probably not, but it couldn't hurt. __________________ Maturity is knowing you were an idiot in the past. Wisdom is knowing that you'll be an idiot in the future. Common sense is knowing that you should try not to be an idiot now. - J. Jacques

03-27-2010, 09:38 PM	#83 (permalink)
Fire Warrior Smith Location: missouri	divorce the bitch immediately..... serious issues there, and not apparently worth salvaging..... her mom is no better than a whore, and she wants to be one too? __________________ Thought the harder, Heart the bolder, Mood the more as our might lessens

03-28-2010, 01:52 AM	#84 (permalink)
monkeysugar I'll be on the veranda, since you're on the cross. Location: Rand McNally's friendliest small town in America. They must have strayed from the dodgy parts...	This is so incredibly dysfunctional. I'd dump her ass on the spot. Do not pass go, do not receive $200, get your shit and get the fuck out. __________________ I've got the love of my life and a job that I enjoy most of the time. Life is good.

04-13-2010, 08:04 PM	#86 (permalink)
LazyBoy Insane Location: Memphis Area	My simple reply....I think it's a bad idea. __________________ Life is nothing, everything.....and something in between...

05-16-2010, 02:01 PM	#92 (permalink)
sbscout Disorganized Location: back home again...	Well, I've let the lady in question know about your reactions. She was quite surprised by the number of replies, but not the negativity. She says she was just thinking out loud. Intimacy is something to share, not charge for. She does find it difficult to look her parents in the eye, though. __________________ Always question authority... it'll keep the bastards on their toes!

03-10-2010, 03:16 PM	#82 (permalink)
Phoenix Ryzing Upright	I think it depends on the situation. If the woman is working and making her own pay in the real world, then she should charge if she feels no desire to actually please her husband, but in the same regard the man should be able to charge her also. If the woman isn't working and wants to charge, then the guy should hold out on supplying food, clothes, makeup, extra spending money, ect.. ect.. Hey fair is only fair. You want to grab a man by the balls, then you better be prepared for him to get defensive.

04-03-2010, 10:39 PM	#85 (permalink)
orionnebula Tilted	Definitelly no way I would accept a deal like that.... if I want a whore as wife, I would get a whore.... would be cheaper in the long run And where's the love and everybody gives.... so No BJ, no licking...

04-20-2010, 02:33 PM	#87 (permalink)
PhD Upright	The OP is obviously posting a fake post. But interesting to read the real responses.

04-20-2010, 06:18 PM	#88 (permalink)
counterpoint Upright Location: Daytona Beach, FL	I'd never pay for sex, or things of the sort. I think it's kind of... not right.

04-22-2010, 01:57 PM	#91 (permalink)
Shauk Confused Adult Location: Spokane, WA	OP: your friend's mother was a whore, the end.

06-01-2010, 04:52 PM	#94 (permalink)
phathom Crazy	Well if I had a choice between paying (not like I don't pay for EVERYTHING already) and waiting til my birthday and hoping it would actually happen. I'd probably take the paying option. I think it's messed up that it comes up at all though. Anyone who's married notice that when that ring gets put on her drive to do stuff with you and her willingness to do other stuff straight up dies? __________________ -snooch to the nooch

06-02-2010, 09:21 AM	#96 (permalink)
phathom Crazy	So were we. It was just a formality. Before it used to be a lot then after it just completely stopped except on special occasions. __________________ -snooch to the nooch

06-04-2010, 11:05 AM	#97 (permalink)
raging moderate Insane Location: Whatever house my keys can get me into	that's a fucking fact. i just got married in february, and it went from daily to weekly to monthly to WTF in the three months since then __________________ These are the good old days... formerly Murp0434