Haha Jack Ruby, I can't come from a blowjob either, I have to jerk it because of my "past."

I don't mean to sound insulting, but perhaps the way you two do things now aren't the best/optimal for you to come... maybe try new stuff?

I hear exactly what your saying phedgreen. It's not so much the excessive masturbation that's the problem, It's the hour or so lost searching for the "Wankable porn" . What you think is going to be a two minute activity after arriving home from a long day at the office spirals into a time eating struggle to find asuitable girl who enables you to conjure a viable scenario and finish off the messy business. (especially with my shoddy dial up connection)

I do kick boxing training four times a week and the weeks when I abstain and fill the "Tank" up I think I notice an increase in mental and physical stamina. (kick boxing takes a reasonable amount of mental stamina if your un coordinated and have to think where your bloody arms and legs are going all the time).

Bring on the wank free challenge.

Count me in. I haven't already in the past 3 days..... so July 9th I guess.

But, but, but....
Its gonna be tough Im sure. I sometimes spank the monkey 3 or 4 times a day. My G/F is away so nookie is out of the equasion too. I always find that if i havent choked the chicken for a few days that I cant concentrate on anything else. Ive rarely/never gone more than a month. Shit, this is gonna be tough.

Well here goes.

Well I lasted for 7 days. Time to start over.

Okay, folks. I guess I might as well mention that phredgreen seems to have bumped into a very old and (I think) very effective approach to male sexuality. See, dirty old Taoist men came to the conclusion that guys are all Yang when it comes to sex, while women are Yin. This means the boys expend energy when they orgasm, the girls gain energy. They're ready to work, clean, talk, or (gasp) keep having more sex. We're ready to sleep. Or work. Or go fishing. Anything but keep having more sex. Not right away, at least. Younger guys will have to take my word on this. It becomes an issue later, although not as dramatic an issue as I'm making out here ;)

The Taoists noticed that since we're expending energy, we boys are in danger of killing ourselves if we have too many orgasms. Not necessarily "death by ejaculation", mind you. But they felt that we would die younger, have less energy, and generally be difficult to be around because we'll get old and wonder why we don't have as much Yang to spend as we did when we were younger.

Their solution? Eat right, exercise regularly, and have lots of sex. Just don't ... you know ... oh, how can I put this delicately?

Don't come so damn often!

We generally think of ejaculation as orgasm. That release of energy is so overwhelming that we forget about the few seconds right before ejaculation. Those few seconds (where we start whimpering and occasionally calling out names) are, according to the dirty old Taoist men, the actual orgasm. At that point, you're super-charged, energized, and feel just about ready to take on the world. Then you slide into ejaculation, which, let's face it, feels really good too. It's a loud bang, and all of that energy you had built up a second ago is forced out with a rush. But, you know, after that is a nap. Or crankiness. Or maybe just a few moments where you're catching your breath and kinda wondering what happened.

The dirty old Taoist men think of that few seconds right before as orgasm, and figured out ways to extend it. So you end up with a long Yen orgasm like the girls get, where you are ready for anything after sex except maybe a nap. More sex, for example. Plus it's less messy. Mind you, you can still ejaculate when you want to, but you don't need to do so in order to reach orgasm, and you don't need to ejaculate every time you have sex.

There are lots of exercises to make this experience easier to reach. Fun exercises, I might add. The basic one is this: when you masturbate, get yourself as close to the "point of no return" as possible, then stop. Give yourself a few seconds (or just stop and come back to it later). Try to build up the number of times you can reach that point without coming. Enjoy and extend that state of bliss right before. If nothing else, you will get a good awareness of your body :D

Here's a few books I can highly recommend on the subject:

• The Multi-Orgasmic Man
• The Tao of Love and Sex
• The Tao of the Loving Couple

So, yeah. Have fun. This turned into a really long essay. Sorry about that, but quality of orgasm is something I care very deeply about :lol:

All right...I'm in!
I only started wanking off after I had sex for the first time...never really had any desire to do it before that.
I have been trying to cut back, so having a support group like this couldn't hurt. I'm starting tomorrow, though. Already screwed up today. :D

I'm thinking no, just doesn't seem like a good time.

WOOO! Day 3 of the TFP wank-fest is a roaring success!

Had sex with the GF when we woke up, but she's off doing her thing and I was horny again. I was afraid the morning's activities might have put me off for the day but thankfully, no.

if you really want to get everyone going on a wankfest (as opposed to wank free), why not post some nekkid pics of your girl, give us something to "think" about. :eek:

Fair enough, but as demonstrative as she is in bed, at Dodger games or at a concert... she's funny about having any pictures of herself "online" for any reason. I will, though, specifically ask her on your behalf and get back to you.

(who needs my help with a wank-fest when the Titty Board just a few clicks away? ;) )

Now things could get interesting...my g/f and I just had a huge fight, and I think the relationship may be over...but I'm going to try to avoid self gratification, still. This will be a test...

I hope that if you two are good for each other that things work out. Otherwise, good luck and happy hunting!

Today a young man on acid realized that all matter is merely energy condensed to a slow vibration, that we are all one consciousness experiencing itself subjectively, there is no such thing as death, life is only a dream, and we are the imagination of ourselves. Here's Tom with the weather."
-Bill Hicks


That has got to be one of my favorite songs of all time.

So why is masturbation bad, you ask?

Sex is for procreation only.
Masturbation is unnatural, it leads to homosexuality.
Masturbation is based on lust.
Masturbation is addictive.
Masturbation is a solitary act. Sex is meant for a married man and woman.
Masturbation is a symptom of [spiritual] immaturity.
Masturbation is an impure act.
God watches us all the time. The argument for shame and self-policing.
Masturbate is the unforgivable sin.

Wow. Your life must suck.

i just saw a totally fucking steamy hot movie, Secretary

That was a weird flick. I liked the part where she bends over the desk and he j's/o on her butt.

The basic one is this: when you masturbate, get yourself as close to the "point of no return" as possible, then stop. Give yourself a few seconds (or just stop and come back to it later). Try to build up the number of times you can reach that point without coming. Enjoy and extend that state of bliss right before. If nothing else, you will get a good awareness of your body


Hey that's how Ive done it since I was 10 years old, well ok, maybe it took me til 12 to perfect it.

handyman: i'm a little dense at times... was that an attempt at sarcasm, or were you serious there?

So why is masturbation bad, you ask?

Sex is for procreation only.
Maybe for you.

Masturbation is unnatural, it leads to homosexuality.
Just about 100% of guys do it, so EHH EHH WRONG.

Masturbation is based on lust.
So is sex between 2 people.

Masturbation is addictive.
So are videogames, sports, and anything else enjoyable.

Masturbation is a solitary act. Sex is meant for a married man and woman.
God forbid you spend time alone. People who fear being alone must hate themselves.

Masturbation is a symptom of [spiritual] immaturity.
How can it have anything to do with spirituality if it's only based on lust? Cant have it both ways.

Masturbation is an impure act.
So is shitting. I wont stop that either.

God watches us all the time.
So he's a voyeur? Does he get hard watching us? Hope he doesnt masturbate, he will become a homosexual.

The argument for shame and self-policing.
Masturbate is the unforgivable sin.
Guess there wont be any guys (or fun girls) in heaven.

handyman: i'm a little dense at times... was that an attempt at sarcasm, or were you serious there?

to what are you referring?

I'm in. I have been mainly coming here for the titty board. This will be a good time to explore the rest of the place.

Well according to Marilyn Manson you only become a homosexual while masterbating if you get jizz on yourself! :D

Oh alright I'll try it, but it's gonna be tough without my daily titty board fix. I'm single right now so I hope I meet a honey soon.

Starting today July 13th I am wank free.

Count me in!


Has anyone had to restart the cout yet?

I have deleted all porn in accordance with the scheme!

Almost everyone, I think. :D Charlatan seems on the fucking ball, actually, but I've restarted twice since the second. It's easy on days like today.

I have not restarted despite my close call earlier!

A word of advice...

I just read an article about sex and wanking and the conclusion there was that men should have sex/masturbate at the minimum of once a week to keep up the good health and performace. They actually used the word 'practice' and there were several adverse effects of not practicing. Namely, decreased libido and ability to perform at the later age, after you get 27 or something...

The article didn't tell anything about women...

So boys, try to wank at least once a week if you don't have a gf/bf/so to have sex with. Otherwise, you regret it later :)

Natures " pay plan" for responsible procreation is pleasure with your mate. Without the committment, pleasure in union is borrowing" money" that probably wont get paid back with family creation. Wanking is basically just treading water until an appropriate mate decides to join you and co-sign.

I have stopped as of the 13th. So far going good through the 14th.

Charles

you guys are fuckin nuts!!! *backs away slowly, then turns and runs*

well.... the streak is over. i have succumbed to that which i cannot control. back to day one.

Mael,

As promised, I did ask. Predictably, the answer was just a long laugh. So... there ya go.

on topic:
day 5 of the wank-fest went off w/o a hitch before work. WOO! I hope the rest of you are uptight and cranky, ya damned weirdos.

;)

Dude dont sabotage the scheme!

We should make it an olympic event hahah

Best of Luck, and I will not be joining you

I'm in, hope I'll make it.

I will give it a shot, absolutely no confidence though. I usually only score on the weekend (married), so Mon-Fri is very tough!
I remember lasting about a month when I was 16 and got my 1st real gf that put out.
I just figured if you were getting laid you weren't supposed to wank...later I learned that was incorrect.

i runs with bigjayz

yall are in sane specially the single ones

I'll give it a shot.

Good luck! My gf is out of town, just now. I figure I'd be lucky to get through 24 hours without wanking.

The catholics are eating your souls!

No way, dude. Not in my partnership for a Wank-Fest TFP. 5 days and counting, but I was in a rush this morning, so I didn't have time before work. Ooh! Maybe AT work! Whatta rush! hahaha

i have not done it since july 5.

I've done that before...

I worked at a photoshop and we would get nudie pics all the time. So one day I got a roll of some semi decent shit....I guess I was just horny, but anyways...I just laid out all the pics and wanked away. While the store was open...and I was the only one working...I think people could sense the masturbation so they didn't come into the store.

And Halx..don't you work at some half nekkid website or something like that? Im sure everyone there has at least once if so.

Well.. I mean I did it when I used to work an office job :o

i make it a point to try to do it at every job i have. only place i wish i had but didn't was a driving range (golf), i would have loved to have done it 300 yards out on the tractor. that woulda been great.

Amen brutha!

We just like a challenge, thats all. But now after a few days its getting pretty bad.. my dreams are getting more interesting tho.. hahah

My partnership for a Wank-Fest TFP has a new bumper sticker:

http://www.tomorrowideation.com/geto...MOMLIEDbig.jpg

Say - if my girlfriend ummm did it for me at lunch, does that count? No, didn't think so. Hafta make sure I get that done before I fall asleep tonight. Wouldn't wanna break the streak, now...

I'd buy that if it were a real bumper sticker. Something tells me though that I'd have a hard time trying to explain it to my kids. :p

here is the deal.. you build up a "full load" by.. going at it till you are about to explode and stop.. start again slowly .. and go at it till you get there again and stop.. do this for about 15 min.. then go all teh way.. dont stop pumping.. (solo or with a lady) er.. this is for a guy.. dont know if it will work for a girl..

my wife and i do this.. i could put holes in the wall sometimes.. just helping..

i loose.

So you're saying I should masturbate on sundays to keep everything working right?

I call.
bumper sticker
(everything in the store is pretty damned funny, really)


You have to post a picture of you at least holding the sticker, if not actually on your car.

;)

I can't say that I'll participate, but you will all have my support in your...experiment.

wank free since... aw crap- reset the meter.

its that titty board that you gotta look out for. It has already foiled my plans...

There was no way i was going to attempt this, but after getting caught the third time in 4 days by the better half, i owe it to myself to redirect my energies back to where they should be...

Date: 16/7/03
Time: 9:24pm

This'll be tough...

personally I just dont see the point. My sex life with my GF is great but due to our sometimes conflicting schedule (i work shift work so when I'm sleeping all day and she's sleeping all night it's kinda hard on the old sex life) I gotta be satisfied with a quick wank. Oh well. Good luck I guess.
__________
Wank-free since... ummm never mind the titty board calls :)

Cool:D

I've had a few close calls but I've managed to avoid the WANK... (although motdakasha's post about her wet panties just about sent me over when I read it today... ;) )

The odd thing is that I've only had sex once since June 29th as well... Something isn't right.

Sex...hmmm...been quite a while here. Wanking, while the outcome is satisfying most of the time, just doesn't match the awesome power of sex with the one you love.

Okay, the only reason I've been 'wank-free' for the last 6 days is I've been so friggin busy, and the motherboard on my home PC fried. Mostly the latter reason.

I am the master of my domain.

I do it alot!!! :eek:

7 days, now. I'd like to thank you all for all of your support. I'd like to thank the Academy, and...




I wank, therefore I am.
;)

I could never stop. Longest I ever went was 2 weeks when I was in Egypt. There is something about being in Egypt that kills the mood!

That's because Dr Zahi Hawass and his Golden Mummy Strike Team are out to cease all wanking in their sovreign nation.


Sorry. I was overcome by an urge.

New study shows that frequent wanking lowers your risk of prostate cancer. Take a look:

http://www.reuters.com/newsArticle.j...toryID=3102498

*ahem*
http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...threadid=16841

Heh, can't keep track of all the threads here. Besides, this seemed like an amusing place for the link.

No way. I would last maybe a week at best and even then, why?

Ok, well I lasted 2 weeks with absolutely 0 ejaculations. No s.o. fun and no wanking.

not sure why I decided to end it now, mainly because I felt no need to continue.

i guess the main reason that i started this was because I was wanking about every other day.. I want to go back to once a week or once every other week ;) so I give myself a new goal.. Wanking no more than once a week.

LMAO, okay. I ain't gettin none at the moment but I've never actually set out for a 'wank-free' streak. I forsee rough roads ahead. :D

Oh yeah and I've never had a wet dream, ever. Wonder if it might happen if I just lay off...lol

okay... i hadta let loose yesterday morning... i got my week down. with all the news about how frequent ejaculations are good for you, i'm wondering is i should keep going cold turkey (unflogged dolphin?) or just try to cut down... hm.

Yeah, maybe I'd participate if I had a SO to reap the benefits with, but since I don't I'll just wank more to keep the average up for all of you who are participating.

Wank free for 0.0 days, and proud of it!

Tried to wank last night but just wasn't into it... I may outlast you all on account of my libido going south...

OK, let's address this directly:

Wanking is not a bad thing. It is not something you have to "give up" when you are with your other half.

My hubby and I do it all the time. Usually we are in bed together when we masturbate. Sometimes we do it at the same time and sometimes we take turns.

It's fun. It's good exercise. It improves sexual stamina.

If you would masturbate more often, guys, you might be able to get it up more often for your lady, :icare: last longer while you're doing it :icare: *and* take less time to recharge in between. :thumbsup:

It makes perfect sense. You need to keep in shape when you're with your lover.

It isn't *your* energies that need re-directing, it's your SO's.

If he/she catches you, keep right on going until your needs are met (either by you or by your so).

Yes, I know, this might not work in your relationship. I'm just trying to illustrate the point that your need for wanking might be better solved by getting more from your SO or inviting your SO to join you ;)

Aaagh, forget it! I can't just go cold turkey from multiple times a day. :crazy:

Besides, that article about masturbation helping to prevent cancer has me creeped about going on wankless binges.

My new goal: once a day at most. (Please understand I'm not a greasy perv, just 'that age', and single. LOL)

I've found that if I go a week or two without wanking, I get hard-ons much easier and they are much harder. Does anyone else find this to be true? Anyway, I'm up for the challenge.

my first month living in the dorms freshman year i didn't beat it at all, and by the time i finally did, i stiff wind could have gotten me hard. two stiff winds probably would have gotten me off. or a blowjob. but i had a much easier time finding the wind.

I hope you had dark jeans on...

I'm just doing this because I'm competitive. Screw health.

Masturbation 'may prevent cancer'
By Judy Skatssoon
July 16, 2003

WHO cares if you go blind? An Australian study has found that frequent masturbation may protect men against prostate cancer in later life. A team led by Professor Graham Giles, head of cancer epidemiology at the Cancer Council Victoria, questioned more than 2000 men about their past sexual habits as part of a wider prostate cancer study.

The men, half of whom had prostate cancer, were aged between 40 and 69 and recruited from Sydney, Melbourne and Perth between 1994-98. The study indicated that men who ejaculated more than five times a week were a third less likely to develop prostate cancer.

"What we found was men who ejaculated most in their twenties, thirties and forties had about a third less prostate cancer risk than men in the lowest category of ejaculation," Professor Giles told AAP.

"The men who were the high performers in terms of ejaculating had a third less prostate cancer risk than men who were in the lowest category of ejaculation." He said one explanation for the apparent beneficial effects of self-pleasuring was that frequent ejaculation prevented semen from building up in the ducts, where it could potentially become carcinogenic. "For seminal fluid to be made it has to be concentrated about 600 times," Prof Giles said.

"So semen is a very potent and strong brew of lots of chemicals which, because of their biological reactivity, could be carcinogenic if left to lie around." The research is set to appear in the British Journal of Urology this weekend. Prof Giles said the prostate may have more similarities with the breast than previously thought - particularly in relation to the development of cancer.

He said the prostate was a secretory organ like the breast, which produced milk, only it produced semen. The researchers reasoned that just as breast feeding lowered a woman's risk of breast cancer, maybe liberal ejaculation could have the same beneficial effects for men.

Masturbation could also have the same positive effect on a young prostate gland as pregnancy had on breasts, Prof Giles said. "It might be rather like a first full-term pregnancy forces the breast tissue to fully differentiate and become grown up cells," he said.

"Maybe intense sexual ejaculation at the time when the prostate has finished growing to maturity might actually help it bed down and become a fully developed gland, rather than having too many cells lying around in it."

Prof Giles said previous reports had found an increased risk of prostate cancer among prisoners and Roman Catholic priests, while other studies suggested that having large numbers of female partners may be a factor.

However, while the Cancer Council study found benefits from masturbation, it was unable to replicate the evidence about lots of sex with lots of women. "In our study we found an effect for masturbation but we didn't find an effect for the number of female partners," he said.

Prof Giles said the study may have implications for prostate cancer patients who grew up at a time when the practice was frowned upon. He said the findings of the study needed to be repeated by other researchers before they could be confidently claimed to be true. Until then, men could breathe easy, he said. "I really think that masturbation is a quite normal human activity, and if the habit can also be shown to be healthy and beneficial, why not?"


http://www.theaustralian.news.com.au...5E1702,00.html

If it prevents cancer, I guess God wants me to do it. Of course you Catholics are free to believe what the child molestors tell you, that jerking off is a sin....

Hi everybody i am new to this site and want to say hello to all you wankers and so on. if you dont wank thats okay too hi anyway. personally i like to discuss something less sticky; however what ever makes you guys happy will concern me positively.

http://www.timesonline.co.uk/article...748163,00.html

If you check this out apparently wanking can help prevent prostate cancer.

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Let it be known that if one more person posts a link to the article RE: Prostate Cancer I will beat them with a sharp stick.
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Woah, I love all the support everyone here gives. Thanks a bunch guys!
/sarcasm

ok ok ok ok fine. :p
i joined

WOOAAAH SHIIITTT

My head is fucking spinning circles kids. I haven't wanked since the date in my sig, and I'm feeling the god damn consequences. It doesn't help when your girl teases you hardcore and then breaks up with you. Jesus Christ I'm about to explode soon.

Man, then there's this other girl who is teasing me since me and my girl broke up. OMG I was like... STOP TEASING ME!

No more porn, no more teasing females (unless they're going to be serious with me), no more reading that gets my imagination going, no more being by myself, NO MORE!

I don't know about yall, but I can totally feel my manhood on the edge of explodeing all by itself whenever I get 'teased' by a girl. That teasing could be physically or just talk. Holy shit man, FEEL MY PAIN!

Ok ok, I had to get that out. Anywhoo, I'm still not giving up!
/angst

haha...

I can't even imagine how things would feel after how long you've lasted. Good luck!

i've been meanin too make a mock sig

I've been wank free for... oh shit. forgot to wash my hands...

joined.

I lasted a week, resetting clock.

I have found that when I have a steady girlfriend- that it tends to make it a hell of a lot easier not to rub one out. I find it is a mixture of wanting to save that feeling for when I am with her- and that in between times, it just makes it all the more enjoyable next time we are together.
So, does this challenge go to those who have girlfriends as well then?

I'm in...sadly...but I will try not to wank it