Top Fantasies

[Glory's Sun]

So I was sitting in the bedroom reading a book that my wife had bought (one of those sex books with hot pics) and I came across this little tidbit that had the top 20 male and female fantasies. So we did a little exercise to see which of ours were in the book and which ones weren't. So I thought maybe we could do the same thing on TFP. We'll see which ones have been done, or have been fantasized about and then if there are any that aren't in the book we could share those here as well. Sound fun? Of course it does!

So here we go...

Top 20 Male Fantasies

1. Fantasies about previous or anticipatory sex with a current partner
2. A threesome--usually joining 2 women
3. Sex with a woman other than your partner (celebrity)
4. Anonymous, spontaneous sex with a stranger
5. Group Sex with a multitude of gorgeous women
6. Unending oral sex dispensed by just about every female you come in contact with
7. Anal Sex 'nuff said
8. Secretly watching a woman undress and masturbate
9. Sex in a public or risky place
10. Being seduced by an older woman
11. Seducing a Virgin
12. Spying on two people having sex
13. Having sex with a friend's girlfriend
14. S&M-being tied up and spanked, whipped
15. Sex with forbidden people--girlfriend's mom, boss etc
16. Sex with a sex worker
17. Watching your partner being taken by another man
18. Sex with another man
19. Being watched an applauded for your sexual expertise
20. A "pretend" rape scenario

Top 20 Fantasies for Women

1. Fantasies about previous or anticipatory sex with partner
2. Sex with a man other than your partner
3. Sex with a woman
4. Sex with someone at work
5. A threesome with two men, both fighting over your body
6. Sex with a celebrity
7. Being given expert oral sex
8. Sex with a stranger--repairman etc
9. Being found irresistible
10. Being a sex worker
11. Romantic fantasies--white sandy beach, hot men etc
12. Being Deflowered
13. Being watched
14. Being forced to strip in front of a crowd of men
15. Playing Mrs. Robinson and deflowering a male virgin
16. Having an army of perfect men as sex slaves
17. Being "forced" to have sex
18. Starring in a porn flick
19. Being seduced by an authority figure
20. S&M--Tied up and spanked, whipped etc

As for me, I've had all of the male fantasies with exception to the rape scenario. I've never found that to be erotic at all. Since my nick here came from having sex with an older woman, well duh that's a natural one for me. I think while I do enjoy the 2 female threesome fantasy, I also enjoy the 2men 1woman fantasy more. Something about having a woman who loves the cock seems more exciting to me than 2 women together. Now don't get me wrong, I've experienced both and both were wonderful, and I love 2 women together, but I like the rawness of the 2 men 1 woman better.

So do you identify with any of these? Have you done any of these? I'd like to get the creative "juices" flowing so to speak and we can share what we enjoy as well as note the differences between how men and women work in the fantasy world.

[Willravel]

✔ Fantasies about previous or anticipatory sex with a current partner
✔ A threesome--usually joining 2 women
✔ Sex with a woman other than your partner (celebrity)
Anonymous, spontaneous sex with a stranger
✔ Group Sex with a multitude of gorgeous women
Unending oral sex dispensed by just about every female you come in contact with
Anal Sex
✔ Secretly watching a woman undress and masturbate
✔ Sex in a public or risky place
✔ Being seduced by an older woman
Seducing a Virgin
Spying on two people having sex
Having sex with a friend's girlfriend
✔ S&M-being tied up and spanked, whipped
Sex with forbidden people--girlfriend's mom, boss etc
Sex with a sex worker
Watching your partner being taken by another man
Sex with another man
Being watched an applauded for your sexual expertise
✔ A "pretend" rape scenario

[snowy]

1. Fantasies about previous or anticipatory sex with partner Yes
2. Sex with a man other than your partner Yes
3. Sex with a woman Yes
4. Sex with someone at work No
5. A threesome with two men, both fighting over your body Yes
6. Sex with a celebrity Yes
7. Being given expert oral sex Yes
8. Sex with a stranger--repairman etc Yes
9. Being found irresistible Yes
10. Being a sex worker No
11. Romantic fantasies--white sandy beach, hot men etc Yes
12. Being Deflowered NO
13. Being watched Yes
14. Being forced to strip in front of a crowd of men No
15. Playing Mrs. Robinson and deflowering a male virgin No
16. Having an army of perfect men as sex slaves Yes
17. Being "forced" to have sex Yes
18. Starring in a porn flick No
19. Being seduced by an authority figure Yes
20. S&M--Tied up and spanked, whipped etc Yes!

S&M would probably be at the top of my list. Most of my fantasies start with some sort of bondage and move on from there. If there isn't any spanking, it isn't one of my fantasies.

[SecretMethod70]

1. Fantasies about previous or anticipatory sex with a current partner
   I wouldn't really call this a fantasy, more like normal behaviour
2. A threesome--usually joining 2 women
   MMF and FFM both appeal to me
3. Sex with a woman other than your partner (celebrity)
   Why just a celebrity?
4. Anonymous, spontaneous sex with a stranger
   This kind of falls under the above
5. Group Sex with a multitude of gorgeous women
   This sounds kind of ridiculous reading it, but why the hell WOULDN'T I fantasize about this?
6. Unending oral sex dispensed by just about every female you come in contact with
   I'm coming to think a lot of these are just common sense
7. Anal Sex 'nuff said
   yup
8. Secretly watching a woman undress and masturbate
   I don't know how I'd feel if she didn't know I was watching...that might ruin it, seeing as how I'm not into violating people
9. Sex in a public or risky place
   always fun
10. Being seduced by an older woman
    Not that I don't find some older women attractive, but I find nothing inherently appealing about an older woman
11. Seducing a Virgin
    sure, why not
12. Spying on two people having sex
    so long as it's in a place where they should reasonably expect to be caught
13. Having sex with a friend's girlfriend
    I don't see why I shouldn't find her attractive just because she's my friend's girlfriend!
14. S&M-being tied up and spanked, whipped
    Not into being on the receiving end of this
15. Sex with forbidden people--girlfriend's mom, boss etc
    Again, older women don't particularly appeal to me, so girlfriend's mom is extremely unlikely regardless of how attractive she is for her age. As for forbidden people in general, that aspect doesn't do anything special for me, but it also won't stop me from thinking about someone. Case in point: a very attractive college intern I had last summer.
16. Sex with a sex worker
    Nothing particularly special about this in my mind. I'm not averse to the idea, but it doesn't particularly turn me on.
17. Watching your partner being taken by another man
    Kinda goes with being interested in the MMF threesome. Not necessarily, but if you're into one, why not the other?
18. Sex with another man
    Sorry, no
19. Being watched an applauded for your sexual expertise
    lol, this is just ridiculous
20. A "pretend" rape scenario
    Definitely not

[Giant Hamburger]

Just last night I was describing in intimate detail to Mrs. GH my fantasy ménage à trois which involved the two of us and a honey-baked ham.

It wasn't on her top 20 either.

[World's King]

Wow. people are boring. Is it just me or are those pretty tame? Aside from the 'rape' one.

I was thinking more along the lines of "jackhammering Mickey Mouse in the doo-doo hole with a lawn dart while Santa takes a dump on my chest"


I'll give a prize to anyone that knows where that came from... without using Google. Cheaters.

[Strange Famous]

Mine remains the below:

A pretty girl is in danger and is threatened. I rescue her, through an act of extreme, borderline insane, (but morally justified) violence - for example like the time I had a dream of beating Freddie Krueger to death with a three foot iron fence stake, or the time I had that dream about how I murdered a African male lion by smashing his skull in with a heavy hammer. Ideally I should be wounded in a non life threatening way while saving the girl, and would have made several reasonable attempts at a non violent solution to the problem before my warm heart turns cold and the animal in me is unleashed as a last restort to protect the damsel in distress. Afterward the pretty girl will tend to my wounds tenderly, and one thing will lead to another, and we end up having sex all night in her room and we fall in love and live happy ever after.

[ASU2003]

Fantasies about previous or anticipatory sex with a current partner Yes, I would do this in real life
A threesome--usually joining 2 women Yes, I would do this in real life if the situation occured
Sex with a woman other than your partner (celebrity) Yes, but it depends who it is. There are a few that would be on the list
Anonymous, spontaneous sex with a stranger No
Group Sex with a multitude of gorgeous women Yes, I would do this in real life if the situation occured (but it won't)
Unending oral sex dispensed by just about every female you come in contact with No
Anal Sex 'nuff said No
Secretly watching a woman undress and masturbate Yes, I would do this in real life
Sex in a public or risky place Yes, I would do this in real life
Being seduced by an older woman Yes, but it depends who it is.
Seducing a Virgin Yes, I would do this in real life
Spying on two people having sex Yes, I would do this in real life
Having sex with a friend's girlfriend No
S&M-being tied up and spanked, whipped No
Sex with forbidden people--girlfriend's mom, boss etc No
Sex with a sex worker No
Watching your partner being taken by another man No
Sex with another man No
Being watched an applauded for your sexual expertise Yes, I would do this in real life
A "pretend" rape scenario Yes, I would do this in real life

[Anormalguy]

[*]Fantasies about previous or anticipatory sex with a current partner
Yes.

[*]A threesome--usually joining 2 women
Yes, but I give equal or more time to fantasizing about another man & I giving my wife intense sexual pleasure.

[*]Sex with a woman other than your partner (celebrity)
Yes, mostly female singers.

[*]Anonymous, spontaneous sex with a stranger
Yes, but not a frequent fantasy.

[*]Group Sex with a multitude of gorgeous women
Yes.

[*]Unending oral sex dispensed by just about every female you come in contact with
Not a fantasy of mine, but it sounds like fun.

[*]Anal Sex 'nuff said
Yes.

[*]Secretly watching a woman undress and masturbate
Yes.

[*]Sex in a public or risky place
Yes.

[*]Being seduced by an older woman
At my age?! No.

[*]Seducing a Virgin
Could be interesting, but not a fantasy of mine.

[*]Spying on two people having sex
Yes.

[*]Having sex with a friend's girlfriend
Yes, but not a common fantasy.

[*]S&M-being tied up and spanked, whipped
Yes.

[*]Sex with forbidden people--girlfriend's mom, boss etc
Yes, but not a common fantasy.

[*]Sex with a sex worker
Never really thought about it.

[*]Watching your partner being taken by another man
Yes.

[*]Sex with another man
Yes, but very rarely.

[*]Being watched an applauded for your sexual expertise
Yes for watched, no for applauded.

[*]A "pretend" rape scenario
Not a fantasy of mine.

[Strange Famous]

Top 20 Male Fantasies

1. Fantasies about previous or anticipatory sex with a current partner
   
   Yes, I have had thoughts about this certainly.
   
2. A threesome--usually joining 2 women
   
   Agree with Bill Hicks. Two men and one girl is very wrong, two girls and one man is quite pleasant (I would imagine)
   
3. Sex with a woman other than your partner (celebrity)
   
   Yes, the celebrity is Rachel Bilson and I have just throttled the murderer from Saw with a short length of bike chain, or else killed a raging rotweiler with a heavy hammer.
   
4. Anonymous, spontaneous sex with a stranger
   
   Nothing wrong about it on principle, but it isnt a fantasy Ive ever had
   
5. Group Sex with a multitude of gorgeous women
   
   Sure
   
6. Unending oral sex dispensed by just about every female you come in contact with
   
   As long as they let you sleep 8 hours a day and take a 20 minute break for a drink of cold beer and a bag of peanuts every now again - this is the ideal life.
   
7. Anal Sex 'nuff said
   
   No way.
   
8. Secretly watching a woman undress and masturbate
   
   No way, I dont find violating someone's privacy and spying on them like some kind of creep sexy
   
9. Sex in a public or risky place
   
   No interest in this
   
10. Being seduced by an older woman
    
    The fact she was older in itself doesnt do anything for me, but being seduced by any women would be ok
    
11. Seducing a Virgin
    
    No way... thats shaky ground
    
12. Spying on two people having sex
    
    No.
    
13. Having sex with a friend's girlfriend
    
    Depends on the girl. I wouldnt enjoy betraying a friend for the sake of it, but if I really like the girl I might
    
14. S&M-being tied up and spanked, whipped
    
    Maybe being tied up, or tying someone up. But I dont fancy being whalloped and I would hate myself for hitting a girl in any situation.
    
15. Sex with forbidden people--girlfriend's mom, boss etc
    
    My boss is a 6 2 Half German male with ginger hair, so no on that count. and not really on any forbidden partners... what is prohibited if prohibited for a reason.
    
16. Sex with a sex worker
    
    No, not really. Im not saying im disgusted or anything, but I think having to pay would be a bit of knock to the old self esteem. Dont really find anything sexy about screwing someone who wouldnt look at you twice if you hadnt paid her to
    
17. Watching your partner being taken by another man
    
    No, the idea of it makes me feel angry and sickened
    
18. Sex with another man
    
    Not for me
    
19. Being watched an applauded for your sexual expertise
    
    Actually, kind of yes. I do have a fantasy of banging this girl in the middle of, like a tennis court or one of those bandstands in the park, with maybe 300 or 400 of my mates and acquientances all watching... cheering on, chanting "there's only one Adam Douglas", or chanting an single letter of my name in time which each plevic thrust... etc. When the girl finishes with a four minute multiple orgasm the crowd also give a standing ovasion while I howl like a wild wolf in primordal masculine self assertion.
    
20. A "pretend" rape scenario
    
    no. not to disrespect anyone, but I think this is pretty wrong.

[braisler]

Male Fantasies

1. Fantasies about previous or anticipatory sex with a current partner Yup.
2. A threesome--usually joining 2 women. Please.
3. Sex with a woman other than your partner (celebrity) Not so much celebrities as I find them false, but other.. sure
4. Anonymous, spontaneous sex with a stranger Yup.
5. Group Sex with a multitude of gorgeous women Uh huh.
6. Unending oral sex dispensed by just about every female you come in contact with Not every... but most
7. Anal Sex 'nuff said Occasional Fantasy
8. Secretly watching a woman undress and masturbate I'd want to get in there, not just watch
9. Sex in a public or risky place Not a usual fantasy
10. Being seduced by an older woman Not for me
11. Seducing a Virgin Not so much a fantasy
12. Spying on two people having sex Not unless I'm invited.
13. Having sex with a friend's girlfriend Not for me.
14. S&M-being tied up and spanked, whipped Not for me.
15. Sex with forbidden people--girlfriend's mom, boss etc No thanks.
16. Sex with a sex worker I'm out.
17. Watching your partner being taken by another man Only if I'm involved in the play.
18. Sex with another man Occasional fantasy as part of a MFM/MMF scene.
19. Being watched an applauded for your sexual expertise Silly, no thanks.
20. A "pretend" rape scenario Not so much.

Something I had noticed of myself is that the less sex that I get, which lately is very sparse indeed, the more powerful and far-ranging my sexual fantasies become. Not surprising, I suppose, but the past 18 months have gone from having sex 2-5 times per week to having sex 3-4 times per year. My fantasies have gone from relatively mild versions of number 1 above to massive orgiastic parties where everyone is fucking and sucking everyone else in pretty much every way imaginable.

[Glory's Sun]

Originally Posted by braisler

Something I had noticed of myself is that the less sex that I get, which lately is very sparse indeed, the more powerful and far-ranging my sexual fantasies become. Not surprising, I suppose, but the past 18 months have gone from having sex 2-5 times per week to having sex 3-4 times per year. My fantasies have gone from relatively mild versions of number 1 above to massive orgiastic parties where everyone is fucking and sucking everyone else in pretty much every way imaginable.

that's pretty interesting. I've found that for me, I fantasize more when I'm having more sex.. I like to play out scenario's in my head and then shoot it at the wife and see what she thinks or try to surprise her in bed .. of course, another woman in the bedroom is a bad surprise

[ItWasMe]

Originally Posted by Strange Famous

Mine remains the below:

A pretty girl is in danger and is threatened. I rescue her, through an act of extreme, borderline insane, (but morally justified) violence - for example like the time I had a dream of beating Freddie Krueger to death with a three foot iron fence stake, or the time I had that dream about how I murdered a African male lion by smashing his skull in with a heavy hammer. Ideally I should be wounded in a non life threatening way while saving the girl, and would have made several reasonable attempts at a non violent solution to the problem before my warm heart turns cold and the animal in me is unleashed as a last restort to protect the damsel in distress. Afterward the pretty girl will tend to my wounds tenderly, and one thing will lead to another, and we end up having sex all night in her room and we fall in love and live happy ever after.

*sigh* you married?

Top 20 Male Fantasies *okay, I changed the gender on the questions here* and deleted ones that were also under the Female Fantasies.

*A threesome--usually joining 2 *men*. "Joining" 2 men? No. "Including" 2 men? Yes.

*Sex with a *man* other than your partner (celebrity). Al from the tv show Home Improvement. YUM!! A couple of others.

*Anonymous, spontaneous sex with a stranger. Started to, but started worrying about whether or not he was armed or was psychotic. Killed the fantasy. Ok I'm weird that way.

*Group Sex with a multitude of gorgeous men. Yes. Wait ... is this all at the same time, or them standing in line? Ok, yes again.

*Unending oral sex dispensed by just about every male you come in contact with. Can't say I've had that fantasy. Trying to give me a heart attack?

*Anal Sex 'nuff said. Nope.

*Secretly watching a *man* undress and masturbate. Masterbate? Nope. Undress? I do that often with hubby. But he always seems to know I'm watching, and doesn't mind.

*Sex in a public or risky place. Nope. Been there; done that.

*Being seduced by an older *man* Yes, but age didn't have much to do with it. Some guys are just sexy at any age.

*Seducing a Virgin. Nope. Been there; done that.

*Spying on two people having sex. Nope.

*Having sex with a friend's boyfriend. LoL, my friends don't have any men I want. So no.

*Sex with forbidden people--girlfriend's dad, boss etc. Not that I can remember.

*Sex with a sex worker. Fantasize about paying for it? Not even in my wildest ones.

*Watching your partner being taken by another *woman* OH, HELL NO! Walking in on my ex-husband with his cousin was enough.

*Being watched an applauded for your sexual expertise. Reminds me of a line in When Harry Met Sally. Nope. Must be a guy thing.


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Top 20 Fantasies for Women

*Fantasies about previous or anticipatory sex with partner. Yep.

*Sex with a man other than your partner. Yep.

*Sex with a woman. Nope.

*Sex with someone at work. Yep. But I'm not naming names.

*A threesome with two men, both fighting over your body. No ... if they're busy fighting over me, they aren't paying enough attention to me.

*Being given expert oral sex. Too much rl to be a fantasy.

*Sex with a stranger--repairman etc. Yep.

*Being found irresistible. Nope. Hubby already does that for me.

*Being a sex worker. Nope.

*Romantic fantasies--white sandy beach, hot men etc. Yep.

*Being Deflowered. Nooooo. People really fantasize about that?

*Being watched. Hehe ... I have a fear of being seen. So no.

*Being forced to strip in front of a crowd of men. Forced to do anything, No.

*Playing Mrs. Robinson and deflowering a male virgin. No.

*Having an army of perfect men as sex slaves. No. I don't see anything hot about forcing someone to touch me. I'd rather have one imperfect guy who is perfectly willing, than a bunch of perfect men who are forced.

*Being "forced" to have sex. About as often as I fantasize about kicking him in the teeth. Nope.

*Starring in a porn flick. Nope. I have this fear of being seen.

*Being seduced by an authority figure. Not any authority figures that I know.

*S&M-being tied up and spanked, whipped. A big fat NO. I don't like being hurt, at all. Causes immediate anger and usually retribution. Even if it's an inanimate object.

[settie]

Being a female, everything but 3,4 and 6 were fantasies I've had at some point, some being more popular than others.

I work with mostly all women, and am too work-focused to think about sex.
Also, I have no favour for celebs, I can't think of a single celeb I really like, or find hot. My opinion of celebs is more disgust than respect, so that throws that fantasy out the window...
As for women, gosh I find women beautiful, but I've never wanted to have sex with another woman. I have no interest in the fantasy, its just not for me, even though I've kissed a woman before. But that's another story...

[Tully Mars]

Male Fantasies-

1. Fantasies about previous or anticipatory sex with a current partner- Sure

2. A threesome--usually joining 2 women- Sure

3. Sex with a woman other than your partner (celebrity)- Sure

4. Anonymous, spontaneous sex with a stranger- Not so much, could make it work in the right situation but usually prefer to get to know someone first.

5. Group Sex with a multitude of gorgeous women- Most men can't satisfy one women, sounds like a lot of pressure to me.

6. Unending oral sex dispensed by just about every female you come in contact with- No but I come in contact with a lot women I don't find very attractive.

7. Anal Sex 'nuff said- sure

8. Secretly watching a woman undress and masturbate- Not really. I like to know she's on board with things.

9. Sex in a public or risky place- sure

10. Being seduced by an older woman- sure

11. Seducing a Virgin- No, God no

12. Spying on two people having sex- no see #8.

13. Having sex with a friend's girlfriend- only if he's cool with it. It's a guy code thing.

14. S&M-being tied up and spanked, whipped- Umm, other way around, yes.

15. Sex with forbidden people--girlfriend's mom, boss etc- there's forbidden people? other then relatives (and obviously children) I figures all's fair game.

16. Sex with a sex worker- No, not even a little bit.

17. Watching your partner being taken by another man- sure

18. Sex with another man- Nope, doesn't work for me

19. Being watched an applauded for your sexual expertise- sure

20. A "pretend" rape scenario- Rape no, control yes.

[genuinegirly]

Top 20 Fantasies for Women

yesFantasies about previous or anticipatory sex with partner
yesSex with a man other than your partner
noSex with a woman
noSex with someone at work
yes!A threesome with two men, both fighting over your body
noSex with a celebrity
yesBeing given expert oral sex
no- complete turn-off Sex with a stranger--repairman etc
yesBeing found irresistible
noBeing a sex worker
Yes!Romantic fantasies--white sandy beach, hot men etc
NoBeing Deflowered
noBeing watched
NO! Complete turn-offBeing forced to strip in front of a crowd of men
no thanks.Playing Mrs. Robinson and deflowering a male virgin
nopeHaving an army of perfect men as sex slaves
absolutely notBeing "forced" to have sex
noStarring in a porn flick
no - creepyBeing seduced by an authority figure
never considered itS&M--Tied up and spanked, whipped etc

[fresnelly]

Wait, are we posting our accomplishments (ie. fantasy made real) or merely confirming our wish lists?

[Glory's Sun]

fres, you can do both.. you can give stories if you like and expand on the fantasies if you wish as well as point out different fantasies if you wish

[highthief]

Top 20 Male Fantasies

Fantasies about previous or anticipatory sex with a current partner - yes, but of course!

A threesome--usually joining 2 women - yup

Sex with a woman other than your partner (celebrity) - no, celebrities have never done it for me

Anonymous, spontaneous sex with a stranger - yes

Group Sex with a multitude of gorgeous women - yes

Unending oral sex dispensed by just about every female you come in contact with - no, that sounds a bit uncomfortable

Anal Sex 'nuff said - yes

Secretly watching a woman undress and masturbate - no

Sex in a public or risky place - yes

Being seduced by an older woman - no, I'm the old one around here!

Seducing a Virgin - no

Spying on two people having sex - nope

Having sex with a friend's girlfriend - yes

S&M-being tied up and spanked, whipped - no

Sex with forbidden people--girlfriend's mom, boss etc - no

Sex with a sex worker - no

Watching your partner being taken by another man - yes

Sex with another man - no

Being watched an applauded for your sexual expertise - no

A "pretend" rape scenario - no

[SabrinaFair]

Originally Posted by World's King

Wow. people are boring. Is it just me or are those pretty tame? Aside from the 'rape' one.

I was thinking more along the lines of "jackhammering Mickey Mouse in the doo-doo hole with a lawn dart while Santa takes a dump on my chest"


I'll give a prize to anyone that knows where that came from... without using Google. Cheaters.

"The Lapdance Is So Much Better When The Stripper Is Crying" by Bloodhound Gang.

I believe it's, "Even the one where I'm jackhammering Mickey Mouse in the doo-doo hole with a lawn dart while Garth Brooks gives birth to something resembling a cheddar cheese log with almonds on Santa Claus's tummy-tum." Or something to that effect.

As for my personal fantasies...it depends on where you draw the line of fantasy. When it's just me day-dreaming, I tend to be rather tame--light bondage, trips down memory lane, "hot for teacher" scenarios. When I'm reading "erotica", as I am wont to do, I tend to trend more towards the dark side--nonconsent/reluctance, domination, group scenarios. When I'm *writing* erotica, I tend to "stick to what I know"--situations I've been in, or similar.

[ily_forever22]

Out of all of them, the pretend rape scenario. Or, being "forced" to have sex. I absolutely LOVE rough sex, can't get enough of it. I will have to say most of the womens top sexual fantasies are something I'd like to try at least once. But, rough sex, just does it for me. I like the whole being spanked, have my face slapped, hair pulled, being choked....I am a total submissive lol. Pretty much, if the guy tells me what to do, I will do it, but only if he makes me *grins*

And of course with the guys that are worried about hurting me, I have a safe word. Not that I ever plan to use it haha! But it puts their minds at ease if they think I would use it if they hurt me. What they don't get is, it takes a lot to hurt me. I have never once used the safe word. My current man, I can tell is defiantely a submissive himself...but he loves to make sure I get off first. Its good in that way, but its taking awhile to get him to be more rough. I'm letting him take his time with it though, ease his way into it so that he is comfortable. :-) And eventually, I may top him...because I know he would like it. He just doesn't realise it himself yet.

All it took to know he would like it is when we play fought, I slapped him on the side of the face. And the look I got back, mirrored what mine always does lol. Gotta get out of my comfort zone I suppose for him if he will do the same for me :-) haha look at me, I slipped a little off-topic. Sorry about that

[curiousbear]

Top 20 Male Fantasies

Fantasies about previous or anticipatory sex with a current partner - dint understand
A threesome--usually joining 2 women - yes
Sex with a woman other than your partner (celebrity) - yes (imaginary ones)
Anonymous, spontaneous sex with a stranger - yes
Group Sex with a multitude of gorgeous women - yes
Unending oral sex dispensed by just about every female you come in contact with - no
Anal Sex 'nuff said - no
Secretly watching a woman undress and masturbate - yes
Sex in a public or risky place - no
Being seduced by an older woman - yes (during young age)
Seducing a Virgin - NO
Spying on two people having sex - no
Having sex with a friend's girlfriend - no
S&M-being tied up and spanked, whipped - no
Sex with forbidden people--girlfriend's mom, boss etc - no
Sex with a sex worker - yes
Watching your partner being taken by another man - NO
Sex with another man - NO
Being watched an applauded for your sexual expertise - NO
A "pretend" rape scenario - NO


my most favourite one is to have sex in virtual world, preferebly with my girl

[Xerxys]

The ones with a check mark, I've done. The rest, unfortunately, remain fantasies!!

Top 20 Male Fantasies

1. Fantasies about previous or anticipatory sex with a current partner
   ✔ Ohh yes, GOD yes....
   
2. A threesome--usually joining 2 women
   ✔ Yeah Baby ... go ahead an' git some
   
3. Sex with a woman other than your partner (celebrity)
   Yeah, but then I'm male, so if asked to choose, Demi Moore is number one on my list.
   
4. Anonymous, spontaneous sex with a stranger
   ✔ Yah, nothing to it though. It was just normal.
   
5. Group Sex with a multitude of gorgeous women
   Of course, did I mention I'm male? This is pretty tame really if you think about it.
   
6. Unending oral sex dispensed by just about every female you come in contact with.
   Yeah, could be fun. But lately I haven't been getting off on oral so much I can't speak for this category too much.
   
7. Anal Sex 'nuff said
   ✔ Where's the lube?
   
8. Secretly watching a woman undress and masturbate
   Nah, waaaay too creepy.
   
9. Sex in a public or risky place
   ✔ Yes, yes, and yes.
   
10. Being seduced by an older woman
    ✔ Ohh god, age isn't a number. Older women rock!!!!!
    
11. Seducing a Virgin
    ✔ Was OK, I guess.
    
12. Spying on two people having sex
    I do that all the time on my computer, joking, joking .... I wouldnt do it really, boring if I'm not gonna join in.
    
13. Having sex with a friend's girlfriend
    Nope, had a chance but didn't take it. I pride myself on self-control. (read>> Pussy)
    
14. S&M-being tied up and spanked, whipped
    ✔ Ohh god, if this has not been done to you, you have not yet lived!!!
    
15. Sex with forbidden people--girlfriend's mom, boss etc
    ✔ Yep. Cleaning lady from the motel. I still have her number ...
    
16. Sex with a sex worker
    Nah, boring. She's not into it neither am I.
    
17. Watching your partner being taken by another man
    Rather more like watching the other man swallow my gun.
    
18. Sex with another man
    Nope. I'm VERY open minded but just can't bring myself to think about it.
    
19. Being watched an applauded for your sexual expertise
    Did I mention I was open minded? I lied, I'm VERY SHY!!!!
    
20. A "pretend" rape scenario
    Next on the list.
    

Top 20 Fantasies for Women

(not female, no girlfriend, can't speak in this category )

[milkmilk]

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[lostgirl]

Top 20 Fantasies for Women

1. Fantasies about previous or anticipatory sex with partner - Yes
2. Sex with a man other than your partner - Hmmmm
3. Sex with a woman - No
4. Sex with someone at work - No
5. A threesome with two men, both fighting over your body - Yes
6. Sex with a celebrity - No
7. Being given expert oral sex - No
8. Sex with a stranger--repairman etc - No
9. Being found irresistible - Yes
10. Being a sex worker - NO
11. Romantic fantasies--white sandy beach, hot men etc - No
12. Being Deflowered - No
13. Being watched - No
14. Being forced to strip in front of a crowd of men - No
15. Playing Mrs. Robinson and deflowering a male virgin - I've done this, but I wasn't trying to.
16. Having an army of perfect men as sex slaves - No
17. Being "forced" to have sex - Yes, in role play.
18. Starring in a porn flick - Homemade count?
19. Being seduced by an authority figure - No
20. S&M--Tied up and spanked, whipped - Just tied up, no whips.

[Poppinjay]

Mine are:

1 1/2: She brings me a sandwich afterwards, and maybe a beverage

4 1/3: She manages to participate without discussing groceries or other mundane things

17.6: The dogs stay off the damn bed

[Kalnaur]

As a guy, this is the only one I've done.

1. Fantasies about previous or anticipatory sex with a current partner.

Only a handful of the others are fantasies I'm interested in. My personal fantasies are either really easy to achieve, or impossible.

[jimmy1s269]

mine is a combination of 2, 7, and 8. My wife and a friend of hers from high school, one of her bridesmaids. The two of them together would be the hottest thing ever. Her girlfriend really enjoys anal, and the wife doesnt, so between the two of them, i could probably get some of everything I love.

and they are close enough that they would probably gladly do each other. they did make out once at a party before i met them (dangit!!)

[bloody_rose20]

Alright. So this is how my fantasy goes. I am walking along the streets after a night at the club strutting in my new skirt on a warm summer night. I decide to take a short-cut to get home so I head down a dimly-lit alleyway. All of a sudden a very good-looking man is blocking my path. He pushes me hard up against the side of the building, and starts kissing me. I try to get away, but he is too strong and he holds me there. Smacking me just enough across the cheek to get me to obey. He ends up fucking me nice and hard, choking me ever so slightly when I try to struggle....

*fans self* 'Scuze me....I have to go cool off lol. I have always had that fantasy. I blame the show Buffy the Vampire Slayer, with the relationship between Spike and Buffy. Then again, I have always loved it rough haha XD Course, I have very recently told this fantasy to my man and he is intrigued. I just may get my fantasy for once!

[Plan9]

Originally Posted by SabrinaFair

"The Lapdance Is So Much Better When The Stripper Is Crying" by Bloodhound Gang.

I believe it's, "Even the one where I'm jackhammering Mickey Mouse in the doo-doo hole with a lawn dart while Garth Brooks gives birth to something resembling a cheddar cheese log with almonds on Santa Claus's tummy-tum." Or something to that effect.

Wow, it's official: I'm going to be soft for a week.

[jimmy1s269]

Originally Posted by jimmy1s269

mine is a combination of 2, 7, and 8. My wife and a friend of hers from high school, one of her bridesmaids. The two of them together would be the hottest thing ever. Her girlfriend really enjoys anal, and the wife doesnt, so between the two of them, i could probably get some of everything I love.

and they are close enough that they would probably gladly do each other. they did make out once at a party before i met them (dangit!!)

man, got to expand on this. just recently learned that my wifes old friend is now shacking up with a chick. makes her even more perfect for my fantasy.

but tell me this, why is it that in real life hot chicks that decide to go gay have such a tendency to hook up with butch man-ugly chicks?

think Lindsey Lohan and Samantha Ronson here. Only my wifes friend looks like Jennifer Love Hewitt (face and chest-wise, her ass is small and tight) but the chick she is hooked up with would be an ugly dude, she's a scary chick.

[Xerxys]

Jimmy, have you ever told your wife about this? What do you think in all seriousness? In reality, if her friend agreed to join the both of you, what would happen? Would you agree?

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[jimmy1s269]

Originally Posted by Xerxys

Jimmy, have you ever told your wife about this? What do you think in all seriousness? In reality, if her friend agreed to join the both of you, what would happen? Would you agree?

Honestly, my fantasy life and my real life morals and beliefs don't really jive.

When we fantasize together though, she doesn't like to use people we know in threesome situations, so I doubt she would go for it anyway.

But if it were really going to happen, she might want to use someone we know for safety reasons.

But its all a hypothetical that won't ever happen, so it really doesn't make much difference what she thinks of it.