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DarthDooku · 10-01-2008, 03:38 PM

Ok, im not the most experienced in talking to girls so i need some advice. Im going to college and there are a few girls i would like to ask out and maybe get intimate with. But i dont want to get into a serious relationship. How should i go about talking to these girls. I dont want to hurt anyones feelings and definitely dont want awkwardness seeing them in class. I'd also like to hear a girls point of view about being just friends with a guy and getting intimate sometimes.

Manic_Skafe · 10-01-2008, 03:48 PM

If your only aspiration is to hit it and split it then you're better of meeting people at a bar.

The bar setting lends itself much better to casual sex than the school setting. And having the man-whore reputation proceed you throughout your studies is far from a good look.

thespian86 · 10-01-2008, 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Manic_Skafe

If your only aspiration is to hit it and split it then you're better of meeting people at a bar.

The bar setting lends itself much better to casual sex than the school setting. And having the man-whore reputation proceed you throughout your studies is far from a good look.

Seconded.

Go to parties. Invite them out on a date. Ask them for a blow job. It's pretty simple.

curiousbear · 10-01-2008, 04:32 PM

my 2 cents. Please maintain an academic relationship with girls in your class. Limit it to maximum passing compliments about thier dress or the kilos they shed recently.

Save your desire, fire and naughty roles for other places like parties, bars, vacation on beaches etc. Trust me you will thank me in future

soma · 10-01-2008, 05:45 PM

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Originally Posted by curiousbear

my 2 cents. Please maintain an academic relationship with girls in your class. Limit it to maximum passing compliments about thier dress or the kilos they shed recently.

Save your desire, fire and naughty roles for other places like parties, bars, vacation on beaches etc. Trust me you will thank me in future

I can second that.

skizziks · 10-01-2008, 05:54 PM

I third all advice given so far.

I would like to know what you mean by "serious relationship." Are you talking possible marriage, monogamous but not marriage minded relationship, what? You can get intimate with a girl if you plan on her being a steady girlfriend but never ever want to marry her. Let her know up front you don't want to get married.

If you just want a fuck buddy, get to be friends with her, then, when you are friends, you can bring up the subject of fuck buddies and see her reaction, or you could start out with "hey, wanna be fuck buddies?" and save lots of time ever having to talk to her again.

dlish · 10-01-2008, 07:30 PM

i agree with manic. plus if u do ask a chick for a blowjob in a bar, at least you can blame it on alcohol the next day and apologise.

you cant do that if you're sitting in the library

Zocrates · 10-02-2008, 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Manic_Skafe

If your only aspiration is to hit it and split it then you're better of meeting people at a bar.

The bar setting lends itself much better to casual sex than the school setting. And having the man-whore reputation proceed you throughout your studies is far from a good look.

Third-ed (er...or whatever)

Take it from someone that got out of college not too long ago, that is the best advice anyone could have given you. he is a wise sage and you should heed his advice.

10-01-2008, 03:38 PM	#1 (permalink)
DarthDooku Banned	Just Friends Ok, im not the most experienced in talking to girls so i need some advice. Im going to college and there are a few girls i would like to ask out and maybe get intimate with. But i dont want to get into a serious relationship. How should i go about talking to these girls. I dont want to hurt anyones feelings and definitely dont want awkwardness seeing them in class. I'd also like to hear a girls point of view about being just friends with a guy and getting intimate sometimes.

10-01-2008, 03:48 PM	#2 (permalink)
Manic_Skafe More Than You Expect Location: Queens	If your only aspiration is to hit it and split it then you're better of meeting people at a bar. The bar setting lends itself much better to casual sex than the school setting. And having the man-whore reputation proceed you throughout your studies is far from a good look. __________________ "Porn is a zoo of exotic animals that becomes boring upon ownership." -Nersesian

10-01-2008, 07:30 PM	#7 (permalink)
dlish Currently sour but formerly Dlishs Super Moderator Location: Australia/UAE	i agree with manic. plus if u do ask a chick for a blowjob in a bar, at least you can blame it on alcohol the next day and apologise. you cant do that if you're sitting in the library __________________ An injustice anywhere, is an injustice everywhere I always sign my facebook comments with ()()===========(}. Does that make me gay? - Filthy

10-01-2008, 04:32 PM	#4 (permalink)
curiousbear Addict Location: WA	my 2 cents. Please maintain an academic relationship with girls in your class. Limit it to maximum passing compliments about thier dress or the kilos they shed recently. Save your desire, fire and naughty roles for other places like parties, bars, vacation on beaches etc. Trust me you will thank me in future

10-01-2008, 05:54 PM	#6 (permalink)
skizziks Insane Location: out west	I third all advice given so far. I would like to know what you mean by "serious relationship." Are you talking possible marriage, monogamous but not marriage minded relationship, what? You can get intimate with a girl if you plan on her being a steady girlfriend but never ever want to marry her. Let her know up front you don't want to get married. If you just want a fuck buddy, get to be friends with her, then, when you are friends, you can bring up the subject of fuck buddies and see her reaction, or you could start out with "hey, wanna be fuck buddies?" and save lots of time ever having to talk to her again.