Question for the ladies: Do you like to watch your guy jerk off for you?
 

Do you like to watch your guy jerk off for you? Does it turn you on if he strokes himself while he is going down on you? Are you disgusted by it? Are you indifferent?

Just wondering....

I really enjoy watching my guy masturbate. I find it exceptionally hot. We add it to our sex play frequently ;)

I thought we just did this thread. :confused:

I love it! Totally turns me on.

with a fleshlight??

i cant believe i accidentally a fleshlight

YES, I love it!

I often tell him to put his hand on his cock and play with himself.

that would definitely turn me on, yes.

Damn, why don't I meet girls like you?

No. Just don't. For the good of this thread, just don't.

The whole thing???

OMG i cant believe i accidentally a fleshflight. yes The whole thing!







i dont really have all that much to add to this conversation...but do guys actually use fleshlights to masturbate with their partners right there (as is the case with this thread), or is it more for personal 'alone time' usage?

I know I would like to buy my guy a Fleshlight. Whether or not he'd use it...I haven't asked yet.

I have nothing to add to this conversation. There will be no man in my life, jerking off in front of me...now a woman, on the other hand...hehe.

I would love to watch it, I know he loves to watch m. Unfortunately my guy was brought up as a strict Catholic and can't get past the guilt complex involved in mastubration that was instilled in him when he was a kid.

Wow, I didn't know what a fleshlight was. Now I do.

i might feel inadequate if i bought my guy a fleshlight. :P i never thought about that though. Maybe the stipulation would be that he'd have to use it in front of me sometimes. :-D

I'm pretty certain that most guys would still prefer a real vagina :thumbsup:.

But I've never tried a fleshlight, haven't had the desire to try one.

Ladies, how did you react when you happen see some guy (not yours) jerking off?
Are you folks cool about it? Or you find it disgusting and get embarrassment? If it is a family member, friend or colleague or neighbor do you talk to them later about it or never raise it?

also, hopefully, the rest of the girl that´s attached to it.

ok..agreed to a certain degree.

but what about all those married men that masturbate? some even if their wifes, girlfriends and SO's are asleep in bed or around the house. how do you explain that one?

sometimes men just need to rub one out without the effort of going through the motions of getting their partner in the mood for sex. sometimes it just the need to get it over with.

Totally agreed, same shd be the case with girls too
According to me, you are your first lover

And sometimes a woman has a reason for asking her guy to take care of himself. :)

He knows he never needs to get me in the mood, I'm always in the mood.

LOL! Yes, of course.

Damn, why don't I meet girls like you?

I don't know, we are out there.

I know plenty of hot girls here on the board are like that.

I wouldn't say I am ALWAYS in the mood - atm I'm sick and that's a libido killer, even speaking sends me into massive coughing fits so any form of more strenuous recreational exercise would probably send me into unconciousness.

Well I recently got a long lecture from my mother about how porn is abnormal and evil and how I shouldn't have any of my sexual tendencies. So no they would not be cool about it, I wouldn't care - it's normal and healthy. If it was one of my friends or brother I would however tease them about it for the rest of the time I knew them :p

sad, I wish you get well soon!

and your teasing... You are a sport, keep it up.

I just want to be the first on here to offer my services....hahaha. Any ladies out there that love to watch a guy stroke one off just let me know. I will be happy to help out in any way I can...hehehe.:thumbsup::thumbsup:

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ROFL

That sounds a bit like someone else you've been involved with :P

I've never felt terribly comfortable about masturbating in front of a partner.

Funny, because them doing in front of me is a huge turn on.

I would enjoy it very much, needless to say he would enjoy watching me as well.

You know, I ALMOST answered "I'd jump him!"...but as I was typing I read the rest of the question...the part about him NOT being MY guy. LoL!

TALK to them later?? :eek: Are you kidding? If you walked in on your mother masturbating, would you "talk" to her about it later? Exactly what would you say?

"So Mum am I buying you a rabbit vibe for Xmas?" - ok so probably not but it would be tempting

and most definitely Mr Friendly - if I had any voyeuristic tendencies with my taste in guys I would be royally screwed :p

no I wouldnt. if it is a bro/sis I would later tease and tell them to do it safer :)
if it is roomate, i will silently walk away and never talk about it
it depends...

This came up in last week's savage love:
Savage Love - September 24, 2008 | The A.V. Club

I enjoy it at times, but I don't 'always' want to watch. It depends on what we're doing and if it's something I really want at the time.

I never tire of watching. Or of being watched.

AbsoFuckingLutely. I'd talk to anyone about it, brother, mother, father, sister, friend, child, whoever. No shame in it.

And yes I LOVE to watch men play with themselves, just whip it out and rub it down-I like the show!!!

Now what a pity you are so far away. I'd love to get naked, spread my thighs and perform for you.

My, you're quite forward for such a new member.

It's the only way to be, darling.

Appreciated. I'm just surprised. Usually it takes a certain comfort level on both sides before these comments start flying.

I love to watch. It's very sexy to see how a man pleasures himself. I can't do it myself in front of a guy though. That is one hurdle I have yet to overcome. But I'm working on it! :p

Watching a guy pleasure himself doesn't repulse me, but I wouldn't say it's my favorite thing on the menu.

I find it kind of hard to believe that he's jerking off for me.:skeptical: And when he's down on me I'm not much aware of his hands unless they're doing something with my nipples.:)
Be that as it may, I've always liked to watch a guy jerk it, (but you'll still never convince me that he's not doing it for himself) and I like to help too! My first sexual experiences were hand jobs. I like to watch it squirt, and the way he just loses himself when that happens. It is different from the way he cums when I get him off by hand. I like it when he jerks his cock while I mouth his balls and tongue his anus. I like to watch him jerk it when I drape my tits around his cock, with a little lube, maybe. Kind of a combo jerk off with titfuck.

Lindy

I cannot stand it when my guy masturbates in front of me. Not in the sense that I don't like it, of course. Exactly the opposite! It absolutely drives me crazy. He doesn't get very far.
On the other hand, I'm a bit shy about being watched, though I'll do it with no problems.

I love it. We watch each other masturbate fairly often... mainly in the shower (easier clean up), because it is a twist from sex. I just like seeing the way he plays with himself, the way he "ticks."

The last girl I was having sex with on a regular basis with loved it, she asked to watch me do it all the time. She also had a lot of toys to use on her self so I loved watching her. I won't just whip it out and start going to town in front of a girl, but if she is up for it, I am too (Pun intended).

damn, why dont i meet girls like you?

a long time fantasy of mine
when was your first time masturbation? when and how it happened the first time you masturbated for someone?
does the age, company and circumstance that makes some one comfortable to learn such a thing or is it the personality, sex drive and sexual preference of the individual?

Really? Marriage doesn't mean you get every time you want it ;). I'm lucky if my wife is in the mood once a week. I rub one out once or twice a day. No way in hell she could keep up, it's not physically possible for her.

I do agree on getting it over with though. Sometimes it's fun to get off solo, and sometimes it's just that you're in the mood and if your SO is grouchy or something, it's better to avoid the hassle (or wait) and do it yourself.

For us it's no big thang. She's seen me do it a thousand times and I've seen her do it many times as well.

I do remember one instance in high school though, that I look back on and laugh. I was dating this girl, although it was more like friends with benefits really. We skipped morning classes one time to hook up under the bleachers at the baseball field. I had my pants down and her's as well, and we were grinding and macking when I reached under to stroke it a couple of times. She stopped and looked at me and said you jack off, don't you??. At our ages now I'd say well...DUHHH, but back then we were both living at the orphanage I was placed in during the time. Jacking off was one of those "don't ask don't tell" things that the guys refused to speak of, and if it did come up, you'd get in a fight to prove it wasn't true. Everyone did it, and since we lived 4 to a room, NO ONE ever confessed.

Anyways, when she said that I had to get defensive and say NO! and continue with our making out, but the mood was going sour. Next thing I know there's a couple of kids we live with walking by who hadn't seen us yet. I somehow flew up, did a twist in the air over a diagonal steel support beam and ended up in the next support section of the frame, with my pants up and zipped. It was amazing. I wish I could move like that now LOL. That was more the highlight of the day than making out with Fay. We never made out again. Haha!

Assuming that the OP means cumming as well, it all depends.

If it's a situation where my wife doesn't mind not getting any after I blow (I usually need recovery time to get it back up), she very much enjoys the show. Her favorite parts are when I'm getting close, & the ejaculation. Of course those are situations when toys come in handy (intentional pun) for her. We sometimes have mutual masturbation sessions that include me cumming, but she usually gets so hot she stops me so that we can have intercourse.

Sometimes she's fine with me teasing her with a full show when I know that she doesn't have the time and/or absolutely isn't the mood for sex, but that only happens when I'm really wanting some relief.

We had been married for a few years before I was comfortable, relatively speaking, masturbating in front of my wife. She was much quicker to relax & go solo in front of me.

My ex doesnt...whenever I did it, shes like dont do that shit in front of me lol. so i have to often had to sleep with blue ballz cuz i cant bust while getting a bj, and she wont give me a handjob ahhhhh. i broke up with her last week.