jewels

Are there any films, tricks, foods or anything else out there that that is a surefire way to get you in the mood? Pre-sexual foreplay, what have you used to entice the opposite sex? How successful are your methods?

Seafood works on me every time. Sometimes an erotic (nonporn) film will get me hot, as well as verbal foreplay. Little comments and touches throughout the day will have me dripping with anticipation. When we go to movies, I always go home ready for action. All that touching, holding, nuzzling in the theater, plus he loves getting his hands all over and under me in the theater.

As far as my techniques for him, I tend to go beyond a casual flirt. Sometimes I might rub up on him, lick his lips, whisper in his ear. Men are easy, though.

Oh and food helps. If I cook a really nice meal or drink a beer wtih him while he's watching a game, I know it's going to be a long and happy night.

Share!

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inBOIL

A long dry spell. Nothing else works reliably.

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snowy

A couple glasses of wine or a beer or two. I love to kiss after drinking certain beers--I love the taste of kisses with a hint of hops.

Reading something sexy always gets me in the mood. It's one of the reasons why my SO puts up with my love of smutty fanfiction--he knows what happens after I read something juicy!

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lotsofmagnets

alcohol.

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healer

mandy loves the taste of whiskey on my breath.

Me? Porn...of the anal variety. Gets me everytime.

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Xerxys

A chick wearing a tight sweater and a short skirt.

cadre

I can't believe no one's said this yet but there's a certain look that will always get me excited. I was getting that all day on Saturday but alas, he had plans.

Other things include the smell of exhaust (I have a deep-seated passion for motorcycles), a nice, dirty conversation, and a good movie.

As for what I do to get a guy in the mood? Well, that depends a lot on the guy, with some guys all I have to do bend over!

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noodle

oh yes, The Look. every single time.

when he shuts off the engine and right after he takes off his motorcycle helmet... that Hello Kiss, yum.

and red wine. red wine makes me really touchy-feely. even just a few sips.

he also does this funny naked dance after he gets out of the shower (which he'd kill me for mentioning) that really, really turns me on because he's so unselfconscious.

i'm easy.

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ItWasMe

A romantic book or movie. His cologne. Popcorn will do it about every time, though.

He doesn't really need an aphrodisiac. Other than a screaming kid, I can't think of anything that gets him out of the mood.

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highthief

A nice vanilla scented perfume tends to float my boat ...

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noodle

i forgot his cologne. armani code makes me weak.
and that clean sweat smell. the hardcore workout smell when he's shaved recently. the part right under his ear.


i don't think i need much effort beyond what comes naturally to my partner. that's what makes it so much fun sometimes.
or maybe it's just because he's still out of town the next few days and i miss him?
oy. i'll shush now.

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cameroncrazy822

great conversation and doing an athletic activity together seems to always get the testosterone level up in the wife. When that fails I reach out to my old friend GHB.

ItWasMe

Those new body washes for men give him a light smell of cologne, on every inch of him. *sigh*

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"Ok, no more truth-or-dare until somebody returns my underwear" ~ George Lopez

I bake cookies just so I can lick the bowl. ~ ItWasMe

ruggerp11

me? Her within arms reach, hell even a stones throw away, ok so if I can see her I'm ready.

Her? Kissing, whiskey and a firm smack on the ass (I could be wrong since shes not here but we do pretty well with those things.

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girldetective

his voice, whisper.

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Willravel

Music. Specifically music French, German, and Russian orchestral music between maybe 1815 and 1910. Names like Liszt, Mendelssohn, Chopin, Wagner, Tchaikovsky, and Rachmaninov come to mind.

World's King

When she first puts my dick in her mouth...

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jewels

Will someone spank that man?

On second thought ...

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World's Queen

A nice hard bite on the neck usually works.

Willravel

World's Queen?! Whoa.

World's Queen

King picked if for me when he signed me up. Apparently this forum is "cooler" than the Harry Potter ones I frequent.

Willravel

Wait, there's something cooler than Harry Potter?

Plan9

Touching girls, for instance.

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Whatever you can carry.

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Giant Hamburger

I find that the clown pheromones released from making squeaky balloon animals puts me in a heightened state of engorged agitation.

mixedmedia

mmmmm, baby....

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cadre caught it, so I can say less...it's 'the look'...I can mock it up in my mind right here, alone in my room, and I feel a little twitchy...

and yez, alcohol, but it's certainly not necessary.

I'm in a long distance relationship so, like inBoil, going without is very reliable, lol.

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World's King

Yes. It works. Trust me.

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FlatLand Flyer

Perfume with vanilla in it.

mixedmedia

That's two votes for vanilla...hmmmm

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cadre

So that's why everyone loves my vanilla perfume...maybe I should wear it more often!

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thespian86

When she first wakes up and gives a little moan as she stretches. That means early morning love time.

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Pac-man04

My wife will sneak up behind me and very softly whisper in my ear "Please" followed by a slight nibble on the earlobe all while pressing herself against my back.

Works every time!!

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MSD

People always complain about whiskey dick. I have the opposite "problem," when I get drunk it won't go down. Smoking weed does pretty much the same thing.
I just found a book of Harry Potter bumper stickers when I was helping my brother clean his room. Want a few?
Probably .... no, definitely

LoganSnake

I'm usually up and ready to go at a moment's notice. Much like ItWasMe's husband, I'm rarely not in the mood.

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mixedmedia

So what kind of vanilla perfume do you wear?

I have to give this a try.

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jewels

+1

I get lots of compliments on mine; it's "vanilla wrapped in orchid".


I'm always complimented on it when I first put it on, but it fades very quickly. It's also been discontinued and I only have two little bottles left. I'm going to need a good replacement, so I'm looking forward to hearing what cadre uses

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MSD

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...83#post2435283
*strolls away, whistling nonchalantly*

jewels

Thanks again, sweetie

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Viking1064

Women

Baraka_Guru

Steak dinner with sweet potatoes and red wine.

Pumpkin pie with vanilla ice cream.

I am your love slave.

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Shaindra

His smell.

Oh, and that back of the neck thing.

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