Do women drivers like to be flashed ??
 

I know that I love it....like a lot of guys do. A few girls I know who have gotten a show in the past, and they seemed to be turned on by it, but I know it can spell big trouble if you get caught by some one who DOES NOT want it to happen.

This has kept me from ever trying it, but the thought of turning some one on the same way I am turned on when a lady pulls alongside of me a gives me a little show....or a BIG show keeps me thinking of it.

I realize there are some rules...such as absolutely no kids around etc.

so with that said.

what do you think ?

YES

maybe

NO WAY !!

The generic answer would be that some do and some don't. There really is only one way to find out. Of course, if she doesn't, the results might not be pretty.

If they know they're going to be flashed and approved, sure it's fine.

If not, then the flasher is a dirtbag criminal a step away from being a rapist.

I don't see much grey in this one, and I doubt you'll convince me otherwise.

See women have breasts. (Pauses for captain obvious remark..... ok lets move on) Everyone can enjoy breasts while the same can not be said of the penis. So I would think that unless it's something already agreed upon, which would defeat the purpose, it should be a no no.

Haha, awesome.

1. Join forum.
2. Post question regarding indecent exposure.
3. Profit?

Depending on the state in which you live it's some form of misdemeanor. Don't do it.

Now I'm a person who would love it, I haven't had that experience yet but would love to.

However, with something like that you can be arrested verse women like me not wearing a bra then the peeker must go to extra lengths to view....I think that is how the law sees it anyway?

boy don't I feel like the perve.....

Sorry for the question. and I know men can get in trouble for it...just the same as women can get in trouble for it.

indecent exposure IS indecent exposure

I was just asking because I seriously do not know any man who doesn't welcome the chance at a free look.

I know women are much less visual than guys are so hence the question at a pretty open "sexually" website.

I really don't mean to get anyones dander up....Really !

a lady i used to work with was flashed by some guy driving. made her sick and ruined her day. chances are...no, they don't want to see it...

Okay, I have an opinion and a question about this.

I personally wouldn't mind it on some occasions but at the same time I would be very wierded out on others. If I indicated that I wanted it or if I gave you a show then I don't think it would bother me but if some random person flashed me while I was driving I would find it kind of creepy.

Question: A friend told me once that being arrested and charged with indecent exposure puts you on the sex offenders list. Any one know if that's true?

It didn't turn out well for the dude in "Thelma and Louise." I believe most women would feel some level of threat from this and dial 911.

It's true in my state, and you must report your residence to the police in order to warn the neighborhood "forever." Really, really stupid joke, don't you think?

I think if a guy flashed me I would probably call the police.

Unless that said guy is incredibly hot, then of course I would make an exception.

Jesus: "Everybody likes boobs."

I would rather not be flashed, especially while driving.

Three months ago I was sitting at a stop light in a small car, and was hit from behind by a van. Totalled the car; I felt like I was totalled for quite a while. I hope the crash happened because of a slippery pavement, and not because someone was flashed.

Actual situation that happened to me a few weeks ago at a trainstation, please note that for the majority of this I was reading my book while waiting for the train didn't even make eye contact

Guy: Hi, do you have the time?
Me: Sure, it's 10:50
Guy: You know you have perfect cock sucking lips I bet they'd look great wrapped around me
Me: *Frozen in shock thinking what the hell?*
Guy: So do you spit or swallow?
Me: Umm, that's not really an issue I have a boyfriend and I don't intend to cheat on him
Guy: Aww come on no one would know
Me: I'd know
Guy: *flashes me* So that change your mind?

Even in an area where there were two men maybe 50m away working on the railroad track I felt threatened and awkward. If I had been alone in the car and someone flashed me I would probably be scared out of my wits. I'd say this is one of those return the favour scenarios - if she flashes you feel free to flash back, if not then don't.

I'm just trying to think of scenarios involving a man flashing traffic that doesn't end in a car accident or an arrest.

I just...... I really have no idea when something like that is going to be appropriate.

Holy shit, Hyacinthe, that's awful. As an aside, anyone else reminded of the office episode when someone flashed phyllis, I found it online for your edification(bad graphics and I think chinese subtitles):
http://www.tv-links.co.uk/video/1/103/9901/62001/87156# and
http://www.tv-links.co.uk/video/1/103/9901/62001/87157# .

You can be forced to register as a sex offender for public urination; of course flashing will put you on the list.

Okay thanks, what about sex in public? That's what the conversation was originally about.

Hyacinthe, that would be just about the creepiest thing to happen to me. Did you report him by any chance?

I think that being flashed while driving would make an awesome conversation piece. Especially for a thread exactly like this.

I've never been flashed while driving from a person in a different car, but... ;)

Hyacinthe, want me to take care of him?

I don't mind being flashed by women, so long as it's in fun and there aren't children around. It's not some amazing thing, just goofing around really. What Hyacinthe described above was sexual harassment and indecent exposure.

No, I wouldn't care to be flashed. I think that a woman being flashed by a man can easily be taken as a bit of a threat. I would probably think, "Shit, is he going to follow me now?!?"

Thanks for the offer willravel nice to see chivalry isn't dead.

I did report him both to the police for indecent exposure and to the train security. He didn't really have anything they could use to identify him, they pretty much said there was nothing they could do.

What if it was someone you know who you didn't feel threatened by?

Flashing, in general, does nothing for me and if some stranger flashed me not just in my car, but anywhere, I'd be creeped out by it.

I'm really not a fan of that sort of obtrusion or forced intimacy...and that is what it is. It's just self-centered and creepy.

I guess it depends on how I felt about the person. I guess if the element of feeling threatened was removed, all I'd feel like was that that person hadn't much progessed beyond Jr. High (keeping in mind that the OP is about being flashed from/in a moving vehicle). Still not something I'd categorize as enjoyable.

Now if they were acting silly and funny along with it, then yeah, that'd be funny.

(does chicken dance without wearing pants)

Now THAT is funny.

Just showing my smooth spot?

Eh, not so charming.

If someone flashed my wife, I'd flip a coin between some form of vigilante justice and calling the cops. Maybe settle on some combination.

(slams on breaks, kicks thread out of his car, pulls up his pants)

Who cares? A little dangling dick scare you? Everybody likes titties, right?

I don't get the "shock" value here. Other than if its an ugly person doing it.

Somebody can show me any part of their anatomy and I'm not going to be offended. Hell, they can swing their reproductive McNuggets around and yell "helicopter, helicopter!"... but I'm not going to let myself or significant other be offended. I'd think that my S/O was like me and adult enough to find in distasteful or immature or hilarious... given the circumstances.

Grown adults shouldn't find the human anatomy disturbing.

Hell, we wake up to it every morning.

(kerplop! wipe! flush!)

Personally, it's not that I find the human anatomy disturbing, it's that someone has taken it upon themselves to use me for an unsolicited cheap thrill. The actual seeing of someone's penis is not the point.

Imagine, if you will, two girls in high school out running on their own for cross country practice. They run past a car in the parking lot as a guy steps out, wearing no pants and with an obvious erection. They don't know him. They've never seen him before.

He runs after them and grabs one by the back of the hair. He pulls her to the ground. He tries to get her clothes off in a parking lot in full daylight. Luckily orientation for the basketball teams had just let out and several students and parents pull the man off her and subdue him until the police arrive.

It happened at my high school a few years before I was there.

This sort of flashing can be a prelude to something else. Crompsin, good luck on not "letting" your significant other be offended by a flasher. If that's something you think you can control, you obviously don't know much about people, let alone women.

Grown adults shouldn't use force other grown adults into sexual acts against their will. That's what flashing is: using the unsuspecting to get your own jollies.

Prelude? Well, the topic was innocent flashing, chief... not rape. We're not talking Chester-The-Molester here... we're talking drunk college kids, maybe?

Rape requires physical contact. I looked it up. Anything else is bad taste / indecent exposure, etc.

Hell, I get more genital pictures and references in my damn inbox than I do anywhere "out there", ya know?

...

Yeah, I'm fucking retarded. Science has proven it. I was, however, suggesting that I wouldn't want a partner who got all bent outta shape over such a silly act.

Oh, semantics'd! (hangs head, walks out of bar)

Crompsin, reread the OP. I'll even make it easy for you - Post #1 This isn't about drunk college kids. This is about pulling up next to a woman you don't know and exposing yourself to her. It's creepy. It's illegal. There's no "innocent" about it. As I've said, it's a common prelude crime for sexual criminals. It could be drunk college kids. It could be something much, much worse.

If anyone randomly emailed my wife cock-pics, let me tell you she would not take it kindly. Neither would I. If I could find the guy, my first response would most likely be bloody. My second response would be bloodless but financially rewarding.

Either you are as clueless about women as you'd like us to believe or the ones that you do know are completely different than any I've ever met. I don't know one single woman of all the ones I've met in my entire life that wouldn't at least be a little put off by a random guy flashing them.

Yeah, I can read, bro.

I was simply gesticulating on the possible and most-likely motivators. Alcohol makes people stupid. Science has even proven that. It also makes them naked. Being in college and the military for a few years taught me that.

Sorry, Jazz. Apparently my tone puts out that "clueless sociopath" vibe and forces quote-a-thons. :thumbsup:

In closing:

Hooah, Sergeant. Airborne!

Crompsin, it's not the act itself that women find disturbing and creepy I think. At least for me, it's the intentions, because many more times than not the intentions are not innocent.

But it is all dependent on circumstance ultimately.

So since it's just childish buffoonery, we can all agree that mooning is OK, right?

Well, I believe that depends on the circumstances.

i've mooned far too many people to count

I think there's definitely a huge difference between a woman flashing her chest and a man flashing his penis. You can't really compare them, honestly -- men have no equivalent to boobies. Also, I think boobies (and butts, for that matter) are just more "innocent" than a penis or a vagina. I've been mooned before and I thought it was hilarious, but seeing a guy's cock dangling in the window would just seriously creep me out. I'd probably call the cops.

In short, unless I've expressed interest in seeing your naughty bits, you'd better keep that thing tucked inside your pants.

I asked Mrs Ryfo,....in a word.."no". (Then she came to check out what site I was on!)

In general, mooning doesn't bother me. Just don't press your butt up against the glass though, because that's gross. :p

Eergh, yeah... especially if the smudge doesn't go away.

There was a recent case in Florida where two college guys were heading down Interstate 4, North of Orlando. They came up on a guy driving in the left lane, when the guy finally pulled over to the right lane, they pulled up allong side of him, and the college guy in the passenger side decided to moon the guy, and the wife. He didn't realize that there was a 16 year old boy in the back seat. Now normally I would just laugh and say hey, college guys will be college guys, but the family wasn't humoured by it. They contacted the police, and the two guys in the truck were pulled over, the passenger was arrested, and charged with get this: Sexual battery of a minor, public exposure, and public indecency. The first charge landed the college kid on the sex offenders list for the State of Florida, and he will have that stick with him for the rest of his life. So all I can say is if you travel into florida, keep your pants up, and take a leak at the rest area, not on the side of the road...

Wow, mens rea totally went in the toilet there.

I've been flashed/been there when someone was flashed once/once.

my being flashed a cock - all I did was laugh - HARD.

the first time. i was about 10. first time I saw a cock EVER, someone flashed my grandmother - my little sister and I were in the car. it was the first time i got to hear my grandmother say anything that wasnt completely ladylike, and she STILL managed to say something with dignity. "and that girls, is what an asshole looks like"

My personal opinion is this:

Flashing breasts by a woman is cool and I wish it happened to me lots more often
Flashing breasts by a man is absurd enough to be downright hilarious
Flashing the moon is a classic funny that will never get old

and the unsolicited flashing of genitalia in public .. male or female .. just gives off a real creepy vibe I don't ever want to experience

End of the day, all of these are illegal and really not worth the risks you'll face for the penalties they'll garner

It's one thing to be silly or drunk and do something stupid all in the name of " good clean fun " .. it's another to violate a strangers beliefs or sensibilities to the point of finding yourself incarcerated or worse by those you seek to include in your fun .. and the reality is that there is a very thin line separating the two.

When I was in middle school some guy flashed me, at first I was a little shocked but to this day I can still picture it and look back and think what a great experience!

Better safe than sorry. With some guys, I don't want to see them period. (like that Steve-O guy from Jackass I think? The douchey one.)