F*ck buddies - urban legend?
 

Ok...my first real new thread ever. Be gentle.

I've had a question that has been on my mind heavily for a few weeks now and I figure that this is the best place to get it answered.

"Do fuck buddies really exist?"

To elaborate:
After reading many of the posts in many of the areas of TFP, I have come to find that many of my experiences in life have been different than what appears to be the majority of folks that gather here. I have heard of, if not participated in, many of the rituals found described at TFP, but the idea of fuck buddies (or fuck friends) is a new one to me. What I am asking for is responses to my question with either stories or evidence that this phenomenon does or does not exist. You do not need to give personal details unless you wish to do so. I am only attempting to understand if this truly exists or not. I am also interested when this happened in your life (high school, college, first job, etc.) and if there were any consequences to your actions down the road (he/she tells their friends).

I thank you in advance for your response.

I didn't ever have any fuck buddies... or FTFs (friends that fuck) as I've been told.

I do have some friends that don't have the intimacy issues that I have with my partnere. So in answer, yes they do exist. I know a few of them.

Re: F*ck buddies - urban legend?
 

YeS.

i've done it a few times, late teens-early 20s.

with several diff people at diff times.

and thats all the info i'll share atm. :)

Hell yes, the myth is true for me it was about 7 years ago and it was just something to do if we were broke or bored, there was more then three and we had the same creed No strings, no issues.
Since that time if I've ever been with a woman there has been alot of emotions that were in place on both sides that allowed for that.

I have had a couple different kind of "fuck buddies" Some have been old friends that one day I end up sleeping with. Most of the time it was good so we continued being friends and would fuck on occasion.

Sometimes the sex is so good it dosent matter that her voice sound like donald duck and she has the mentality of a paperclip.

Friends with benefits? I can't say much but hubby and I had more than one couple who were friends and we had the benefit of bedding them on occasion too. It helps not to have the same issues when you are already married.

Yeah it exists.I have had and continue to have FB. Some people are critical of people like me,but I don't mind.Just because I choose to be single and hook up with other people who feel the same way, doesn't mean it is wrong. If I wanted to be in a monogamous relationship I would be. Whatever floats your boat I guess.

Had two FB's during life before marriage. One of them turned out to take it way more seriously than agreed, so maybe she shouldn't count. :) They do exist. I've never understood why we have so many hang ups about sex. This should be way more common than it is. Ok, so I'm a guy and biased...:D I think there's plenty of women that would agree. I just don't meet many of them! And now it's too late. Awww, poor me! LOL

Yes the elusive Fuck Buddie is rampant, but as quickly as the fuck buddie appears his arch nemisis the "wants something more than friends" butts in.

I have experienced both beasts. The fuck buddie was fun, no strings booty, just hanging and drinking, but as the night wore on and it would look like another night of late movies something would click..... or stick as the case maybe.... but then something happens.


Content, comfort, and reliability.

You might as well be dating now, cause you are inseperatable... sure you can oggle the other ladies and she can flirt with the other man... but deep down inside starts to burn a little resentment. "Was he good" " Is that your type now"... the evil beast has reared it's ugly head and you are squabbling like a married couple.... And then ends the fuck buddie and begins the relationship

I've had a few, my fuck buddy experiences are far better than any more committed relationships I've had too. The first FB I had was a girl I worked with when I was 18 and had just broken up with my first serious gf of 2 1/2 years. She made me forget all about the ex, and since she was a little older, was able to teach me a few things. The only time there was ever any problem was when I was fooling around with another girl I worked with and ended up becoming her boss. We agreed that it would look bad if anyone found out, so we quit. As long as it's two adults being honest with each other, what's the harm?

Its true, its true! They exist!

I had them in all sorts of different types of relationships from high-school, through college, and until I got together with my (now) wife.

Some friends I and I just fucked on occasion. Some friends and I fucked A LOT. Once, my girlfriend "loaned me out" for an evening as a birthday present to a mutual friend.

my only one was a while after my best friend and his g/f broke up, I visited her as we were still friends and she and I watched a porn. Then we did it (because it was my first time) for like 8 hours. I'm serious, I've never been able to go as long as that night. It was from like 9 that evening to about 5 the next morning.

Odd. Now I am getting married and going to have a baby. My life is much better now.

I currrently have a fuck buddy. I met her over the internet and we got together with the understanding that we were getting together to fuck and nothing else. She was and is cool with that. She told me that it will continue until she finds a BF but until then we get together when one or the other feels the need to and it is convienient for both of us. In the past year we have gotten together about 20 times.

Had sex with a couple friends but it didn't last long because it just didn't sit right with me. Sure was fun at the time though :D

yep, true
I had a companion for some months before I left San Diego.
She knew I was going to be leaving, I told her straight off the bat.
But we found each other attractive, and enjoyed each other's company greatly.
Good times by all
It's sometimes nice to have the sex without the big emotions getting tied into it.

There's been a few others too.

FB's definitely exist; I've had a couple, but trying to stay out of that game.

Definitely exist. Sometimes tricky to manage, but still much fun.

I am sure just about any man would be up for a "fuck buddy" situation.

I myself would never do that though. I don't fuck just anybody.

been there, done that, wore out the t-shirt...it happens; go with the flow...

yes, i was half of the FB system. we were just friends...hanging out, doin it, having fun. and then, we fell in love. and now we're getting married, to each other, best friends...how lame and corny! what a great story to tell my grand kids.

" I don't fuck just anybody."

Hey Nikki, I'm not just anybody.

Ditto.

But yes, they do exist, I just don't go for that sort of thing.

It's not about just fucking anyone.It may be to some people but then maybe the term doesn't necessarily apply across the board.

I have a friend who has been one of my FB's for 4 years.We get along great and understand each other. It isn't only about the sex.We are good friends. Half the time we go out for drinks or dinner,we go home alone. And that's just fine between the two of us.

I lost my virginity with one, it was great,
p.s. did you really have to censer the word fuck in the thread title? lol

better question would be:
How does one go about setting somthing like that up with a girl?

That pretty much sums it up for me. I'm one of the exceptions in the male category. I've actually avoided a girl who I was attracted to, I wouldn't go out with her because of the fuck buddies, eve if she did cut them off, although it could have been because I knew the guys, and didn't exactly want to be with someone who had been with them. Most guys would love the situation. I know a few who have done it. It's not for me.

never had one. damnit. definitely had some chicks that would hook up with for a few weeks. but never someone i could call out of the blue to just....fuck.

i think i grew up in the wrong area

Well,first of all,you have to find someone who is open to the concept of sex and companionship as an outlet of expression rather than sex and companionship being a means to an end,that being in a relationship.

Then you and the other person have to be mature enough to realize what exactly the reasons are for wanting this to happen. It is not about getting laid,or getting the goods without a commitment.There is a very big responsibility that goes along with this type of arrangement. Sexual safety,discretion,respect and allowing the freedom to exist as individuals minus the bullshit.

Usually older people have this arrangement rather than younger but it isn't exclusive.Reasons people do this is because they are too busy for a relationship, are concentrating on a career,travel alot,have been in relationships and have decided it's not for them or are like me.I am a very private person,who has been in long term relationships before,but now I choose when and where I want or need social stimulation.

I would literally go crazy if I had to interact with a partner on a daily basis unless of course they allowed me to be my usual loner self.And honestly,it isn't about the sex.The sex is actual secondary to the companionship. Furthermore,this arrangement isn't cold or unfeeling but the opposite.Two people can become very close yet maintain the boundaries without crossing the line,it just depends on the individuals involved.

I was told once that because I choose this lifestyle, I have loose morals. This from a woman who was twice divorced and cheating on her fiance with her boss. Like I said before,whatever floats your boat.

Sure thing.

For me it was when I was in College and then after I graduated. Kinda works like this:

You are attracted to each other
You are both mentally healthy enough to realize that you are not going to spend the rest of your lives together
Neither of you has anyone else

You may as well take care of each other's needs. Not much more than a phone call is needed and if you are both available it works out.

For me it usually started with a drunken hookup and went on from there. When we sobered up in the morning and saw that neither of us were sasquatch, things went from there.

Hell yah...I've had a couple good Fuck buddies before I got married...

I dealing with one right now. She lives about 3 hours away so it takes a bit of an effort, but we have fun and the sex is fantastic. We both know it will be over as soon as we meet and start going out with someone else. It started as simple dating, but when I told her I wasn't going to marry her she proposed the idea of being a FB.

it's not a question of if they exists, because they do, it's more a question of how many people actually have them, cause so many people talk about having them, even though they probly dont

My cousin's had one for the past year, unfortunate for me, I haven't been lucky enough to have one.

I've had two fuck buddies. Those situations always mess with my head and heart. Mine don't last long but I have tried.

I'll chime in and say yes, they do exist, but generally the relationships are not very long-term.

Fucking buddies certainly exist (friends with benefits, masterbatory helpers)
and thank god.

Hey, If ya can't fuck your friends...who CAN ya fuck?
:)

Yep, we're out here. One of mine was in my mid twenties. I was bartending and she was a barfly. She was 36 and had the body of a 19 yo. Never married and horny as hell. I think she may have had aspirations of there being more than what it was but, she never said so. Sex was great. I mean really great. I still think about it 15 years later.

Used to have one, now I have a lot more self-esteem, and want more from a relationship than that.

Granted, I'm not looking for a relationship right now, so I'm pretty much screwed both ways :)

Yes, they do exist.

Mine was a coworker, Emily, that I got along with exceptionally well. She was an incredible person, and we were pretty good friends. After we had been friends for a while, (Not sure exactly how long, probably 6 months) We began sleeping with each other. Neither one of us had any misperception that we would ever be more than friends, and I believe that that is key. That way, no one gets jealous, and if one person decides to date someone, it was a given that we would stop messing around.

However, sex, at least in my mind, is a necessity for a healthy, happy person. Who better to sleep with than someone you trust and get along with? (Providing of course, you are not currently with someone else)

On a sidenote, an interesting situation arose one time when we decided to go on a double date. (Not as dates, we both were set up w/ someone else) Halfway through dinner, we couldn't stand the company anymore and so we left and went to her place. Seeing the look on our dates' face was priceless....

Just thought I would share.

I've had about 5 during the years, mostly when i was at uni. The most notable one was when i put my number into this chick's mobile phone when she was talking to one of my mates. She then text me the next week wanting to know who i was... yada yada yada, 3 weeks later she drove 2 and a half hours to stay with me. Turned out her sister went to the same uni, so she came over about once a month or so... no strings. Too easy. Best things ever...

Yeah, they exist. I have one at the moment. They aren't hard to find around a college, provided you have the right 'tude. There were issues at the start, but it is smooth sailing now.

Oh yeah! They exist and when you think about it, it works out pretty well. You get happy and don't have to worry about the L word... (It works as long as both parties understand that is what is al it is)

I have to admit that nearly every single fuck buddy i have ever had has turned out to become someone who became very emotionally attached to me and at some point destroyed the fundamental code of the fuck buddies which is: A fuck buddy is not a boyfriend/girlfriend.

Once this occured, the fuck buddy relationship was always terminated. I've had fuck buddies going all the way back to high school where i would hook up with a girl and totally understand that there was nothing more to it than just the fucking. But as i stated previously, it always ended up crossing over into relationship landing and therefore sabotouging the fuck buddy relationship. They can be fun, but they tend to end on bad terms. At least in my case.

Yes they do.
Been there, done that.
I'm in a serious relationship now where basically I don't need one.

ok honesty is the best policy so..............
Yes F*CK buddies do exist i have had several in my late teens, early twenties and recently. But, most of those relationships have a down fall, that being once you start just having sexx with someone and its a long term no commitment thing you could develop feelings for that person and cant cross a line established at the beginnign of the f*ck relationship. even if you both want the same thing!!

Knew a few.. never actually did it.. :)

Seems like there have always been one or two available when I've been between relationships. It's someone familiar and safe and lasts until one of us starts dating someone else seriously.

There has always been an understanding at the outset and if anyone else is to be involved, all parties need to be notified so someone can bow out if not comfortable.

As a side note, at least half of the sexual 'adventures' I've been on over the years have happened with a FB... or two... or three (what happens in Vegas... STAYS in Vegas). Without the usual relationship strings, hilarity tends to ensue.

Yup - they absolutely exist. I had a few in my late teens, after a long term relationship. Some of the best sex I ever had, but I usually became attached somehow.

I know of a married couple that practices an open marriage. Each of them has 2-3 FTF at any given time.

I am begining to suspect that this is really an over-generalization of men. I think the common perception is that the vast majority of men would like such a situation when in actuallity, it may be a majority, but probably not as vast as thought. Meanwhile, women who would like such a situation may be a minority, but not as small a minority as generally thought.

Of course they exist. I've been asked to been offered fuck buddys several times, but have turned them down. I DID have a g/f at the time.

Yeah, they are anyone who you casually fuck with no strings attatched :P

Amen to that. Personally, I think it is really a minority on BOTH sides that would actually turn down a FB situation, so long as they are not involved with anyone at the time. IE, if your single and unattatched, MOST people, wether male or female, would be willing to have a FB. Just my opinion. I personally have never in my life had a FB. But then again, I was married for 10 years and would NEVER cheat on my significant other, so for me I have just never looked for one.

Yeah, they exist. I remember reading an article about them being a big fad in Japan a year or two ago. They were concerned with health risks. But as long as you know who you're having sex with is clean, I don't think you have anything to worry about.

Personally, I have a guy fuck buddy. He's one of my best friends. Basically how it works is when we're both horny we do a little this and that. Although, it's quite hard to get him turned on. (yes, he's a guy...isn't that weird?)

When I was 16, I was friends with a 19-year old senior in high school. I was over at her house one day and her parents were at an auto race and her sisters were at work or out with friends and we had nothing better to do. So we were just watching movies and complaining about not having anything better to do. So she suggested that we do it. God damn, to this day I'm very happy that she didn't care about the stupid laws...

Coincidently a FB from 15 years ago 'found' me on Friday via email. Wow, what a suprise. She lives 150 miles away. Both of us are married, not going to be a repeat, but it sure was a pleasant surprise. Nice memories.

Many times I prefer to bed those with whom I've known as friends and continue to know as friends. On one hand, I know them well and am comfortable with sleeping with them, and on the other hand, we both know and are explicit on the fact that we are both just friends, but we happen to have great bouts of slap-and-tickle together.

You bet they do. We've got several, and it's fun!!!

yeah, had 2. both around my age, 21-24. Nice little thing to have.

oh, both were my ex-girlfriends when they become FBs.

Yeah, theres this close friend of mine that I fuck from time to time. For the first one and a half years I knew her in High SHcool, we were very close friends -- I mean, we talekd about everything...she was one of the best people to confront with life problems (and she did the same to me). Inside though, we both knew we found eachother attractive, but never came out with the emotions.

Eventually, I invited her over to just hang out (she was the kind of girl that - while hot - could easily be 'one of the guys'), but we ended up trading off oral sex. When we were done, we didnt exactly about it, and continued on. Eventually, we escilated to sex, and got together to fuck like once a month on avarage.

We never date, or do anything else someone in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. Infact, before I was going out with my current girlfriend (basicly, when we were just kind of fliting) me and my 'fuck buddy' hooked up a few times (but didnt have sex, because she knew I was about to go out with this chick).

Since I have a GF, we don't do it fuck anymore, but ofcoruse, we're still great firends. I dont think the sex has affected the firendship to much either, expcept that we're a little closer physically when we're hanging out alone (cuddling, hand-holding, etc).

This girl wasnt my only friend whom I fooled around with/fucked. I've had two others, except we never fucked -- just hooked up/oral sexed. So to answer the title: Ofcoruse they exist!

I think I'm currently in my 5th or 6th FWB semi-relationship. When it happens, I'm never really sure of what is going on. We both live relatively far and are busy with school and whatnot. So for us, it's a matter of convenience and attraction.

Not Legend
 

Yes, They do exist. But I find that women over 30 are more open to the idea of just having sex without any immediate committment. Younger gals definitely seem to want the committment whether they admit it or not. So they really never become true "fuck" buddies. Just girls who fuck in hopes of something more.

it is weird that you started this thread I was wondering the same thing about two months ago when I broke up with a long time B/F. I wanted to have sex with someone no strings attached, I quickly foung out that it does exsist. Althought I am new to the whole thing so Im not sure about etiquette........

They exist... did it in college, the navy, and all the way back in high school

If they exist for me, they exist for
 

anyone... seriously, I had one and it wasn't a likely thing... fun while it lasted... ahh youth... :)

Umm... was this post supposed to be a reply to the "Fuck Buddies" thread?

and now it is. ;)

From my experience it always starts off great and everyone has a great time. But after sometime - emotion seems to creep in and mucks up the water. In the end you wonder if it was all worth it. It's very easy for people to say, "It is just sex." But very hard to keep just sex.

Ah, yes: Somehow it's OK to break a vow of "till death do us part" but having sex with a good friend is immoral.

I have had a few FBs over the years. My husband knows about them and has been part of most of the F'ing.

Actually, I have more "sex buddies", i.e. men and women who I have had varrying kinds of non-penetrating sex with.

Physical pleasure with a friend is a good thing.

Hmmm, I suppose I have a fuck buddy right now. But its more like she likes me a hell of a lot more than I like her, so she lets me have sex with her. She's hot, but I'm moving far far away from her soon so I don't want to get involved. Its pretty cool being able to fuck her and not have to pay for her dinner and movies and shit like that hahaha.

Wow, thats quite the story actually, I do know a kid who would've had a fuck buddy. The bassically came to the conclusion that they were both really horney, and were young, and wanted to try it. Regardless the guy was nervous couldn't get it up and it never happend, however they do exist.

Fuck buddies seems sketchy. I don't even wanna know the statistics of 30 year olds w/ STDs its like 1in3 or 1in4

Being intimint with sombody your in love with, and deeply care for is significantly better than just a casual fuck.

Howver if you get the opertunity wrap your shit and fuck the hell out of her bro :D

I need to find some of these girls.

I hear ya...I had a fuck buddy once. It didn't start out that way, but kinda ended up that way. I don't think I'd do that again. Too much crap to deal with.

Yes, they do; particularly in the polyamoury community (or in open relationships).

I had 2 FB's in college... With both of them I was friends with them before we had sex. With one of them we were just hanging out bored and drinking or something and just decided to have sex. Mostly we would just hang out and have a good time but occasionally we would have sex. Definitely anytime either of us really needed it we would call each other and "hang out." With me FB had to be friends, I had an emotional bond with them but nothing that went further than friends, it was just having a good time with someone you already enjoy hanging out with.

I was never the "fuck buddy" I was however the "fall back guy" or the "intellectual whore" as some people like to call it. Anyone who shares my pain may want to check out the ladder theory. I can's say I agree with all of it, but there are certainly some nuggets of wisom to be found http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

I have one right now...until she finds someone else and get's off my case... that shouldn't take long

yeah they exist..but i think that in most situations there is one of the two that likes the other more than just a "fuck buddy". but thats just from what i have seen=)

This is a great concept, but I am not much good opening up a conversation with a woman about the weather let alone "how do you feel about a little casual sex"?
Oh well, maybe someday a girl will ask me that but I won't hold my breath.:)

Done it, loved it. It was with my ex just a few weeks after we broke up and lasted for a few months up until she and I (weirdly at the same time) started seeing people. One of us would get the call, and get the sex. Awesome stuff.

I've done it.

Eventually the guy wanted a relationship (wTF?! I thought guys only wanted sex*)

*I'm only half-kidding.

never done it, in fact my only is now my wife....

I had two ex-girlfriends that turned into that, but I think that really the only way it happens.

it could be true

The two fuck buddies I've had turned out to be friends that were sexually attracted to me, but wanted no relationship. I think it actually brought us closer together in some weird way. What's even more weird is that my two fuck buddies know each other..

I have a relationship kind of like this.
And old girlfriend and I agree that nothing will really develop between us but we are still very comfortable with each other. My only rule has been that we dont do it when either of us is dating someone

Yah, I had a friend of my girlfriend, one day she called me up randomly on the phone, we always joked around and flirted, she simply said if I come over there right now will you F*** the S*** out of me? and I said ha ha, right, your joking, and she said "yah" but she said it a little sad, so I said, wait, no your not, then BAM, she came over and the rest is history

Now, now. My FBs have always been people that I've known well, who were close friends that I eventually ended up sleeping with. It doesn't have to be "just anybody".

The trick is to go into it with a summer camp mentality: you go, you have fun while you're there, and then everybody goes home like they knew they would. ;) It can be very nice.

I have an FB. We're great friends before that and have had a relationship many years back, although she's technically not an ex. We love and care for each other, but also always been attracted to each other. We should have ended up together if not for the misunderstandings and miscommunications along the way, but thats a story for another day.

Both of us are attached now but a couple of months back, we met up and started talking about old times and old sex and we ended up sleeping with each other. It started as an open relationship and we talked about the kinky sex we'll have with each other. We both know that there's no future for us anyway. I guess we became FB's cause we liked each other, both in and out of bed.

But it's not easy when you're also emotionally attracted to each other, and eventually we're thinking about each other more often than we should. Recently, she said that we must stop seeing each other this way cause she can't get back on track with her bf, and he's getting insecure. I agreed cause I can't be selfish either.. I can't offer any long term commitments.

We reverted back to being good friends and was open about our respective relationships etc. It's great, but I don't know how long it will last before we end up in bed again. And each time it happens, it's going to be harder to turn back.

FB's with good friends are great because it does take the friendship to a different level. It's can be be extremely satisfying but IMHO, it's probably also a short term gratification which could turn ugly.

And of course I feel guilty and of course I wish I had the strength to stop it once and for all. For now, I'm going through the transition to good friends and I'm having breakfast with her this morning. We'll see how things work out over the next week or so

I really liked this girl (in a more than friendly way) but she didnt return the sentiment. I continued to be friends with her, and we grew very close (friendwise) over the summer. she told me that I was a good guy, and was suprised that girls werent all over me. I asked if I was good, then why wouldnt she give me a shot? she said she didnt do relationships, so we became f*ck buddies. she told me that I could at no point get attatched to her. So I didnt. one day, we were lying in bed, and she told me she was in love with me. (that was a little more than a year ago, we've been together since then). so they apparenly exist, though my experience only lasted a couple of months before it turned into a relationship
(this started the summer after I graduated high school)

hmmm... i might have to find some of these fuck buddies :)

I've had a couple. Kinda bizarre for one of them when we sat on the couch and discussed IF we should do it and how there was nothing wrong with it. Very honest and no games, which was nice. Sex in a relationship is better though.

There was a "Seinfeld" episode that made me laugh because Jerry and Elaine had just about the exact conversation when they discussed having non-strings sex just for fun.

As others have said, yes they do exist, but you need to make your terms completely clear at the beginning of the fuck buddy-ship. I had one for around 18 months on and off, and I told him right from the word go that I didn't want a relationship and just wanted someone to fuck and have the odd meal with. He was cool with that, then the silly bugger fell in love with me, which was really annoying.

I cooled it for a while, then at the beginning of this year, we hooked up again and the sex was even better than before. I still made it clear I didn't want a relationship and he was cool with that. Now he's found a real girlfriend (which is great for him, because he wanted a relationship), so we're still mates but no fucking.

Funny....I miss him a bit...*shrug*

Today is not a good day.

My good friend, who was also sleeping with me, had told me earlier that we should stop seeing each other this way. She has someone abroad and don't feel all that right doing what we were doing. Well, I said OK, although we still get a little intimate whenever we meet up.

Today I saw her holding hands with someone else. Sigh.. I knew someday she would break my heart. Was just wondering how and when. Looks like I got my answer. I shouldn't be surprised.. after all, she's done it before (10 year ago) and I know I'm not supposed to feel anything about it, but I am.

I did want to have a purely good friend with benefits arrangement and if it had ended on mutual terms, I would have been happy that I had it anyway. What I don't get is why she's decided to hide this new relationship from me. After all, we are best of friends and she tells me everything. Or so I thought. I guess I'm pissed not because she was out with someone else, but that she's led me to believe that there was no one else but me and the other guy abroad.

Oh well... it still sux. I wonder what she'll say to me in her defense? She doesn't need to, but I think she'll know that I'm hurt by it.

There ya go.. another experience of how an FB relationship with a friend can be more than just good fun.

it would be nice

I used to have a buddy.
She were both in long term relationships at the time but needed something extra which our partners were not providing.
I saw her on and off for about 18 mths, and the reason it worked was neither of us expected any more than a few laughs and some great sex.
We ended things mutually when she decided to give things a 'proper go' with her partner. That's an important thing to discuss with your buddy, as circumstances change a lot when you are not sharing a normal committed relationship.

I have no regrets, lots of wonderful memories, and an open mind to the idea should the situations arise again. I recommend it :)))

I have a great fuck buddy but she ended up falling in love with me. It was a difficult situation to negotiate, but its working now. I havent fucked anyone else in a while. Havent felt the need. But the fact that I can is liberating. Its the best of both worlds.

I miss my FB she got married and moved to Florida. She was the next door neighbor.

She had a job as a stripper, on my way home from work I would stop by, she would get my in for free and give me free lap dances!

I've never been to lucky as to have a fuck-buddy, so as far as I'm concerned this stuff is all urban legend until I see it happen to me. Seems to me like everyone else but me gets to enjoy these arrangements.