When did you lose your virginity?
 

So I didn't see this in searching this forum, just curious ^_^.

I think there was a thread like this in general discussion or member's playground. But, someone will let you know if they find it.

You didn't list your age in the OP...you have to share too, just not vote. :)

I was 18...I waited until I was 'legal' to do the in-and-out. I generally dated guys over 18 so we just did everything but...

I'm still a virgin and plan on being so until I could support a child. I dun like the idea of abortion - contraceptives, bring it on, but abortion? Nah. And I'm one of those crazy kooks that thinks conception = life.

Marriage would be sweet to wait until, but we're absodefinitelylutely waiting til after my gf is outta high school, and most likely til she's outta college or near thereabouts. Depends on when I'd be able to support it :). Doesn't mean I -want- a baby then, just that it wouldn't crush us.

Jozrael, very smart attitude there on the waiting-till-you-can-deal-with-consequences thing. No, seriously, it is pretty refreshing, especially considering we used to get threads like "OHMYGOD IS MY GF PREGNANT?!" when their penises hadn't even come (literally or figuratively) near their girlfriend's vaginas.

Anyway, for what it's worth, I was 24 and blacked out in New Orleans.

Wait what? How the hell would they be preggers then?

I've lost it. Happened very much away from home. I'm not giving many details but right now, I might as well a virgin, I don't really want to "hook-up" or get with anyone... I'm more in a looking for a meaningful, serious relationship mode, that goes beyond sex and doesn't need it to express our love or physical attraction.

Well, I've only told one other soul on the whole planet about this. Maybe I'll share it with a few more.

I clicked on the second to the last option on the poll.

Ok, you can start gossiping now :p

I was 3 months shy of 21. Pity I didnt have much choice in the matter. *LeSigh*

I was 13 and with a boy who was also 13. It was totally unextraordinary and not worth elaborating on. But, I wanted it. I was insatiably curious about sex. Looking back, of course, I realize that I was much too young and that it led to my pursuing other relationships that I definitely was not ready for.

um...i think i was seventeen. was all kinds of in lust/love with a gorgeous girl i was dating. she asked me to go down on her, which i did. one thing led to another, i walked out with my head spinning. man, that was great.

in age 18 i dated this beautiful girl for 4 month.
ohh the fun we did...

Que narrator voice :

In the year of our lord nineteen hundred and ninety nine, under the shadow of a waning moon, a boy was to become a man. It was a quiet night in a restful household, full of both the splendors of a thanksgiving dinner and contentedness of company. The hands of the clock bear north, the light was weak and dim.

In that moment.

Kneko stuck little neko into his gf's hooha and virginity was lost.


the end.

twas the night before christmas (break)
and all through the house
not a creature was stirring
just her undoing her blouse

I wasn't hung, but i still did dare
in hopes that brandi would end up bare
we were both nestled all snug in the bed
while visions of her booty danced above my head

The parents were away, and i'd just donned my cap
we both settled down for a long night's rap.
When she straddled my lap, there was a bit of chatter
we were both nervous, but it didnt' seem to matter

her legs, i parted, in just a flash
and inside i went, deep in the gash
my lips on her breast, pure as fallen snow
made everything feel funny, all down below...

when what to my wondering eyes should appear?
a vibrator, a few toys and i think i saw a reindeer?
she used it daftly, very lively and quick
Again, she was all over my dick

More rapid than eagles, through the course, we came
we screamed, we shouted, she called out my name
"OH GOD OH GOD OH SISTER MARY VIXEN!!!
FUCK ME FUCK ME< OH MY GOD I"M ....god it's hard to rhyme vixen..got it...OH GOD I"M BLITZIN!!

Minutes later, we were both dazed and confused
wondering what happened in that time that we fused
we fondled and more, there in the moonlight

and in the morning, we parted, but my god, what a night
dec 11, 1994, 11 pm :)

funny thing, my ex gf and i got together on dec 11, 2004...10 yr anniversary :)


17 yrs old, she was 16

Chris, that poem was longer than your first time.

probably...

but hey, 30 times at 30 seconds each or 1 time at 15 minutes...about the same....

I find your math fascinating, do you have a newsletter I can subscribe too?

Seems like you and I are holiday people.

I was 14 and it was a tawdry event. Probably should have waited but what are you going to do when you are 14 and a 17-year-old wants you to do her.

But then I have no will power.

I was 18, my girlfriend of a year and a half had just dumped me and my friend's sister offered to have sex with me. Needless to say I accepted.

17 years young.

I was 15. Haven't stopped or slowed down.


I'm pretty sure I've slept with more people than the avarage TFPer... even the above avarage...

wk, i'm pretty sure that's true...

but is it a stat you want to have?

Hah, I was 18 and blacked out in New Orleans. The sex was by my own choice and with the guy of my choosing. I wanted it to happen and I was really curious. Worst sex ever.

Yes. Yes it is.


I'm proud of it.

Whoa. Double-take. Did you see my post (#4 above)?! Crazy coincidence. Though I'm wondering, how did you choose a guy when you were blacked out? I didn't have that luxury. :p For me, being blacked out meant that I have no memory of the entire thing. Zippo. Except for when I started sobering up... probably better that way.

I was dating the guy, and I invited him over to my place. I purposely got very drunk so I could lower my inhibitions but didn't really know my limits with alcohol. I started blacking out during the sex. (I just remember little flashes.) Woke up afterwards cause the alcohol wanted to make an exit. Passed out again after the ...evacuation. Next thing I know, it's morning and he's gone.

In the end I'm fine with how it went down, because I was really uptight in those days.

Oh, and yeah, I saw your post. Maybe New Orleans just brings that out in people? Anyways, I'm sorry you didn't get the choice of picking your own guy. That must have been terrible. :icare:

I was 18, she had just turned 16, both virgins. stayed together for 4 years until her morman parents found out and moved her to Salt lake city to get her away from me.

27.

You know, 25-40 is a huuuuuuge category. :LOL:

20. Felt like I was going to have it forever. then an older friend (29), came down from the city for the weekend when my parents where at the cottage. I seduced her (rather inexpertly) and we did it in the guest room bed. The bed creaked a lot, and everytime it did, she jumped 'cause she had once been walked in on by her old boyfriend's mother while they were doing it. The event seems to have left me with a residual fear of being walked in on, even though it's never happened to me. I didn't really enjoy it the first time;I remember phoning a friend the next day, and asking if I had to do that again! Lost touch with her soon after, but would love to get in touch again.

21 at a Young Liberal Convention. Just wanted to get rid of it and move on.

Fucking Liberals! :lol:

I guess it's true what they say...

Just turned 16 and I think she was the same.

Did it hiding out in the changing room of the apartment building's pool after it closed for the night.

depends on which one you count

I was raped at 16, so "technically" the whoowhoo was invaded then.

I "did it" by choice at 17 lol

loved it so much that I'd bet I'd either be close to Kings record or over it....but it doesnt include him ;)

and no Im not the least bit ashamed of that either

I was 17 when I lost my vaginal virginity, and had been dating the guy for six months. We were together for six months after that, and then I broke up with him. I was ready, I have no regrets, and I've enjoyed it ever since.

Oh, and I'm probably up there with WK and Shani for quantity... these last few months haven't hurt my numbers any. ;)

Yeah, but not a very popular one. 29 for me (damn Catholic guilt), and at WDW to boot. :lol:

25. On the low end of that huge category, but still later than most of you. And I haven't had any since.

I was 14 when my step dad had sex with me. for 1 year prior he had me perform oral on him and visa versa. He convinced me that it was ok but not to tell anyone. Then after the intercourse, he took photos. I eventually told my mom, but she never believed me.

I have never told anyone about this until now...I really feel good getting it out.

19. Had decided to waited, then re-decided to lose it under okay circumstances. They guy and I are still polite friends, I have no regrets, and it taught me a body is not the most important extension of me. My mind matters more (aka. i think loving someone is truly more powerful than sex. whoa, off the soapbox.)

Well hon, get your ass up here and Crystal and I might help get your numbers back up there where they belong! Personally I think my record for quantity is higher than any TFPer here. I am not PROUD of it, but I an not ashamed of it either.

BTW, I lost my virginity at 11, to my 14 year old babysitter(at the time, you couldn't be left home alone if you were younger than 12, and my parent's needed a Valentine Day night out. The sitter had her bf break up with her that morning, and I guess I was just lucky hehe! Been shaggin as often as possible ever since!

EDIT: after reading your post Joan, I will say sorry that you had to go through something so difficult...

Officially, I lost it when I was 9 to my sister who was 14 at the time *yeah I know incest* I was the extremely shy type and confused as all hell and didn't know what I was doing. I vaguely remember her making me play with her clit and such and rub on her breasts until she just stuck it in one day while I was sleep, I woke up to it. It became a "game " to make her cum and she would actually give me money to do it and not to say anything to the parents. She was my primary babysitter whenever I got home from school so we were alone alot. We dont speak much anymore and I don't even think she realizes that I remember that stuff. I think it gave me some social issues that I never really dealt with *shrug* oh im 22 now btw

The first time I voluntarily did it was when I was 17 to my gf, good times. She was shocked because of how freaky I was >.> Thats about the only good thing that came from my previous experience , I became a sex freak. And now I have sex on the regular with my current gf of 5 years ^_^