Most kinky things you do?
 

Okay so abaya started a thread about how no one talks about the very kinky things they do anymore. Maybe this will provide a starting point for discussions.

The topic is this: what is the kinkiest thing you have done? or if you don't want to admit that, what is the kinkiest thing you will confess to?

Personally, I am new to the whole kinky thing. The most kinky thing I've done is probably dp via a hand and I enjoy my boyfriend scratching me (mostly on my back). I have high aspirations though and hopefully I'll get some new things under my belt pretty soon.

Well? Have at it guys and gals! :thumbsup:

Uh...slight bondage? Nothing crazy like whips and chains, not for lack of wishfulness, for lack of a willing girlfriend xD. But yeah you know, handcuffs, rope...that sorta thing...usually was only oral and stuff anyways when doing it but still, pretty kinky IMHO.

I think this is an important distinction, and I thank you for making it (and for starting this thread). I don't know if we can be as ambitious as to expect people (including myself) to confess "most" kinkiest thing done... but how about just ANY "kinky" thing (by your own judgement)?

There's no measurement of kinkiness here, folks. What have you been exploring in your own sex life, what kind of boundaries are you pushing, how are you evolving by your standards? Whatever you feel comfortable discussing (including whether or not your partner is comfortable with you bringing it up; a consideration for myself).

For me, right now I feel okay talking more about the restraints. Since we don't have bedposts, we got under-the-bed ones (they attach under the mattress). I enjoy being tied in the spread-eagle position, and having a blindfold on while my husband surprises me.

My husband also likes being tied up with the restraints (they have soft, velcro cuffs, which are easier to deal with than metal cuffs), and we have a leather-covered paddle that we smack each other with, mostly on the bare ass. I am learning to smack him in ways that he enjoys, though it's hard for me to feel okay doing it, just yet. That whole "nice girl" thing is hard to overcome, even though I am extremely aggressive in non-bedroom activities.

So as I wrote in the old thread, I'm going to post about stuff I want to do in the future. Hey, it's kinky to me.

So, in the future I want to be tied down on a 4 post bed, limps totally spread. I want my SO to give me head for a long, long time. I want to be begging her to finish me, but she won't. The tease also involves hot wax, nails (the ones on the fingers :P), a really mild whip (hey, maybe by that point I'll be able to take more) and a vibrator in my ass.

I'd also like her to take a strap-on to me.

On her side, I plan on doing plenty of things with her pussy while she's tied down - rounded icicles (frozen from inside water bottles is an idea ;)) and anything else I can think of at the time. She's opposed to anal on her at all costs, which limits my options (;_;) but I think I can be creative. Who knows, maybe she'll change her mind by then ^_^. If not, s'ok.

Jozrael: strap-ons can be really fun. For me, I wasn't willing to do anal until he tried anal (via strap on)... it turns out we both enjoy it, on occasion.

Spoiler: It's a toss up between blood play and ménage à trois.
Blood play: I got into this with one of my earlier girlfriends when I was 16. She was a bit of a goth and had a particular fascination with vampire legend and lore. To play in to that, I set up a few encounters where we played parts (after being tested, of course), her of vampire, me of victim. It was quite fun. Since then I've done it more than a few times. There is something visceral about blood, and it's intruduction into sensual playing can be quite invigorating.
Ménage à trois: 18ish, dating this gorgeous woman, she brought it up. Frankly, I'd never really considered getting involved in anything like that up until that point. It was, um, interesting. I've always been about pairing up, and the addition of another member, even though the idea was to be brought together in a single encounter and to not have deeper feelings involved, it didn't feel right. Sure, it was fun, but it served to weaken my relationship with my girlfriend. She offered to do it again when she realized that I had been a bit different since the encounter, but that let me know that she wasn't on the same page as me.

I think I'm really going to enjoy them ^_^. Then again, since coming here I've been fairly open to imaging things I wouldn't be comfortable with and seeing if I really would like it. As a kid, I mildly experimented with anal (finger here and there) but stopped cause I thought it'd turn me gay.

...xDDDDDD. Now that I'm comfortable with being bi-curious/bisexual (who the hell cares :)) I'm much more open to saying that the thought of my gf going at me in the ass turns me on more than almost anything else :).

EDIT: Ooers! Thanks Will for the idea with bloodplay. That's another thing that interests me, but I don't think the gf will ever spring for it :). S'ok, always cool to imagine ^_^. I think I'd like biting and being bitten (well, I -know- I like those, but I mean to the point of drawing blood), but who knows, the pain might be too much for me ^_^. I think I'd like being bitten more, always have been a tad masochistic.

Spoilers eh? Blood play, something I have tried, didn't like. Inherent fear of spilling any blood since a nasty emo-ish problem I had a few years back.

I like it when ktspktsp bites me in the neck when we're doggie-style, though he hasn't done it hard enough to draw blood. It makes me feel pretty animal-like and held down, which I enjoy.

Threesomes... we talk a lot about it, and I would love to try it. But, as you say Will, I am afraid that it might not be for us, and could weaken our relationship (I am not at the point, if I ever will be, of sex being simply sex... it's always an emotional thing for me). I wonder sometimes if it's just something you either try once and like it, or try once and find out that it destroys the relationship... I guess I am not ready to make that distinction yet.

I don't think I'd ever like a threesome either. The thought has occurred to me and is pretty hot in some ways, but I -know- it would weaken our relationship, and that's not for me. We're each the only one for the other, a third person would just be sex, and neither of us can or want to view sex as just sex. It's just a selfish fantasy on my part because I dearly want to give a blowjob to someone else ;). Ah wells, I can live without (and this is what I -want-), but it's still a nice thought :).

Ah now see, a threesome would be hot if a couple Swedish lesbians walked up and were like, "Hey, you want to sleep wit us, yah?". No obligation to fulfill except not prematurely cumming in my pants at the site of them. That would be cool.

Well, I'm sorta majorly the relationship type, I'd never be able to have sex without commitment. Am I in the vast minority here for being like that?

Ah, but you could ask your gf to wear a strap on, and give HER a blowjob... it's not the same thing, but at least you get to experience it in some form.

Well, actually, that's the plan. But I sorta wish I was giving someone pleasure...it's not really the fact that I want it in my mouth (though I do), it's that I want to be the giver of that SPECIFIC form of pleasure. I'm more of a giver than a taker, generally, though I've gotten worrrrrlds better at balancing that out, and blowjobs = the most intimate thing I can think of. I suppose eating her out is just as good, but -I- can't experience it or really imagine it, so it doesn't seem as intimate to me. Hence, why my #1 giving dream is to give a blowjob.

Its not that I'm not a relationship type of guy, its just that right now I have lost faith in most people I wouldn't mind having a relationship with. So alas, Swedish lesbians will have to do. Or Japanese lesbians.

My little bro is on here.

Well, at the moment I am fully in a relationship and I have been for quite some time. I'm pretty sure you aren't in a vast minority but I personally have experiences sex without attachments and it is possible for me.

I like the idea of a three some but I wish I would have tried it before I met my current boyfriend because I am not willing to try it with people that I'm close to.

As far as bloodplay goes, that doesn't push my buttons. I have been scratched and bitten pretty good (sometimes drawing blood) and I enjoy that alot though.

My boyfriend told me to give up on the idea of a strap on. Hahaha, he's not comfortable with me going there yet I am working on it though.

Anyone actually have a swing? or ever used one? That sounds difficult to figure out but at the same time kinda neat. :cool:

Ah, I didn't realize. I need to stop thinking most peoples siblings are either computer illiterate or eleven years old.

It's hard to know what's considered kinky. We won't do bloodplay--I have a (distant, but still within memory) history of self injury when depressed, so anything that involves blood is out. I'm likewise squicked by any watersports or scat, so that's out.

So I'm not sure. Bondage? We do that on a regular basis, always with me on bottom. It can be what I'd call vanilla bondage, the spread eagled on the bed, blindfolded, and often gagged. Sometimes it involves minor inflictions of pain (I'm mildly masochistic) such as nipple clamps or nipple screws, use of hot sauce, heat or cold, spanking, being restrained in frustratingly uncomfortable (though not dangerous) positions for extended periods of time. The most effective positions are those that are just a little uncomfortable, but allow enough movement that it seems like I should be able to get comfortable, but can't. A karada shibari (full body rope harness) attached to a ceiling hook and tied off out of reach is deliciously frustrating. It allows free movement of the arms and hands, but restricts you to a very small area of movement, and if there isn't a chair in reach, there's no way to rest.

We also do non-bondage domination, role playing, cosplay.

I'd guess that about two thirds of what we do is vanilla cunnilingus, with the rest being variations of the more exotic stuff.

Jozrael: I know what you mean about giving a blow job. It's the only kind of sex with a man that I've ever enjoyed.

That sounds like alot of fun. :thumbsup:

*going to plot*

I'm pretty mild, I've always wanted to do light bondage but it never panned out with any of my girls. I want to be both the tie-er and the tie-ee.

The hottest kinky thing I've done was with my ex. I've ALWAYS loved the rain. I used to live in the desert where it only rained once or twice in an entire year. So when thunderstorms hit I have to go outside and just enjoy them. My ex knew this, and had an upstairs balcony with a roof over it. So it was late at night, and we were fooling around (naked at this point), when the first thunder of a stormfront hit. She looked me in the eyes, and I grabbed her hand and walked her out to the balcony. It was a hot humid Texas night when the front hit, with a cool breeze (but not cold) from the front and beautiful lightning everywhere. Here's the kinky part, it overlooks a cauldisack (sp?) and any of our neighbors could have easily seen us. We started in the lotus position (sitting up, her legs around my waist), and as the storm grew in intensity so did we. By the end of it the rain was pouring and I had her bent over the railing where anyone driving by would have noticed. I don't think anyone did, but I'm pretty sure her neighbors would have heard our noises.

Isnt kinky kind of relevant? I mean whats "kinky" to someone might be perfectly normal to Dave and I right?

I mean, we do blood play, bondage-including whips, floggers chains, restraints, knives etc, we have friends we also so that with. Dave loves for me to fuck him with our strap on, he likes to watch me with other women, we have MMFs...

to us thats our normal sex life...if thats kinky to "you" then there is a partial listing of our kinks lol

Sometimes I like to have sex with the lights on.

Shani, you were the inspiration for a lot of ktspktsp's and my initial exploration, couple years back when I first joined... you helped us feel really okay around here. And I seriously remember thinking, "DAMN, this place is kinky... I have a lot to learn!" I remember you posted a picture of your coffin-shaped "toy box" and it was awe-inspiring. We got our own small box and started collecting... now we need a bigger one! :thumbsup: Just wanted to express my gratitude to you.

I would have to say that my horizons are constantly being broadened. What was once extrememly kinky to me is now part of the norm. I have been dp'd with a dildo, tied up and teased, "raped", used a butt plug on my man and myself, had threesomes, etc. However, the list of things I want to try is still quite long! *grin*

Here is the core of the issue (thanks Shanni).

What you do regularly is "Normal", and what you don't do is "Kinky".

Things that form a part of normal foreplay, or even just passing teasing with my wife have been totally off limits as "way too kinky" with earlier GFs.

When I was a teen, vaginal intercourse was "Normal" - and doggy was "Kinky".

Ten years later and oral sex was normal, but anal was kinky

Now anal is normal, but bondage is kinky (by which I mean "in general society as I perceive it" rather than "in my life and relationships" :lol:)

As teenage girls seem to be much more prepared to give guys BJs these days, I'm wondering how long it will be before they'll suck a cock at the drop of a hat, but if asked to masturbate it will go wild about how odd their guy is. :p

lol Im very glad I could help:

Dave is in the process of designing me a flogger/toy board so we dont have to dig thru the coffin anymore....he just cant decide if he wants to make a bigger coffin with eye hooks to hang everything, or a flat board that attaches to the wall in the basement hehehehe

I don't know, I think what I do "regularly" is have the ol' in-and-out, penis-in-vagina sex... that's the "standard" that most people mean when they talk about "sex," right? But, like Gilda, for me that takes place a majority of the time... but not *all* the time.

So for me, "kinky" is not something I don't do... it just means anything beyond what I described above, and it takes place a small fraction of the time that we have sex. But I classify it as kinky because it's stuff that I believe a significant number of people might feel "squicky" about, as Gilda said... and that's valid.

Now, as for the things that I absolutely will not do... I would plagiarize Dan Savage here and call those "a fetish too far." And maybe that's what people talk about here, when they describe what would be too extreme for them... whatever their own limits are. I don't think "a fetish too far" really changes for most people, though. "Kinks" evolve, but absolute lines don't change.

Thoughts?

Wow, that's awesome. So you mean, like a tool board in the garage... the kind my (carpenter) dad had for hanging up his hammer, straight edge, and all the rest? Definitely sounds more organized than our current system of a heap of silicone shapes overflowing from a box... :lol:

Btw, how would you keep that a secret from your daughter (is she allowed in the basement)?

Sorry - I left out a "regularly" in the "kinky is what you don't do".

Shanni needs to get dave to paint the outlines on the board, so he knows where to put everything back. Get the pre-drilled pegboard that they use in tool shops, and wire hooks! :D

Nope I dont keep things secret from her, while I wouldnt leave virbrators and dildos out and about, she is very familiar with my floggers and paddles and knows Mama likes to be "spanked"

actually it would be a little more fancy than a tool board lol Im talking poplar wood stained a red mahagony (sp?) and varnished to a shine hehehehe

Alright, I can get behind that... or, get someone behind me on that... anyway.

Given the context, that actually sounds... sexy. :suave:

Wow, that's cool. I'd love to hear how the whole birds & bees talk came up with her, sometime!

I agree with ShaniFaye that what is kinky is completely relative to the observer. Personally, I don't think I am very kinky, but others, like my mother for instance, think that what I like is very kinky. And she doesn't even know everything...so, eh.

My current relationship definitely has overtones of D/s but we are very informal with it. Neither of us are particularly moved by rituals or role-playing...well, maybe the role-playing a little. We don't use the terms Master and sub very often, occasionally he'll call me his sub. I like it, but usually he calls me kitty or pusskins...unless things get intense and he calls me much more colorful things. :) I like to be controlled and dominated during sex. It's something that I've struggled with and tried to ignore for most of my life, but have now decided to accept and enjoy.

We have played around with different restraints..a collar, cuffs and spreader bars. (Note: avoid velcro cuffs if you also have a stocking fetish...splurge on the leather ;)) He has a flogger which I like and a riding crop which I love. He's also been known to spank me with a spatula, lol. Basically, he likes to bind and blindfold me and then just do whatever strikes his fancy. Which most often includes the use of butt plugs (and any other toy he might have picked up in the interim between our get togethers) and the general abuse of my body to his heart's content. Accompanied by filthy, dirty comments about my body and sexual character. As odd as it may sound, I find all of this very relaxing and pleasant and afterwards I am walking on air. If this is kinky then I am kinky. But I know that to some what we do is very vanilla. It's all in the perception.

All of our sex is not like this, though. We do have normal sex, be it rough or gentle, every position imaginable. We love anal sex, something neither of us had done much previously but enjoy immensely together. Oral sex, of course. I particularly enjoy being grabbed by the hair and "forced" which he loves, too.

We've talked about bringing another woman into the picture, but so far it's just been fantasy like talk. That's another thing, since we are so far apart most of the time, we do a lot of fantasy exchange over the internet. Not so much cybersex because there's always at least one kid in my house at all times and I just can't get comfortable with that. We're not a "locked door" kind of house. But the exchanging of fantasies is how we embarked on the road that we're on. He wanted to know what turned me on and when I opened up and told him about my submissive fantasies, he was very eager to learn more about it and go there with me. So I sent him my Gloria Brame books, Different Loving and Come Hither and it's been snowballing ever since. Every time we get together the D/s scenarios get a little more intense. We've also talked about doing a 24/7 Master/slave scenario on one of my longer visits to his home.

I don't know. I think our kink is an evolving thing. I'll be sure to keep ya'll posted. :lol:

I take it you don't mean that in the kinky sense? ;) hehe.

I like the spatula idea, to be honest. I find it difficult to really get turned on by black leather, etc... but the idea of using household tools sounds like a lot of fun. We'll have to see...

I ask this half in jest, but only halfway. If you've seen the movie "Bachelor Party", Tom Hanks spends an inordinate amount of time chasing his fiancee around with a hand-cranked eggbeater. I've always wondered what the hell that was for? Maybe it's just underlining my lack of sexual imagination, but all I can think of involves painful pinching and tearing of skin. Is that just the joke or did I miss something somewhere?

Also, I was once at a bachelor party where the bachelor used a dildo attached to a reciprocating saw on a stripper/hooker and later one attached to a cordless drill on her coworker. While there's questionable sexual pleasure involved in that particular occassion, I know there's an apparently thriving genre of machine porn out there.

My personal favourite is slight bondage, both being dominant and slave. Depends on what is being done and if it's being done by the right person. Another personal favourite of mine (when my chest is shaved) is wax. I love it. I've tried the blood thing too, it was interesting to say the least and it definately was with the right girl, really good time there.

Definately not a ton of posters here, seems like some people are a little scared to post their most intimate secrets.

I agree with all of you that kinky is a relative term. I'm not trying to deny that but I think that people should feel free to share what is kinky to them. I don't think that there are really any restrictions on a thread like this and I realize that the question that I posed wasn't really the right one but you guys got the idea!

I'm getting some good ideas from this thread. Dominant/submissive games are awesome, and I am looking at some more toys for use in that type of thing. \o/

LOL, no. That idea doesn't do much for me, and luckily, I don't think he'd enjoy it either.

I know what you mean. I'm not particularly turned on by leather. Well, I take that back a little, the smell is a big turn-on. But leather as a sort of BDSM symbolic thing, doesn't move me. And yes, the spatula thing is a lot of fun. Just use the kind with holes so that you get that great swishy sound. Plus it leaves red imprints of them on your cheeks afterwards. :suave:

There is a book and I can't think of the name of it right now, that has a lot of ideas for using common household items for BDSM play. Maybe someone else here knows it?

How do you do the wax thing? Is it not hot enough to burn you, or is there some special method? Is it a sensation thing, or just plain pain?

I must admit, though there aren't a ton of posts here (yet!), I'm enjoying each contribution. This is the TFP I know and love... and it's really cool to hear about people's preferences. Thank you for sharing, all. :thumbsup:

And I don't know if it was ShaniFaye's comment or something else from being the daughter of a carpenter... but I'm starting to think that having a bona-fide carpenter's tool belt, loaded with various accoutrements of play, could be my next thing. I find the idea very sexy; will have to check with the hubby. :D

Don't use scented candles for it. The wax burns at a higher temperature, which means it's a lot hotter than it otherwise would be and it makes a difference. I'm not a fan of it, but to each his/her own.

I've heard that, too. I've never done the wax thing, either, but it definitely sounds hot. *groan*

hot wax is great :)

but I echo the scented candle thing...evening knowing it was hotter we tried it once just to see....big mistake lol

Can melted wax (scented or unscented) cause scalding / burns?

they also make waxes that melt at lower temperatures, precisely for this type of thing. or so i've been told. its sort of like the parafin-based waxes that they use sometimes for sports injuries. i'm sure they have all kinds of nifty colors and so forth.

I think "kinky" is one of those terms like "slutty" which are just too subjective to even really mean anything. As we know (or have discovered through this thread and others) people have wildly different ideas on what kink even is. Is it kinky when a boy and a girl try anything other than missionary with the lights off while married, or is it plain and ordinary when two people put knives up each other's asses? Completely subjective, and on some level I resent the implication that one is somehow better or more accepting or more enlightened than the other.

That being said, sex with restraints on my partner and ice cubes in my hands would be the most involved with extra materials I've ever gotten. I seem to find the ones that like being tied up for some reason, and I don't mind indulging that one. :)

* Lotsa nasty role-play (common theme being older male in position of authority having his way with innocent young thing....Not the most original stuff in the world, but hey, it works for me! It's weird, but I even did this in my first relationship, when I was only 14. I didn't even know the term "role play," just knew that I was kinda crazy and it was hott.)

* Occasional play with bondage, gags, nipple clamps, phallic toys...

* Corporal punishment: spanking, crops, belts, straps, etc...I'm not really a lifestyle sub, but I do like this a lot when I get it.

* Semi-public humiliation (e.g. I once accompanied a new BF to a New Years Eve party and somehow found myself, in the hours before dawn, shackled to a loft bed, wearing nothing but black thigh-high stockings, stilettos, & some strategically placed clothespins, receiving a sound strapping from my new BF's ex-girlfriend's boyfriend who happened to be an experienced dominant, while the rest of the party bore witness to my chastening...)

* "That'll go on your Permanent Record, Missy!": i.e., Appeared in a couple of professionally produced fetish flicks (bondage and flogging with male dom, some girl-girl action but no penetration...)...Once bound and gagged with tube socks and anally raped by psychotic BF's best friend while said BF ran the videocamera...(and this BF was so seriously crazy that I later lived in fear that he would send the tape to my Dad or something...)

* Assorted threesomes and foursomes. Too many to count, lotsa different circumstances...(One memorable occasion: At the Rio in Vegas, a threesome with my Italian-American stripclub-owner boss and a beautiful biracial 19-year-old virgin...)

*Outdoor sex and PDN's (Public Displays of Nastiness): I used to be more into this when I was younger, fucking in public parks, in nightclubs, on parked cars in stranger's driveways late at night, along riverbeds by the sides of parkways, in Macy's storerooms, in cemeteries, in empty commuter trains in Grand Central Station, fooling around behind couches in department store living room displays, etc...I've mostly outgrown this phase...Although, come to think of it, just this past weekend I got fingerfucked on Rodeo Drive...just for the bragging rights, really.:p

* Mutual masturbation. I love this.

* Ice and wax are always fun...

* Cumslut Stuff. I'm not crazy enough to let a bunch of strange men spooge on me, but it's HOT in fantasy....In RL, with SO, I just loooove being cummed on, made to feel it/hold it/taste it/lick it/swallow it....oh god. Cumswapping with another girl in a threesome is waaay hot, too.

* Worked in sex industry for about 13 years. I don't know if this qualifies as "kinkiness," but I think you do have to be a little off to feel comfortable in nothing but a pair of 6" platform spike-heeled shoes and a rhinestone choker in a room full of 50 fully clothed male strangers...


Hmmm...did I leave anything out?


Never done the watersports thing, but I like it in porn; would partake if I was with someone who was really into it...

Hey, you asked. :)

Valentina, I think in this thread, so far you take the cake. Wow.

I second that.:thumbsup:

Kewl...So what do I win? :suave:

Oh. I forgot choking. Not like hardcore asphyxiation or anything, but a little light choking, with hand or belt or collar around the throat. Along with hairpulling, hand over the mouth, other suggestions of coercion...

As for bloodplay, I don't really get into it. I was a bit of a cutter as a kid, and so I've done stuff that was sorta like bloodplay, but it wasn't really sexual. More like what you do when you're 18 & crazy & in love with a brilliant English goth chick who wants to be a vampire, or a stripper who's rebelling against her born-again family by listening to Ozzy and calling herself a Satanist. You know, that sort of thing. Ahhh, the folly of youth.... :D

The candles made for sensation play are usually soy based. They burn at a much lower temperature and the melted wax serves a purpose as a warm massage oil.

I've never been badly burned by any types of wax, the most that has happened is a red spot for a couple minutes. I've been burned worse but many other things. At the same time, alot of people find normal wax candles too painful to be enjoyable so the soy based ones are a good alternative. They're also supposed to burn cleaner. I'm pretty sure goodvibes.com sells some :)

The kinkiest thing I have done is a three some with my girlfriend and a black female stranger at a private home with a bedroom set up in a large living room with 30 people watching. it was amazing!!!!

After reading some of the previous comments, I fear the various 3-somes and 4-somes I've been involved in would be regarded as pretty ordinary!

Nothing is ordinary here, post whatever you've done that you feel is kinky. :thumbsup:

Tie me up, or tie me down. Cock rings and feathers: lately it's been pretty staid and (ahem) vanilla. I like silk for the tying and leather for the rings; top
or bottom are equally good.
Back in the day, though, (Ah youth!) there were many groups, triangles both ways, and numerous near-anonymous encounters. Good memories. I remember one road trip in particular that involved a two hour drive and some bondage. Good stuff arose from the uncertainty for me - go figure.
I'm saying it again: Ah, youth!

Yeah, I forgot about the pleasure in dressing up!

Does getting a hand job under the table in a bar count? My wife characterized that as "wildly exciting" for her!
& sex in the park! It's seeming now I could go on and on, but I think spontaneous is rearing its ugly but strangely attractive head again.

Happy Valentine's day, everybody. Hope y'all get some!

wow, most of this sounds way 'kinkier' than anything we have done, though there is one we tried that isn't mentioned.

Since I have an extreme nylon fetish, we bought a large pair of pantyhose and I wore them. Then she stroked and sucked me through it. I actually highly recommend this if the feel of nylon drives you nuts (as it does me).

We both had intense orgasms with this, so it has become a recurring theme, once in a while.

I guess most people would just think that weird...

That's not wierd, I like the idea and I may steal it from you. :thumbsup:

I need to get my wife on this board....maybe things could get a little more exciting..

well, I've never been with someone to kinky before, however, I'll try just about anything once, so long as its relatively sanitary (shower before the RJ and were good) and relatively safe (Raw paraffin, not bees wax). I'm not really grooving to blood play, if a SO really, really wanted to, I'd have to chat with my GP first. pain, I do like pain, I've been tasered, not on a dare, just because i felt like it, and it was the most amazing day of my life, it felt like i just drank 10 cups of coffee the entire day. and a shave and a trim, down south, for fun and for hygiene.

My husband and I went shopping at Home Depot the other day, and I picked up the thinnest wood doweling I could find (VERY thin, like a switch). I'm not using it to its fullest extent of course... that would be something like caning, which we're not interested in. But it leaves delicious red slashes across his ass (when I've tied him up and blindfolded him), which we both find very fun. :thumbsup:

Who knew a sex toy could be so cheap? $0.88, I believe. :D

Slim Jim Beef Jerky (not the round meat sticks) work really well too :) .94 cents for the giant ones at the local gas station

These are great to read. Thanks for sharing everyone.

Right now the kinkiest thing I've probably ever done is have my wife give me an enema, put a plug in, and then have me fuck her. That was REALLY nice. I would like to work up to having her peg me.

But there are a whole lot of fantasies running around in my head. There are so many things that I read about and think "Hey, I wanna try that!" I haven't found anything my wife isn't willing to try yet. I'm so lucky to have found someone that doesn't freak out when I share what I've been dreaming up in my head.

i've always liked public activities. picnic tables. pressed up against office windows on the tenth floor, and car BJ's with this twist - while she's driving ...

I consider myself a worldly woman, but a BJ while SHE'S driving....I'd really like to hear how that one works to where its not a danger to everyone around you?

I really like stripper shoes, not the clear ones (they look cheap to me) but the white/black/red etc ones. So my gf wears them when we have sex and she gets me to hold onto the heel bit of the shoe while having sex with her doggie style.

Sometimes, he puts his penis into my vagina...

DAMN woman, get that weird shit outa this forum!

My ex-girlfriend really like getting slapped. Hard. Accross the face. I wasn't into it at first, but but as it went on, the domination aspect was quite a turn. Of course she hit back too, and that was fun. I am sure if I could've done without serious damage, she would've wanted a fist. Thinking back on it, it's quite twisted given her issues, and I haven't been drawn to do it with other women.

Me and my girlfriend currently enjoy some mild anal play, mainly fingering. Though I've been tempted to perform some annalingus on her.

That's about it.

mmmmm, gawd, I love ir when he does that ;)

Mardi Gras a few years ago we all piled into a bed (six of us) and did whatever we wanted or went as far as each person was okay with. I hooked up with my first lesbian (which was not an wonderful experience.... she was a biter) as well as discovered my good guy friend's slight homosexuality which was fun to watch/partake in.

My friend's boyfriend did this at a party a couple months ago, I think he had fun but he forgot one very important thing. Don't leave out the girlfriend! Haha, it was all smoothed over after a couple days. Anywho, that sounds like alot of fun, even to just watch.

My big kink is I'm really into facials, for me there's nothing hotter than blowing all over my wife's pretty little face while she smiles and begs me for it.

I've been with a woman who was into that, I thought it was weird at first too. She liked to be verbally abused while I did it, like 'dirty bitch', 'fucking whore', etc. She was pretty screwed up but dominating her like that was HOT. I don't get the urge to do it very often, when I do my wife will roleplay it with me provided there's no real hitting. She's a saint. With a black halo.

I think any story will come out pale in comparison to what Valentina said. :bowdown:

I used to play a lot of pussy games with my ex girlfriend, and we took pictures and some movies while doing it. The one that ranks on top of the list was the time when I picked up one of her sexy 5" stiletto shoes and put the heel of the shoe in her pussy. She held her lips wide open while I slowly slipped a plastic chopstick in and out of her urethra. It drove her insane. She said she had the uncontrollable urge to pee but her bladder was empty but the whole thing made her so horny that she told me to take them out of her and she damn near raped me. :D

I did take some pictures of her pussy while I had things in it. I don't know if I am allowed to post any pics here or even a link. If not I'll try and post it in the wayside forum.

We were also pretty big on breath play. We had tried choking each other during sex with our hands, ropes, or belts.

I hogtied her one time and put one of her toys in her pussy and masturbated her to a most voilent orgasm. (I do have a picture of this one as well)

First, unless she explicitly agrees to it, then no, you're not allowed to post it. Second, if you do get permission, then it would go in Tilted Exhibition, which you don't currently have access to.

There are no faces in the pics, just body parts. I would think that it would protect everyone's privacy.

Sounds very much like questionable content to me... Best to stay on the safe side :)

Even so, if she doesn't give you an okay on that, you shouldn't be posting it.

I saw a vision
might have been an accident
Except it wasn't

I once banned my brother for being underage, there was an account using my IP that wasn't me and there was one computer connected directly to the modem. He's over 18 now and a very low activity member. He'd have fun with this thread, he loves bragging about the time he and his ex had sex on a church altar.

One kinky thing, well kind of, was watch a full porn movie and try to replicate each action...didn't quite work out, having sex for a full 20 mins is really hard to do!

Another time, I was sleeping at my gf's dorm room with her roommate and her current bf. The beds were pushed together for more room in the dorm, and the girls were in the middle. They decided it would be cool to play with each other's breasts in front of us to get us hot...it worked. They soon both ended up giving us oral.

The following night, we...being gentlemen, decided to return the favor and give them oral. Well, that soon turned into sex, as my gf can't take the stimulation without actual intercourse soon therafter. There was no swapping or anything, but overall it was really fun.

I have had a threesome with 2 Jamaican men (which i don;t regret). i really knew nothing about them except their first names and ages. they were good friends with each other though... also, i enjoy having an audience, and also videotaping it. one thing i would love to do but never have would be to have sex with a transvestite male, but one who actually looks like a beautiful woman, with a penis. i don't know WHERE i'll find someone for that one :(

Well, let me take up some space at the bottom of the curve. Kinkiest thing the wife and I have managed was to (by hand) bring each other to orgasm in a movie theater. She says that if we were in the top row, she would have mounted me, but alas, we were in the middle. Oh well, wasn't crowded, the movie stunk, and we were horny. We still smile about it 7 years later.

Otherwise, some toy play and role playing is about it. (Hmm, I wonder when "Danielle" is coming for another visit?)

Well we are a kinky couple so read on....
 

Might have to do with age but we have tried quite a lot and even have a room in our flat for playing with chains and everything :D

We are both bisexual but slightly leaning towards straight (i.e. around a 2 on the Kinsey scale).

So most kinky you choose ;)
-BDSM: we are not in to extreme pain, uro, scat, blood, animals or underage.. but have tried quite a lot of the rest
-Swinging/Swapping/Threesomes: couples and singles ;)
-Outdoor and Public sex
-We are on quite a couple of pictures (have over 100 in various sites on the net) though always with hidden face
- We will soon be filming our own home adventures

Haha, that's awesome, a separate room for play would be great but I already need one for a studio so I can't afford it. Welcome to the TFP too! :thumbsup:

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Mine doesn't feel very kinky at all compared to some of the stuff I've been reading in here, most of you are far pervier than I am. Respect to the whole kinky lot of you for just doing what you want and not letting inhibitions get in the way of good fun (so long as it is good fun).

Anyway, my kinkiest thing was when a gay male mate asked if he and his boyfriend could give me a blow job. I said no, because I'm not gay. They used to ask me often and obviously I wouldn't be writing this if I hadn't one day said yes.
Now the thing is that ever since this happened I have been wondering if I am bi not straight because they gave me the best blow job I have ever had by far (I've never had a blow job from 2 women though).

Maybe that's not really classed as kinky, just a gay encounter. But I don't fancy men at all so it feels like a very kinky thing to me.

I would pretty much admit to anything, but its very vanilla for me (though not from lacking on my end).

Some light chocking, toys, and a bit of anal but thats about it. some tying up and down. Had sex in the middle of the University of Minnesota Quad though. That was fun.

Hmmm, whats next?

I'd like Sex underwater.











It's kinky for me.

My roommate in college and I used to share a bedroom, and occasionally, we'd end up fucking our girlfriends in the same room at the same time. No big deal. Most of the action took place safely under the confines of the covers with no real visual stimulus to be had.

I was the only member of the household (three male roommates and one of their live-in girlfriends) who didn't drink to the point of blacking out. I'd have a beer or two, or a few screwdrivers, but nothing like my roomies; they'd drink until the point of retardation.

Anyway, once in a while, my roommate's older sister would come to visit for a week or two. She and I would often be the only sober people left in the house around 2:00 AM, and we ended up fucking quite often. Usually on the living room floor. Once, my roommate passed out on the couch, so we went upstairs to my bedroom and were going at it like rabbits. All of a sudden, the door gets kicked in, and her brother stumbles in, still drunk. She freezes in mid-bounce on my lap. He staggers across the room, glances briefly at his half-naked sister perched on my dong, and sprawls out across his bed. We sit still for a few moments, until it's obvious he's passed out. Then, she starts grinding me again. It was way too exciting for me, and I popped in about 60 seconds.

Nowadays, I'm married and my wife is starting to lose her sex drive a bit. On the rare occasion she does get all hot and bothered, she likes her hair pulled and her ass slapped. We've experimented with some light bondage and we liked it, but most of the time it's just too much of a hassle. It's much easier to just haul off and smack her one. ;-)