Snowballing
 

This is inspired by the discussion in the Ladies' Lounge thread "Spit or Swallow?" about guys having done this or enjoying it. I did a search and couldn't find anything else on it. For those of you not in the know, snowballing refers to the act of swapping semen between you and a partner after ejaculation. Its called a snowball first obviously because it's whitish blob, and second because as you swap it back and forth, more spit is added to the blob and it grows, like how you can make a giant ball of snow by rolling it around and packing on more. :lol:

In the fine TFP tradition I'll start off, I've never done it but it sounds pretty hot. I have tasted my own semen on occasion and it's not so bad; I can think of several alcoholic beverages off the top of my head that are worse. :lol: But we could start a whole separate thread on that...

Also, let me take the opportunity to encourage people to post and elaborate on their opinions since I know polls tend to cause people to click a few times and be done with it.

I dont like weird gooey textures, I wont eat fat on meat, dont eat eggs...snowballing would probably cause me to puke everywhere.

never done it, no real want too, but i guess if i expect a woman to put it in her mouth, i guess i have to do it too... if they really want me too.

I'm one of those people that will try most anything once... haven't tried it, have no desire to try it, but if my gf wanted to try it, I guess I would try it once. If I hated it, then no dice for a second time.

I've done it... was kinda surprised on me...

doesnt bother me... doesnt do anything at all for me tho

I don't even particularly like kissing my wife after she's sucked on me. I don't know why. I am open to almost anything, usually, but this one just sounds gross to me.

I haven't done it. If she wanted to, I would do it. It's not a big deal.

I'm in the "haven't done it, but wouldn't rule it out" camp. It's not something that really appeals to me, but I am still curious. Can't hurt to try.

-Tamerlain

Done it, loved it...the guy didnt much like it though. I'm of the mindset that if I'm tasting it, you should be too :p

I'm more of the mindset that if it's my sperm, they came from me anyways.... now if it was another guys stuff, i think I'd have to pass on that particular opportunity

Dave and I do this, its a big turn on for him

I'm not really even a huge fan of making out without either both of us having brushed our teeth or having gum, etc. Then again... I have a weird teeth/mouth fetish, not so much in the way that a girls mouth turns me on... but more so in the way that crooked teeth, etc are a huge turn off. That said, if a girl goes down on me, Im more than willing to kiss her right afterwards even though I can still taste myself, its weird, and I'd prefer that she had time to rinse her mouth or something, but if she just went down on me, who am I to say that she doesn't deserve a kiss. I think I'd definetly have to rule out snowballing.... a girl decided that I should taste myself one time, the taste wasn't great, but the texture/gooieness about made me gag.

It doens't sound too appealing but i'll try anything once especially if the thought of it turned her on. :) I don't have any problem kissing or going down on my GF after i've came. She likes it when she can taste a hint of both of us on my lips as we kiss so I guess this isn't too far removed from that.

In a different aspect, I haven't of course done it, and don't care to, but I will admit that watching two girls snowballing MY stuff is pretty hot to watch!

I've never done this "snowballing" per se, but I have kissed a guy after giving him head while still having cum in my mouth. It's no big deal either way. I get more turned on just by the kissing than I do the fact he is tasting his own cum.

eh, meh...

Oh man... I don't know how my husband feels about this, but I just want that stuff gone as quickly as possible. I don't mind swallowing, and it's not the taste, it's the texture that gets to me- like lukewarm watery rice pudding... grosses me out a little bit. So, count me out of snowballing!

Damn, for all the options there you still left out "done it, not a big deal. Don't care if it does/doesn't happen again"

no dice for the pigglet. i don't particularly care for jello, gelatin, or casseroles. i find the idea of passing my semen back and forth with a chick to be mildly nauseating. it's one thing to have some remnants after oral sex; its a whole different ball game to be passing jizz back and forth.

well I know but options are limited, i'd say make up your mind whether you liked it or not, or if you REALLY didn't care then vote for "loved it"; the options are exaggerated anyway :lol: For some reason I didn't think of this as being something to generate lots of indifference :lol:

[edit] oh btw, I don't think I can edit my own poll, but if someone with power can change "loved it" to "liked it or didn't mind", please do
[edit 2] ok it's done..

I can't even stand the smell of my own sperm, so I doubt the taste of it would be any more pleasurable. So, I obviously have never done it, nor do I plan to.

Now, THERE's a man. :thumbsup: I think every man who wants his woman to swallow should definitely try swallowing his own a few times. :)

I am not particullarly turned on by the "snowball effect" i wouldn't want a woman to do either way. But it were her turn on I would give it a go. Myself I have tasted mine and I keep healthy eat right and don't smoke so mine is ok. I have kissed and will continue to kiss my so after going down on me. Its not like I expect her to think what she has done is gross and I wouldn't do it. If she wants a kiss she can have a kiss. thats my mentality anyway.

As for snowballing . i would say for me its a no.

hold up - so we're down in the hole for 15, 20, 30 minutes...constantly taking in our lady friend's secretions...and that counts for nothing? i mean, i think worrying about getting a little taste of your own funk during the course of the action isn't conducive to the type of getting-crazy-with-the-cheese-whiz style that the pigglet adopts - but actively swapping around a ball of snot, spit, and cum? i mean, that just doesn't sound sexy to me at all.

don't get me wrong, i don't have anything against those who wish to do, well - pretty much whatever. but i don't think this notion of "taste your cumball - turn about is fair play" is particularly fair at all.

how would the ladies feel if the guy were to store away a morsel of her love juice in the corner of his mouth, with the prowess of a 6 ft hamster, and then inject that junk back into her mouth afterwards? if he wanted to do that, then i could see this "snow-balling is only fair" business.

in short, i feel sick. it's time for me to nab a beer ;)

All right it has been done! All of you indifferent people have a choice now! Thanks to unclephil and Hanxter.. Hanxter added a personal touch in option #11, don't ask me about it :hmm: :lol:

I voted no. I don't think it would do anything for me to spit cum in his mouth. I would probably be a little grossed out by it.

Yuck.

_____

Alright, my friend, to clarify... :)

#1, I was apparently misinformed regarding the nature of snowballing. I thought it was just going down on a guy, having him cum in my mouth, and then giving it back to him (in his mouth). No trading back and forth... that, to me, would probably gross me out. So maybe I have not truly "snowballed," in that sense.

#2, it counts a LOT for a guy to be "down in the hole" for all that time, don't you worry. I personally think women should have to taste themselves as well, just as much as men have to taste themselves, in order to be fair. But I have been told that a woman's taste is nowhere near as strong as the taste of semen... so, there's that. But yeah, last I checked, most men don't mind the taste of a woman. :)

Hope that clears things up. :thumbsup:

I never knew it was called that because of the blob growing. Just thinking about that kinda grosses me out. Just the smell of cum makes me nauseous.

I think mine smells really good and tastes okay. I know diet has a lot to do with the taste though. I just haven't found a girl that wanted to do it. It wouldn't bother me in the least.

I don't want to threadjack, but...

one time I earned my "red wings" so to speak but didn't realize it until the next morning after she had left. I always wondered if she knew and didn't mind or not. I kissed her after earning my wings.

If Americans (primarily?) and our species (exclusively) didn't have such a problem with the way we taste and (especially) smell, we might be less goofy, overall. I guess I wouldn't necessarily love it if everybody was as smelly as they could get, but has anybody else appreciated pheromones, as a concept or reality?
Re: goofy; it's said that the aluminum in our deodorants has the ability to make us so.
Re: smelly; just rinse off once in a while and all is well.
Secretions of all sorts have always made me feel like I learned something, even if it was only an effect of the experience. (?)
An author I once read theorized that dogs like the smell of poop because they associate it with sex, and that we don't like it because we associate it with death. Feedback?

It's never in her mouth long enough to spit back at me.

:thumbsup: That's reputed to mean that she loves you.:thumbsup:

wow............


*shakes head*


not for me sorry............

I wouldn't care if it happened every now and then, but it isn't really something that I look forward to doing.

nothing to say

pigglet has summed up my feelings on the matter admirably and made an awesome Beck reference in the process.

Yeah, soy un perdedor.

I guess I'd go along with it if requested but the idea is a little bit icky. Immediately after I've come I temporarily lose interest in sex. Also, I'm not big on one angle I sometimes hear about dynamic of the snowball, which is that I'm supposed to prove something. Partners in bed should do stuff because it's fun, not to prove things. Anyway I've experimentally tasted and swallowed my own cum and it's not a big deal.

If requested ...

This post pretty much sums up my feelings on the topic as well.

No eres.
Be good and do well.
Feeling comfortable in our own skins is apparently an unusual trait?
(God) bless us all!:love:

What's that all about? Never heard of that one. Honestly, all I've heard about snowballing is that the girl "gives back" the guy's cum, in his mouth, after a BJ. No passing back and forth, no proving anything... I guess I'm confused. :confused:

I have never experienced this.......and have no desire to. But when I think about it, after I've been going down on her, if she freaks out about kissing me later, I don't like it. So I suppose, given the right circumstances, and assuming it was a big deal to her, I wouldn't throw a fit about it.

I'm in no hurry to try it, but if she REALLY, REALLY got turned on by almost anything, I'd be willing to give it a go for her sake. *shrug*

The notion some women express is that if the guy wants his partner to be willing to taste or swallow his cum, he should prove his willingness to do the same himself, by accepting the snowball--turnabout is fair play, etc. I feel this turns sex into some kind of trial or examination, which I don't think is in the right spirit.

Also, I think the idea of tasting cum is more attractive (at least for guys) when they're highly aroused, than 3 seconds after they've had an orgasm. So I'd guess dealing with the cum may be easier for the bj giver than the receiver. Although (when I've tried it) the actual taste of cum isn't bad, going through with tasting one's own after a j/o takes considerable determination and is not at all exciting. It's easy to lose interest and change your mind just after you've cum--I did that several times before managing it and other guys have described the same thing when the subject of self-tasting has come up before.

Ah, but what if the man initiates it?

Well then it's cool, of course. There was a famous movie scene discussing a guy who had asked for it. ;)

I vote with those that say if she's prepared to have it in her mouth, I guess I ought to allow it in mune.

Can't say I want it especially though.

Doesnt really interest me at all, but if the GF really wanted to try it I would. Whats the worst thats going to happen really? I dont like it, tell her I dont like it and we dont do it again. Wouldn't be the first time.

I love it, it's dirty and nasty and that alone is enough to do it for me. It reminds me of the days when I was a virginal teenager, and passing ice cream and spit back and forth with a cute guy was about as dirty as I got. Sounds gross now that I think of it, but still mildly arousing.

gag, not possible for me, sorry :(

I don't know why, but it seems a bit selfish now doesn't it? :\

Doesn't appeal to me =$

I once ate my cum from my wife's pussy. She wanted me to do it. It wasn't that big of a deal. But I'm pretty kinky. She sat on my face and I lapped our doing up. When in a comfortable relationship I can be quite accommodating. Unfortunately she and I are done. Life is too short to worry about silly things.

maybe this belongs in the fantasy thread, but I also want to do that... and then snowball it. :love:

:lol:

Wyo, that's hot hot hot! :lol: Only cum from ass could be kinkier. :D

That sounds unhealthy

Not as unhealthy as you might imagine. Most fecal bacteria are short-lived, and killed by digestive enzymes etc.

Of course, if you don't wash the ass first, and if the owner of the ass has any sort of illness then you are asking for trouble.

I'm a swallower but I must say 'snowballing' just doesn't sound too appealing!

My answer isn't up there either: I'm a girl and I've got no desire to spit my man's cum back into his mouth...HOWEVER, snowballing a guy's cum with another girl during threesomes is HOTT.

I have wanted my wife to do this for years. She is a swallower (used to be a spitter b-4 me). I can not talk her into holding it in her mouth and giving it back to be. It has been 20 years since she was a spitter, so she has not held it in her mouth for a long time. Any suggested course of action?

Hmm.. kitesailor, depends what position you're in when you come in her mouth. Are you usually on your back (or standing up) with her below you? In that case, it would require her to hold on and make a quick scramble up to your mouth... which she doesn't seem willing to do.

But what about her lying on her back under you, while you kneel (straddling her) above her and masturbate, coming into her mouth and then coming down quickly to her level immediately afterwards? That way she can spit it out quickly without having to hold on to it for too long.

Then again, if she's like me and gags when cum slides down her throat (without swallowing), it might not work...

Position is not the issue, texture is the issue. Whan I come in her mouth, she prefers my cock towards the back of her mouth, I believe so she will not taste it as much. One time I was allowed to come on her tongue and then suck it into my mouth. It was a rare day, I hope some day to be repeated. For the 13 years of her previous marriage, she managed to hold it in her mouth on the way to the bathroom to spit it out, but a repeat of that seems to be out of the question for some reason.

Yeah, I hear her on the texture issue. There are days when I have to make that run for the bathroom, because I just can't get it down. For me, semen has quite possibly the worst texture of any liquid I've voluntarily held in my mouth... especially when it is thick/slimy. That just about does it for me sometimes, triggering the gag reflex, but one can train the mind to not reject it outright.

What about you coming on her face (around her lips, while she keeps them closed so she doesn't have to taste it), and then licking/tasting it yourself? It's almost the same thing, and that way she doesn't even have to swallow it. Or if she doesn't like facials, maybe if you came on another part of her body and licked it from there... it's possible.

Have you explained to her how hot you think it would be to try this? If you approach it from the "I think you're sexy" stance rather than the "here's more pressure to do something you don't like" stance, there's a better chance of success. Is she generally open to other new sexual things? Let us know how it goes.

abaya as always has some great ideas put eloquently. The biggest obstacle is the mind... if the right guy uses the right words in the right voice to tell me exactly what he wants to do to me, I swear I'm dying to do things I would not normally even entertain the thought of doing. It's almost dangerous.

Slightly different and maybe a bit kinky - what about coming inside her during regular sex and then eating her out? She might quite like that, I know I do.

Texture is an interesting thing. I started out with my precum and then graduated to the whole package.

Like Bluestar said: "I think the idea of tasting cum is more attractive (at least for guys) when they're highly aroused, than 3 seconds after they've had an orgasm".

This is probably an issue with most all men (that have a taste for their own cum). My wife is fine with sitting on my face after we have sex, and sometimes asks me to suck it out of her pussy. When she is freshly shaved I almost always suck it out of her, but there are times as Bluestar mentions that after coming I am just not so interested.

As for a facial, she finds facials degrading, go figure. She has let me come on her lips a few times over our 20 year marriage.

Sometimes I come on her nipples and have her then in turn give me a facial while I lick what I can off her nipples before she smears it all over my face. At that point I want a big wet kiss, but NO WAY, unfortunately. She will not kiss me with cum on my face.

She knnows full well how "hot" and sexy I think this is and how sexy it would be in "my opinion" to do this.

I have felt for years that her lack of willingness to experiment sexually has an adverse effect on our relationship. What she thinks of as gross and or slightly sick and perverted I see as spice. After all, repeating minor variations the same sexual scenario for 20 years does nothing to spice up life.

This may be the underlying issue that needs to be discussed between you two. Have you ever been in counseling together to discuss sexual differences? Also, does she have a religious background, and/or sexual abuse issues from her past? Those things are extremely difficult to overcome, even in the best relationship... but it may help for her to get those out in the open, in a counseling environment. What about sexual books for her own education? And toys? Does she masturbate? Getting a greater understanding about her own sexual attitudes may help the situation, if for nothing else than to help you understand her hang-ups better. 20 years is a helluva long time to be unsatisfied, if that's how you feel. (and maybe her too?)

No sexual counseling to date, no history of abuse from the past marriage that she has shared with me. It could be that there are things she has not shared or has forgotten. Religon is not a factor. I think sexual counseling would be a great idea. It has only been the last couple of years that I have been suggesting cum play. A year or so ago said she was not looking forward to sex since she does not care for my interest in cum play. It was pretty devastating. I find it hard to understand her seeming lack of need for variety. She seems most happy with oral and then her on top.

She enjoys masturbation, though not as much as when she was younger and toys I think she has lost interest in pretty much.

I am not sure whe would go for sexual counseling, even though it is covered by our insurance.

Here, start with this... just try Googling "sex therapy" and see what comes up.

http://sexuality.about.com/od/sexual...etherapist.htm

You should be able to contact your insurance provider and ask for sex therapy, or if you are a bit shy about it, make an appointment with a marriage therapist and then ask that person for a recommendation for a sex therapist. I hate to say it, but it sounds like your marriage (or at least some portion of your long-term satisfaction) is on the line... don't waste time.

I think with time this might be possible. Mostly my wife has always thought I am over sexxed (whatever that means). I think if I brought up sex counceling she would flip. It is a touchy subject to breach.

I used to lap my cum out of an old girlfriend and pass it to her, because it made her so incredibly hot. I certainly didn't mind it, and making her so excited was well worth it. It's just semen, after all. She always wanted to do an oral snowball, and I was willing, but I was young and uptight, and couldn't bring myself to cum in her mouth.

Don't have to worry about it with the current girls, since neither of them like giving oral sex at all. I wish it were otherwise, but so it goes.

Rare in a man.

Even rarer. :D

:lol: Sorry but after voting in the poll I have to ask this question.... which one of you ladies is looking for a volunteer?

Sorry Blackthorn, but my husband is a full-time volunteer. :D And yes, he's very willing... thinks it's very hot. :suave:

...I like the dessert after having put it elsewhere.:D

Gosh darn the bad luck! The good ones are always taken... :D

I have never done it just because I am not a big fan of semen.

Been there done that.

I have one rule and one rule only for giving a man a blow job. He is to let me know before he blows his load or face the consequenses. I do not like the taste of ejaculate. If a man blows his load in my mouth, I will smile sweetly and give them a kiss thus transferring said nastiness into his mouth so he can share in the vomitous mass.

Nononono. In fact, thinking too much about it is making me ill. I'm going to go stare at cuteoverload for a while. Eeesh.

I voted for #2. Doesn't sound good, but I'd be up for it if my wife really wanted to try it. I have tasted my own semen, and I don't think its as bad as Mrs. Coaster makes it out to be. I can think of other things I'd rather do...

Did it once in the heat of the moment. It was hot, but wasn't so much for that particular fact than for we were really, really into each other at that moment.

Won't go looking for it, but if it were to come up again, I'd probably do it.

Jesus. Isn't spit good enough? I haven't even mastered the standard missionary yet let alone swap splooge.:cringe:

Can't say I've had the desire to participate in snowballing...but I guess I'm not against it. Snowballing between two women can be pretty hot though.

Glad to see this thread is still kicking. :lol: Now that I actually have a partner I'll have to bring it up. :suave:

I had an ex "surprise" me with it once. It wasnt bad. Not something I would REQUEST, but if my lover did it to me again, I would not freak out. After all, its MINE!

go bears!

Hell no.

Well, as a straight person, the willingness to swallow your own squirt seems like borderline bi-curiousity.

I wouldn't want a woman to put it in her mouth, and I sure as heck wouldn't want it in mine.

LOL gross.

Perhaps. You make that sound like a bad thing. Nothing wrong with being curious :)

nevermind.

Now, that's the kind of attitude I like to see. :thumbsup: Way to be open-minded! :)

Sorry to resurrect such an old thread but I think this topic is hot. I would love to find a woman to do this with. The thought of her spiting my cum in my mouth really turns me on and I actually give myself facials every now and then.

I am actually looking for some videos of this if anyone knows of any that would be appreciated.

There are three things my body expels that would really be disgusting to have in my mouth.

This topic contains one of them, I'll let you guess the other two.

I'm a female and have never done it. I'd but up to it but it doesn't sound particularily appealing.

I think I'd enjoy it if I could do it to a girl who has just had a g-spot orgasm in my mouth though!

So by default this means that two of either vomit, shit, urine, or snot are just fine?

You forgot sweat and puss.

Vomit is fine in my mouth, but only the first trip and on the second trip it can't be vomit unless it comes from your mouth.
Snot is in your mouth quite often, its an open system.

So yes.

Sweats fine, happens accidentally all the time.
Puss, not so good but I'm not sure if you can call it a bodily fluid.

For the record, when Ustwo chokes to death on someone else's vomit, I will be the first to look to see if he's ever played drums for Spinal Tap.

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Sorry...that was just too hard to resist. :D

Well, this is SORTA what we're talking about.
http://www.spermswap.com/x38e97f3/index.html

I'd swallow her cum or play snowball with her's but not mines though.

Yeah, I've done it a time or two. Thinking about it now is not very appealing, but caught up in the heat of the moment, it was OK. I've also eaten her out after filling her up and that's not so bad either.