Are some women just unfixable?

[merc22]

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[amonkie]

I have a feeling she may feel pressure from such an attitude as This:

Originally Posted by merc22

Or are some women just unfixable? When do I give up on this girl? I don't want this to be a reoccuring problem, because it is a total drag on my Friday nights.

Make the moment about HER - sex is not the only way to find enjoyment and pleasure ... get her to the point somehow where she's NOT nauseous because you care about her, and I bet she'll be a lot more willing and able to return the favor.

[pig]

word monkie - in addition...i think actually talking about it, in a non-confrontational matter would be a pretty good start. regardless of whether y'all make a go of it, or decide not to see each other - you might both learn something. it might bring you closer. it might make the sex the most bestest in the whole wide world.

if you don't handle it - the proverbial elephant in the room will kick the everloving shit out of you.

last thought - don't try to "fix" other people. i was kind of hoping you meant you were trying to spay your girlfriend, on the cheap so to speak, and that would have been a whole different story. if you want to take a shot at this thing, i'd suggest not trying to "fix" her, and just start by trying to understand her.

edit : apparently, sentence structure is important

[ubertuber]

Practice makes perfect.

[Sage]

Consider the possibility that this girl might have some serious hang-ups about sex. She might have been assualted, or her first time might have been particularly horrid, or she might be from a religious background. You won't know until you TALK to her about it. Don't just go around not saying anything.

Have a nice, adult conversation about it. Be understanding, and if you do decide that it's issue enough not to continue seeing her, let her down gently. Chances are she's run into this issue before.

[Ustwo]

I've been around my share of women, and know my way around a bedroom.

You don't say....

Before this, I've only had two bad sex partners.

Well, the number doesn't matter that much, I know that I knew what I was doing before I had more than 3 partners.

One was super quiet and boring. The other couldn't handle my size. I consider those to be just odd girls.

Ok, well if you had two girl friends who didn't seem really into sex with you for whatever reasons, I'm not sure how you can say you really know your way around the bedroom.

You have had 3 lovers now and all three have had issues. Perhaps the problem isn't with them? You may have just gotten unlucky 3 times but to me, you need to look at what you are doing as well.

[analog]

Originally Posted by merc22

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Geez, what a bitch.