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Tilted Cat Head
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Happiness vs. Joy
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Artelevision, I'm sure that you and some others on the TFP have some good light to shine on this topic.
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I think how you define them would be your call. Of course they have their dictionary definitions.
In my best moments, I see the problem with positive descriptions of our feelings is that they are inevitably alternating with their negative counterparts, eg. unhappiness and sadness. Then the desire for happiness or joy can become a struggle against opposition. The only state that looks sustainable for a lifetime is acceptance. One comes to see that as a positive thing beyond one-sided descriptions of our feelings. A continuously non-attached acceptance is for me a joyful life.
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If I was said to choose joy or happiness without looking at your definitions Cynthetic I would have said happiness as I would view joy as short-lived and happiness as a long term ideal. Looking at the definitions you gave...
Happiness is described as "good luck"; "an agreeable feeling"; "contentment" while joy is described as "the passion"; "exhiliration of spirits"; "delight"....to me that does sound like happiness is long-lived but not as exciting...while joy is for the moment but stirs the heart more. Which is more important....I think we all need to be happy - it is a fundamental in my eyes to your well being and the type of environment you provide to those around you. But I also think you need the joys in life - you need the highs, the moments that take your breath away and for just that one moment in time everything is perfect.
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