Question for married guys conerining your wives
 

I'm curious. What did you think when your wife got huge after her pregnancy? Did she seem less attractive to you? Were you disgusted?

NO WAY!!! I FOUND HER TO BE EVEN MORE SEXY KNOWING SHE WAS CARRYING OUR CHILD. STILL FIND PREGS VERY SEXY.

i know plenty of wives that shed almost all the weight they gained during pregnancy.

Well this question is for those unlucky guys...

if you care about your wife returning to pre-preggo dimensions (and you should: her self-esteem, your sexual interest), lobby hard for breast feeding.

the biology of it is that the suckling of the infant stimulates the release of a hormone (can't remember which) that causes the uterus to continue gentle contractions for weeks afterward, helping everything to tighten up again (hips, thighs, belly, hoo-hah).

of our circle of friends with kids, 7 of the 8 women are back in their old jeans. guess which one didn't breast feed?


all of this is not to even mention the vast health benefits to the lil' nipper!:)

No, I found her incredibly sexy while she was pregnant! Plus, I didn't have to worry about getting her pregnant, so the sex was much hotter too. :thumbsup:

BTW, that's her on the left, after 3 kids. Nice, huh?

I made it clear to my wife, before we got married that if she (or I) became obese it would be grounds for divorce. We were both healthy, active people when we dated and IMO if either of us gained a hundred or more pounds after marriage it would indicate a serious emotional (think eating addiction) problem. I love my wife dearly and I don't want anyone to think I would dump her if she put on 30 or 50 pounds, but it would be a strong reason to start talking about the weight gain and what was causing it.
That said, my wife weighed 150 when we married and she became pregnant 4 months later with our first child. After the baby was born she breast fed and took the baby for walks in the carriage. Within 6 months she weighed less than when she became pregnant. I think the weight loss was a combination of both breast feeding and some exercise.

BTW, danna, your wife has a hot bod, very similar to my wife's. I only wish I could get my wife to pose in the nude!

I didn't find it very attractive at all. However it was only a temporary condition. I still loved her, but I didn't find it more sexy as others have.

I found her sexy during pregnancy. It is about a year later, she hasn't lost all of the weight. I still find her sexy, since most of sex is in the brain.

She is working harder on losing that weight now, and I'm all for it, because if she likes herself better, she'll feel sexier, and that will benefit me nicely!

A prego woman is very sexy! My wife has gone through 4, and she gets that certain glow, that makes her even more attractive to me! I've seen a lot of pregnent women, and most women look even more attractive when they are pregnent. If you get disgusted with the way she looks, then you are very shallow.

if i see a pregnant woman,the last thing i think is,"shes hot!"
but if i were to have a kid with my current girlfriend i would be extremely attracted to her just knowing she was carrying my future child!

Hell no, it was even more awesome if anything. slimm is right, its the knowing your seed is in there growing that makes it special.

I know I'm alone when I say this but, I find pregnant women disgusting. A baby growing inside the womb seems like a parasite to me. I guess it's because I think there are already too many people on the planet and all our problems would be fixed if we slowed down a bit.

I don't see the point in having children either.

i couldnt agree more!
we have way to many people breeding like rabbits and the worst part about it is the fact that most of em are uneducated morons who are bringing down the standard of living for everyone else!

But,i would like to have a kid someday if it is with the right person! and if it was the right person then i would be even more attracted to her while she was carrying my child!

I will be hated for this but pregnant women are the only porn besides gay, CP, and scat that repulses me. I like plump girls, even larger ones, but a pregnant woman who is showing is a total turn off to me. It's realy the only shallow part of my sexuality, as I would date/have sex with most any woman I found attractive. Whether they were disabled, disfigured, or just plain. Besides a truly unattractive person a pregnant woman really turns me off the most. My standards for attactiveness are much lower than 95% of you, of this I am positive. It's just this I cannot be anything but repulsed.

Im with yankeefatboy, its very sexy, especially if its your own.
Dano069 has got it too... no birth control needed :D

personally, pregnancy is not sexy to me - at all.

Although I posted above on the attractiveness of my wife when pregnant, I will agree with you on this point. Early in my wife's pregnancy, I started exploring pregnant porn to see what she would look like. The photography tends to be very degrading and exploitative.

However, if you look at the photography of someone like Anne Geddes, you will see beauty.

yes, not only was she not as attractive to me but the whole sex with a baby inside was toooo weird.

Please tell me she's not the one with the mustache. If she's the one with the legs spread - Hell yeah!

And, well, my mother in law weighs in at 46 kgs. Waistline - 24 inches. Kids - three.

No need to make judgement calls on folks, we all have our personal preferences.

That being said I find the idea of it sexy. Not sure about the reality of it though.

Um I didn't mean when they were pregnant but afterwards when they've gained all that weight and don't work it off.

Well in that case it depends on the woman. I would have to say I don't like stretch marks so I wouldn't like a post-preggo.

*i couldn't think of anything constructive to say, so i was edited by a moderator*

:lol: I forgot that I change my avatar quite regularly. She's the proud owner of the titties this time. That's me tuning in to my favorite station. :lol:

My wife dropped all the weight she gained when she was pregnant. All three times. :D